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Dark Kenshi 2 years ago.
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I don’t know how many of you are into Philosophy.
Recently, I’ve saw many men stuck in the RPR, and it bothers me how and why these fellow red pill men cannot get out of the red pill rage. I know, the lie being told you by others your whole life how you should behave, how you should be and blablabla, and how much that the red pill hurts and makes you want to puke it as fast as a bad case of diarrhea.
But, once you see the truth, you cannot go back. Ever. So, your only way now, is forward!
Still, your anger have to subside at a time. You cannot live with anger your whole life, because this can and will bring you harm in your life.
My questions to you, are these:
What makes you think that holding to this anger, you will transform your life, or the world, to something more akin to what you or we want? What makes you think that your anger will not betray you, when you mostly don’t need, or need it? What makes you think that you can advance in your life, while clinging to this anger, letting it burn you from the inside out?Quit your anger, brother. It will not do you any good.
Accept that you cannot change anything, but yourself, so start by that…
Endure that you’ve been lied to, and armed with this knowledge, make sure that you will change your life to deal with it in your own terms.But first, you have to know who you are…
So, enjoy the travel!"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.
I take on board what you are saying.
Today I spent 3-4 hours deep in seething fury because my ex wife metaphorically cut my b~~~~ off.I have had to swallow the s~~~ that came my way.
But my RPR is volcanic. And will be for quite some time to come. Some days I’m fine while others I am not.
Rationalisation helps but fury is fury.
Anyway – f~~~ it.
The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius
Its a good point that too much anger just makes us bitter. We should all be wary of enjoying our anger or feeding it.
Giving it up can be asking a lot though. I think the time has to be right. The anger has to flower and then fruit before it dies. The fruit of the anger can be the personal transformation and self knowledge.
My own red pill rage came on over a decade ago and much of the anger has gone now. I usually think it has all gone but I bet something can come to trigger it off in me again -usually some feminists law being passed or some feminist saying something really misandrist and being praised. I think it is good to be aware of the destructive potential of anger but it can also give energy towards personal transformation. It certainly drove me.
A man’s character is only really solid when he has been forged in the fires.
Anger is a stage of grief and a lot of the anger of the red pill rage is grief for the blue pill dream into which a man invested all he was and all he hoped to be. I think it is a stage most of us need to pass through.
A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own
Anonymous14I think letting out anger is healthy. It is always the quiet man who holds it all in who one day snaps and goes on some insane rampage. It is like pressure in a boiler, sometimes you got to let some steam out.
This place will always have anger and rage, as there will always be newly red pilled guys coming here and letting out some steam, because everywhere else they go they are censored and shamed. This is ground zero, get used to the heat, just hold your hands out and warm them while you smile.
Anger serves a purpose when it is focused and channeled into self-improvement, or when it acts as a motivator to go do the things that need to get done in the short term. But, in the long term, it’s not an ideal state. For me, the anger has faded and been replaced with peace as I’ve accomplished more and more things I never could have done when I was married. It takes time… and a conscious decision to accept what cannot be changed.
A man’s character is only really solid when he has been forged in the fires.
I whole-heartedly agree to this, but remember:
Steel is soft when it is heated. In order to become stronger, you have to cool off, so you can see things from perspective, in order to learn and not make the same mistake again.I agree that anger, when applied correctly, is a great transformation tool, hence I don’t have any problems with the RPR, given that it is a cathartic process to let the bulls~~~ out of your “systems”.
My problem is with the SUSTAINED state of RPR.
“Volcanic” states of RPR is common. I still have my episodes of it, as I think everyone does so too, but keeping the RPR going strong for YEARS, without letting it cool off, is dangerous. I have seen a few examples, over these years that I have been part of this movement. And it always ended up badly.
I remember when the mythical MGTOW content creator called “Dark Knight” said: (not with these exact words) “We have to go beyond MGTOW. We have to go beyond the RPR.”.
"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.
Nowadays I view life like Dante; as the Divine Comedy.
Life starts as The Inferno, men gets shafted in many ways through The Purgatorio, and after the Red Pill Rage transfer to The Paradiso.
So to me, I view men going through Red Pill Rage as something temporary and they need to know it’ll end, and plan for what happens once they’re through. To plan for how you’re going to be trapped in Red Pill Rage is destructive, and the single most important thing to end it is to let things go.
"Expecting to find a decent woman on a dating site is like dumpster diving and expecting to come out with a gourmet meal." Won'tGetFooledAgain
A man’s character is only really solid when he has been forged in the fires.
