Why do many men abuse their women?

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  • #322137
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    DoinMyOwnThing40
    DoinMyOwnThing40
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    First I said MANY not ALL. I also want to say that I am in no way condoning abuse towards any person. I am also not interested in the psychology of women, why they are drawn to and stay with abusive men. I am neither blaming men or women for this, as this is all heresay anyways (Was the guy really that bad or was she bad to him too?).

    What I am interested in knowing is…….what is the motivation for men who abuse their girlfriends/fiances/wives.

    I can’t tell you how many women I have spoken with in my life who claim that their boyfriend/fiance/husband was abusive towards them. Most of them say that it was not really much, if any, physical abuse. Only verbal abuse, put downs, making them feel like yesterday’s garbage.

    My very own Mother claims that Dad has verbally abused her their entire marriage of 45 years. Dad responds with “But SHE has abused the hell out of me all these years!”

    Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

    #322147
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    K
    Hitman
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    WHOA !!!
    slow down..
    i think you got this thing by the tail instead of the horns..
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    abusive relationships require 2 people.
    after the very FIRST incident,
    they are VOLUNTEERS for the “abuse”.
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    why does anyone STAY for more is the real question.

    #322151
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    DoinMyOwnThing40
    DoinMyOwnThing40
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    Yes, I get what you are saying Hitman. Like I said, I ain’t taking sides I just want to hear what ya’ll think.

    Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

    #322156
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    Tuneout
    Tuneout
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    I think the ‘many men’ is feminist propaganda,esp today
    it seems you hear more and more stories of the opposite
    Sure 30-40 yrs ago the police wouldn’t do much if you had to ‘explain’ things to your wife but now a guy just has to grab her arm hard and he’s hauled off to jail.
    On the other hand women it seems can get away with more and more violence towards their men because even if the police show up they know that their man will be the one arrested.

    Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

    #322158
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    Keymaster
    Keymaster
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    what is the motivation for men who abuse their girlfriends/fiances/wives.

    Why are you pretending the girlfriends and wives didn’t bring it on THEMSELVES?

    Serious question. Not trying to be snide.

    Men don’t wake up in the morning, yawn, scratch their b~~~~ and say “gee I think today would be a really good day to abuse my girlfriend /wife”. But women wake up and get out of bed with deliberate intent to create problems, drama and conflict – by their own admission.

    You think Rhianna was just sitting in her easy chair knitting a sweater???

    Guess again.

    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2111203/Seeing-man-upset-makes-women-happy–shows-relationship-strong.html

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0ydXbJrQ4jc

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fpSECSwW6D0

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0ydXbJrQ4jc

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nrvDhSB7GHk

    Who are REALLY the abusive ones??

    So now, what’s the motivation for a man to be abusive? Gee, I dunno. Maybe I’m just reaching here, but did anyone REALLY expect men to just sit there quietly and take it?

    How about she comes home after f~~~ing someone else and says It’s your baby:
    /audio/andrea/

    How about you find out that it really isn’t, and then you realized what she was trying to get away with:
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DLTNfwBltPk

    How about your wife complaining that you’re TOO NICE and telling the judge that you’re a disappointment because she was waiting for you to punch her in the face…. and didn’t. And smiling while she says it.

    If all this s~~~ isn’t enough to toss that abusive c~~~ out of your life for good, I can’t imagine what would be. Personally I wouldn’t even let it get that far. She would never get a fist to the face from me because that would PLEASE HER TOO MUCH, and I would refuse to give that bitch the satisfaction. She would be out on the street sucking dicks for the rent the moment she complained about the wind not being right.

    What is the motivation for men to be abusive in a relationship?
    That’s a question for WOMEN to answer honestly.

    And I mean — >> honestly.

    Would love to hear it.

    If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
    #322161
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    Boar
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    What I am interested in knowing is…….what is the motivation for men who abuse their girlfriends/fiances/wives.

    Um, where are you trying to go with this?

    Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

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    OldBill
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    I can’t tell you how many women I have spoken with in my life who claim that their boyfriend/fiance/husband was abusive towards them.

    Women claim they’re abused. Women also claim they love you and that you’re the father.

    When they’re asked for specifics of the abuse, women immediately begin walking back their claims. Suddenly, they’re not talking about physical abuse – although they sure as hell wanted you think it was physical abuse when they made their initial claim. Suddenly, it’s just verbal abuse.

    Then, when you ask for more specifics, you realize that verbal “abuse” occurred when some man merely disagreed with them, called them on their s~~~, or had enough of the constant nagging, whining, and bitching to tell the women in question to shut the f~~~ up.

    To a women, asking for a little peace and quiet is “abuse”.

