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  • #512719
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    TheDude
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    So after a thirteen year relations~~~, I’ve been single for six months now. I’m no longer interested in marriage, babies, co-habiting etc… but I am still interested in casual sex with attractive females. The only problem is this… they’ve all become completely unapproachable to me now.

    It’s not a confidence issue, and I’m not a bad looking dude. It’s just the mere thought of having to deal with all the potential bulls~~~ that comes along with talking to a woman. eg… What if she cries rape?, what if she cries assault?, what if she becomes clingy?, what if gets on my nerves? what if she expects me to pay for s~~~? etc, etc.

    Then add their permanent resting bitch faces, smartphone addiction and general poor attitude, and you’re left with a person that is pretty much impossible to have any kind of contact with.

    I’ve known for a while now that marriage and relationships were fraught with danger, but I had no idea that even a casual encounter could be such a nerve wracking experience.

    I’ll never use a prostitute, and I’ll never use an app like Tinder… so it looks like sex is pretty much off the table for me now.

    Where have all the good men gone?… I’ll tell you honey… we’re f~~~ing hiding from you!.

    #512726
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    Anonymous
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    Yep. Actually, truth be told, I hated to approach even as a young man. Fortunately I mostly didn’t even have to, women mostly approached me, and then made things as easy as possible for me.

    But with hormones pumping, reason goes out the window, and you’re willing to deal with the bulls~~~.

    You get older…and then not so much. A man that isn’t married by 35 probably isn’t going to bother marrying at all. That’s one of the major reasons why the demographics cited seem to always be up to 34. Men reach the goal at 35, and if they’re free, they win. Women’s goal is to trap a man before the time limit expires.

    Modern women are pretty crappy at that. Especially since most don’t even start until the time is already beginning to run down.

    I wouldn’t bother approaching women and wasting your time unless your hormones drive you, in which case what I write won’t even matter to you.

    When a man’s reason controls him however, that is when he can truly achieve great things. And perhaps this is the reason women can not, since they never are guided by reason.

    #512729
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    Anonymous
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    ding! Winner Winner Chicken Dinner!!!!!

    Gotta love that red pill logic at work.

    Unapproachable. ya mean f~~~ing toxic!

    #512732
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    TheDude
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    Yep. Actually, truth be told, I hated to approach even as a young man. Fortunately I mostly didn’t even have to, women mostly approached me, and then made things as easy as possible for me.

    But with hormones pumping, reason goes out the window, and you’re willing to deal with the bulls~~~.

    You get older…and then not so much. A man that isn’t married by 35 probably isn’t going to bother marrying at all. That’s one of the major reasons why the demographics cited seem to always be up to 34. Men reach the goal at 35, and if they’re free, they win. Women’s goal is to trap a man before the time limit expires.

    I wouldn’t bother approaching women and wasting your time unless your hormones drive you, in which case what I write won’t even matter to you.

    I’m 35 in a few months 🙂

    The hormones only seem to kick in when I’m drunk. The other 95% of the time, I don’t really think about it.

    #512737
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    BrainPilot
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    good post,
    There was a time when getting a woman out of her clothes felt a lot like unwrapping a Christmas or birthday present when I was a kid. I tore through as fast as I could…

    Now, it feels more like opening a crate I got at an auction. I know very well the only reason I got this is that I was willing to pay more for it than EVERY other bidder out there at the time. And when I get the crate opened and see what’s inside, it just feels like I overpaid.

    I don’t even bid anymore…

    Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

    #512741
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    Anonymous
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    “She’s right behind us, RUN MAN!”

    mty

    #512743
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    TheDude
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    I think the nice weather is making things a bit more of challenge. Females nowadays know exactly how do dress and present themselves to get male sexual attention.

    The number of young hotties dressed like prostitutes is at an all time high here in the UK. Tight shorts, blow up dresses, thongs, low cut tops etc…

    Even though my red pill logic knows these things, sometimes the primitive sexual drive is just too strong.

    Honestly wish I could just turn off these feelings at will… then I would truly be free.

    #512755
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    Gargamel
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    Honestly wish I could just turn off these feelings at will… then I would truly be free.

    LOL.

    You are just one borderline relationship away from calling it quits forever…

    Once the red pill “total view” has gotten you, then you are a total loss for women’s plantation construction plans.

    Women, all they think about and all they do leads to the same end point: The enslavement and economical exploitation of a man on her plantation.

    Woman are “headhunters” for acquiring “personnel” skilled enough for “employment on her plantation:

    Men that are dumb and hormone driven enough to lick her ass but are still smart enough to make money for their female slave masters.

    We are no longer “Qualified”.

    Or why do “dates” have the same tone as “job interviews”?

    No love involved.

