Watch out for the RPR. Be Stoic, gents.

[Anonymous 54]

Keep writeing it on here 7.
Keep getting it out.

Say c~~~ alot.

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

You know, a lot of people have never seen their breaking point. And in a way that’s sad. The bottom of that pit is where you eventually find a snarl to put on your face and the will to climb out into the light. Shape your world into something more pleasing. More pleasing to you.

It turns out the world is very malleable if you put the work into it.

We all get knocked down. Hard, sometimes. Sometimes we get knocked down real hard.

Get angry and it might help. Learn to control the most violent aspect of your anger, and that helps.

But I gotta say….you just can’t beat a person who has had enough and stands up to fight.

The thing is, the fight isn’t with the ex or that bitch you dated who ripped you a new one. Its with you. Its with you getting up off the floor and saying this bitch does not get to control one more part of my life and certainly not my emotions.

So, you’ve hit the breaking point. Well, thank whomever you think needs thanking but thank someone because you’ve arrived at that place where the best life lessons are.

I felt insignificant, so betrayed and so hurt, I wanted to puff up and scream and threaten and make wild gestures. Maybe even I wanted a bit to just give up and die.

But the next day, I would awake and I was still here, right? Life sucked but I shrugged it off as best I could and got on with things, carrying the emotional weight of it while I went about the activities of daily living.

The next day I got up again, mad, hurt, still confused. I recall thinking, I’m still here and life is still all around me. So, one day after the next day that’s what I did. I hurt, I was mad as hell, and I got up, felt like crap but got to my day as best I could,.

Day after day, I did this and the thoughts of me running away………or hiding myself……..or even “ending it all”, well it just never made my list of the top 5 things I needed to get done that day. Maybe tomorrow.

I got another day. So, still p~~~ed, still hurt, still confused about my world collapsing, it was all still there, but……I’ve got other s~~~ to do today.

Maybe I retained enough of my identity to understand at least instinctually that I’m better than that spot I found myself in. I wasn’t satisfied with life yet.

I wasn’t happy but I wasn’t done either.

Or maybe I got past some of this anger because I’m an ornery SOB that refuse to buckle to some c~~~ that abused me and as long as I held all that anger, I was still her hostage.

A woman can rob you of time and she can take your money, she cant take your soul or your spirit. She can only have that if you give it to her. If anger helps for a while, use it. But that’s still her holding you hostage.

One day to the next, doing the s~~~ I needed to do for that day. Get up tomorrow and say thanks you got another day and get on with that day.

This was a multi year evolution for me, but at my angriest I took it day to day, and then week to week. I found a few other things to fill my time. I hiked a lot. For awhile I joined a fitness gym and lifted. I got a dog (best things I ever did).

One foot in front of the other…….making a path to reclaiming my soul.

I made better time when I unloaded the anger.

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[narwhalParticipant]

I don’t care for rage. Perhaps it’s just connotation, but rage comes off as destructive. Tearing things down. Demolition it. It’s revenge.

Not at all trying to say that the damage a woman causes a man doesn’t justify the huge amount of emotion a man will feel about it all.

I’m saying why not passion instead. No, not romantic passion. Passionate about improving your life and being happy. Passionate about protecting yourself and fellow men from harm. Passionate about raising your kids. Passionate about your hobbies. Build something. Make something better than it was before.

Not at all saying it’s easy. I didn’t feel like doing anything constructive in the wake of my divorce, and mine was no where near as bad as many others. But I don’t think I really started healing to started getting passionate about what mattered to me instead of destroying everything about my past.

Ok. Then do it.

[Anonymous 43]

I have rage but not a destructive output. I turn it all into getting healthier, learning a new skill, or doing something creative. But it is really tough drawing up a future stained glass window when my colored pencils keep snapping in half.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Anonymous wrote:

I have rage but not a destructive output. I turn it all into getting healthier, learning a new skill, or doing something creative. But it is really tough drawing up a future stained glass window when my colored pencils keep snapping in half.

Remember what you are and what you got:

A MEN
A PAIR OF B~~~~

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[BubParticipant 1408]

Anonymous wrote:

Try this..

You know what bitch, you win.

Moveing on…

and there it is,
Plus the indifference and patronization really p~~~es tuna off.

Just rolling down the road

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Anonymous wrote:

Easier said than done.
But anger will ruin your life.
One way or the other.

Try this..

You know what bitch, you win.

Moveing on…

I know I understand I still carry a concealed insane amount of rage, sometimes I just want to burn everything, but my NFG kicks in, and I get all zen, but rage is not bad at all, that rage can keep you alive, go for broke, go insane, if you get Down to the bottom and survive, the men that comes back is a machine.

I wanna see how sparky, matrix are doing in 10 years.

Even gambit if he haven’t gone blue simp already.

It will be interesting.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Anonymous 54]

There is no point in fighting a fight that isnt fair.
Rigged against you.

Theres no shame in saying f~~~ it, you win, and walking away

[HermitParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Rage is a failure of temperance.

Temper the rage and you become steel hard and unmovable! Nothing can knock you off your center! You become solid as bedrock!

Control your emotions and you control the world.

Loose control of your emotions and the world controls you.

This is what I’ve been practicing for years, emotional control and I’m a better man for it. It’s women who react on emotion. They are the out of control emotional creatures, all day, every day.

Sure I get angry from time to time, but it soon passes. Also, now when I become angry at something or someone, I stand still and quiet and I think before I do or say anything. I used to get mad and let that emotion control me and I would make bad decisions. Now I control my emotions and think before reacting or responding. It has definitely made a positive impact on my life.

