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The other day my wife said to me, “I don’t want to lose you!”
Now back in my mangina days I would have thought that she meant I was important to her. Thanks to MGTOW I now understand that what she really meant was, “I don’t want to lose you as a source of resources and validation.”
What are some of the other things women say when they really mean something else?
“I’m only trying to help” = I am kicking you while you’re down, and I’m enjoying it, because I know I’ll get away with it just by pretending that my criticism is “constructive”.
“I believe in equality” = I believe you owe me something, and I’m entitled to take a s~~~ on you because of that.
You say "love is a temple, love the higher law" ...You ask me to enter, but then you make me crawl. And I can't be holding on to what you got, when all you got is hurt
“jabber jabber jabber jabber”
translation: ????
s~~~s given: 0.00
We only dream this bondage. Wake up and let it go. - Vivekananda
I love you = I want something from you.
“jabber jabber jabber jabber”
translation: ????
s~~~s given: 0.00
exactly. f~~~ what these t~~~s have to say.
What they say: “I’m not hungry right now.”
I just don’t want to seem like a pig in public.2. What they say: “It’s fine.”
What they actually mean: I would appreciate if we could have a looooooong conversation about how you don’t value my point of view and you being all this inconserate jerk about blah blah the other day blah blah bla and you yaddy yaddy yadda…3. What they say: “I just want a guy that makes me laugh.”
What they actually mean: I just want a hot guy who s~~~s money all say long and f~~~s me like there’s no tomorrow everyday… and if he laughs at his stupid jokes he won’t be laughing too long.4. What they say: “Ugh, what a creep.”
What they actually mean: Ugh, he’s broke.5. What they say: “He’s such a stalker.”
What they acutally mean: He refused to pay for my lunch once.6. What they say: “It’s whatever.”
What they actually mean: I have no brain to form a complete sentence.7. What they say: “Sorry, I’m just PMSing right now.”
What they actually mean: “I would not actually tell you when my period is, but it’s a handy excuse.8. What they say: “I like him, but-”
But he has no money or job right now.9. What they say: “I don’t even like him anymore.”
What they actually mean: He’s difficult to control.10. What they say: “He’s nice.”
What they actually mean: I have verified his story. He doesn’t live with his mother, goes to work everyday, pays for dinner, got me a necklace… he’s definitely Plantation material.11. What they say: “Do you think he’s cute?”
What they actually mean: Do you think he’s a fool with money?12. What they say: “I have nothing to wear.”
Time to hit that credit card for all it’s worth.13. What they say: “I don’t care where we go to eat.”
What they actually mean: It better be a 4-star restaurant or I’ll dump you.14. What they say: *Screams bloody murder*
What they actually mean: The toilet paper is put wrong.15. What they say: “I want to take it slow.”
What they actually mean: I still got Chad and Gary who are still perfectly viable as a source of income.16.What they say: “You don’t know my birthday?”
What they actually mean: You should worship every word that comes out my mouth.17. What they say: I wish my stomach was flatter/ butt was smaller/ thighs didn’t touch.”
What they actually mean: I saw this “nice” guy the other night and he didn’t even smile at me!18.. What they say: We mutually decided to end it.”
What they actually mean: “He left me because I was crazy.19. What they say: “We’re cordial.”
What they actually mean: I f~~~ing hate him.2o. What they say: “I don’t know why girls don’t like me.”
What they actually mean: I’m a bitch to everyone but my cat.21. What they say: “I’m not like other girls.”
What they actually mean: I’m worse than any other girl you’ve ever met.22. What they say: “I’m a guy’s girl.”
What they actually mean: I can only control guys, but long enough to get what I want tho.23. What they say: “I’m so awkward, lol.”
What they actually mean: Can’t wait to introduce you to Ms. Psycho.Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!
Anonymous0Hi Muddy Wolf,
Understanding womanspeak – corresponds a bit to our thread here
/forums/topic/what-are-the-worst-lies-a-woman-ever-told-you/Enjoy it.
Womanspeak, “You don’t have to do that chore, right now.”
Translation, “Do that chore soon, or I will make you suffer. But, do not do the chore too soon, especially in my presence, or I will make you suffer, all the same.”
It should be noted that for a woman, soon is anything from a second to a month. Which every suits their needs, as this is just another s~~~ test by them.
In such cases, I just do the chore right then. Like ripping off a bandaid. It is less painful over all to just do it as quickly as possible, and get it over with.
When a woman gets upset about this, my response is. “If you don’t want me to do the chore, than don’t ask me too.” Surprisingly that shuts most of the women up. Because they would be complaining about me doing something she immediately asked me to do. When women ask men to do something, women expect a reply of either a, ‘no’, or ‘maybe later’. In which case the woman gets the chance to complain. Women do not expect someone to immediately do something.
