Single moms, the lemon investment

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  • #312823
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    Freedom
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    In the UK, if you allow a single mum to move in, she could claim that your presence is detrimental to the kids well-being. You will have to move out….even though you own the house.

    She can then get another boyfriend to move in and shag in your bedroom. This will go on until the kid is 18.

    DON’T LET SINGLE MUMS MOVE INTO YOUR PROPERTY

    She cheated on me ..... my fault. I showed an interest in another woman......my fault.

    #313830
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    Foghornleghorn
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    Oh man, you mean to tell me you…….<fans face>……you want me to be a father to your bastard child. The best part I didn’t even have to f~~~ you and get you pregnant, but I get to pay for your crumb cruncher. F~~~, this much be what the winning the f~~~ing lottery feels like.

    #313846
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    ~BS
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    wow that bitch got owned. lol if you missed it, youtube clip on page 1. hahaha

    he also not so subtlely gives her the middle finger for like 10 seconds and she didn’t notice.

    "He didn't marry until now, so he won't ever do it. Think about it, why would a man like him ever marry? It's too late to catch him. " ~some cunt

    #323240
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    Anonymous
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    Every single mom dating advert says the following :

    1. My kids always come first.

    So I’ll be second or third, yet you expect to be #1 in my life?

    2. I don’t want to have any more.

    So my line dies while I slave to raise another man’s spawn.

    Single moms are to be avoided.

    That sums it up.

    #324239
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    Stargazer
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    I was gonna bump this thread by quoting Jan’s post myself.

    Let’s assume for a moment, against all evidence, that the single mother would behave like a rational person. If this were the case, her priority list would be:

    1) Herself. Everyone should be at the top of their own priority list. This is why they tell you to put your own mask on first then help others while the plane goes down.

    2) Her kids.

    3) Whomever is paying for her kids. That’s most likely their father(s).

    4) Her job, no matter how s~~~ty it is… assuming she has one.

    5) Whatever she does to forget how s~~~ty her life is.

    6) Her friends/family/orbiters/enablers who tell her that it’s not her fault.

    7) Maybe you… but probably not.

    For a normal, single person, it should read more like this:

    1) Self
    2) Career
    3) Friends & Family
    4) You

    If you married that person, you’d move up to position 3. If you were a tradcon and paid all the bills, you’d be #2, best case.

    Anyone below the fold doesn’t count. If you were going to have a relationship (and I don’t recommend you do) you must at least be above the fold (5 or higher).

    With single mothers, this is not possible, therefore a relationship with a single mother is an oxymoron.

    #324468
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    Narwhal
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    @doc, I’m going to disagree with your list. Not because it isn’t logical, but because it doesn’t fit with my experiences.

    A – I’ve never met a woman who didn’t either hate or was completely indifferent about their ex. I’ve never felt like I was lower on the list then her ex.

    B – It really doesn’t matter what her priority list is. If she wants to put you on top, she will. She doesn’t want to, she won’t. I’ve really only had 2 relationships with single mom’s, and both initially put me way up on the top of the list. One I married (and dropped to the bottom) and the other I ended before I gave any sort of commitment. If she wants to, she will find time for you.

    As far as women who have no kids, they will throw themselves at their work, social activities, whatever is. They do not want to feel like they are less because they have no kids, so they must have something. And again, if they want you , they will find the time. If not, work/social whatever will be their excuse.

    Perhaps this has to do with the age of the women I would date, but that always seems to be the case. Their priorities are irrelevant, since she will find a way if she wants to.

    Really, investing in women is a bad idea, whether she’s a mom or not. The potential for loss is higher, but there is always a loss. I still think that if you draw your line in dating only, ‘pump and dump’, what-have-you regardless of the woman in question, it makes little difference if she has kids or not. She will either make time or she will not…and if she does give you time, that will change once she has some sort of commitment from you.

    Ok. Then do it.

    #335543
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    SolidusX
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    I have dated 4 single mothers (never again I might add as its way to much drama for sex) as I was bored and they were easy for a pump and dump but let me tell you they are all the same. They want in the following order:
    1. For you to eventually pay for their kids s~~~
    2. For you to give them shelter and care over your own care
    3. To run you dry and then eject you

    That pretty much sums it up…. the last single mother wanted to move in with me and her 2 kids in my 2 bedroom apartment and I told her that was not going to work for me as I like my space. Needless to say she tried to use every feminist trick in the book… I simply gave her the pink slip and moved on.

