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My dad admittedly saw how miserable I was when I was married and can now see how happy I am after the divorce, yet just recently told me that a man needs a woman almost in those exact same words you typed. My dad is a little full of s~~~ sometimes himself.
My dad was either completely “full of $hit” or having suffered through a horrible marriage himself just wanted his own son to experience the same misery. I think I just prefer to believe the former…
My dad admittedly saw how miserable I was when I was married and can now see how happy I am after the divorce, yet just recently told me that a man needs a woman almost in those exact same words you typed. My dad is a little full of s~~~ sometimes himself.
My dad was either completely “full of $hit” or having suffered through a horrible marriage himself just wanted his own son to experience the same misery. I think I just prefer to believe the former…
I know my dad means well. He comes from a different time and he’s stuck in his ways.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
Mine would say that two could live more cheaply than one – um, no. My wife has absolutely no concept of money. Her parents now live in an complex designed for the elderly, and even though I tell her that they need to pay for their own stuff, she insists on paying for their furniture, groceries, etc. (and I want to make clear that they don’t know that we’ve paid for a lot of this stuff – her dad wouldn’t be happy if he knew). If I was single, I’d have a lot more in cash and investments and a lot less in crap scattered around the house.
Because of brainwashing… you get good grades, go to college, get a job, fall “in love” with some female, get married, get a house, have kids… that was supposed to be “making it”.
F~~~ all that noise.THIS – I’ve said it until I’m blue in the face. Society brainwashes us into thinking this “natural progression” of things is what we are supposed to do.
Well, it is committing “life-Happiness Suicide”. The single most expensive and brutally debilitating mistake one man can make.
THIS – I’ve said it until I’m blue in the face. Society brainwashes us into thinking this “natural progression” of things is what we are supposed to do
I like to call it “grooming,” for that double entendre, because that’s what it is. It is child grooming to make an obedient bridegroom that will not consider self-interest.
They need us WAY more than the other way around. We are the ants and they are the grasshoppers, metaphorically borrowing from the Disney/Pixar tropes that have cropped up in this thread.
Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805Because of brainwashing… you get good grades, go to college, get a job, fall “in love” with some female, get married, get a house, have kids… that was supposed to be “making it”.F~~~ all that noise.
THIS – I’ve said it until I’m blue in the face. Society brainwashes us into thinking this “natural progression” of things is what we are supposed to do.
Well, it is committing “life-Happiness Suicide”. The single most expensive and brutally debilitating mistake one man can make.Take her Damn access to funds away….WTF??
Be professional be polite but always have a plan to kill everyone you meet.
It was just what you did.
Now I’m perfectly content to give her half to make my own best life.
Young guys, don’t do it.
I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.
Many thanks to Hermit for starting this thread.
When I first joined this forum the very first question that I asked is “Why do men (still) get married”? This thread is as close as I’ve yet come to getting an answer to that question. Although it still baffles me that all men today do not have our MGTOW attitude toward marriage.
I’ve never been married. The urge to get married was never really all that strong. My father told me that “A man needs a woman in his life to help him through the bad times”. I soon found out that women were actually the cause of the worst times in my life. Dad, it seems, was really full of $hit about a lot of things…You’re exactly right – my life would be a hell of a lot better as a single guy. One thing my dad would say is that the two worst things are to be unhappy in your job and unhappy in your marriage. I was unhappy in my job around 15 years ago which I fixed by starting my own business. Now I’m unhappy in my marriage, but that’s not as easy to escape with two little kids. I just think of all of the money that I would have saved up and the things I could have done – instead I get to be married to an immature, overweight nag.
One thing my dad would say is that the two worst things are to be unhappy in your job and unhappy in your marriage.
Many, many years ago an uncle once told me that (reference marriage) “nobody’s happy”. That was the one and only time that I wasn’t lied to about women, relationships and marriage. Everything else that I was ever told turned out to be bull$hit…
Many thanks to Hermit for starting this thread.When I first joined this forum the very first question that I asked is “Why do men (still) get married”? This thread is as close as I’ve yet come to getting an answer to that question. Although it still baffles me that all men today do not have our MGTOW attitude toward marriage.I’ve never been married. The urge to get married was never really all that strong. My father told me that “A man needs a woman in his life to help him through the bad times”. I soon found out that women were actually the cause of the worst times in my life. Dad, it seems, was really full of $hit about a lot of things…
You’re exactly right – my life would be a hell of a lot better as a single guy. One thing my dad would say is that the two worst things are to be unhappy in your job and unhappy in your marriage. I was unhappy in my job around 15 years ago which I fixed by starting my own business. Now I’m unhappy in my marriage, but that’s not as easy to escape with two little kids. I just think of all of the money that I would have saved up and the things I could have done – instead I get to be married to an immature, overweight nag.