And women rarely ask me to do things because they know I am not going to play their little games. I will just do the job and move on. While ignoring them.
In addition, when a woman tried to continue to their s~~~ tests by making the chores overly complicated. Instead, I just do the chores the easiest way possible. And when a woman complains, I replied, “If you don’t like the way I am doing something, then don’t ask me to do it.”
That also shuts a woman up.
What are some of the other things women say when they really mean something else?
“I love you but I’m not IN love with you.” – I need you to feed me and make my life interesting but I’m going to f~~~ someon else.
Why would you even bother with understanding womanspeak?Better spend your time talking to rocks than to women.
Used to be known among men in the old days as doublespeak. They knew women often meant the opposite of what they said.
I don’t wanna understand something I don’t give a flying ass mole with hair
A more useful translation:
Anything your wife says = “Eventually, I will f~~~ing destroy you. I will sink my claws into you, and take everything you have or will ever earn. I will wreck your f~~~ing life. I may also have you arrested if that suits my plans. I will lie constantly, not only to you, but to courts, your children, your family, your employers. I will defame you and destroy your reputation. I will cheat on you, and may bring home STDs. I will act like a child, often, and do fantastically stupid and destructive things, to you, (children if any), and myself. I will be incapable of simple logic. You will rue the day you met me.”
"You can either love women, or understand women. You can't do both. Because once you understand women, you realize that there is really nothing to love."
A more useful translation:
Anything your wife says = “Eventually, I will f~~~ing destroy you. I will sink my claws into you, and take everything you have or will ever earn. I will wreck your f~~~ing life. I may also have you arrested if that suits my plans. I will lie constantly, not only to you, but to courts, your children, your family, your employers. I will defame you and destroy your reputation. I will cheat on you, and may bring home STDs. I will act like a child, often, and do fantastically stupid and destructive things, to you, (children if any), and myself. I will be incapable of simple logic. You will rue the day you met me.”
You left out that last part.
The woman, “And best of all (for her), society and the law will support me as I do all this to you.”
“I need Space” = I need space without you in it as I am monkey branching and f~~~ing this guy I met on Facebook.
“I love you, i’m just not in love with you” = I checked out of this relationship a long time ago, I only stayed with you until I could monkey branch and find someone new. I have been f~~~ing him for a while now, but I don’t want people to think it is my fault we split. I will let everyone think we just grew apart or make up some bulls~~~ about you not bringing me flowers often enough.
“I am not happy” = Even though I thought I wanted a long term relationship I am bored of you I and worried about the Sexual Market Value of my pussy and need validation from other men. I want to jump back on the c~~~ carousel before it is too late.
For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
“I need Space” = I need space without you in it as I am monkey branching and f~~~ing this guy I met on Facebook.
“I love you, i’m just not in love with you” = I checked out of this relationship a long time ago, I only stayed with you until I could monkey branch and find someone new. I have been f~~~ing him for a while now, but I don’t want people to think it is my fault we split. I will let everyone think we just grew apart or make up some bulls~~~ about you not bringing me flowers often enough.
“I am not happy” = Even though I thought I wanted a long term relationship I am bored of you I and worried about the Sexual Market Value of my pussy and need validation from other men. I want to jump back on the c~~~ carousel before it is too late.
There is a question I have been meaning to ask, I was just not sure how to approach it, and your statement is the best opportunity.
I wonder, from MGTOW members coming from broken relationships. How many of the girlfriends and wives tried to save your relationships, even if it was so much as the suggestions some sexual experimentation to spice up the relationship? Did any of the women ever try put any effect in repairs, before they left?
There is a question I have been meaning to ask, I was just not sure how to approach it, and your statement is the best opportunity.
I wonder, from MGTOW members coming from broken relationships. How many of the girlfriends and wives tried to save your relationships, even if it was so much as the suggestions some sexual experimentation to spice up the relationship? Did any of the women ever try put any effect in repairs, before they left?
You have got to realise that men are pretty dumb when it comes to this sort of thing and really don’t see it coming. Women will have checked out of the relationship a long time ago and will have already monkey branched to the next guy before the breakup. This is why they can be so cold and calculated about the whole thing, they moved on a long time ago and have zero feeling for the guy they are about to dump.
The key giveaways are Sex and Communication. As soon as she is making excuses not to have sex with you or prefers to spend all night on Facebook than talk to you then you are done.
So in answer to your question, no she did nothing to try and save the relationship. Having an affair was so exciting that it was all she could think about. Everyday life is what kills marriages, when they are having an affair they don’t have to think of any of that with the new guy. It is all sneaky little text messages and lying so they can meetup for half an hour. They don’t have to hear him bitch about his job, smell his morning breath, hear him go to the toilet or wash his dirty underwear. It is a fantasy relationship which will eventually be exactly like her last relationship but women don’t seem to understand this. They just think the butterflies and excitement will never end.
