The Dating Struggles of Being an Alpha Female

[WolfParticipant 890]

http://thebolde.com/dating-struggles-alpha-female/

Same s~~~, different day – women blaming men for their their lack of finding a potential suitor. The article gives 8 struggles, and mentions “men whose b~~~~ aren’t big enough to date us” right off the bat in the first struggle.

The struggles listed:

1. We have smart mouths
2. We’re not afraid to speak our minds
3. We take the lead, and that makes most men run
4. We’re unfazed by cliché romance
5. We’re challenging
6. We’re brutally honest
7. We have very few damsel in distress moments
8. We’re genuinely busy, and it frustrates our suitors

Doesn’t these qualities describe all women, regardless if she identifies as an alpha, beta or polkaroo?

When I look back at my previous relationships, as well as the relationships of my friends and family, the women think they are smart and relationship experts, they don’t hesitate to speak their mind to their partner, they attempt to lead passive aggressively, the man’s efforts are seldom good enough, they pretend to be honest, and they think they have busiest job in the world (being a mother).

[TaxGuyParticipant]

She sounds like a bitch!!

Seriously though, women don’t want to date an alpha man, they want to f~~~ him. Conversely, I’d probably f~~~ her, but she’s right, I wouldn’t want to date her.

Sorry honey, didn’t mean to f~~~ you up with logic………..

Order the good wine

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Alpha females really mean the top deceitful and con-artist.

She ain’t f~~~ing busy either, its all in her head, busy for them, is going to the mall and buying a purse or clubbing or a c~~~s night out.

I’ll add something to the list:

9. She’s a lying deceitful, selfish, con artist c~~~
That’s the main reason, she so called “Struggles.”

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

In what universe is being a rude, arrogant loudmouth a positive personality trait? Christ this girl is absolutely toxic. Sorry ladies, too much empowerment for me!

In another world i’d consider dating you if you were, for example, charming, sweet, diplomatic, a great hostess, attuned to the emotional needs & state of those around you, interested in building & maintaining a happy house & home, etc etc. Of course, this bitch never says anything about what she’ll bring to the table – just about what her “cost” is and what guys “have to deal with” to get with her. Ugh.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

Struggles? Wait until they hit the wall, then they’ll find out what struggles REALLY means…

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Ive got to quote @doc here from a post he put on one of my pages when I was dating and f~~~ing a 19y/o 2 weeks ago. Oh, btw she just turned 20 y/o. Anyway @doc‘s words ring similar to these so called Alpha female:

“Aside from their youth and beauty, young girls also tend to be more open minded and interested in and accepting of new ideas so they will listen intently as you describe your international travels, your business experiences and your world view. Old dames just want to argue with you about that stuff. Young girls will let you order for them and explain what they’re getting and why it’s good… and chances are you can be their “first time” for any number of experiences, culinary and otherwise. Old dames have been there and done that and have nothing to gain by your knowledge and wisdom except to score points for themselves by arguing against it.“

I am yet to meet a gorgeous “alpha” female under 30 y/o.

Thought it appropriate to repost this here because quite often these “alphas” act like the dames @doc mentions.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

And why would I want that hassle?

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[WolfParticipant 890]

MattNYC wrote:

In what universe is being a rude, arrogant loudmouth a positive personality trait? Christ this girl is absolutely toxic. Sorry ladies, too much empowerment for me!

Yeah, I agree. Many women claim to be alpha or strong and independent, yet all that really means is she’s a control freak, and would make a miserable partner. She’s the type of person who will slam men at every opportunity and her idea of compromise is getting what she wants.

Saying you’re an alpha or strong and independent is also a way for them to justify why they can’t find a man. Stuff like, “he doesn’t have the b~~~~ to date me” or “I need a real man and there are none to be found”.

All of these “alpha” women need a lesson in what it means to be an alpha. Being alpha has many traits; however, one of them is accountability. Have you ever heard a self proclaimed alpha woman take responsibility for why she can’t find a “real man”? I haven’t.

[RoyDalParticipant]

I suppose it is possible that there are men out there that are willing to date women with obnoxious personality traits. Enough of these women turn up in movies and on TV these days, that it must be popular with somebody. Not me, somebody else.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

I would love to take her out ?