    Knowledge is power..... Don't waste your brain on bullshit

    #343161
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    Nathan R. Jessep
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    For a widow I might feel some pity. I do know some guys who were never married and wifed up a widow with kids. It’s kind of a different situation because there’s no question the father isn’t coming back and he’s totally out of the picture. What does anyone think about this situation?

    Survivor, That’s a rare situation. I might consider that unless the former husband was murdered over drugs or crime, which is often the case.

    Obviously it’s better, but still no…unless she received a million dollar insurance policy.

    #353507
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    Anonymous
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    Yes yes yes,,,,,,, i am 44 imagine never had any kids and yes, its all i see…. the worst is that they have nothing to offer and are very picky.

    Most women today are mixed up, they don’t know what they want, last month i was on facebook and a girl i went to school with popped up at 43 she still looks good single so i message her, she got 3 kids 2 adults and 1 8y old, she tells me that she is tired of raising kids and want to go out and enjoy life, i ask her out she accepts.

    She never got back to me unless i message her first, i asked her out on a hiking date she accepted and said i will get back to you tomorrow with a date and time she never did so i flushed her…. that’s how women are today they don’t care about men or are mixed up. Lots of women today are able to provide for themselves, they have money houses there own place, etc. They don’t need men in there lives we have sort of become less useful for them.

    #353795
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    Experienced
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    She accepted and said i will get back to you tomorrow with a date and time she never did so i flushed her….

    Good for you, she saw that it was going to take a little more to get that “bit” into the back of your mouth / to bridle you, and decided against it.
    Duck her, no not duck her, f~~~ her.
    Am I the only one around here who is getting Sick And F~~~ing Tired Of Autocorrect?
    On MGTOWdotcom even??????????????????????????????????????

    "It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

    #353911
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    Anonymous
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    She accepted and said i will get back to you tomorrow with a date and time she never did so i flushed her….

    Good for you, she saw that it was going to take a little more to get that “bit” into the back of your mouth / to bridle you, and decided against it.
    Duck her, no not duck her, f~~~ her.
    Am I the only one around here who is getting Sick And F~~~ing Tired Of Autocorrect?
    On MGTOWdotcom even??????????????????????????????????????

    I wrote her an email and told her if she was not interested she could have said so, and that i lost all interest for her, this is what 40y old women are in the head today screwed up and mixed. That was the last i heard from her. So good riddance and who cares. I would have been miserable again in another dead end relationship.

    #362441
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    Blacksheepmgtow
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    To me, it is totally hilarious how bitter single moms do NOT want to own their s~~~. They see it as much, much easier and more socially acceptable to blame every man around for their poor choices in life. I work in a place where I get to see this, especially on Sundays. The baggage they haul with them is incredible…….bitterness, anger, feelings of entitlement and a complete disregard of
    the children’s need for peace and stability.

    Maybe if they hadn’t decided to ride the c~~~ carousel in their twenties and thirties, they would NOT be in this position. But, then again, they are women…….hormones, emotions and their vaginas run their lives. Bad investments and not worth the time of day. As a Financial advisor I know puts it……you are looking to MAKE money, not toss it away and regret the decision later.

    You CANNOT negotiate with crazy! Their thought process cannot handle logic and reason. They counter with dysfunction and hormonal thinking. best not to let them get that close.

    #362473
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    Anonymous
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    To me, it is totally hilarious how bitter single moms do NOT want to own their s~~~. They see it as much, much easier and more socially acceptable to blame every man around for their poor choices in life. I work in a place where I get to see this, especially on Sundays. The baggage they haul with them is incredible…….bitterness, anger, feelings of entitlement and a complete disregard of
    the children’s need for peace and stability.

    Maybe if they hadn’t decided to ride the c~~~ carousel in their twenties and thirties, they would NOT be in this position. But, then again, they are women…….hormones, emotions and their vaginas run their lives. Bad investments and not worth the time of day. As a Financial advisor I know puts it……you are looking to MAKE money, not toss it away and regret the decision later.

    Not a c~~~ carousel just a bunch of numb nuts who went with the bad boy or are emotionally dependent, the type of bitches that cannot live without a boyfriend so they go out with anyone that shows interest.