    Women claim they’re abused because it creates the drama they so desperately crave. Keymaster has linked to the study often enough for you to have seen it, researchers in the UK found out that women are most happy when their partners are miserable. Women stir up s~~~ because they like it.

    Only verbal abuse, put downs, making them feel like yesterday’s garbage.

    Verbal “abuse” after enduring how much prior verbal abuse? Google Erin Pizzey and read what she has to say. Google the CDC study too. Men and women commit reciprocal DV and abuse at equal rates and numbers. Women, however, commit non-reciprocal DV and abuse at a far greater rate and numbers.

    The numbers prove that women usually start the abuse only to cry abuse when men reciprocate.

    There are monsters out there of both sexes who beat the s~~~ out of their partners for no reason at all. Most of the time, however, DV and abuse occurs when a bored woman stirs up s~~~ for the drama and a fed-up man finishes the job.

    My very own Mother claims that Dad has verbally abused her their entire marriage of 45 years. Dad responds with “But SHE has abused the hell out of me all these years!”

    Exactly. Reciprocal verbal abuse most likely started by your mother stirring up s~~~.

    Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

    #322175
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    Prefer Peace to Piece
    Prefer Peace to Piece
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    verbal “abuse” occurred when some man merely disagreed with them

    Agree with OldBill on this one.

    Often, when you say something a woman doesn’t agree with, she considers it abusive.

    Man: we’re over budget this month. Can you go easy with the credit cards for a few weeks?

    Woman: He is so mean. He is abusing me.

    #322179
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    Nathan R. Jessep
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    Why are you pretending the girlfriends and wives didn’t bring it on THEMSELVES?

    Serious question. Not trying to be snide.

    Men don’t wake up in the morning, yawn, scratch their b~~~~ and say “gee I think today would be a really good day to abuse my girlfriend /wife”. But women wake up and get out of bed with deliberate intent to create problems, drama and conflict.

    You think Rhianna was just sitting in her easy chair knitting a sweater???

    Guess again.

    If all this s~~~ isn’t enough to toss that abusive c~~~ out of your life for good, I can’t imagine what would be. Personally I wouldn’t even let it get that far. She would never get a fist to the face from me because that would PLEASE HER TOO MUCH, and I would refuse to give that bitch the satisfaction. She would be out on the street sucking dicks for the rent the moment she complained about the wind not being right.

    What is the motivation for men too be abusive?
    That’s a question for WOMEN to answer honestly.

    I would love to hear it.

    I think it’s a combination of things. Women do antagonize normal men until they flip out and become violent. I’ve unfortunately experienced it first hand. Luckily I was able to learn how to deal with it and stop letting her make me angry.

    However, there are some violent men who actually enjoy having power and control over women – and these women generally get off on being controlled/abused most of the time.

    #322187
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    Gargamel
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    Women claim they’re abused because it creates the drama they so desperately crave. Keymaster has linked to the study often enough for you to have seen it, researchers in the UK found out that women are most happy when their partners are miserable. Women stir up s~~~ because they like it.

    Yes and I had 3 of these c~~~s around, when I grew up. 3 times the dose of what a normal man could handle.

    Keymaster’s videos take me back 45 years, long before women could smash X-boxes, they would smash other things and kick a 4-year old toddler right in the ass. The doctor had to sew my asshole back together. I might have been the youngest man ever to throw chairs after a women in self defense at age 5…

    In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

    #322191
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    Keymaster
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    I think it’s a combination of things. Women do antagonize normal men until they flip out and become violent. I’ve unfortunately experienced it first hand. Luckily I was able to learn how to deal with it and stop letting her make me angry.

    Sure but it’s still YOU making the change and “dealing with it” instead of her adjusting her f~~~ing behavior.

    Remove EVERY woman from EVERY household – right now – and “domestic violence” will end TONIGHT.

    Oh yeah.
    There will finally be peace in the home.

    Women that weren’t even my WIFE or GIRLFRIEND have tried to make me lose my s~~~. My niece. My cousins wife. My sister in law…. when I did something she didn’t like. I actually had to tell her “I’m not your husband. I don’t HAVE to listen to you”. Good thing too. I would have put a hole in the wall if I ever had to spend more than 3 hours in the same room with her. And I don’t have a violent bone in my body.

    The last person I wanted slug was a guy named “Chris Brown” (yes really) who was a bully on my street. I was 7 and knocked him out like George McFly knocked out Biff. Same kind of scene. That was the last time anyone brought me to that point and that’s because there is no woman with a key to my place.

    If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
    #322207
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    Rennie
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    Remove EVERY woman from EVERY household – right now – and “domestic violence” will end TONIGHT.