I sometimes think of “what could’ve been” stuff, but there’s no use in torturing yourself with that. It is what it is and there’s no traveling back in time to change it.
All we can do is try to change our future into something better.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
Meh.
Looking back, I think that I probably “felt” I wasn’t suffering enough when I was younger.
Try as I might, I still dont understand why I did it not once, but twice.
Family? Children? Social acceptance? Proof that I was really a man? love?
None of that crap passes muster today, considering I was actually single and living better alone for 30 years (Actually 46 years if you count 0-16 years) of the 54 years I have been alive so far.But hey, I paid my dime and took my chances.
There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it
Many thanks to Hermit for starting this thread.When I first joined this forum the very first question that I asked is “Why do men (still) get married”? This thread is as close as I’ve yet come to getting an answer to that question. Although it still baffles me that all men today do not have our MGTOW attitude toward marriage.I’ve never been married. The urge to get married was never really all that strong. My father told me that “A man needs a woman in his life to help him through the bad times”. I soon found out that women were actually the cause of the worst times in my life. Dad, it seems, was really full of $hit about a lot of things…
You’re exactly right – my life would be a hell of a lot better as a single guy. One thing my dad would say is that the two worst things are to be unhappy in your job and unhappy in your marriage. I was unhappy in my job around 15 years ago which I fixed by starting my own business. Now I’m unhappy in my marriage, but that’s not as easy to escape with two little kids. I just think of all of the money that I would have saved up and the things I could have done – instead I get to be married to an immature, overweight nag.
I sometimes think of “what could’ve been” stuff, but there’s no use in torturing yourself with that. It is what it is and there’s no traveling back in time to change it.
All we can do is try to change our future into something better.Agree – mainly I just want to be a dad to my boys, hide money so my wife doesn’t spend it, and to avoid her as much as possible.
mainly I just want to be a dad to my boys, hide money so my wife doesn’t spend it, and to avoid her as much as possible.
I’m glad my son is grown and not taking any sh!t from his mom so I don’t need to worry so much about him.
Avoiding the x meant I had to stay away from home as much as possible, which was not always good because I like being at home. Sure is great now that I don’t have to live with her. No more leaving the house just to get away from her. No more sick feeling in my gut as I slowly drive home. No more disappointment seeing her pull up the driveway when she gets home………… No more dirty dishes because she insisted on hand washing them instead of putting them in the brand new dishwasher she thought she needed to buy. No more being woke up by her clanking around those dishes. No more seeing her ugly face giving me dirty looks of hatred. No more arguments over nothing that made absolutely no sense.
Ha, it got to the point that when she came into the living room to try to start a fight, I’d just stare straight ahead at the TV and ignore her. Sometimes she’d stand in front of the TV or turn it off. So, I’d stare at her with empty eyes and say nothing or look out the window. When she finally left I’d turn the TV back on.
One time, the crazy b!tch, brought home from work, a little love note from some lonely old dude. She handed it to me and told me to read it. I said, “I don’t want to read the damn thing.” So she read it to me. She did this, I guess, to make me jealous, or to prove to me that she is actually worth something because this other guy, (who didn’t know sh!t about her), thought she was just the most wonderful thing in the world. Oh man, how pathetic she is. Again, I just stared away from her. When she tried to tell me that this guy saw something in her that I should be seeing, I again stared blankly at her and then away, saying nothing and then laughed at her when she left…….and went back to watching TV. She actually thought that I was going to “change my ways” and put her back up on her pedestal and treat her like a queen because she read this little love note to me that some idiot wrote to her? What a stupid kunt.
Women are so childishly pathetic…..the desperate little dramatic games they play. It’s difficult to not feel superior to them…….maybe because we are.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
Hermit, that’s hilarious about your wife and her admirer. She was probably all sweetness and light at work and the old guy thought she was the cat’s meow. I sure wish my wife would have some admirer but I’m afraid that not many men want to get involved with an overweight, asexual woman in her early-mid 50’s who likely weighs more than the guy anyway.
I get you about the feelings you had – as I’ve stated, I take the kids out under the guise of giving her a break, when it’s more to get me out of the house and have fun with the kids. All she does is sit on her ass playing on her phone or watching TV while the kids and I are running around having fun. I also get you about her starting arguments that make no sense – mine will be in a good mood then for some reason she turns into Satan bitching about something that’s not worth getting worked up about. I can hear her now bitching about going into the “wrong” toll booth when we go on our “vacation” this weekend – nothing more important to worry about than seeing me go into a toll booth on the left when she wants to go to the one on the right for some reason.