I whole-heartedly agree to this, but remember:
Steel is soft when it is heated. In order to become stronger, you have to cool off, so you can see things from perspective, in order to learn and not make the same mistake again.I agree that anger, when applied correctly, is a great transformation tool, hence I don’t have any problems with the RPR, given that it is a cathartic process to let the bulls~~~ out of your “systems”.
My problem is with the SUSTAINED state of RPR.
“Volcanic” states of RPR is common. I still have my episodes of it, as I think everyone does so too, but keeping the RPR going strong for YEARS, without letting it cool off, is dangerous. I have seen a few examples, over these years that I have been part of this movement. And it always ended up badly.
I remember when the mythical MGTOW content creator called “Dark Knight” said: (not with these exact words) “We have to go beyond MGTOW. We have to go beyond the RPR.”.
I like what you are saying. I appreciate your kindness and advice towards your fellow men.
Thankyou.
The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius
Anonymous3There are only two ways to deal with anger: repression or expression.
Most emotions must be repressed for social reasons. But if we repress to much then it becomes all bottled up, until the day you cannot control it anymore.
That is why I would recommend expressing emotional energy in an acceptable and controllable way: martial arts, weapons practice, competition sports. Sometimes things as simple as walking in nature can help.
I would be careful about bottling up things, in this I fully agree with the OP.
Better rage than simp.
If rage is the only way I can keep myself away from blue pill I take it.
To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.
Anonymous54Easier said than done.
But anger will ruin your life.
One way or the other.Try this..
You know what bitch, you win.
Moveing on…
I appreciate what you are tying to say, but I think its a bit simplistic. Anger can be used for great things. It can propel you to do something you wouldn’t otherwise have done, and while that can be very bad, it can also lead to drastic change that is needed or generate shock value nobody expects.
Its true that emotions cloud judgement and anger is no exception to that, and we should always try and control that part of ourselves.
Anger can lead to passion, and passion can make you achieve amazing things. Trying to find a balance between anger and judgement is the key.
Saying you shouldn’t be mad at what SHOULD make you mad is as irresponsible as pretending nothing is wrong when the world is burning.
“The only thing it takes for evil to triumph, is that good men do nothing”
If anger makes you do something then seethe in it.
That’s my view anyway.
You want to make me angry? I will take a bite out of that anger and shit out success.
I think part of the struggle to avoid the RPR is the fact that as men we are not taught how to deal with our rage, and another part of the struggle is we know it is there, we know it is lurking in the background waiting to come back, and it does come back at times… and often those times are when we lash out and post.
Maybe we’re all just programmed to deal with it differently.
I know today I was upset but not raging, while reading texts on my wife’s phone… but it easily could have turned to rage. I’m more than a year into my MGTOW journey and just got a get out of jail free card handed to me by fate… so maybe I’m not the best one to speak about it.
No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.
B~~~~ deep yesterday. Today is a possibility. Of course I’ll go for it.
No loss if it doesn’t happen. At least I’ll get my sleep. I pay for everything, I may as well get my nut off.
Stoic, monk would be best, but like long lost @Stealthy I have to be cool. So here I am, cool like Fonzi.
Give it up or GTFO.
Either way, I always know where I stand.
I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.
There’s nothing wrong with having, and dealing with red pill rage. Where it becomes an issue to one’s personal growth is when they wallow in it. When they allow it to consume themselves so much that being in that state becomes a comfortable familiarity and the drama that comes with it. That’s why it’s imperative to put your rage behind you quickly, that you do not spend too much time in your mind. Bad things happen there. It’s okay to visit, but not an okay place to set up shop and rent.
Anonymous54So here I am, cool like Fonzi.
My Role Model!!!
A..
Anonymous42Rage is a failure of temperance.
Temper the rage and you become steel hard and unmovable! Nothing can knock you off your center! You become solid as bedrock!
Control your emotions and you control the world.
Loose control of your emotions and the world controls you.
Anonymous43For me it is the indifference by police when I had been assaulted by my wife, the indifference by the police when I was tracked, followed and chased, almost run down in a parking lot and intimidated by Chad Thunderc~~~, and the use of the court to crush me and the injustice in the divorce court. Had I been acting the way the c~~~ behaved I would probably be put on death row. Moving 900 miles away saved my life.
I was stabbed, reported it to police, and was told I would be put in “protective custody” while the investigation was carried out…meaning I would be put in jail for safe keeping while the c~~~ fabricates some bulls~~~, thus putting me in jail permanently.
Tracking devices and car chases? She put tracking devices on my car, and admitted to doing so in front of city, county, state police and FBI, and falsely accused of kidnapping my kids to Mexico. No charges filed against her, I was allowed to leave, but gave up my parenting time with my children that weekend. She chased me all the way to a police station, turns out we were both on the phone to the police dispatch wanting to swear out complaints against each other. God damn c~~~ chased me through town while I was picking up my dry cleaning, getting a hair cut and having lunch. What the actual f~~~?
