The "Real" reason why women desire to have children?

[Article-58Participant 155]

People typically refer to the woman’s desire to procreate as a biological hard wiring compulsion and not an articulated conscious rational decision.

I was once with a chic for four years until things started to go seriously South; but being young and haven’t quite caught on to women’s secret Psychology of covert behaviors I didn’t read the tell tale signs until it was all over.

What were the tell tale signs? I was in my mid 20’s and she was in her late 20’s, but I was like a rock that I didn’t want to marry or have children until I financially got on my feet because I’ve seen way to many divorces happen just two years after the first birth like clock work because they didn’t wait until they could financially afford it and didn’t take her expressed desires to have a child seriously. So naturally I didn’t understand that she was seeing the proverbial WALL coming at her and even told me so.

She was one of those kind of women that are not particularly Brite and would occasionally inadvertently blurt out the hidden truth behind her agendas and in this case said she wanted to have a child because she wanted something to love her “Unconditionally”! Not because she had the drive to perpetuate the species, but purely for the egocentric selfish reason of having a captured unconditional sycophant that “Needs” her!

When ever I pointed out that we have no money to have children at the moment and probably not for the next few years. She would counter with that it doesn’t matter because people always seem to manage somehow. Well needless to say she began seeing and f~~~ing someone else months later, a guy that just got out of the Navy and bristling with GI benefits! Like the proverbial clock work, just within a few years of getting married and popping out her joy toy she hit the “Eject Button” and divorced him!

Believe me, I was sooooo thankful I Dodged that Bullet!

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[DannyOtaku87Participant 35]

I just feel bringing children into this world, in the state we have it now, is a horrible and selfish idea. It’s for weak minded people who have failed in life and can’t exist w/o foisting their own ideals on another generation of useless morons. No kids for me ty.

[Article-58Participant 155]

I personally don’t subscribe to that because why let all the Morons procreate like bunny Rabbits and not produce any intelligent offspring to counter it?

But I do agree you’re likely to produce just another moron if you hook up with a typical Neurotic women!

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[DannyOtaku87Participant 35]

Hahahaha true have you ever seen the movie Idiocracy 2006?

 

[Article-58Participant 155]

Oh yeah, probably the scariest movie I’ve ever seen!

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[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Idiocracy – yes! I vividly remember the first time I watched – I had my jaw on the floor – like “holy f~~~!”

I take procreation and continuation of lineage very seriously. I love kids and always wanted as many kids as possible. That’s why swallowing red pills was and continues to be a very painful experience. But I will find the way around this problem somehow someway. One day. I’ll figure it out… on my terms, without signing contracts with the government or surrendering my b~~~~ and wallet to a female.

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[RoyDalParticipant]

@article-58,
I saw that married –> baby –> divorce cycle played out among my high school classmates when I was still in college. One slow learner was working on his 2nd divorce while I was a junior. Since then, I have concluded it is hard wired in women to produce kids and hard wired in men to knock them up. What else can explain such folly?

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

There is NOTHING more dangerous then a woman who wants kids …. EXCEPT a man that’s having pussy thrown at him.

Proof positive in the divorce courts.

We MUST find a way of not thinking with our dicks ….. or pray for the male pill.

More hope of the latter I fear.

[Anonymous 12]

I’ve known women who have been quite open about wanting to have children just so they can get out of working.

[Article-58Participant 155]

Exactly, I think it’s much more calculating than people give credit for.

And women get caught up in their own fantasies about how fun it’ll be and how much respect and sympathy they’ll get!

After all there’s nothing more sacred and cherished in society than motherhood,  especially a single mother because she’s viewed as a victim of a deadbeat husband even though it was her that initiated the divorce or intentionally made it a living hell to force a divorce!

 

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[BeeParticipant 700]

I think sometimes just seeing a baby can set off the same feelings as seeing a kitten or puppy. Especially the way they’re portrayed as adorable and in good moods most of the time… just like the kitten grows into a cat, the baby becomes a toddler, a child, a teenager, and young adult.

I also know that they use babies to keep men around, view being a SAHM as better than working (because it is).

