Who Takes Rejection Worse?? Men or Women??

[Anonymous 6]

So in the spectrum of dating, who takes being rejected worse…Men or Women??

What do you guys think??

Should be some interesting conversation

[black_knightParticipant 2602]

I think both men and women take it as hard as each other, but in different ways.

Women hate it, and feel an instant burst of hurt, but immediately find another guy to find validation and overcome their most recent rejection, whereas I think men tend also to hate it, but internalise it and let it affect their self worth over years and decades.

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

@venom Men do. I just created a topic on this. Women will always have a chad in waiting to alleviate the guilt they have. They never have to face the repercussion of their decisions.

My own biological mother rejected me. Check my thread out for the whole story.

/forums/topic/females-have-done-more-damage-to-me-than-anything/#post-503058

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

black_knight wrote:

I think men tend also to hate it, but internalise it and let it affect their self worth over years and decades.

Yeah my thread touches on this exact topic. My mother really destroyed me for quite some time.

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[Anonymous 6]

I think what helped me was the fact that I knew there are billions of women in the world, so i shouldn’t get hung up on one in particular. If one doesn’t work out, there are plenty of others that will.

@mgtow Knight, i don’t know how you dealt with that. I can’t imagine having the person who is supposed to look out for you, be the one to cause you the most pain. Sorry you had to go through that

[TheDudeParticipant 724]

black_knight wrote:

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Women hate it, and feel an instant burst of hurt, but immediately find another guy to find validation and overcome their most recent rejection, whereas I think men tend also to hate it, but internalise it and let it affect their self worth over years and decades.

Couldn’t have said it better myself. With women it’s more an “how dare you” attitude. Their high sense of entitlement and permanent pussy pass, makes them behave like children when rejected.

Men on the other hand are expected to “man up” and stop whining. So we’re more likely to bottle up our pain.

The best way then, is to not give a f~~~.

[StormtrooperParticipant 1080]

I would say women, they hate being told no, and the ones who I told to screw off nearly went full psycho.

I dodged a bullet

Just my opinion though.

Having a girlfriend is like owning a gun, the longer your around it, the more you want to shoot it.

[joetechParticipant]

I’d say it’s women who handle rejection the worst, because they’re not used to it. They always expect to be placed on a pedestal and handed everything they want, and when it doesn’t happen…look out!

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

Anonymous wrote:

@mgtow Knight, i don’t know how you dealt with that. I can’t imagine having the person who is supposed to look out for you, be the one to cause you the most pain. Sorry you had to go through that

All good bro. I’m a better man because of it!

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

Great question! I think generally men do. Yes, women create a huge stink when they get told “no,” while men just quietly walk away, but what’s happening on the inside? The c~~~ has a million options to choose from and has her worth constantly validated by her beta orbiters and social media, whereas men who get rejected are perceived as losers, perverts, stalkers, creeps, whatever. Ultimately, I think it has more to do with how society perceives the person being rejected than it does with biology. In a non-gynocentric society, I suspect the hurt would be about equal.

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

Define rejection?

Rejection by a woman can including her using the state to take everything you have, making you a debt slave, and sending you to prison for life based on false rape allegations.

A rejection by a man to a woman is just not calling the woman back by phone.

[Oskal45Participant 21]

I would say women take it harder short term, then move on quickly due to the norms of dating (men asking women out, not vice versa). Also, women tend to share their issues with their peers.

I think we internalise it much more and won’t admit to being turned down openly; which in my humble opinion leads to us bottling this kind of s~~~ up.

But, I could be wrong

"If women didn’t exist, all the money in the world would have no meaning" Aristotle Onassis

[narwhalParticipant]

I would equate acceptance and rejection to winning and losing. Because buys are much more likely to play sports and compete in general, they tend to be better prepared to handle winning and losing. They also are better at evaluating what went wrong to improve next time. Even to take comfort that there will be a next time.

I’ve also noticed that particularly gifted men that are usually win…do not know how to handle losing. At the same time, men who are constantly lose, don’t know how to handle winning. I’d even go so far as to say that putting kids in competition, where they can learn to deal with winning and losing, is more important then education.

