Unapproachable

[IceBankMiceElfParticipant 124]

BrainPilot, I’m in a very similar situation as you. I still like looking at women and think about pussy a good bit, but I do have assets I have to protect and that thought always comes to mind first.

[TheStormWithinParticipant 778]

TheDude wrote:

So after a thirteen year relations~~~, I’ve been single for six months now. I’m no longer interested in marriage, babies, co-habiting etc… but I am still interested in casual sex with attractive females. The only problem is this… they’ve all become completely unapproachable to me now.

It’s not a confidence issue, and I’m not a bad looking dude. It’s just the mere thought of having to deal with all the potential bulls~~~ that comes along with talking to a woman. eg… What if she cries rape?, what if she cries assault?, what if she becomes clingy?, what if gets on my nerves? what if she expects me to pay for s~~~? etc, etc.

You put all of your stipulations out on the table very bluntly from the very start. No paying for s~~~, no fancy dates, no relationship, no complaints, no questions, etc. Just sex.

By no means will you find that the majority will go along with this. However, there are a significant number of women out there who either just got out of a relationship and want no part of another one anytime soon, but still want to f~~~. Or you simply have the type that don’t want to give up their single partying life for a relationship.

The closest I’ve ever had any of them change their mind was about 5 years ago, and it was no big deal. She asked if it was okay if we “snuggled” after the second time we had sex, and I told her it suggested too much affection for me. She left it alone after that.

Aunt Esther: Fred, I'll have you know this body was blessed by Mother Nature!! Fred: Well, too bad your face was cursed by Father Time!

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

To me the bottom line is :

Women dont give a f~~~ about us.

“Wonder Woman ” who rescues you from calamity and cares about your well being as a man and a human being is a fiction and a fraud .

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Gargamel wrote:

You are just one borderline relationship away from calling it quits forever

That’s exactly what got my red pill ball rolling.

For me, it’s not so much they’re unapproachable. It’s just none meet my criteria which is simply only not be some f~~~ing adult toddler and don’t cheat.

I like the Tom Leykis approach of the ever growing list of bulls~~~ from women he won’t tolerate. I do. I like it. Until that AWALT thing kicks in and I’m like “ehhhh. Keep walking girl.”

MgtowWave wrote:

To me the bottom line is :

Women dont give a f~~~ about us.

“Wonder Woman ” who rescues you from calamity and cares about your well being as a man and a human being is a fiction and a fraud .

And that woman that DOES exist, is more like the one from Avatar where she mocks you for being weak and useless.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

OldBill wrote:

TheDude wrote:

It’s just the mere thought of having to deal with all the potential bulls~~~ that comes along with talking to a woman.

Welcome to the Real World, brother.

Remember that horror movie They Live? You put on special glasses only to see the aliens living among us and the subliminal advertising they use to control us?

You just got your pair of glasses.

You’ve reached the epiphany. Your tipping point has occurred. You’re finally seeing through the programming. You’re coming to grips with the realization that women are not worth either the effort they demand or the risks they pose.

What’s even better, women are the ones who have taught you that they’re no longer worth the effort or risks.

Women are and always have been the best recruiters for MGTOW.

Welcome to the Real World, brother. Your journey starts now.

I love that movie. Rowdy Piper’s finest work.

[DanceMyOwnWayParticipant 2097]

TheDude wrote:

I think the nice weather is making things a bit more of challenge. Females nowadays know exactly how do dress and present themselves to get male sexual attention.

The number of young hotties dressed like prostitutes is at an all time high here in the UK. Tight shorts, blow up dresses, thongs, low cut tops etc…

Even though my red pill logic knows these things, sometimes the primitive sexual drive is just too strong.

Honestly wish I could just turn off these feelings at will… then I would truly be free.

Date enough cluster Bs and reason will prevail. Get a flashlight or use a pro. I have a Fwbs situation that has zero expectations on me other than some supportive company. She’s outside my standards for a relationship, is older but in decent shape, but treats me well. It serves a basic function, I like her but that’s it.I cut ties recently with an ex offering supposedly similar arrangements because she is a greater narcissist and absolutely toxic to my life (and was manipulating me into my old blue pill ways) Best to reach a point of disinterest. Since most women can’t treat a man properly for more than ten seconds, unless you are Chad, that will soon destroy your sex drive.

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

I’ve experienced this as well.

Your big brain is winning over your lizard brain.

When I see an attractive female now, I’ll get excited for maybe a few seconds.