    Oh yeah.
    There will finally be peace in the home.

    Yup. The real question should be “Why do many women abuse their men?”.

    #322208
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    K
    Hitman
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    Yes and I had 3 of these c~~~s around, when I grew up. 3 times the dose of what a normal man could handle.

    my heart goes out to you my friend.
    as a child that is a nightmare.
    glad that’s NEVER going to happen to you again.
    .
    i hope that karma paid them back for what they did.

    #322210
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    K
    Hitman
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    the vast majority of abusers are women.
    they cry abuse like a call to war.
    and it is a call to war, on YOU.
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    that 911 call they make can really f~~~ up your life.
    and they call…
    if they even HINT at calling,
    time to BAIL THE F~~~ OUT !

    #322220
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    Gargamel
    Gargamel
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    29101

    Yes and I had 3 of these c~~~s around, when I grew up. 3 times the dose of what a normal man could handle.

    my heart goes out to you my friend.
    as a child that is a nightmare.
    glad that’s NEVER going to happen to you again.
    .
    i hope that karma paid them back for what they did.

    Yes, karma did. Details will follow.

    But in the end, I only feel secure when I am alone in my house with the door locked.

    But driving 200 km/h on a small road or walking through the forest at night doesn’t matter to me at all. Women are the worst thing that can happen to a man. Car accidents? Only with a nagging woman in the passenger seat.

    In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

    #322223
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    Anonymous
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    Women lie all the time, and men just believe it, only the very smartest and most experienced men know that women are almost always lying.

    The vast majority of men are blue pill manginas that would literally rather kill themselves than abuse a woman. So how could it be possible that women are primarily victims? The answer is they aren’t, they just say they are, and won’t shut up about it.

    #322231
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    Gargamel
    Gargamel
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    29101

    Women lie all the time, and men just believe it, only the very smartest and most experienced men know that women are almost always lying.

    The vast majority of men are blue pill manginas that would literally rather kill themselves than abuse a woman. So how could it be possible that women are primarily victims? The answer is they aren’t, they just say they are, and won’t shut up about it.

    The only way to cope with violence by women is to reduce them to unimportance. They get “Hamster” status. Same as you don’t get sad over a cat hissing at you… The bitching Hamster is just funny. But still you don’t want these critters in your house, chewing up the furniture and eating your 500 Euro speaker cables…

    In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

    #322239
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    Anonymous
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    I can’t tell you how many women I have spoken with in my life who claim that their boyfriend/fiance/husband was abusive towards them. Most of them say that it was not really much, if any, physical abuse. Only verbal abuse, put downs, making them feel like yesterday’s garbage.

    I am sure there are many kinds of people on this world. There are evil men. And I am sure that SOME men will abuse their woman.

    However, another thing that I am sure is that you cannot trust whatever any woman says.

    My wife, that by all standards is regarded as a “serious woman”, twists reality like a pretzel to fit her agendas. It blows my mind and I am perfectly aware of the hell she will unleash on my life when the SHTF.

    So, even if a man is a saint, after a broken relationship he becomes the devil according to his ex.

    I have never raised my hand to my wife. I have been driven almost to insanity and I have raised my voice a few times. But to answer you question: nobody, in my whole life, has ever insulted me so deeply, thoroughly and repeatedly as my own wife. I can perfectly understand if some men cannot control themselves.

    And I will agree with feminists: it is all the men’s fault. We should have stayed away from the whole God Damned gender to start with!

    #322254
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    Gargamel
    Gargamel
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    29101

    I have never raised my hand to my wife. I have been driven almost to insanity and I have raised my voice a few times. But to answer you question: nobody, in my whole life, has ever insulted me so deeply, thoroughly and repeatedly as my own wife. I can perfectly understand if some men cannot control themselves.

    So true.

    And my father had 3 borderline t~~~ts nagging, complaining and bitching at him until he destroyed the entire furniture in minutes. To the bitches, he was “the devil”, although he never really beat up one of them.

    When my father was alone with me, I could even call him “urang utan” and we got along just fine. He knew why I called him like that… But he could never explain it. Only on his death bed, he would talk…

    He still left us a house and a garden. He chain-smoked himself to death…
    And he left a son that will not reproduce.

    There is not one word in the world that could convince me, that living with a c~~~ is tolerable.

    No Woman, no cry.

    In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

    #322279
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    K
    Hitman
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    There is not one word in the world that could convince me, that living with a c~~~ is tolerable.

    dude,
    after going through hell on earth,
    like you ..
    feminism is to men what the holocaust was to the jews..
    NEVER AGAIN !!!

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