Hermit, that’s hilarious about your wife and her admirer. She was probably all sweetness and light at work and the old guy thought she was the cat’s meow. I sure wish my wife would have some admirer but I’m afraid that not many men want to get involved with an overweight, asexual woman in her early-mid 50’s who likely weighs more than the guy anyway.
I get you about the feelings you had – as I’ve stated, I take the kids out under the guise of giving her a break, when it’s more to get me out of the house and have fun with the kids. All she does is sit on her ass playing on her phone or watching TV while the kids and I are running around having fun. I also get you about her starting arguments that make no sense – mine will be in a good mood then for some reason she turns into Satan bitching about something that’s not worth getting worked up about. I can hear her now bitching about going into the “wrong” toll booth when we go on our “vacation” this weekend – nothing more important to worry about than seeing me go into a toll booth on the left when she wants to go to the one on the right for some reason.Ah, the stupid kunts! My x knew and agreed that sometimes it’s better to let a pan sit and soak so it’s easier to get it clean. She knew this. So, one time I had one soaking in the sink and she comes in b!tching saying she doesn’t want dirty dishes sitting in the sink and she starts to wash it. I said it needed to soak first and she loudly stated, “No, it doesn’t need to soak, it needs to be scrubbed!”
Another time my son and I were outside with my dad and we were going fishing. She comes out of the house yelling about some ice cream being gone and she wanted to know who ate it. She worked at Braums. It was nothing for her to pick up some more and get an employee discount, but instead she wanted to make a fool of herself.
Yet another time I was out petting the neighbor’s cat. The x says she’s going to get a collar to put on the cat. I said cat’s don’t like collars and it’s not even our cat. You can’t put a collar on someone else’s pet. She kept insisting she was going to put a collar on the cat. I told her if she did, I’d take it off and throw it away. She never did, but we had to waste time arguing over something so idiotic.
So illogical. So childish. They’re happy in drama. They prefer to be angry and make others around them angry and miserable. Dude, you gotta’ get out of that marriage. Where do you live? I’ll come over and force myself to have sex with the fat broad and you can walk in on us. That should be justification for you to get a divorce and get full custody of your kids.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
Hermit, that’s hilarious about your wife and her admirer. She was probably all sweetness and light at work and the old guy thought she was the cat’s meow. I sure wish my wife would have some admirer but I’m afraid that not many men want to get involved with an overweight, asexual woman in her early-mid 50’s who likely weighs more than the guy anyway.I get you about the feelings you had – as I’ve stated, I take the kids out under the guise of giving her a break, when it’s more to get me out of the house and have fun with the kids. All she does is sit on her ass playing on her phone or watching TV while the kids and I are running around having fun. I also get you about her starting arguments that make no sense – mine will be in a good mood then for some reason she turns into Satan bitching about something that’s not worth getting worked up about. I can hear her now bitching about going into the “wrong” toll booth when we go on our “vacation” this weekend – nothing more important to worry about than seeing me go into a toll booth on the left when she wants to go to the one on the right for some reason.
Ah, the stupid kunts! My x knew and agreed that sometimes it’s better to let a pan sit and soak so it’s easier to get it clean. She knew this. So, one time I had one soaking in the sink and she comes in b!tching saying she doesn’t want dirty dishes sitting in the sink and she starts to wash it. I said it needed to soak first and she loudly stated, “No, it doesn’t need to soak, it needs to be scrubbed!”
Another time my son and I were outside with my dad and we were going fishing. She comes out of the house yelling about some ice cream being gone and she wanted to know who ate it. She worked at Braums. It was nothing for her to pick up some more and get an employee discount, but instead she wanted to make a fool of herself.
Yet another time I was out petting the neighbor’s cat. The x says she’s going to get a collar to put on the cat. I said cat’s don’t like collars and it’s not even our cat. You can’t put a collar on someone else’s pet. She kept insisting she was going to put a collar on the cat. I told her if she did, I’d take it off and throw it away. She never did, but we had to waste time arguing over something so idiotic.
So illogical. So childish. They’re happy in drama. They prefer to be angry and make others around them angry and miserable. Dude, you gotta’ get out of that marriage. Where do you live? I’ll come over and force myself to have sex with the fat broad and you can walk in on us. That should be justification for you to get a divorce and get full custody of your kids.I know that I need to get out – I just can’t leave my boys and have their mother badmouth me to them (as I said, they’re school age).
As for the sex, good luck. This is a woman who equates sex with work. That said, if you were to score with her, you’d get to see her large, fat arms, thunder thigh legs, and large ass, plus her belly – enough to give you a reverse hard-on. As for where I live, all I’ll say is that I’m in the US :).