[Article-58Participant 155]

It’s ALWAYS preferable to do something you enjoy than working at some nondescript wage slave job, especially when it’s only for your own personal offspring!

Plus it’s the best cover for getting out of other responsibilities because you “Didn’t have the time” because it was <span style=”line-height: 1.5;”>so hectic, exhausting, demanding, too huge of a work load. And then the big pay off in a short five years when they start public school and get all that free time to do nothing, or sooner with preschool!</span>

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[RennieParticipant]

To trap a man, they seem to take great joy in announcing the fact that they’re pregnant.

[WolfParticipant 890]

Why do women desire to have children? It’s self serving…

It gives them attention. It gives them a man’s resources. It gives them a reason not to work. Other reasons can be listed, but I think they could fit into one of the three I already mentioned.

[Article-58Participant 155]

I suspect it’s because most women know they have no real or substantial purpose in justifying their existence other than to procreate. Out side of that all most women can do is just consume everyone else’s  resources like two legged pets either of the male they’re with or of their serogot male, the Government!

 

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[SteveParticipant 462]

100% agree with Wolf.

1. Attention from family, friends, all of society.

2. Free money.

3. No work so more time to spend free money / create more drama and attention.

I’m fairly sure back in prehistory times it was a hard wired innate need, but now these modern times with rampant social media its a lot more cold and calculated environment driven.

 

 

[GunslingerParticipant 242]

Man I really want kids but my current/soon to be ex thankfully lost that feeling a few years back, and has stated she never wants them. Had we tried and had one right after marriage, it would make our current situation so much worse…hey something positive she contributed to our relationship!

[Colonel GaveAFuckParticipant 77]

My mom was a real piece of s~~~, she would do anything to start a problem, even if it was me, then go so far as to force me to comfort her, if I didn’t hug her, I got a spanking. Yeah, real eye opener when a grown woman starts a fake fight just so she can force you to hug her with threat of punishment… Women are crazy. avoid them like the plague.

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

Russky wrote:

I take procreation and continuation of lineage very seriously

Thing of it is… if we dodge this bullet in our lifetime, what does the future really matter when we won’t be around to witness it. And if you’re the type to ponder ‘reincarnation’  or ‘second chance’, it’s unlikely that we would grow up thinking it wasn’t the social norm.

It may sound self serving, or as far from altruistic as it comes but, man.. that state of current affairs needs to come to a grinding halt and reverse itself completely and permanently before I jump into the gene continuity pool.

 

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[UmbreonParticipant 152]

I have yet to see any woman want to have kids for a “valid” reason.

90% of the time it’s just because she was raised with baby dolls and told over and over again by her parents, teachers, and the media that she “needs a kid to feel complete” and that it’s the “best and most fulfilling thing she can do with her life”. Mix in the herd mentality when she gets to school age and now is surrounded by peers who are being brainwashed with the same crap at the same time and you see why this is pretty much everywhere. The end results are creatures who feel they must reproduce to be validated who then reproduce only to find that the “hole” is still there, so they get a divorce and repeat the process thinking it has to be the man’s fault as years of brainwashing can’t be wrong. The ones who almost were valuable as people but fell into the baby trap are always the most bitter. You give her a full ride to college, she ends up with an actual career that gives something to society, then she runs off to get married and quits it to have kids because “she has to”! What a waste.

The other 10% are “accidents” (C~~~ trapping at it’s finest) or have incredibly stupid reasons like “babies are so cute!” (But not for long. Get a cat.), “I want to see what a little me looks like” (don’t you have baby pictures for that?) or “I love helping kids and want to be around them all the time” (wouldn’t you be able to help more kids if you were a social worker, teacher or anything else?).

Any girls from creatures like this will end up like their mothers unless drastic measures are taken- something very hard considering that courts tend to leave little girls with their mothers when the divorce happens. Any boys have to deal with this crap as it’s not going away any time soon and they’ll have to survive in a world that never seems to improve with added generations.

Not reproducing is the only thinking man’s option.

Beauty fades, dumb is forever.

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