The abusive backlash to me going MGHOW begins

[RoCrow99Participant 60]

Hiya folks.

I’ve recently joined and have been loving the support on here.

Let me get to the point.

I got asked at work today if I had had any dates recently (A female colleague asked me) I replied no, and that I didn’t intend to.  She pressed and pressed to get me to tell her why, and I told her in the most diplomatic way possible: ‘I’m happier on my own and I am sick and tired of being let down by women and being dumped for the next prospective swinging dick’.  Big mistake.  I got called out as a sexist and was told ‘I didn’t deserve a woman with all that hate inside’.  I told her I don’t hate women, I just would rather do my own thing.  Anyway, it got round the workplace and the sn~~~~~s have started.  I’m keeping my cool, and one male workmate has been excellent and has had my back for me.  I’m not being a pussy, but was wondering if any of you had some tactics for keeping the attention off me.

Thanks in advance!

[SMADParticipant 651]

In this case you could try turning a negative to a positive:

Think to yourself, they must be REALLY boring if all they have to talk about is you.

Embrace the attention.  Let it empower you 🙂

Also, there are several topics and posts about peoples responses and “reasons” why they go MGTOW.  I can only think of one of my earlier posts as a starting point, so apologies to all the others whos posts I can’t remember!

/forums/topic/my-reasons-for-not-getting-involved-with-women-on-a-long-term-basis/

So smile, go about your work day and relish the fact that you are the current “Gossip of the Day.”

OR – another amazing one liner that I OFTEN USE – and it’s guaranteed laugh from MEN at least –

“Marriage?  No thank you – i’m not ready to be that miserable yet.”

 

Marriage?  No thanks, i'm not ready to be THAT miserable.

[RoCrow99Participant 60]

Nice one @smad I will check out the link.  I left myself open at work with my comments but I wanted the t~~~ to know how I felt!

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

They fear you. You have neutralised then weapons and they’re not happy.

Give it time and one is bound to try and f~~~ you back to the plantation 😊

All that said …… f~~~ um

[RoCrow99Participant 60]

To the dogs with ’em, f~~~in’ Viking style.

[Lazarus LongParticipant 365]

I think KeyMaster has covered this topic better than I ever could so I am just going to point you to his post.

/forums/topic/showing-no-emotion-at-work/#post-37969

Enjoy.

Willfully turning aside from the truth is treason to one's self. -Terry Goodkind

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Your first mistake was talking to a woman at work about anything other than work.  The next time one of them confronts you on anything other than work, just tell her: “This is not a professional conversation,” and walk away.  If any of them try any shaming bulls~~~ again, make a complaint against them for harassment with HR.

RoCrow99 wrote:

I got called out as a sexist and was told ‘I didn’t deserve a woman with all that hate inside’.

Translation: “How dare you deny women your resources!”

See it doesn’t matter what you say or what she said, that’s what it boils down to.  You aren’t giving undeserving women free stuff any more, and women cannot tolerate that.  They certainly don’t want the idea to spread, so you can expect things to get ugly.  And annoying (or interesting if that’s your take on it).  I expect a few of them will try to get you out of the workplace, and a few of them will try getting into your pants.

[SMADParticipant 651]

ILiveAgain wrote:

They fear you. You have neutralised then weapons and they’re not happy.

Agreed.  Correct me if I am wrong guys, but, when arguing (or having a discussion) with a woman, it gets to a point where they no longer return with RATIONAL or LOGICAL answers and they instead use PERSONAL attacks…Or extreme words like “ALWAYS” or “NEVER” are used.  To me, I smile inside because that says to me “I won the argument, now you have to resort to personal attacks to try and win.”

That, my friend, is when you can engage SMUG MODE – this also helps you keep your “cool” and your “frame.”

Marriage?  No thanks, i'm not ready to be THAT miserable.

[Anonymous 1]

That’s a tricky one.

The best way to be invisible at work is avoiding this kind of s~~~ from start. Avoid talking about your personal life at all.

But those are already waters under the bridge for you. Keep it cool, and keep it low. It’s not about being a pussy, it is about being objective. Focus on your work, speak only about your work (specially to women) and move on. Just in case, start looking for plan B (another place to work), but hopefully this will go away if you keep silent and mind your own business.

I understand how women can be intrusive, but you should be more careful with your words, at work at least.

What was that phrase Keymaster always says?

