Why do men, despite everything, still get married?

[The_Meek_OneParticipant 30]

Because they still have hope, that’s why. The dream dies slowly, everybody knows that. Hope is the strong force that drives men into this dark void called marriage. They still believe that in this world, much like the way I believe you can win the lottery if you play long enough, there is a woman un-touched by the teaching of feminism. A woman pure of heart. A good women by whatever standards they may judge a good woman to be. But I’m here to tell you, give up this hope. Marriage is a lions den, and you are the meat tossed into it. This is reality, except it. I know the fantasy sounds more desirable, most do, but in the end, the fantasy gives away to reality, then who will be the likely one left crying. You know the answer, don’t you?

I tell you all this, warn you actually, because I have been seeing, to a certain degree, men write things like, not all woman are like that, or there are still a few good ones out there. And to these things I say, where is the proof. You make the claim, I say back it up preferably with stats please. So then, am I saying there isn’t any chance that you can find a good lady to marry? Well, yes and no. Yes, you have a chance, because the odds are, there has to be. If, lets just say for argument sake, that half the world is made  up of woman, which would be billions, then odds are one flower is bound to be born. The question is who among you will pick her? And no, because I’m not naïve or blind enough to think I will be the one to find her. I’ve tried for many, many years, and I still can’t hit that lottery. No instead, all I see is people losing time and time again. People, who keep buying one more ticket in the hope of striking it big. The thing is though, the game has changed when you weren’t looking. Kind of like what happens when you go into a casino and play a slot machine that pays like crazy one week, then the next it won’t pay no matter how much money you pump into it.

Look at it this way guys. If someone came along and said, behind one of these doors, of which there are millions, there is a chance, only a chance though, you will find the woman of your dreams, but behind all of the others, there is death and dismemberment awaiting you in many forms, would you be willing to bet everything you are or have to take that chance. Because this is exactly what you are doing when you choose to marry. Really think about that. I tell you now,  marriage is dead, and hope right along with it. Understand that, and you will be well on your way to much richer, more fulfilling life.

Take my word for it or don’t. Either way, you won’t be seeing me in line buying another ticket, that’s for sure.

 

Joseph.

 

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

ask men why they get married and you’ll get all kinds of stupid answers (myself included).  Answers my friends gave include “She had been good to me and I thought she deserved it”, “I was lonely”, “I wanted kids so…”, “I couldn’t think of a reason not to”, “It’s just the next step.  It’s what you do”, “I got her pregnant”.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

All people can be split into 3 categories:

– Smart people are learning from other people mistakes
– Regular people – their own mistakes
– Stupid – never learn

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Because we are/were impressionable idiots. On top of that we are/were the true romantics.

Poems, songs, music and paintings …. hell I even still tear up at the Elizabethan Serenade.

It is a beautiful gift men have that has been weaponised and used against us.

Women and the state have successfully milked us dry through our weakness, stupidity and primal drive to love and be loved.

It’s in our dna and that’s why it’s a slow death ….. or learning curve.

We as men have to ‘undo’ ourselves …. learn to unlove for our own protection.

And that f~~~ing hurts …. big time. Some just can’t face that sort of hurt.

[The_reality_factorParticipant 211]

I told my son once, “don’t ride down that steep hill standing up on your skateboard, or you will get the speed wobbles and fall off”….”it will all end in pain”

Experience and observations has proved the above fact. So, what does he do a couple of days later …..he skates down the road. He comes to me ripped to bits and bleeding everywhere….a real mess,  I knew what he’d done!

I’ll also warn him about marriage and living with a women……but he’ll do that one too! why ?

Because he, like millions of others, thinks he is “somehow” different and it will not happen to him!

The old saying “you can’t put an old head on young shoulders” is very true. Some real dumb asses get married over and over again….that’s what I call a masochist.

 

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

The_Meek_One wrote:

… lets just say for argument sake, that half the world is made  up of woman, which would be billions, then odds are one flower is bound to be born. The question is who among you will pick her?

As a result of random genetic mutation sometime during distant past history, if one near nawalt ever did walk the earth in some remote tribe of an undiscovered rain forest, she was scooped up by a local tribal fellow at fairly early age. Now only a mythical figure, a Unicorn spoken about in hushed tones as men sit around campfires sipping fine spirits and gaze up at Cassiopeia. That one flower you speak of, if it ever did randomly bloom years ago, was picked and is gone forever never to return. Among those billions today, the mutation will not happen again so we can search forever and find no more flowers or hidden nawalts … we have awalts.

[chirParticipant]

They buy into the mantra that is fed to them from society and family.  ” A man has worth only with a woman and children.”  There are now 7 billion people on this earth, so that mantra is now bulls~~~.  70,000 years ago that mantra had significance because there were only 10,000 humans in existence.  (we dodged an extinction event, look it up. Its called the mitochondrial dna pinch.)

Now men have the luxury of choice, but no one will tell them.   So men are slowly programmed to define their worth by acquiring a wife, children and then shuffle off to the plantation workforce until they die.   If you were told that there are 10 baskets here 9 of which will savage you emotionally or financially and one which has a jewel in it which will make you feel good sometimes, but you have to work till you die.

They don’t tell you that this is a choice. That there is a door to the right which leads to personal freedom.    Its our job as MGHOW to let men know they can look up.  There are more choices.