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10907]

Change the “men” in number 3 to “women” and number 7 to “We have few mangina/white knight moments” and you have an alpha male. An alpha male will ALWAYS chew up and spit out an alpha female. No alpha female will ever dare to get into the ring with a true alpha male. He snail trail alone would inhibit her.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22520]

Wolf wrote:

1. We have smart mouths
2. We’re not afraid to speak our minds
3. We take the lead, and that makes most men run
4. We’re unfazed by cliché romance
5. We’re challenging
6. We’re brutally honest
7. We have very few damsel in distress moments
8. We’re genuinely busy, and it frustrates our suitors

1. So, you like being rude.
2. But, you clearly lack the consideration to weigh the opinions of others.
3. We are not interested in being slaves.
4. So, no matter how polite someone is to you, it means nothing to you.
5. So is climbing Mount Everest. But, few have the means, let alone the insanity, to try to climb it.
6. And clearly lacking in mercy and compassion.
7. And through all this, you still want our help.
8. So, you want us to make time for you, but you won’t make time for us.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

“Alpha Female”? No such thing.

@Spock is right. The alpha female curls up and dies in the presence of a man with a spine. He can even be a “beta” and squash her with a few well chosen words.

Off off the top off my head, I can name at least 10 of these self-proclaimed “alpha females” which I have encountered in my travels. Some of them were genuinely high-powered too. If you asked THEM……. 100% of them would write about themselves just like that dumb bitch.

Now call her out, and she crumbles – every single time.
She doesn’t even have a good, witty, clever retort ready!!!

You don’t even need to destroy her.
Just tell her ……………… “no”.

She’s absolutely dumbfounded that a man would ever speak to her that way.

I know this type – very, very well. A simple “no” to one of these “alpha female” fraud posers , is like slitting her throat. They can’t handle it. They freak out. She’s actually EASIER to break down and turn out.

Personally, I would be more guarded about “the quiet type” — the feminine and soft female — because you haven’t seen her at her worst. The “alpha female” puts it right out there, shoves it in your face and says:

“If you can’t handle me at my worst, you don’t deserve me at my best. I am WOMAN!!! Hear me ROAR!!! …. but I still want you to come rescue me once in a while.”

“You never said you were funny”.

“………um….. I wasn’t expecting that response. Let me get back to you?”

“Take your time, sugarbush”.

•••••••••

Here’s your classic “Alpha Female” FINALLY arriving at a realization – after she f~~~ed up her personal life over and over again. The video was previously entitled “feminism ruined my dating life”, but she changed it after getting heat from other “alpha females” who are still out there LYING to themselves and other women.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Wolf wrote:

Have you ever heard a self proclaimed alpha woman take responsibility for why she can’t find a “real man”?

Reading “women” & “accountability” in the same sentence made me laugh, good one Wolf!

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

@iliveagain

I want to upvote you, but you’re already at 6666 & it’d be a shame to f~~~ up that fine number. Have some nachos, tacos & beer instead:

[WolfParticipant 890]

Keymaster wrote:

“If you can’t handle me at my worst, you don’t deserve me at my best. I am WOMAN!!! Hear me ROAR!!! …. but I still want you to come rescue me once in a while.”

They typically leave out the emphasized part. That’s implied on their part. After all, she is looking for a real man, and that’s what real men do!

[Elric GreenstoneParticipant 1637]

Wolf wrote:

yet all that really means is she’s a control freak, and would make a miserable partner. She’s the type of person who will slam men at every opportunity and her idea of compromise is getting what she wants.

There’s another type of person who does this. They’re called “Five Year Olds”.

That just occurred to me.

We’re pretty much done as a civilization, methinks.

It is fun to watch these entitled, “Alpha” females when they hit the wall. I find that a lot of their “strength” and related malarkey goes out the window when the pussy pass is taken away.

"You can either love women, or understand women. You can't do both. Because once you understand women, you realize that there is really nothing to love."

[MonkeyMindParticipant 5340]

There has never once in the history of mankind been an alpha female. Ever! They do not exist outside of the fantasy of a female mind.

For women to flourish in society, they need a whole host of social benefits and props to get them in a position of power above men. Take them away and they’re f~~~ed. In contrast, Men live their lives without a safety net. Men who take chances either win big or get their asses handed to them on a plate.

Women are only and ever will be the most responsible teenager in the house. until they take 100% resposibility/ accountability for their behaviour, words and actions, this will not change.

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

Alpha female?
Never heard of it.

No wait, do you mean this pitiful specimen?

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22520]

Keymaster wrote:

“Alpha Female”? No such thing.

Actually, alpha females have existed in history. But, you likely could count them on one hand. These are the “Athena” style women. Strong, intelligent, and celibate. With their celibacy signifying that no one owns them, nor controls them.

Such as, Queen Elizabeth I. Also, known as the virgin queen. Whom Phoenix has mentioned on this forum before.

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