Most women who are married are so bored they would throw it all away for 5 minutes of excitement.
For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
I wonder, from MGTOW members coming from broken relationships. How many of the girlfriends and wives tried to save your relationships, even if it was so much as the suggestions some sexual experimentation to spice up the relationship? Did any of the women ever try put any effect in repairs, before they left?
Sexual experimentation doesn’t save relationships any more than couples counseling does… it’s just an excuse to belittle the person you’re with, involve new people or to “prove” that things aren’t working. If your wife or girlfriend suddenly expresses an interest in a threesome, for example, she either has been or has been wanting to f~~~ around on you and is too much of a pussy to simply leave you. No, usually it’s “better” to trick the guy into letting her get with girls or cuckold him. And toys, bondage and fetish stuff is just cover for her wanting to explore herself with people and things that are not you.
Females always assume they will be the hot one that gets the focus of the action when things get kinky… so if you’re going to invite kink into your life, make sure the focus of it is on you 100% of the time… bring in a chick who is not into other chicks or take her to places where people already know you and aren’t going to be into whatever it is she’s trying to pull off. That’s how you shut down this kind of bulls~~~.
Females only want to fix relationships when they realize their social standing or economic welfare are on the line and they don’t have a new guy to jump to waiting in the wings. That’s why you always dump a chick at the first sign of trouble… if you wait for her to passive aggressively force you to end it, she’ll just go on to the next guy and give him everything you used to be getting,,, so don’t give her time to set up her next move and you leave her high and dry. Of course she won’t learn.a lesson but it can be fun to hear stories about how wrecked she is once you’ve thrown her out and she has to run home to her momma.
Females only want to fix relationships when they realize their social standing or economic welfare are on the line and they don’t have a new guy to jump to waiting in the wings
Well, I see I opened a door that I shouldn’t have. But, I was not talking about general theory. I was asking if any of the women in relationships, from the MGTOW, actually try to fix their relationships, before they left? Did the women try even once?
So in answer to your question, no she did nothing to try and save the relationship. Having an affair was so exciting that it was all she could think about.
Thank you for answering my question. I was just wondering if women were as shortsighted as I have see in my real life, and heard elsewhere. And I feel that a woman dumping a man, whom had a stable relationship with her, is like someone dumping their car, to buy a new car, because that person is tired of the paint job on their old car. At the end of the day doing so is shallow and shortsighted in the extreme. And such actions show a deeply root emotional immaturity from that person.
Females only want to fix relationships when they realize their social standing or economic welfare are on the line and they don’t have a new guy to jump to waiting in the wings. That’s why you always dump a chick at the first sign of trouble… if you wait for her to passive aggressively force you to end it, she’ll just go on to the next guy and give him everything you used to be getting,,, so don’t give her time to set up her next move and you leave her high and dry. Of course she won’t learn.a lesson but it can be fun to hear stories about how wrecked she is once you’ve thrown her out and she has to run home to her momma.
Agree 100% with this. My ex didn’t actually end it with me, it was only when I found out she had been flirting (and f~~~ing although she still denies this even though I have evidence) with other men I was forced to move out. She clearly wanted me gone a long time ago but didn’t want to be the one to end it as she would have seemed like the bad guy. This was she can tell everyone we just drifted apart and how I didn’t give her the attention she needed. That sounds a lot better than me catching her f~~~ing another guy she met through Facebook.
Thank you for answering my question. I was just wondering if women were as shortsighted as I have see in my real life, and heard elsewhere. And I feel that a woman dumping a man, whom had a stable relationship with her, is like someone dumping their car, to buy a new car, because that person is tired of the paint job on their old car. At the end of the day doing so is shallow and shortsighted in the extreme. And such actions show a deeply root emotional immaturity from that person.
Yup, very good Analogy, women have zero emotional maturity, why would they when they have had to take zero responsibility for anything in their life because Vagina. They always think the grass is greener and will dump a man because they think the new guy might be a bit more exciting. Why do you think the new iPhone 6S is available in Pink? It is pretty much the same as the old iPhone 6 but women are happy to upgrade because they believe they are getting something better. The fact that it is Pink just shows everyone how they have got the shiny new version.
Of course, eventually a lot of these women realise that the new man is exactly the same as the old one so they are no better off but life has become a whole lot more complicated. Women destroy their children’s lives to end up with a worse situation than they had before. They either then have to put up with it or rinse and repeat with progressively worse and worse men as their sexual market value decreases.
New boss, same as the old boss…….
For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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