who takes being rejected worse…Men or Women??
What do you guys think??
I haven’t read anyone else’s reply yet (just about to) but I have $1 down that most of them would say women take rejection FAR worse – and they would be right in a way. Except….
Men will eat a bullet over it.
My friend Todd ate a train when he was 19 – over a break up – and I have never seen a woman react quite THAT badly where she would take her own life. . . . BUT I have seen a woman bring a false accusation against me for NOT f~~~ing her and sending her home in a cab any my expense. I was every bit a “gentleman”.
So when it comes to “taking rejection”, from what I have seen, a woman will expect you to take the pain either way. ( i.e keying your car, or throwing a drink in your face etc. )
Trollops take it the worst. It’s not hard to find a video online of some bitter trollop destroying a man’s property after giving her the f~~~ing boot!
Exactly. She won’t even accept the rejection herself anyway!
She wants a man to suffer for it.
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Personally, I hate that word: “rejection” because I don’t even see it as a “rejection”. What’s she rejecting? An offer to spend time with her, pay attention to her, enjoy some company over a drink? I know a woman’s rejection has very little to do with you (or me) anyway.
Women actually say things like “I was at the market and I just wasn’t up to being approached or asked out. I looked like s~~~. I just got my period. I had a bad hair day.” etc……
NONE of that has anything to do with the guy.
That’s HER s~~~ happening in her own head.
She thinks she can “decide” and she has some control over when the right guy will show up in her life. She thinks she can choose but HE’s the one choosing, because if he doesn’t nothing’s going to happen anyway! I just don’t understand why a man wold take female rejection so harshly. What did he lose? Where is the loss?
The man doesn’t know her yet.
Therefore she doesn’t MEAN anything to him.
And since she doesn’t MEAN authoring to him . . . .
Her silly “rejection” can’t possibly mean anything to him either.
Congratulations.
He’s now instantly cured of all rejection anxiety.
It’s WOMEN who think men should be somehow devastated by their “rejection”, and they behave as though her approval is worth so much, but it’s not. What’s the best thing that happens when she doesn’t “reject” him? A simple sex act, a possibly pregnancy and an STD??
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Normally, you couldn’t drag me into a strip club. But my friend convinced me a couple of years ago on his birthday so I went along. The moment we walked in (looking pretty sharp) strippers were all over us complimenting me/us on everything from our hair, to our shoes, looks . . . s~~~ they would NEVER say outside of the strip club.
It actually p~~~ed me off.
And they were offended when I didn’t want a table dance for $XXX.
( If you won’t approach me like that OUT THERE . . . don’t do it in here. It’s embarassing and fake as f~~~. I will decide if I want you for a table dance, and you will not. )
A strip club is a place where the entire dynamic is reversed. That’s where MEN get to do the “rejecting” . . . and after thinking about it, I might recommend any guy who has ANY problem with female “rejection” to take a trip down to a strip club that has decent girls and enjoy “rejecting” them for a change. Just enjoy saying “no thanks”, “maybe another time”, “If I’m interested I’ll let YOU know’.
I still rejected them in a much classier way than a woman would. But you get to experience and practice saying “no” to women who want something from YOU. It was a very fun evening actually…. and by the time the 10th girl approached us and said “I like your hair. You guys want a private show?” . . . I quickly got used to saying just “no” with a little grin.
What do you gain from her approval?
What do yo lose from her “rejection”?
Avoiding the WRONG woman pays better than meeting the right one anyway.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
hollowtips 2 years, 7 months ago.
