What’s going in girls mind during No contact period ?

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Razor92 wrote:

Frankly, now I want to f~~~ her one last time and be gone from her life forever

It only takes one time to get an accidental pregnancy! Dude you are in the driver seat,dont play with your life and future for some tail. There are plenty of women ready to get her out of your mind if that helps. Your walking back into a house fire…why?

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[experiencedParticipant]

She’s a manipulative c~~~.
You are too close and don’t see the danger you are in.
Heed these guys advice and never speak to her or see her again.
SHE IS NOT WORTH IT.
And believe me, the guys here have had women better in the sack than her.
The guys here have nothing to gain except NOT seeing you f~~~ up your life royally with a manipulative female.
If she said she was going to give you 100 of the best climaxes of your life and then cut off your genitals IF you would only see her one more time, would you do it?
Also, there is no bulls~~~ offer of, “well one more time won’t hurt.” So get that cancer out of your brain.
DUMP HER THEN NO TALK NO SEE, PERIOD!

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Razor92Participant 41]

You guys are really great. Your replies are not practical ones and such type of things no one has told me before and thanks fo telling why revenge sex is bad for me 🙂

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

What is going on in a woman’s mind during a ‘no contact’ period. . . . . .

A hamster in a wheel. Continually running. Oblivious to the fact it is still not going anywhere. Running, faster, faster, . . . .

Moving forward, faster and faster in theory but not in terms of geography.

The wheel is life. Life is the wheel. She must keep frantically running at all costs.

Now, about the whole no contact thing. I’m not even sure if a woman that has gone silent could even conceptualize what ‘no contact’ is or have even a remote understanding of her own behavior, it’s impact on others and what could or might happen in the next ten minutes.

It’s all about the wheel. . . . and continuing to run. Faster, and faster. . . .

[Maraudrz1Participant 2250]

My question is what is going on in her mind right now and how long should I continue NC period? 14 days, 21 days or 30 days?

FOREVER!!!

Women's brains and vagina have one thing in common. There is nothing in there until a man puts something in there.

[Maraudrz1Participant 2250]

My question is what is going on in her mind right now and how long should I continue NC period? 14 days, 21 days or 30 days?

FOREVER!!!

These guys are giving you valuable information. They have had experience and have received the knowledge of MGTOW!!!

Women's brains and vagina have one thing in common. There is nothing in there until a man puts something in there.

[BubParticipant 1405]

Razor92 wrote:

Frankly, now I want to f~~~ her one last time and be gone from her life forever

“one last time”. Hope you don’t knock her up….hope she’s not looking to get knocked up…
Good luck ….

Just rolling down the road

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Razor92 wrote:

My question is what is going on in her mind right now

I could hazard an educated guess, but who cares?

and how long should I continue NC period? 14 days, 21 days or 30 days?

Forever.

One chance per chick per lifetime. She had her chance. She blew it. She’s done.

Don’t contact her ever again. Don’t check out her facebook page. Don’t even block her or unfriend her or whatever. Once it’s done, and it is done, there’s no point in wasting any more thought on her.

Let her find out how badly she’s f~~~ed up by accidentally meeting you out on the street with your new younger hotter girl on your arm.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

sidecar wrote:

My question is what is going on in her mind right now

I will tell you. You know ALL those guys that were orbiters? You know the ones, who were “just friends?” Well they have all been given a chance to hit that poontang and she is f~~~ing loving ALL the attention.

This is gonna sting alot but I will give it to you straight. She would have f~~~ed another guy by now, he would have been lined up long before the breakup hence the term “monkey branching.” Think, i mean really think, about all the kinky and wild s~~~ she will be doing with this guy or guys in the sack. im being honest it’s gonna hurt like a bitch but it is a guys ego that sends him off the rails knowing some other guy is whispering in her ear and tapping that pussy. But here is the kicker, you’ll get to do that with so many women now. Trust me, trust the guys her you are holding the winning ticket, yet you don’t know it yet. And I will bet you will hear from her within the next 3 years, guaranteed. Whatever you do, DO NOT, stay friends or in contact, go completely ghost!

Now, women being women, she is gonna bad mouth you. Just the way it is they are all victims. But that isn’t your problem, rise above that s~~~. Her friends will bait you, to get a reaction, don’t say a thing, show emotion or play into it. As the penguins from Madagascar movie say on the beach “Just smile and wave boys…just smile and wave!”

I’d say 99+% of MGTOW’s here have been down this road. I know I have, I’m 40 yo and now i couldn’t give a flying f~~~ what a woman does. Christ, check my profile out im dating and banging women under 32, my last was a 20yo model, yes seriously. So remember the ball is in your court.

Before the ago of 30 a woman’s attitude is “everyone wants to f~~~ me,” after 30 it’s “who wants to f~~~ me.”