Then the big brain takes over and the warning alarm goes off.

Lizard Brain: “Oh my I want to f~~~ that”
Big Brain: “Here is what will happen in a few months if you continue to see this girl.”
Lizard Brain: “Oh yea, thanks for reminding me.”

[IRuleMeParticipant]

TheStormWithin wrote:

TheDude wrote:

So after a thirteen year relations~~~, I’ve been single for six months now. I’m no longer interested in marriage, babies, co-habiting etc… but I am still interested in casual sex with attractive females. The only problem is this… they’ve all become completely unapproachable to me now.

It’s not a confidence issue, and I’m not a bad looking dude. It’s just the mere thought of having to deal with all the potential bulls~~~ that comes along with talking to a woman. eg… What if she cries rape?, what if she cries assault?, what if she becomes clingy?, what if gets on my nerves? what if she expects me to pay for s~~~? etc, etc.

You put all of your stipulations out on the table very bluntly from the very start. No paying for s~~~, no fancy dates, no relationship, no complaints, no questions, etc. Just sex.

Women don’t care about your stipulations. They give f~~~ all about them dude. Cemeteries around the planet are displaying the headstones of men that mistresses killed because they couldn’t have the man, even when the man was upfront about the relationship from the start and said that he would never leave his wife. Cemeteries around the world are also displaying the headstones of the dead wives of husbands killed by a mistress. Again, for the same reason – “I can’t have him so no one can”.

Play with women, and you’re playing with fire. There’s only one inevitable outcome if you play with fire.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

TheDude wrote:

Then add their permanent resting bitch faces, smartphone addiction and general poor attitude, and you’re left with a person that is pretty much impossible to have any kind of contact with.

Just had an exchange (days ago) with a woman on on another platform who was (and is still) trying to counter the MGTOW stance – by attempting to JUSTIFY being a bitchy behavior in a personal relationship. She actually thought this was acceptable.

She thought it was unreasonable for men to dump a woman/girlfriend who is anything else than warm, loving and kind.

You CAN NOT have a personal relationship with c~~~s like this.

TheDude wrote:

Where have all the good men gone?

Any woman who asks that stupid question doesn’t even deserve ONE – let alone her pick of “all” of them.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Keymaster wrote:

She thought it was unreasonable for men to dump a woman/girlfriend who is anything else than warm, loving and kind.

You CAN NOT have a personal relationship with c~~~s like this.

Prison uprisings and slaves breaking away from plantations always happened after conditions got too bad.

…When the guards became too violent and unjust or the slave masters didn’t get enough and the slaves were over worked and underfed…

Now – in 2017 and on – we men leave our female slave masters in biblical proportions.

Or we become smart enough to stay away from the trap called marriage and LTR…

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[Anonymous 6]

BrainPilot wrote:

I’m 35 in a few months
The hormones only seem to kick in when I’m drunk. The other 95% of the time, I don’t really think about it.

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The only part of the brain that is not affected by alcohol is the most primitive, instinctive part.

Anonymous wrote:

However, lets not kid ourselves that we no longer find them physically attractive. I bet even the redist pilled MGTOW, wouldn’t mind some no-strings sex from time to time.

Actually it’s just as common for men to have aversions to intimacy as it is for women. What people commonly refer to as “frigidity”.

Atton wrote:

Due to my age and the meds that I take my sex drive is pretty much now gone. And I don’t miss it either. I wouldn’t want it back. It was more of a liability than anything else…

Yeh me too, though I have always had an aversion to sex.

[BoneAshParticipant 109]

Why don’t you use a prostitute? With condom you should be not worried about diseases. Once in a while I like to have a good suck off without then I always choose girls closer to 18 to avoid the chance of getting any disease, while these bitches hit 30 most of them manage to get something anyway as they say “Whores always get f~~~ed in the end”.

Whats your problem with jerking off on porn, not much worse either and you dont have to do it for time 🙂

[UniquecornParticipant 48]

That’s pretty much the way I see it too. I also carry my wallet wrapped in tin foil inside a zip-lock freezer bag. Women are attracted by the scent of cash and credit cards…

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Hahahahahaha…that made me have a real belly laugh!

[UniquecornParticipant 48]

That’s pretty much the way I see it too. I also carry my wallet wrapped in tin foil inside a zip-lock freezer bag. Women are attracted by the scent of cash and credit cards…

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Hahahahahaha…that made me have a real belly laugh!

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