Why was I called into court every week for 6 years? Why did divorcing a stay at home dad with no assets turn into a huge s~~~ show costing me $300,000? Why was I called back to court two hours after arriving in Florida to attend a funeral, only to drive all the way back to Chicago just to confirm my email address? Why was I called into court from a camping trip in Utah to come back to Chicago to answer to stalking, trespassing damage to property, disorderly conduct and other bulls~~~ that took place while I was a week into a 2 week camping bike trip with 30 other people? No repercussions for the c~~~. Why wasn’t the c~~~ put in jail for taking my children out of the country without my knowledge? No repercussions for the c~~~. What ever divorce decree violations the c~~~ did, there was no penalty…f~~~, she skipped court 11 times, her motion to collect $700 from me cost me $11,000 in legal fees, no repercussion for skipping her own f~~~ing motion. If I failed to appear, I would have a SWAT team kicking in my door and I’d be shot. Why was a retroactive child support order far in excess of what I could afford allowed to go forward and make me homeless for 5 months?
F~~~ women, f~~~ the courts and the agents who carry out the vindictive bulls~~~ vendettas against their ex husbands. F~~~ women who poison children against their own fathers and drive good men away. F~~~ the society that turns a blind eye to this s~~~. Everyone knows a man who was assraped in divorce court, this is not a secret. F~~~ it all, let the s~~~ burn to the f~~~ing ground. Women want to take over the world and make men illegal, fine, do it. Just f~~~ing do it and end my suffering. Feminists want men dead, fine, kill us all. Stop talking about it. Women out number men, vote in the laws that will finally set women free to do whatever. Just do it already, I am so sick of the pussy hat marches, feminism bulls~~~ in the news and the internet censorship of anything a man has to say. F~~~ it all up the ass and out the right eye socket.
F~~~ all the fake #metoo f~~~wit women. You get f~~~ed by a man, report it that day, that f~~~ing day. Let the cops sort it out. No police report, It didn’t f~~~ing happen. End of story. EEEEEH he touched me 30 years ago, I just remembered is such bulls~~~. Logically it is bulls~~~, emotionally, it has all the merit required for men to be wrecked even if nothing was ever proven.
F~~~ all of the women to hell, every single one of them. I can not get rid of this red pill rage, it pops up once in a while, and I just want to scream but I cant. I’ll be arrested for disorderly conduct or hate speech, or some other stupid thing. I can’t look at women as beautiful creatures, or a helpmate for man. I see a nasty poison filled meathole, a hand with a cell phone ready to dial 911, a vile mouth spewing lies, and ready to walk into a door to look like she took a beating from her man. The other hand is in my wallet taking money and resources, and a third hand is there spermjacking me, smearing my man goo in her c~~~ to make an oops baby. Oh look a baybeeeee awww how cute. That will be $1,000,000 please spread out over 216 payments. Oh and look, Chad and a couple orbiters f~~~ing my woman when I’m not looking or at work paying for the house and the bed the c~~~ is f~~~ing her chads and f~~~boi in.
Marriage ought to be illegal. Why would any man get married anymore is beyond my reasoning power. I got married because I thought I loved the c~~~ and she loved me, f~~~ing spermjacking c~~~. I married the bitch for my innocent child. Not once in 11 years did I ever tell that c~~~ how I felt about being spermjacked. F~~~ing c~~~. F~~~ing me for f~~~ing her in the first place with condoms with holes in them. I never thought she would do that., But there it is. The root cause of all the misery and pain in my life was my choice to sit at the same table as her in 1995. I was lonely, and politely asked to sit with her and talk to her. I needed a time traveler to magically appear and split my head open with a rusty ax at that point in my life, and spare me the next 20 something years of frustration and pain. Cleve my skull with an ax. Perfect.
Red pill rage is betrayal, frustration and regret all wrapped up in a bitter pill. I gotta choke that f~~~er down every morning with my tea. F~~~ing pill is as big as a football, and it goes down hard.
Anonymous54For me it is the indifference by police when I had been assaulted by my wife, the indifference by the police when I was tracked, followed and chased, almost run down in a parking lot and intimidated by Chad Thunderc~~~, and the use of the court to crush me and the injustice in the divorce court. Had I been acting the way the c~~~ behaved I would probably be put on death row. Moving 900 miles away saved my life.
I was stabbed, reported it to police, and was told I would be put in “protective custody” while the investigation was carried out…meaning I would be put in jail for safe keeping while the c~~~ fabricates some bulls~~~, thus putting me in jail permanently.