Taking it a step further, it’s also important to learn the value of team. It’s important to know that the running back doesn’t score without someone to block for him. I also think women miss out on this lesson since they seem to take the people that support them for granted.

Ok. Then do it.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Women can’t handle rejection. It’s their greatest fear. It’s evolved into them. Because the moment a primitive monkeywoman on the plains of Africa was rejected by a primitive monkeyman, she became cat food walking.

black_knight wrote:

Women hate it, and feel an instant burst of hurt, but immediately find another guy to find validation and overcome their most recent rejection,

Women immediately bounce into another relationship specifically because they CAN’T handle rejection, not because they can. It’s such a blow to them that they are compelled to find another man to be with, any man, just to sooth the sting. That’s why they keep a few orbiters around just in case. A lot of times they’ll immediately hook up with another man for the purpose of dumping him so they can pretend they are the ones doing the rejecting. A lot of Chads benefit from this behavior.

I think men tend also to hate it, but internalise it and let it affect their self worth over years and decades.

The men I know mourn the loss of their stuff for years and years, but not the woman. She’s just the bitch who took his stuff.

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

sidecar wrote:

Women immediately bounce into another relationship specifically because they CAN’T handle rejection, not because they can. It’s such a blow to them that they are compelled to find another man to be with, any man, just to sooth the sting. That’s why they keep a few orbiters around just in case. A lot of times they’ll immediately hook up with another man for the purpose of dumping him so they can pretend they are the ones doing the rejecting. A lot of Chads benefit from this behavior.

Dude this exact s~~~ happened to me. I called this c~~~ out for her general c~~~iness in front of her friends. She flaked on me, and ghosted me when I invited her to a RSVP work related outing. Last week, I broke it off and told her I just want to be friends. The exact next day she was with her ex-CHAD.

Will she learn from her ways? Nope, the ex-CHAD will help alleviate the rejection from me.

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[Anonymous 11]

Women do.

I’ve learned over the years how to erase all feelings I had for any woman within 30 days. On the other hand, I’ve had c~~~s relentlessly come at me lividly for nearly a year all the while riding other c~~~s.

One would think these c~~~s would have been in hog heaven. They don’t like being told to go f~~~ themselves.

[GregB0Participant]

Rejection for a man is just a moment in life.
Rejection for a woman is the beginning of an epic saga that consumes her life and all around her.

Faust For Science wrote:

Rejection by a woman can including her using the state to take everything you have, making you a debt slave, and sending you to prison for life based on false rape allegations.

A rejection by a man to a woman is just not calling the woman back by phone.

Once a woman decides to address the rejection, the above Armageddon described by Faust will occur.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

By the time man is 25 he was rejected enough that he has no more mental place to store information about it.

By the time woman is 25 if she is hot she knows nothing about rejection but knows a lot about how to reject. This are chicks that are usually bats~~~ crazy after wall.

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[BushidoParticipant 637]

Like @black_knight said,

black_knight wrote:

I think both men and women take it as hard as each other, but in different ways.

Women have to “express” themselves, which requires validation, affirmation and some sort of emphatic response.

Men, however, are damn good at seething. We don’t need any of that s~~~. We just something to keep our hands and minds busy.

I can’t confidently and empirically deduct which gender experiences it worse because of the many different variables – especially in the differences of reception, action and social response to a certain individual’s rejection/loss. Men are from Mars, women are from Venus – it’s like apples and oranges. However, for the aforementioned reasoning above I can easily say Men handle rejection better; we become constructive in the face of adversity, while women tend to rely on others to “help them through it”.

Logic guides your actions, emotion guides your morals. Only you may decide how you use them.

[AkanbiParticipant 2120]

In my opinion, I believe that with the help of the hive, mainstream media and institutions, women have been raised to believe that a good number of men won’t be able to resist them and will chase them (no matter what their SMV is).

Men on the other hand are raised to believe that by being a man, they are to do the chasing…and when they get rejected, they have to be a man by sucking it up and move on with life.

That is why men take rejection lightly. But if a woman gets rejected…

“WHAT?! HOW DARE YOU?!!”

Edit: @thedude you kind of beat me to it.

My brother make you no follow sheeple o. Look them and Go Your Way.

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