What was an event that led you to embrace the MGTOW lifestyle?

[rebelandboltmanParticipant 640]

Events which inspired me to be MGTOW:

1. A female neighbor of mine moved in back in 2003 and needed help setting up her internet connection. It was a dial up connection as she didn’t have a cable modem. She asked, “Do you leave your computer on?” I advised her not to as she would run up charges on your phone bill. She didn’t listen, racked up over $500 in charges, blamed me for it, and expected me to pay half if not the whole thing.
2. A friend of mine received a call from his wife while we were hanging out, and she asked him how to spell their daughter’s name.
3. Another friend of mine lost his house to his ex wife, and is hardly able to see his children to this day. He figured the cure all to this misery was to meet a Russian girl online, pay $2000 to go meet her, and marry her despite the fact that she was talking to other guys on Facebook.
4. I worked at a grocery store for a short time. This girl, who worked in a different department, expressed interest in me on numerous occasions. Being that I was interested too, I asked for her number. She gave it to me, and then said, “Oh, but I don’t talk. I text only.”
5. Women who are verbally and physically abusive when under the influence of alcohol.
6. Women who are verbally and physically abusive period.
7. Women who express contempt for genuinely nice guys.
8. Men who attempt to pressure other men into competing for the “Golden Uterus.”
9. The high divorce rate in our country.

[alchemistParticipant 484]

Going My Own Way has allways been in my heart but there was one day, after a lot of other s~~~ from my girlfriend when I decided it must be in reality aswell:

We were reading something online, but when I read it aloud she misunderstood it . We both read it in text first and understood and agreed but when I read it out, she misinterpreted me, when she realised she was arguing the same point she just clammed up… she shut down the conversation and wouldn’t talk about it, she tried to distract and avoid… I was flabbergasted. She couldn’t admit this tiny error, even though we both agreed and were both “on the same side” she still couldn’t admit fault! To this day she still makes up stories to justify her misunderstanding, like blaming me, even though I read the passage word for word.

That’s when something shifted, a switch flipped, I knew that if she couldn’t admit this tiny error, she’d never be able to overcome her bigger flaws… there is no hope for her and I must leave, I must Go My Own Way, if I ever want to be happy.

I tried to avoid this knowledge because it’s unpleasant and leaving her will be painful, but it is true, I’m out of the matrix now.
Now I know: Personality does not change, the ability to change is a personality trait. That is the red pill to dispel this delusion.

[PloetzeParticipant 11]

Ill keep it very, very short (im 29 now)

The reason i am who i am is my father, he was the Definition of a Provider, and got f~~~ed up by my abusive mother hard. he lost everything he had, even his retirement Money, house, savings etc, and never recovered from it.

My mother on the other Hand lived with his stuff like a queen for years and spent everything on s~~~ (travelling, moving every 1 or 2 years in a new apartement with new furniture, new cars etc.)

thats what kept me away from long Lasting relations~~~s and marriage.

and i found mgtow due to the mgtow reddit, someone posted there that heres a good read! and that Person was damn right!

all i have to say is thank you to every mgtow, since im reading mgtow related stuff i got more confident who i am.

[wanderingscribeParticipant 9]

Very little in the way of events or direct experiences, just good observation skills and a keen desire NOT to have anyone else’s emotional crap stick to me. Time and time again I have talked with or listened to friends in various stages of relations~~~ drama, all of which has reinforced my decision not to allow the same thing to happen to me.

[Big Viking Chef BVCParticipant 1286]

I came here while I was in mourning over the loss of the love of my life. I was, and to some extent still am, in pain after that love walked out of my life leaving a giant hole where bliss used to be.

Here I learned that it was not my fault, indeed I fought so hard to hang on to love. I learned that not only was it her fault, her decision, it was also all only smoke and mirrors. I now know the truth about women and the great con of love, but still I long for the happiness that I felt while inside the dreamworld (matrix).

Now I like to rage against such cons. I like to expose bulls~~~ and put it on display. It’s fun. Perhaps we can open some eyes and save some lives. Mine has been saved for certain. And for all this, I thank my Brothers here at mgtow.com

BVC

Swallow this RED PILL ===> Men will lay down their lives for their brothers, their women and their children. This makes Men useful as slaves. Women will lay down their lives for ONLY their children. To expect more from women is just a FANTASY created by society and reinforced by the unconditional love that we experienced from our Mothers. The key to freedom is the understanding that the woman you meet is not going to fantastically love you like your Mother did. If you buy into the fantasy, then she is your new master. If you do not buy into the fantasy, then she is nothing, and you retain your freedom.

[Anonymous 5]

After dealings with s~~~ty friends – parents that I felt were out of touch with me and a few women that really pushed me out of the hole fake world of love. I became very spiteful, angry and ulitmately independent. I recently made peace with my family on a side note. I still haven’t got the time yet to tell my story on here in the “introductions”. But well anyways -hey when I was alone and didn’t trust anyone when I was overworking and resenting every aspect of life – questioning my desires my goals and my very being – my eyes came across MGTOW on google at the time I thought nothing of it – but after reading 2 or 3 post’s I really felt I related to some of you. And here I am. Got to say this site has made me very peaceful. Its something I try not to tell anyone about in a sense because it’s that title of the post here. You guys out who mite read this – what brought you here. Man am reflecting hardcore. Great subject..

Hats off to this member one of his post’s was one of the frist I read:

“Soulman”

[NeutronParticipant 321]

This is an easy one. I was born MGTOW. Marriage and relationships just never really appealed to me and also I saw the manipulativeness of women at a very early age (I’m 56 now).

None are more hopelessly enslaved than those who falsely believe they are free - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

[Big Viking Chef BVCParticipant 1286]

Mana Knight wrote:

It is funny. THe haters/white-knights/feminists, they all say we are MGTOW because we can’t find love, we can’t find relationships, or get married.
The exact opposite is true.

It is because we can and HAVE that we are here.

This says it all for me.

Cheers to you. BVC

Swallow this RED PILL ===> Men will lay down their lives for their brothers, their women and their children. This makes Men useful as slaves. Women will lay down their lives for ONLY their children. To expect more from women is just a FANTASY created by society and reinforced by the unconditional love that we experienced from our Mothers. The key to freedom is the understanding that the woman you meet is not going to fantastically love you like your Mother did. If you buy into the fantasy, then she is your new master. If you do not buy into the fantasy, then she is nothing, and you retain your freedom.

[Spank The MisandristsParticipant 2308]

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