    C~~~s, go to work and f~~~ off…

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    #512767
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    Bagsofsand
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    good post,
    There was a time when getting a woman out of her clothes felt a lot like unwrapping a Christmas or birthday present when I was a kid. I tore through as fast as I could…

    Now, it feels more like opening a crate I got at an auction. I know very well the only reason I got this is that I was willing to pay more for it than EVERY other bidder out there at the time. And when I get the crate opened and see what’s inside, it just feels like I overpaid.

    I don’t even bid anymore…

    Yeah, the red pill digestion is BRUTAL, at first.
    I guess one has to see women for what they are: temporary entertainment that can please you if you pay by the hour.
    That’s the safe approach these days.

    Again, I’m looking forward to what technology can come up with in the near future.
    Real women and their ‘big brothers’ (the cucked society) are just too dangerous now.

    EDIT: to the female lurkers… you think I’m kidding? You don’t know S~~~ then.

    The horror stories and anecdotal evidence is increasing day by day.
    I just watched a MGTOW video on YT and I saw this in the ‘comments’ section:

    I dedicated 5 years to a single mother, pouring endless time, labour and money into her. She met a wealthier guy one day and took off literally hours later with no more than a txt msg saying, ‘I’ve decided to go in a different direction,’ this only days after telling me I was the ‘love of her life.’ Women are incapable of love; love is a hazard to her leeching survival instinct. Women only love your resources.

    Thousands of these comments can be found on YT alone.
    Really it’s not only on MGTOW videos, they’re popping up everywhere now.

    #512786
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    TheDude
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    Honestly wish I could just turn off these feelings at will… then I would truly be free.

    LOL.

    You are just one borderline relationship away from calling it quits forever…

    Once the red pill “total view” has gotten you, then you are a total loss for women’s plantation construction plans.

    Women, all they think about and all they do leads to the same end point: The enslavement and economical exploitation of a man on her plantation.

    Woman are “headhunters” for acquiring “personnel” skilled enough for “employment on her plantation:

    Men that are dumb and hormone driven enough to lick her ass but are still smart enough to make money for their female slave masters.

    We are no longer “Qualified”.

    Or why do “dates” have the same tone as “job interviews”?

    No love involved.

    C~~~s, go to work and f~~~ off…

    Trust me, I see it all for what it really is. I will never have a relationship with a woman, as I know everything they do is a manipulation to recruit a man for his resources. I may be new here but I’ve been reading MGTOW philosophy for a few years now.

    However, lets not kid ourselves that we no longer find them physically attractive. I bet even the redist pilled MGTOW, wouldn’t mind some no-strings sex from time to time.

    A man that has these thoughts isn’t suddenly “licking a womans ass” or “becoming her slave”. It’s just a simple biological drive, completely separate from any logical reasoning.

    I suppose this is why some guys on here still continue to have sex with women. As long as you’re smart and maintain logic/objectivity, it should be possible without too many repercussions.

    Or maybe I’m kidding myself.

    #512788
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    Anonymous
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    You are just one borderline relationship away from calling it quits forever

    That’s exactly what got my red pill ball rolling.

    For me, it’s not so much they’re unapproachable. It’s just none meet my criteria which is simply only not be some f~~~ing adult toddler and don’t cheat.

    #512789
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    Constantine
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    What if she cries rape?, what if she cries assault?

    Do you have a voice recorder on your phone? Best to keep it functioning if you plan on going home with a woman (though granted, sometimes not even that works).

    I’m no longer interested in marriage, babies

    Then you might want to consider a vasectomy, if you haven’t already. Or at least make sure that you stick hot sauce in a condom after usage. You’d be amazed what they can work their way around. Or maybe you wouldn’t…

    To see what is in front of one's nose requires a constant struggle. -Orwell

    #512792
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    Aragorn
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    One borderline relationship away to call it quits forever…

    A word momentous calmly hast thou spoken my friend!

    If you change the rules on what controls you, you will change the rules on what you can control

    #512811
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    Awakened
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    However, lets not kid ourselves that we no longer find them physically attractive. I bet even the redist pilled MGTOW, wouldn’t mind some no-strings sex from time to time.

    A man that has these thoughts isn’t suddenly “licking a womans ass” or “becoming her slave”. It’s just a simple biological drive, completely separate from any logical reasoning.

    I suppose this is why some guys on here still continue to have sex with women. As long as you’re smart and maintain logic/objectivity, it should be possible without too many repercussions.

    Or maybe I’m kidding myself.

    I know you’re not into pro’s, but other than that, every other way of POTENTIALLY “no string sex” provides MANY possible hazards.

    MAYBE you could try and find a “friends With Benefits” arrangement, but that too can turn into a nightmare as you’re still TRUSTING a WOMEN to not yell Rape, get jealous/possessive, turn psycho etc. etc. etc.

    Even if none of these things happen, being “friends” still implies a time commitment other then the bedroom.