It isn’t always easy as people are stupid and stupidity drives me insane. Just today I had to not let this idiot control me with his words as he is always saying stupid s~~~. I quickly thought it out first and chose not to respond at all and he just walked away. In the past when I would respond out of anger, his stupidity continued to run out of his mouth.

Emotional control……I’ve defeated many enemies with it, including many women.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[Manspread MansplainerParticipant 4222]

Seems to be others who cause the most pain, even after the internal rage has subsided. It’s the blue pill vampires who suck our blood dry.

If women ran the world = It would become the shithole you are seeing.

[HermitParticipant]

Romulus wrote:

You know, a lot of people have never seen their breaking point. And in a way that’s sad. The bottom of that pit is where you eventually find a snarl to put on your face and the will to climb out into the light. Shape your world into something more pleasing. More pleasing to you.

It turns out the world is very malleable if you put the work into it.

We all get knocked down. Hard, sometimes. Sometimes we get knocked down real hard.

Get angry and it might help. Learn to control the most violent aspect of your anger, and that helps.

But I gotta say….you just can’t beat a person who has had enough and stands up to fight.

The thing is, the fight isn’t with the ex or that bitch you dated who ripped you a new one. Its with you. Its with you getting up off the floor and saying this bitch does not get to control one more part of my life and certainly not my emotions.

I agree that sometimes it may be necessary to explode on someone, but most of the time it’s better to control yourself and use your brain instead of your emotions. A man needs to use wisdom to choose which situation calls for which reaction.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[HermitParticipant]

Carnage wrote:

Old Heyoka wrote:

Easier said than done.
But anger will ruin your life.
One way or the other.

Try this..

You know what bitch, you win.

Moveing on…

I know I understand I still carry a concealed insane amount of rage, sometimes I just want to burn everything, but my NFG kicks in, and I get all zen, but rage is not bad at all, that rage can keep you alive, go for broke, go insane, if you get Down to the bottom and survive, the men that comes back is a machine.

I wanna see how sparky, matrix are doing in 10 years.

Even gambit if he haven’t gone blue simp already.

It will be interesting.

Where has Gambit been? Is he ever coming back, I wonder?

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[HermitParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

There is no point in fighting a fight that isnt fair.
Rigged against you.

Theres no shame in saying f~~~ it, you win, and walking away

Even if they didn’t really win, it’s still better to just let them think they did instead of playing the stupid game with them. Treat them like a child. Give them their fake trophy and forget about them.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[HermitParticipant 1121]

If anger is all you’ve got, you hang on to it. It can keep you warm and keep you focused. So guys just need that. Some longer than others.

I don't hate women. I just feel better when they're not around.

[HitmanParticipant]

i have nothing to say that 57 didn’t cover.

[Dark KenshiParticipant 2132]

Anonymous wrote:

Rage is a failure of temperance.

Temper the rage and you become steel hard and unmovable! Nothing can knock you off your center! You become solid as bedrock!

Control your emotions and you control the world.

Loose control of your emotions and the world controls you.

That is precisely what I think, brother!
I understand that even the best metal will break, given exorbitant pressure, but keep breaking day in and day out is a huge problem, and I don’t like to see my fellow brothers in trouble, because they went overboard for something that if they had taken a deep breath and calmed down, they could have done things in a very different way, more clever and more effective, that would achieve his goals.

I’ve been reading a lot on stoicism, and I saw what maybe the common core to both MGTOW and Stoicism:

If you cannot change anything, because it is out of your power to do something, endure and say “f~~~ it, anyway”. But, if it is in your powers to change something, then by all means go for it.

No amount of rage will change our misandric laws. No amount of rage will change this society for the better. So, the only choice is to let it go and endure the s~~~storm that is coming at us, at full speed.

Rage can sometimes fuel our passions. I am not against it, because anger is a shield that can save lives sometimes, or it is a cathartic process to make a man blow off some steam, so he can endure the s~~~ show.
But keeping angry… this will only lead to a certain way, and it does not end well.

"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.

[OldBillParticipant]

Dark Kenshi wrote:

I’ve been reading a lot on stoicism…

Then you will have read that stoicism doesn’t teach one to deny or suppress emotions. Stoicism is about understanding and accepting one’s emotions.

Feeling rage isn’t a “failure” of any kind. Giving into that rage, never examining it, cherishing it, never moving past it, that’s where the failure occurs.

Ready for the quote? “If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment.” – Marcus Aurelius, Meditations

Stoicism teaches us that emotions only have what value we assign to them. It’s not a failure to have emotions, it’s a only failure when we fail to examine those emotions.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[SH3LLZParticipant 5569]

I personally am at peace most of the time. Its when I see blatant ridiculous injustice that sets me off. RPR is mostly gone. But I feel for you guys who go through some wicked crap. There is no justice for men anymore. So we cannot and must not engage. Its better this way.

#ICETHEMOUT!
#MANOUT!

#ICETHEMOUT!!! #MANOUT!!! #HIDEYOURWEALTH #VAGINAISWORTHLESS

[bstoffParticipant 4870]

The new guys are always going to come in here with their new-found red-pill rage.

It’s a natural part of the learning they will have to do.

Eventually, the rage must diminish into the NFG or at least a more indifferent approach.
Your rage is used against you, by women, police, courts, public opinion, and any other enemy who wants to portray you as out of control.
If you are unable to control your emotions, to the level that prevents a hostile enemy from using it against you, you are hurting yourself, only.

[FragmentedParticipant 2758]

When i get rage i put it to good use. I look for a way to channel it into something useful. Sometimes i use it to better my health. I quit smoking, and my motivation was telling myself, that i REFUSE to give myself emphysema, due to stress, caused by people that don’t give a damn about me. When you’re enraged, ask yourself, how can you use it to your advantage.

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