My Reasons For NOT Getting Involved With Women on a Long Term Basis

[SMADParticipant 651]

Hi all, fairly new to MGTOW forums but I thought I would contribute with a little “list” of my personal qualifiers.  I look forward to any discussions that arise from this and of course, if I have missed out anything!

So, when I get asked why, as a 31 year old Man, I am single and not snapped up, I raise these points / return questions:

Firstly, I respond by asking the person “What value would I get from being in a long term relationship?”

From this, a number of areas are highlighted:

• Financially Sharing the Burden
• Companionship
• Fulfilment as a Man
• Having a Family
• Sex

So firstly, Financially Sharing the Burden…of life.  At the risk of sounding like a smug bastard, I must say that I have no Financial Burden BECAUSE I am single and have no “obligations” other than to myself.  I have a healthy bank account, a nice little home of my own, I can fund my own enterprises and pay my own bills.  WHY would I need a “woman” to help with this?  No reason – it’s basically social guilt tripping (in my opinion) that as a “man” I should “share my fortunes with someone.”  Bollocks to that.

Secondly, what about companionship?  Well, I have the capacity to entertain myself with my own interests and hobbies and if I want company, I know where I can find it.  Quite frankly, I don’t want to see people frequently.  As it stands, I visit my elderly mother who lives nearby once a week and then on Friday nights I host a board gaming evening for 3 hours.  Other than that, I don’t really socialise much with anyone except for the occasional adventure on a Saturday night.  Quite frankly, THIS IS F~~~ING PARADISE FOR ME!!! Why would I want to change this?

Fulfilment as a man-  Well, being a MGTOW with no children and no serious ex’s on the scene, I have achieved qualifications and look very healthy and happy for my age compared to my married / fatherhood counterparts.  That and I don’t need a woman to verify my “manliness” – bollocks to that, I am not interested in competing with Alphas and whatever.  The only person I am in competition with is myself, to improve my abilities and basically live MY life FOR MYSELF.

Having a Family.  A trickier one, because I do actually love the idea of having children and sharing my wisdom.  But quite frankly, the world is quite dark and dismal at the moment and if I had a son, I would feel utter sorry for him having to grow up in our world.  If I had a girl, probably something similar.  My paternal instinct is there, but I won’t impregnate a girl just to have kids.  Quite frankly, Risk vs Reward is a bit of a no-brainer for me. That and I am a child of divorced parents (I was 4 and in the early 80’s) and I have seen the destruction divorce causes first hand.  I wouldn’t want to inflict that on my children.

Lastly, good old sex.  Quite frankly, it’s the same s~~~ really.  I had my adventures as a young serviceman and it got boring VERY FAST.  What with all the rampant STD’s and the general ho-baggery of many women these days, quite frankly my hairy palms satisfy me FAR more.  On a side note – an example of men being able to multi-task is masturbation.

I mean, I can think about a hot woman AND jerk off at the same time.  

So really, the whole question of why I am single at 31 and never really had a proper LTR other than dating / a few months casual etc, my answer is that being with a woman in a LTR really has absolutely NO BENEFITS for me.

Although these points are personal to me, I am wondering if any of my fellow men here have similar thoughts / checklist?  I feel I have a fairly decent arsenal of answers to fire back at any harridans who might quiz me on my relationship status, but if there are any more awesome reasons I have missed then please share and discuss!

 

Marriage?  No thanks, i'm not ready to be THAT miserable.

[DoinMyOwnThing40Participant 1000]

I think that you covered it quite nicely. I have nothing to add and would not change a thing that you said. Welcome!

Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

You Sir are a Man Shield and will be used on the front line when the war comes 🙂  I also agree with everything you said. There is zero reward for us men now but thank goodness for the porn whores that keep me well milked and immune from the fems. These women I will allow to live after the war 🙂

[KeymasterKeymaster]

SMAD is coincidentally MGHOW of the day today. Good call. Thanks very much for making an intro and joining. Happy to welcome you to the forums. Take your helmet off and stay a while.

I’m going to move this into MGTOW Central.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[– Deleted on Request –Spectator 936]

SMAD:

 

Your thoughts are similar to mine when people ask me why I’m not married.