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    #512822
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    BrainPilot
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    Dude,
    It is a biologically driven hormone fueled drive. and it doesn’t require good behavior from women to drive us. Male hormones peak somewhere between 15 and 30. Mine felt like they peaked damn near every day during that time for me. But somewhere around early 30s, they start to decline. But for most of us, our ability to earn and acquire resources starts with our first job in our teens and climbs steadily thereafter until we retire somewhere in our 60s. There comes a point in life when at say, age 50 or so, men start to think about retirement in financial terms. I’m about there now. As I’ve approached this point financially, I’ve started to look rationally at what I need to be able to retire, when I can retire, how much per month I’ll need to retire… etc. There are a few different scenarios but all of them are going to be possible in the next few years.

    None of them is realistic if a have to do a 50-50 split of assets, or 18 years of child support.

    NONE.

    I still have the hormones, although not like I did as a 25 year old. But I also have a very clear perception of how hard I’ve worked to get here. At this point, Helen of Troy and Athena herself could drop down from Mt Olympus in G-strings, stripper heels and fishnets and offer me threesome…

    There is no amount of hormones that will over ride my concern for my own financial well being. Depending on your age, hormone level and proximity to retirement age, you might not have that same ratio of conflicting motivations. But no matter where you are in this equation, sooner or later the hormones lose in the struggle for influence.

    You will still have them and can still act on them. But it will be an OPTION in your mind, not a necessity.

    Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

    #512824
    +8

    Anonymous
    42

    tch, tch, Roger that TANGO DELTA five niner niner, we have you in sight, you’re cleared for final and landing on NONEWAY NONE ZERO. tch,,

    #512837
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    Eric Lauder
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    So after a thirteen year relations~~~, I’ve been single for six months now. I’m no longer interested in marriage, babies, co-habiting etc… but I am still interested in casual sex with attractive females. The only problem is this… they’ve all become completely unapproachable to me now.

    It’s not a confidence issue, and I’m not a bad looking dude. It’s just the mere thought of having to deal with all the potential bulls~~~ that comes along with talking to a woman. eg… What if she cries rape?, what if she cries assault?,

    That’s nonsensical.
    Women cry rape in those cases:
    Real rape
    Revenge against you
    Getting your house/resources
    An unknown woman lacks the 2nd and the 3rd motivation.
    Rape is when a beta/unattractive man use the force or deception to get sex from her.
    If you make her aroused, then you can do what you want: the only way to “rape” her when she’s aroused is rejecting her at the very last time.

    what if she becomes clingy?, what if gets on my nerves?

    Self-control and benefits/costs analysis, some people gets on my nerves when I’m at job. I maintain self-control because I need the job, otherwise I would say them “f~~~ off”. Same with a woman: if she gets on your nerve all that matters is if you still want/need her pussy or not.

    what if she expects me to pay for s~~~?

    Don’t pay.

    I’ll never use a prostitute, and I’ll never use an app like Tinder… so it looks like sex is pretty much off the table for me now.

    Same here, no sex work, no tinder.
    If you really want have sex with women then you have to have a lot of social life, be somewhat chatty (about things that are uncommon arguments, mind), and you’ll have women sending you signals. Signals are, in order of importance:
    Starting conversations
    Smiling
    Laughing for almost everything you say
    Touching you – that is the most important thing. Physical contact mean she’s aroused, most times.
    I don’t even take in consideration the first three.

    Where have all the good men gone?…

    “Good men” is buzzword for beta willing to sacrifice for her.
    It’s unrelated with having casual sex.
    A woman complaining about “where have all good men gone” hardly it’s casual sex material.

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    #512847
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    Bagsofsand
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    Same here, no sex work, no tinder.
    If you really want have sex with women then you have to have a lot of social life, be somewhat chatty (about things that are uncommon arguments, mind), and you’ll have women sending you signals. Signals are, in order of importance:
    Starting conversations
    Smiling
    Laughing for almost everything you say
    Touching you – that is the most important thing. Physical contact mean she’s aroused, most times.
    I don’t even take in consideration the first three.

    Well, f~~~ her signals. I will not have ‘a lot of social life’ in order to impress her, when I’m naturally introvert.
    I’m no mind reader either (sometimes her touching you doesn’t mean she wants to f~~~ you, – actually who knows what the F~~~ women wants – besides $$$ and fresh attention, of course).

    Sounds like a LOT of work. My dayjob is more than enough work, thank you.

    Lots of women are introverts too, the difference is they don’t have to impress a guy to make ‘human contact’ – they just have to be.

    #512851
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    Autolite
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    The hormones only seem to kick in when I’m drunk. The other 95% of the time, I don’t really think about it.

    Due to my age and the meds that I take my sex drive is pretty much now gone. And I don’t miss it either. I wouldn’t want it back. It was more of a liability than anything else…

    #512852
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    Atton
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    Just f~~~ a flesh light your dick can’t tell the difference.

    A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

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