One chance per chick per lifetime. She had her chance. She blew it. She’s done. This x1,000,000 – Seriously live by this, dont f~~~ up like i did!

“She said that I should leave her because I am wasting my time with her. If we are meant to be, we will be together.” Translation – she’s leaving her options open and yes this guy is one of them.

“I pleaded her…” DON’T EVER DO THAT AGAIN WITH ANY WOMAN…EVER! NEVER PLEAD OR BEG!

But, if you really want relationship advice look up Coach Corey Wayne on YouTube. That’s all I can say on this. Since I went MGTOW and doing my own thing I have been getting so much quality ass. I don’t chase, do PUA bulls~~~ or do s~~~ tests. Good Luck!

[VarunParticipant 2981]

uchibenkei wrote:

boy did you come to the wrong place.

I have absolutely ZERO idea why I laughed so hard after reading this. No offense to OP. 😛

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[QuietlyquietlyParticipant 728]

Razor92 wrote:

…She said that I should leave her because I am wasting my time with her….
…
Yesterday, it had been 7 days of no contact from me. Yesterday I talked to her because she called me and asked about me. I thought she realized her mistake but I was wrong. I was talking to her in a light mood then asked about what happened with your ex and she said that I denied his proposal and I don’t want anyone. Go away and I left with bye reply.

My question is what is going on in her mind right now and how long should I continue NC period? 14 days, 21 days or 30 days?

Hey Razor92. I’m guessing you’re in your early 20s….23? Yeah, tough spot. So much to learn still.

I highlighted a couple of things in your post – if she says you should leave her, it means that SHE is thinking of leaving YOU. Women never say what they mean, and this is a classic example.

I second Chir, and everything he said. Take notes, and learn. Fast.

You say you’re in a No Contact period, but you’ve talked to her on the phone! You’ve already broken it. You have to grow some b~~~~ here, dude, don’t ever plead, EVER.

So, to reiterate: DUMP HER. Just do it. Don’t say she’s better off without you, grow some b~~~~ and say you can do better, and you’re dumping HER. Take the lead.
Don’t contact her, throw her number out, delete everything, throw her gifts to you out, every one of them, unfriend her, block her, and DO NOT CONTACT HER. Don’t reply – she’ll likely s~~~-test you more by sending huge messages every 20 minutes pleading with you to take her back. It’s a s~~~ test. If you capitulate and reply to even a single one, you’ve lost, she has you by the b~~~~ again. Don’t give her any hint that you even exist any more. There are no half-measures.

3 months absolute minimum. I’m serious. ABSOLUTE MINIMUM. Don’t read this and think, well, Quietly said 3 months, but 3 weeks has gone by and that’s enough. No, or don’t bother showing your face here again, you won’t get any sympathy.

We DO have sympathy for you right now, we’ve all been through this, but you’ll be wasting our time if you ask for our advice and then don’t take it. Please understand as well, that we don’t hate her, we’re giving you advice because you asked for it, and clearly need it. Time to man up.

[Razor92Participant 41]

@quietlyquietly

Yes I am 23 years old and a university student.

So far I learned that I should totally disappear from her life and any time limit of no contact wont help because we cannot go back to previous relationship no matter what I do..

Now, how should I respond if she contacts me after and within next 3 months and how to occupy myself in this post break up period ?

Thanks

P.S. I feel free after coming out of the relationship. I can do whatever I want to do in the my life instead of having chat with her on texting or calls at night and facing her childish drama. 😉

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10911]

Brother, that idea will get you into trouble. If she even SMELLS that you are trying to set up a last romp in the hay to leave her, she will try to hold on to you by either purposely getting pregnant or telling you she is pregnant. Either way, you will be looking down the barrel of the baby-jail shotgun. 20 YEARS. Think about that for a moment what that means for your future and studies. Do you really want to be in contact with her for any reason 5 years from now? How about 10? TWENTY?
Go and never look back. Good luck brother.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[QuietlyquietlyParticipant 728]

Yes, disappear from her life. Live your own life, on your own terms. Work out what your terms are, and stick to them. Be non-compromising in your approach to your life. Heck, it’s YOUR life, no one else is going to live it for you.

DO NOT CONTACT HER.