 “I don’t speak to women at work about anything other than work”.
-Keymaster

[RoCrow99Participant 60]

Lesson learned, I won’t engage the f~~~ers at all unless about work.  I’ll need to do it subtle, I don’t want to rock the boat.  Worst thing of all is, the boss is a misandric pussy and he likes nothing better than to pander to the girlies.  He openly tells one of them that she’s wonderful, and she is, around him.  But the f~~~in’ MINUTE his backs turned she’s a f~~~in’ bossy, lazy nightmare.  Luckily I didn’t talk to HER about my stance on women.  Thing is, I love my job, and the public I work with by and large are great, but I’m a six foot tall, large man and confident and these snakes get the better of me Every.  Single. Time. Not any more.

[SMADParticipant 651]

RoCrow99 wrote:

I’m a six foot tall, large man and confident and these snakes get the better of me Every.  Single. Time. Not any more.

That, my friend, is where the fundamental beauty of MGTOW kicks in.

They can’t get the better of you if you don’t play the game.  =)

Marriage?  No thanks, i'm not ready to be THAT miserable.

[AntaresParticipant 208]

1. Never talk about anything but work or mundane stuff like the weather (if even that). NEVER about your personal life.
2. Keep answers short. “No”. “I haven’t got time”, that kind of thing.
3. Never elaborate. This is harder than it sounds because most people are socially trained to leave hooks to perpetuate conversations. You’ll find enquiries die off fast if you master killing conversation, and their interst in talking to you will wane. You’re probably going to have to live with whatever rumours/reputation they’ll come up with.

Price is what you pay, value is what you get. -- Ben Graham

[IggyThundersParticipant 246]

I agree. Keep it professional. Now that the cat is out of the proverbial bag so to speak, its hard to put it back in. If she or anyone else tries to bring it up again I would turn the tables on them and say ‘Look, this is a place of business and I really dont want to, nor should I have to talk about my personal life. It was my mistake on my part to do so in the first place’ and then immediatley re-direct the conversation with a business related question. That immediatley puts it back into a professional mindset and makes them have to get off the topic of YOU and answer the business related question. If they deviate from that and try and push you back into the personal, you can either say ‘Look Ill just ask someone else’  and walk away , or if you want to go for the throat say ‘Look. Im just trying to do my job here. If you wont leave me alone on this im going to have to report you for harassment.’ and then just walk away.

[Anonymous 9]

RoCrow99 wrote:

I got asked at work today if I had had any dates recently

Another response to this could be “Why do you need to know that?”

[Anonymous 27]

This is my opinion only, but it has constantly worked for me haha stupid bitches..

Let me post a song here for you, I want you to listen to the words, and I want you to consider carefully to do this from now on (I have worked my way up to very high positions with multiple woman working for me, instead of the other way around, how? Like this..) you need to do what they do..do you think they tell you the truth about anything (these females) no; tell them what they want to hear. It works like a charm, will get you laid, and they will eat up your MGHOW lies like hungry female goblins..try it for a few days..report back, I promise you, you will laugh your ass off, and probly get your dick sucked by some work sluts.

[RoCrow99Participant 60]

Hahahaa! @Dolla_D you have a deal!

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

Aside from the all of the other sarcastic things I tell women I know one thing that readily puts them off.

When asked if I’m dating, I tell them ‘Yes’.  The truth I am dating.  I go out to dinner, movies, clubs, museums, plays, shows.

I’m dating myself.  I have to tell you I treat my self very, very well.

Better than a woman ever has.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[Cipher HighwindParticipant 1144]

In such situations, replying only with “no comment” until the office c~~~ gets the point is the way to go.

My suggestion would be to take the upper ground and file a complaint for sexual harassment, and maybe get a lawyer involved.  HR c~~~s fear the latter.

[Anonymous 5]

I have a guy like that too at the shop i work at hes a hard bastard but his wife… Man leme tell you shes mgtow.  I hope someone gets me on that. But am too blunt: f~~~ women. And good for you am with you 100%

[Anonymous 27]

Remember to report back @rocrow99, let me know how that goes..tell them you’ve been thinking a lot about what they said, and really are looking to get back dating again..tell them I really think there’s someone out there for everyone..ask them for some dating advice, ask them what they look for in a man…all the while pretending to intently listen to them (and do, just say uh huh..and “it must be really hard being a nice girl” etc.), they will take this fuel and turn it into vaginal discharge on your c~~~…report back to MGTOW headquarters with progress report in the next couple days. Dolla out.

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