    Now older theses bitches go online and for the most part don’t even want to meet a man, i have spoken to so many of these noodles fatty to know, spend like 3 weeks chatting invite them and get stood up well i have my kids, well its a bit impossible for me. Do some digging and find them on facebook and you see them for real full body picture and you thank god you did not meet them face to face.

    These bitches think that in there 40 still have high values, an illusion so to speak they will turn you down, tell you your not there type and even give you resistance and so on even if they have nothing to offer.

    I once message a women near my house simply asking because she was boxing on her profile if she knew any good boxing school around here, she replied with such anger, she was but ugly fat butt face with pimples and all 48 i told her calm down Frankenstein your gonna bust all that fat out.

    If this is all there is left then MGTOW is the only logical choice for us men now. I can still go out and get 25y old women that is just sick.

    I used to be on sosuave met a cool guy named guru1000 he invested in is body and appearance and at 40 he got 25y old women. He showed me the ropes and all and is logic was simple, he never ever waste time on single mom and 40y old hags, why when you can get a nice 25y old body and have fun would you want to go bang a 40y old all wrinkled up bitch.

    F~~~ single mom invest in your body train, muscle up women love that, they will touch you grow longer hair, perfume, buy nice clothes Albercromie and Fitch got nice clothes and you can get some huge savings at some point got like 70% off nice shirts and all, dress well, grooming.

    Most men even at 25 are fat don’t take care of there appearance at all shave there heads and grow a huge beard, are fat……. don’t be like that.

    #373297
    Jim01
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    Every once in a while I like to see what the other side is thinking and the older i get the more I get hit on by women with kids AKA the single mom. I realize now that I am in my thirties the dating pool for single unmarried or divorced women with no kids is quickly drying up (not looking to date because it doesn’t serve any benefit to me). But the single moms see someone who has their s~~~ together, reasonably intelligent and they think PROVIDER. But honestly more guys 30 and up are looking at this as a bad investment (and they should). In the stock market, we would call this castles in the sky (when stock prices are extremely overvalued and not justified by the future potential earnings of the company).

    So here’s an article a single mom wrote to all the single guys with no kids:

    A Letter To The Scared Guy Dating The Single Mom

    Notice this womanchild doesn’t accept any responsibility for her own actions. Tries a childish trick to get an emotional response by calling us scared. No bitch you’re a bad investment. You are equal to the castles in the sky. You provide nothing but a worn out vagina. What does a successful, wealthy single man get from you? Maybe if you were equally successful, equally wealthy, had assets to your name and a rocking hot body (not destroyed by stretch marks because you were a pig during pregnancy) then you would have a leg to stand on. Unfortunately this is not the case. You do not love anyone except yourself, and honestly you deserve nothing more than men that will continue to use you for sex and sex alone. You want access to a man’s finances as outlined in your article (money is tight).

    This other article again accepts no responsibility:
    I’m A Single Mom, But I’m Not To Blame. Stop Judging Me For It.

    Her opening sentence “I’m a single mom and you might be shocked to hear that it’s because the father of my children sucks.” Way to be an adult you worthless waste of skin. The rest of the article is really all about why it is hard to believe men leave women. Well a quick google search on the author Eden Strong is enough you’ll need to realize she is also a terrible investment. The following came up when I searched her name:

    How a Mom on Welfare Handles Christmas Gifts – Yahoo
    I Am a Welfare Mom and I Can Tell You: It’s a Nightmare
    I May Have to Feed My Kids at a Soup Kitchen, But I Don’t Regret Anything About My Life

    Do I need to go on regarding the quality of this woman? Purely despicable.

    The last one is the funniest:

    http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/im-a-single-mom-who-is-ready-to-give-up-on-men-because-they-all-want-sex/

    She says she wants to give up on men because all the want is sex. That is all you are worth. The older ones, like me usually 30 and up are wise to your games. The ones in their 20s, she knows do not have much wealth. Keep in mind she has four kids. Another horrible investment. Thoughts? BTW the comments section on these articles are absolutely savage. You’ll die laughing.

    MM

    on occasion I will go on that article and go through the comments – never fails to make me laugh and nod along in agreement

    #374288
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    MGTOW_Medic
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    I am in my early twenties. I am single and I have one child (under age 5). So yeah, I’m a “single mom.” But I freaking hate that term. I hate the stereotype that comes along with it. I don’t want anyone’s pity. I don’t want people to feel bad for me or my child. It’s just been me and him for the last two years. You knew all this going in to our “relationship”, if you want to call it that. None of that has ever been a secret. I have done my best to be open and honest with you from the get-go. You know that I’ve dated here and there, but nothing too serious. The last real boyfriend I had was my child’s dad.