 

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion, it is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed, the hands acquire shaking, the shaking becomes a warning; it is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

[BDParticipant 1146]

A unicorn, in Banff! 2 million views, this should be public knowledge. This is what pops into my mind whenever someone mentions the Mgtow myth of the unicorn….. apparently they were extinct according to this guy.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

uchibenkei wrote:

ask men why they get married and you’ll get all kinds of stupid answers (myself included).  Answers my friends gave include “She had been good to me and I thought she deserved it”, “I was lonely”, “I wanted kids so…”, “I couldn’t think of a reason not to”, “It’s just the next step.  It’s what you do”, “I got her pregnant”.

Those are the responses I kept hearing too! Not one of them said “because I love(d) her”…. or “because I wanted to”. Even consciously – when you ask them – they do it for HER, because it’s expected, or out of a sense of duty.

Very telling.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

As soon as I clicked on the post, I was going to say because they have hope.  I also believe there are still a lot of younger men out there who are still totally Blue Pill and think that everything will be OK.  They do not know any men who have been destroyed in the divorce court and they have not spent 30 seconds on Google trying to find sites such as this.

They have not for one second thought about the consequences for them if it all goes wrong.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

I never had a woman be good to me so I guess I’m lucky? I also saw past women’s bulls~~~ due to my step mother.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[The_Meek_OneParticipant 30]

Keymaster wrote:

uchibenkei wrote:

ask men why they get married and you’ll get all kinds of stupid answers (myself included). Answers my friends gave include “She had been good to me and I thought she deserved it”, “I was lonely”, “I wanted kids so…”, “I couldn’t think of a reason not to”, “It’s just the next step. It’s what you do”, “I got her pregnant”.

Those are the responses I kept hearing too! Not one of them said “because I love(d) her”…. or “because I wanted to”. Even consciously – when you ask them – they do it for HER, because it’s expected, or out of a sense of duty. Very telling.

This is so true. Well said.

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

I think women have always been like this, feminists just gave them more freedom to express themselves and what they want to do.And woe and behold, it’s ugly as f~~~.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Crazy Canuck wrote:

I never had a woman be good to me so I guess I’m lucky? I also saw past women’s bulls~~~ due to my step mother.

Haha…I’d agree with this one.  I got to grow up with a bitchy never happy mother that treated my father like s~~~, and the few relationships I have had had left me thinking “what the f~~~ is wrong with this chick, I’m outta here” as soon as the novelty of a few months of fun, steady sex wears off and you start to get glimpses of the real her.

That + all the guys I’ve met over the years who got wrecked by divorce + all the guys I know stuck in miserable cheaper to keep her marriages and marriage just doesn’t seem like a good bet to me.

[Soul ManParticipant 1856]

Unfortunately, every word spoken in this thread is depressingly true.  As has been said in many forms on this site…”Marriage is tantamount to playing Russian roulette with 6 rounds in the cylinder”

HISTORY...learn from it, memorize it, DON'T repeat it...

[lonestar77Participant 406]

Here are the some reasons and results why my buddies got married when I asked them:

Buddy #1 – “I knocked her up and I want to be there for my child”

Result of Buddy #1 10 yrs later : DIVORCED with 2 kids and got a vasectomy. Now is living with his new girlfriend who has two kids of her own.

Buddy #2 – “I’m fat so I’m lucky she is with me”

Result Buddy #2: Too early to tell , they are getting married this year and he has grown a HUGE friggin’ mangina in the meantime.

Buddy #3 – “We’ve lived together for a long time since college so I owe it to her”

Result Buddy #3: His is miserable and haven’t seen him since his wedding over 1 1/2 ago. She is also half the size of the sun. Sad part he is my cousin.

I could go on but I think I’m getting depressed!

 

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me

[Anonymous 9]

They haven’t reached enlightenment yet. Some may never reach it, but there’s no such thing as too late in this regard.

The game is to be played with an awareness of incoming treachery at a moments notice. You don’t play the game without an understanding of the rules and consequences if you’re caught playing unfair.

Marriage is akin to any game of chance, and much better to be cognizant of the statistics and the mentally of your enemy before making the fatalistic plunge into the abyss.

F~~~ marriage.

 

 

[BeerParticipant 11832]

lonestar77 wrote:

Buddy #2 – “I’m fat so I’m lucky she is with me” Result Buddy #2: Too early to tell , they are getting married this year and he has grown a HUGE friggin’ mangina in the meantime.

Apparently a life time of misery and getting financially raped is a better option than eating better and hitting the gym a few days a week lol.

[BeeParticipant 700]

The odds of having a good marriage are better than a lottery ticket. There are SOME couples who are really happy together and make it long-term. Not to get Biblical but it really is about two people becoming one, a team. Its uncommon though. About 50% of marriages end in divorce. of the 50% that are left, about half are just going through the motions. Maybe 20-30% of married couples are genuinely happy together and living the lifestyle.

Nobody goes into it thinking they’ll be unhappy or get divorced. Everyone thinks they’re different. The problem is if you’re wrong, she gets the house, kids, most of the money and all of the pussy.

[ignisParticipant 11]

Because men are hopeless romantics. And women are hopeless pragmatics. Convincing men in the opposite.

A lot of the marrying comes down to cultural Disney brainwashing, people are literally being pushed into “fool around a bit – find a girl – find another – marry – have kids – have grandkids – die” paradigm and do not question much, why marriage as such is so paramount aspect of it all.

I’ve seen marriage as a social guarantee for females for a decade at least. Nothing to do with love. Wedding too. Nothing to do with love, all about females victory dance of getting meal ticket.

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