Hermit, that’s hilarious about your wife and her admirer. She was probably all sweetness and light at work and the old guy thought she was the cat’s meow. I sure wish my wife would have some admirer but I’m afraid that not many men want to get involved with an overweight, asexual woman in her early-mid 50’s who likely weighs more than the guy anyway.I get you about the feelings you had – as I’ve stated, I take the kids out under the guise of giving her a break, when it’s more to get me out of the house and have fun with the kids. All she does is sit on her ass playing on her phone or watching TV while the kids and I are running around having fun. I also get you about her starting arguments that make no sense – mine will be in a good mood then for some reason she turns into Satan bitching about something that’s not worth getting worked up about. I can hear her now bitching about going into the “wrong” toll booth when we go on our “vacation” this weekend – nothing more important to worry about than seeing me go into a toll booth on the left when she wants to go to the one on the right for some reason.
Ah, the stupid kunts! My x knew and agreed that sometimes it’s better to let a pan sit and soak so it’s easier to get it clean. She knew this. So, one time I had one soaking in the sink and she comes in b!tching saying she doesn’t want dirty dishes sitting in the sink and she starts to wash it. I said it needed to soak first and she loudly stated, “No, it doesn’t need to soak, it needs to be scrubbed!”Another time my son and I were outside with my dad and we were going fishing. She comes out of the house yelling about some ice cream being gone and she wanted to know who ate it. She worked at Braums. It was nothing for her to pick up some more and get an employee discount, but instead she wanted to make a fool of herself.Yet another time I was out petting the neighbor’s cat. The x says she’s going to get a collar to put on the cat. I said cat’s don’t like collars and it’s not even our cat. You can’t put a collar on someone else’s pet. She kept insisting she was going to put a collar on the cat. I told her if she did, I’d take it off and throw it away. She never did, but we had to waste time arguing over something so idiotic.So illogical. So childish. They’re happy in drama. They prefer to be angry and make others around them angry and miserable. Dude, you gotta’ get out of that marriage. Where do you live? I’ll come over and force myself to have sex with the fat broad and you can walk in on us. That should be justification for you to get a divorce and get full custody of your kids.
I know that I need to get out – I just can’t leave my boys and have their mother badmouth me to them (as I said, they’re school age).
As for the sex, good luck. This is a woman who equates sex with work. That said, if you were to score with her, you’d get to see her large, fat arms, thunder thigh legs, and large ass, plus her belly – enough to give you a reverse hard-on. As for where I live, all I’ll say is that I’m in the US :).Ah, you now I was just kiddin’ with ya’ anyway. I didn’t expect you to actually tell me.
Back to the sex…….you should know by now that a wife wants sex, just not with her husband. If she had a new fresh romance with a Chad that has that new c~~~ smell, she may even try to lose some weight to get that. The grass is always greener, the c~~~ is always harder……..
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
Ha, yep I knew that. As for the sex, if she wants it that bad and doesn’t want it with me, then I say she should go for it – then I’ll have a chat with him to let him know what an idiot he is.
Trust me, she’s extremely lazy – every day when I get home from work, she’s sitting in the same spot on the couch, no matter the weather. Hell, I’m getting a reverse hard-on thinking of her in her bathing suit next week.
Ha, yep I knew that. As for the sex, if she wants it that bad and doesn’t want it with me, then I say she should go for it – then I’ll have a chat with him to let him know what an idiot he is.
Trust me, she’s extremely lazy – every day when I get home from work, she’s sitting in the same spot on the couch, no matter the weather. Hell, I’m getting a reverse hard-on thinking of her in her bathing suit next week.I hope that reverse hard on doesn’t get so bad that it comes out your ass.
My x never did get fat. As a matter of fact, there were times that I wish she would’ve put on a few pounds. She did get old though……old, wrinkled, saggy….. Even when she was younger and still attractive, she was ugly inside…..ugly and hateful and stupid.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
Not quite coming out of my ass, but getting there. I swear, she bitches about how bad her head hurts yet she drinks nothing but diet soda. She mentions how fat she is, but when we go out, she’ll eat all of the fries on our one son’s meal (he’s a good eater, but doesn’t go for fries) on top of her meal, then when we get home she makes sure to get some candy. Her idea of exercise is getting off her ass to get something to eat. One of her best friends came to my office last week to drop off my kids (she had them out at a movie as my wife had a work thing to do), and mentioned to me how lazy she thinks my wife is. All I could do is just nod my head. I’m 6’1″ and around 215 (not in perfect shape but I do exercise in the mornings and try to watch what I eat), and she’s 5’7″ and has to be 200 pounds. You know you’re fat, you’re always complaining about how tired you are, and your idea of taking care of this is to sit on your ass putting sugary and fattening food in your mouth.
Enough – just thinking about it gets me going and mainly about the example she’s setting for the kids (our one kid is already lazy at 7 – wonder where he gets it).
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