 

What would I need a wife for?  To cook?  I do quite an adequate job on my own, including baking my own bread and brewing my own beer.  Clean house?  I dust and hoover my apartment once a week.  Companionship?  I could get a dog for that and probably have a better deal as dogs are loyal and can be trained to be obedient.  Sex?  I could rent that if I wanted to.

 

End of story.

 

 

[Sam RavenParticipant 181]

Yeah he definitely deserved being MGHOW for the Day.

SMAD’s line of reasoning is a close match to mine.

Financially Sharing the Burden – Typical bulls~~~ psy-op for Blue Pillers to swallow when in reality it is the man who takes ALL of the burden, and then dying alone homeless and in half a million dollars in debt. Will look great on the tombstone’s epitaph /sarcasm.

Companionship – Who needs companionship when most of the world is made up of socially engineered brainwashed retards who find thinking critically for oneself and reading up on knowledge boring, strange, funny and a waste of time and at the same time want to hold you back by insisting that you be like one of them? The other day I had someone who actually thought Israel is in Europe and didn’t know the Suez Canal passes through Egypt. With this level of interest in acquiring knowledge in the supposed ‘Information Age’ with the ease of access to knowledge any wonder why the world is in the s~~~ter?

Fulfilment as a man -This quote sums up what it means to be MGHOW, or in this movie’s terms, ‘Getting Off the Boat.’

‘Never get off the boat, unless you were going all the way. Kurtz got off the boat. He split with the whole f~~~ing program. He applied three times for Airborne and put up with a ton of s~~~, and when he threatened to resign after his third application, they accepted him.  The next younger trainee was half his age. He must have thought this was some old man humping over the grueling course. There was no way for you could go above Colonel once you joined the Airborne. Kurtz must have known what he was giving up. Instead of going for General, he went for himself.’ – Captain Willard, Apocalypse Now

Having a Family – In a world where idiocy, belief in Government/slavery with violence, suppression and ignorance of Natural Law Rights leading to enslavement, unfair and rigged system funded by your force taxation against your will, moral relativism, solipsism and lack of care is by popular support, why the f~~~ would I bring kids into this Hell? By not bringing them into this Hell, I am being a good father.

Sex – Real life sex has too many limits and obstacles, even with paid prostitutes. In imagined sex with an imagined hot girl, your imagination is the limit. If women want to even begin to consider being accepted by men again, at the very least they should be a completely submissive 24/7 sex slave of reasonable weight (fugly hambeasts that make hippos look lightweight not wanted) doing whatever the man tells her to do, and not a moment before. No exceptions, no substitutes, no conditions, no compromises.

[SMADParticipant 651]

Wow,

 

Thanks to everyone for the warm welcome and for sharing your thoughts!  It’s a wonderful feeling knowing I am with a circle of other men who think very similar to myself!

ILiveAgain wrote:

You Sir are a Man Shield and will be used on the front line when the war comes

LOL, I have my Dark Knight Armour (as opposed to White Knight!) polished and my sword sharpened!

That’s a fantastic quite from Apocalypse Now !  Speaking of film quotes, I read some where (apologies for lack of reference!) that Godzilla in the 2014 is a MGTOW – f~~~s off the alpha monster trying to mate and just goes his own way.  GGHOW – Godzilla Goes His Own Way.  Love it.

 

 

Marriage?  No thanks, i'm not ready to be THAT miserable.

[Sam RavenParticipant 181]

Its a powerful story, Apocalypse Now, and the character central to the plot and marked for assassination for doing things his own way. An idealist who grew up believing in the system, was betrayed by it by horrors he saw in his first tour in Vietnam and motivated him to do what he had to do for what he believed in.

I am ex-infantry myself, although not by choice, I was drafted as required under Singapore law, breaking this law gets you a hefty fine and 3 months in jail.

Women are not required to serve and this planted some of the seeds, firstly being misogynist, eventually becoming full-blown MGTOW, especially when my experience in the army was a mentally and physically destroying experience. Because of this ‘National Service’ requirement women get into college and the workforce 2 years earlier than men.

[RoCrow99Participant 60]

Wow, @smad this list is fantastic.  I have two wonderful sons from a past relationship, so I am concentrating on improving their lives and keeping them full of knowledge and love.  I don’t live with my sons, but I look forward to every moment I have with them.  Like you, I don’t socialise much.  I visit my parents, have a few mates in town, and play Guild Wars 2 lol, but yeah, thanks for the excellent post above.

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