Why do men, despite everything, still get married?

[DurdenParticipant 1051]

ignis wrote:

…And women are hopeless pragmatics…

If women were pragmatics we would have developed advanced space travel by now. They would say “hey all these guys are fighting too much. Maybe if we suck enough of the right dicks there will be world peace.” They would also take the responsibility that comes with increased rights.

It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything

[avillaxParticipant 280]

It’s blackmailing, a woman blackmails into marriage when things are great, unfortunately the majority of men who hasn’t had attraction training yield into this and become providers (Beta males) and get screwed.

Alpha males never marry. If you think about what marriage is for a second it is an extremely old institution whose aim is to provide a safe financial/love environment for children to be raised and women to be the education/love for those children.

But in the modern world women have to work because everything is so expensive and they have also been trained to avoid being stay at home mothers (even though it’s in their genetic code). Also men don’t have such great urge to become fathers.

Also the system is designed to provide funding for single mothers, this funding comes from tax payers but if there’s a marriage contract then they also take so much from you.

If you have a company contract and the company fails you can go bankrupt and the relationship is over but with marriage the relationship can still be over but you’d have to keep paying. In other words it is a legal way to get as much as possible from men.

A man in his right mind wouldn’t marry but the pressure is too big because finding another woman is hard due to the way seduction works in which men always have to seduce as oppose to just be seduced which is easier.

My last girlfriend basically said that if I couldn’t promise that we were going to be married in the future then she couldn’t continue being with me, and so I said I couldn’t promise and she broke up with me. I’m not a fool, the numbers didn’t lie: Her work was s~~~ty and bad paid so it’s not like she could contribute financially to a household, her parents hated me and were uneducated fools and she demonstrated many times that she was selfish and expected me to do a lot for her but wasn’t willing to do anything for me, I even explained this last thing to her (she being a psychologist) and didn’t get it, so signing a marriage contract was basically a death sentence to me.

I would only marry in situations where it would be convenient for me, for instance, I want to get a European passport, marriage would help me with that, knowing that European system doesn’t punish with alimony the way America does. Then that would be perhaps a good deal for me.

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

I tried to come up with a complete list of reasons in this thread:

/forums/topic/what-are-the-things-used-to-get-men-to-agree-marriage-is-great/

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[J.D SilvernailParticipant 383]

Part of the reason people get married is hope ,but I think that most of it is that the manginas who are getting married were indoctrinated by their mothers. Religions like Christianity,Judaism, and Islam are also a key factor because they outlaw fornication(sex before marriage). Men want sex(its our nature) no matter how religious or prudent they might be which is why religious men of those religions get married. If they dont get married then they cant have sex. That is the problem with Monotheism. As long as there are Christians,Jews,and Muslims in the world there will be marriage in the world too.

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