If she sends you messages (and she will), do not respond. Hit delete. You need to know about female manipulation, because she’s going to try every trick in the book once you become hard to get (and if she doesn’t, and can give you up that easily, she wasn’t ever worth anything to you).
She’ll tell you she loves you still [Appeal to emotion]
She’ll try to guilt you [Appeal to guilt]
She’ll try plead with you [Appeal to reason]
She’ll try to threaten you [Appeal to fear]
She’ll try to threaten herself [Appeal to White Knight]
She’ll tell you she’ll change [Appeal to compromise]
She’ll get mad at you [Appeal to fear again]

And so on. It will look like this:
“But I still love you.”
“remember when…..”
“I think of you….”
“I’m so lonely”
“I’ll tell your friends (something secret)”
“I’ll kill/hurt myself”
“You’re such an ass”
“I’ve changed”

Your job is to literally NOT RESPOND. Not to any of it. It’s all manipulation. Go to the gym. Eat well. Read a book. Listen to your favourite bands, study hard, go for a drive somewhere new, plan a trip, learn the f~~~ out of being a man, and women’s manipulation, hang out with your (male) friends, learn pickup techniques to win attraction from females (I’m past that, couldn’t give a f~~~, but I figure you’ll need a self-esteem boost at some stage during the withdrawal period). Go fishing, hunting, join a mechanic course, join a chess club. LIVE YOUR LIFE. You only get being 23 once. Do it with style.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

DeepInThought wrote:

She would have f~~~ed another guy by now, he would have been lined up long before the breakup hence the term “monkey branching.”

This is one of the first things I figured out on my own when it came to female behavior. I called it the “monkey swing” when it was still my own revelation before I realized that it was a broader truth that many men had come to before me.

The monkey swing is exactly the reason you cut a woman off and pursue her no further. If you were into game theory, I could give you other reasons but this one should be sufficient… she lined up the next guy well before you got your chance and she will move right on to him and whoever comes after him as a way to garner attention and validation, sooth her bruised ego, justify her s~~~ty behavior or simply fill her f~~~ hole, whatever her motivations may be.

By cutting all ties to her, you deny her the pleasure of hurting you further. You don’t have to see her do this, you won’t get jealous, and you won’t beg her to take you back which is exactly what every woman wants from a guy.

Walk away, let her get her 500 miles of dick and you move on to something new or better or both.

[hollowtipsParticipant 681]

Theirs really no point in wasting your time with her at this point, she’s clearly impatient, emotionally unstable and doesn’t know what she wants in her life. The waiting period is basically when a woman waits for you to beg for her back and apologize, which she’ll absolutely eat up and probably raise her expectations/conditions over you, gaining more control over you.

She’s probably fooling around with someone during this period since you’re technically broken up at the moment.

Just focus on yourself, the perfect woman will bend over backwards for you when you’re on track in life, you should have to do this relation political bulls~~~.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Razor92 wrote:

Yes I am 23 years old and a university student.

You have so much time to learn and experience.

Actually, I just read you are from Pakistan? I’m not sure how muslim women in Pakistan are expected to behave under sharia law. Perhaps she isn’t sexually active with other guys. My apologies for the oversight.

Razor92 wrote:

Now, how should I respond if she contacts me after and within next 3 months and how to occupy myself in this post break up period ?

Don’t respond. She had her chance, it’s done!

Occupy yourself? Hmm – study, work, train hard and build your wealth.

Understand this, women especially her age group are liars and massively hypergamous.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Razor92 wrote:

Now, how should I respond if she contacts me after and within next 3 months

You don’t. You ignore her. You don’t answer her phone calls. You don’t read her text messages. You just delete them. You throw away any written letters from her unopened (as if women these day even know how to write a letter).

And if she somehow manages to corner you on the street or call you from an unidentified number and force a response, just tell her you’re too busy and don’t have time to talk to her right now. Bonus points for telling her you are on your way to do something with your girlfriend (do not say ‘new’ girlfriend – that validates her as the old girlfriend and you don’t want to give her even that). Then walk away. Don’t look back to see her tears.

and how to occupy myself in this post break up period ?

Do whatever the f~~~ you want. You know all those things you wanted to do but couldn’t because of you ex? Do them. You know all that s~~~ you wanted to buy but couldn’t because of your ex? Buy it. You know all those women you wanted to f~~~ but couldn’t because of your ex? F~~~ them. Don’t think of this as a “post breakup period”. Periods are for women. This is the rest of your life, and you can do with it whatever the f~~~ you please.

[the roadParticipant 3125]

You seem very quick to agree with what anyone here suggests. Are you thinking this advice through thoroughly? It’s all good advice but you seem to be blindly accepting anything that is said here. If I was still blue pill and in deep with a woman, I would be full of hesitation to just up and leave without a fight. The reason why is because I know that I would have been emotionally attached still. Not something that I like to admit but I’m being honest.

It’s pretty strange to me that you are asking how to “occupy” yourself in the “post break up period” too. It almost sounds weird like you have no thoughts of your own. Sorry if I sound rude, it’s just weird to see someone come to grips so quickly with such an event and move on seamlessly but still be confused about what to do after the break up. You can do whatever you want. Hobbies, bang hookers, casinos, exercise, improve yourself… etc.

#MANOUT

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

If you are indeed from Pakistan and of the Muslim faith and she is as well, sounds like she is lining herself up for an honour killing because no Pakistani family would tolerate a female acting like this. Or I am calling bulls~~~ on this thread now.

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