Tracking devices and car chases? She put tracking devices on my car, and admitted to doing so in front of city, county, state police and FBI, and falsely accused of kidnapping my kids to Mexico. No charges filed against her, I was allowed to leave, but gave up my parenting time with my children that weekend. She chased me all the way to a police station, turns out we were both on the phone to the police dispatch wanting to swear out complaints against each other. God damn c~~~ chased me through town while I was picking up my dry cleaning, getting a hair cut and having lunch. What the actual f~~~?
Why was I called into court every week for 6 years? Why did divorcing a stay at home dad with no assets turn into a huge s~~~ show costing me $300,000? Why was I called back to court two hours after arriving in Florida to attend a funeral, only to drive all the way back to Chicago just to confirm my email address? Why was I called into court from a camping trip in Utah to come back to Chicago to answer to stalking, trespassing damage to property, disorderly conduct and other bulls~~~ that took place while I was a week into a 2 week camping bike trip with 30 other people? No repercussions for the c~~~. Why wasn’t the c~~~ put in jail for taking my children out of the country without my knowledge? No repercussions for the c~~~. What ever divorce decree violations the c~~~ did, there was no penalty…f~~~, she skipped court 11 times, her motion to collect $700 from me cost me $11,000 in legal fees, no repercussion for skipping her own f~~~ing motion. If I failed to appear, I would have a SWAT team kicking in my door and I’d be shot. Why was a retroactive child support order far in excess of what I could afford allowed to go forward and make me homeless for 5 months?
F~~~ women, f~~~ the courts and the agents who carry out the vindictive bulls~~~ vendettas against their ex husbands. F~~~ women who poison children against their own fathers and drive good men away. F~~~ the society that turns a blind eye to this s~~~. Everyone knows a man who was assraped in divorce court, this is not a secret. F~~~ it all, let the s~~~ burn to the f~~~ing ground. Women want to take over the world and make men illegal, fine, do it. Just f~~~ing do it and end my suffering. Feminists want men dead, fine, kill us all. Stop talking about it. Women out number men, vote in the laws that will finally set women free to do whatever. Just do it already, I am so such of the pussy hat marches, feminism bulls~~~ in the news and the internet censorship of anything a man has to say. F~~~ it all up the ass and out the right eye socket.
F~~~ all the fake #metoo f~~~wit women. You get f~~~ed by a man, report it that day, that f~~~ing day. Let the cops sort it out. No police report, It didn’t f~~~ing happen. End of story. EEEEEH he touched me 30 years ago, I just remembered is such bulls~~~. Logically it is bulls~~~, emotionally, it has all the merit required for men to be wrecked even if nothing was ever proven.
F~~~ all of the women to hell, every single one of them. I can not get rid of this red pill rage, it pops up once in a while, and I just want to scream but I cant. I’ll be arrested for disorderly conduct or hate speech, or some other stupid thing. I can’t look at women as beautiful creatures, or a helpmate for man. I see a nasty poison filled meathole, a hand with a cell phone ready to dial 911, a vile mouth spewing lies, and ready to walk into a door to look like she took a beating from her man. The other hand is in my wallet taking money and resources, and a third hand is there spermjacking me, smearing my man goo in her c~~~ to make an oops baby. Oh look a baybeeeee awww how cute. That will be $1,000,000 please spread out over 216 payments. Oh and look, Chad and a couple orbiters f~~~ing my woman when I’m not looking or at work paying for the house and the bed the c~~~ is f~~~ing her chads and f~~~boi in.
Marriage ought to be illegal. Why would any man get married anymore is beyond my reasoning power. I got married because I thought I loved the c~~~ and she loved me, f~~~ing spermjacking c~~~. I married the bitch for my innocent child. Not once in 11 years did I ever tell that c~~~ how I felt about being spermjacked. F~~~ing c~~~. F~~~ing me for f~~~ing her in the first place with condoms with holes in them. I never thought she would do that., But there it is. The root cause of all the misery and pain in my life was my choice to sit at the same table as her in 1995. I was lonely, and politely asked to sit with her and talk to her. I needed a time traveler to magically appear and split my head open with a rusty ax at that point in my life, and spare me the next 20 something years of frustration and pain. Cleve my skull with an ax. Perfect.
Red pill rage is betrayal, frustration and regret all wrapped up in a bitter pill. I gotta choke that f~~~er down every morning with my tea. F~~~ing pill is as big as a football, and it goes down hard.
So what are you so angry about?
KIDDING!!!The bitch will burn in Hell!
Anonymous43um sorry. im a little goddammed f~~~ing outraged right now, maybe I’ll feel better after the next century after I am dead and buried. F~~~ all the bitches.
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