    Dear Mom,

    1. I have two kids, regardless of uncomfortable feelings I am a single dad. Doesn’t matter if I “don’t like the term” it is what I am.

    2. It’s not an issue of “secrets” stop being cryptic.

    3. Maybe I worry about our relationship, because you have clearly stated that all of your other past relationships with men you weren’t serious about. So you’re just going around f~~~ing and not taking it seriously? I’m gonna be honest I never did that. I never slept with someone I wasn’t serious about or attracted to, generally (for myself) it’s considered common decency and personal integrity. Going forward, on the subject of seriousness how real was the relationship you had with your child’s father? If he was a total asshat why did you have a kid with him? If he wasn’t an asshat why did you leave him instead of work out the problems? Did he leave because you didn’t NEED him? Do you have any idea how disheartening it is to have someone tell you to your face how much they don’t NEED you? I do. It was never socially acceptable for me to go around telling women that I have no need for them. Do you know how much that robs you of any sense of success in a relationship? You feel as disposable as a paper plate. I never asked you to be obsessed with me, but NEEDING you was never an obsession. I saw it as real love. Not a simple want. Simple want’s are a dime a dozen. Real needs come rare. When I needed you, you cast me aside yelling out arrogantly that you needed no one. And now you are trying to set me straight?

    Clearly you never learned the simple lessons of childhood, to separate the wants from the needs. That the needs of love, family, and security were of more value that the wants of a curling iron or a flawless set of Baseball Cards. You’re not a woman of value because you have no fundamental understanding of what value is.

    I never hated your child, I have a soft spot in my heart for children, being a father myself. What I have never done, is demand that a woman accept my kids and take them under her wing or pack her bags. I worked on us, before I introduced children. I never asked you to push kids aside and only selfishly focus on me. However, I was never noticed for this, never appreciated for putting my love first, and my expectations second.

    MGtOW_Medic - EMT - P, Firefighter Lvl 2, Hazmat Ops

    #374306
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    MGTOW_Medic
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    it makes little difference if she has kids or not

    I beg to differ, It make a HUGE difference if she is a single mother.

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    I also feel like single mothers say this about dads. I do everything I can to avoid my ex wife. Literally, I don’t float around her hoping for something deep down I don’t want to experience again.

    But, It sucks to think that I may even be damaged goods so to speak. I never asked to be a single dad. Did I ask to be a father? Yes, I did. Single father? No. Hell, I did what I could to prevent it! My desire to goto marital counseling is what turned a dissolution into getting served by a sheriff with divorce papers. Of course now I laugh about it. Now I guess I am that “dented can of food” at the grocery store he’s talking about.

    MGtOW_Medic - EMT - P, Firefighter Lvl 2, Hazmat Ops

    #395326
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    Ain't No Romeo
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    Single mothers, unless they can produce a death certificate and folded flag from the father, are piece of s~~~ whores.

    Use their fake tears for lube and f~~~ them up the ass.

    #395365
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    Cataphract
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    As a Monk, if the possibility of scoring myself a shiny new woman with “no-previous users” isn’t enough to convince me to take the plunge into marriage, there is no way in hell an older worn-out model complete with unwanted hard to get rid of baggage will.

    Marriage: About as appealing as wood-chipper diving.

    #398742
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    Dead_Channel_Gray
    Dead_Channel_Gray
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    The saddest thing about single mothers is they drag their innocent children through the hell that is growing up in poverty and in broken homes. Having to deal with men other than your biological father being intimate with your mother. The awkwardness, the shame, the feeling that you don’t fit in.

    I know that feeling because I grew up under a single mom with an absent father and I know it sucks a fat one.

    I used to work in retail, which is kinda where single moms go to die. Single moms are easy to approach and ask out! But the catch is that they’re spinning webs to get you trapped so they can milk your resources. Especially if you’re a guy who considers himself even mildly successful.

    Small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.

    #439303
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    Tainted Love
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    Never date a single mom no matter what age she or you are. If you fall for her and marry her after one year in many states her children will be considered your children and if you divorce you will be financially responsible for them until they are 26 years old. A single mom will lower her criteria in selecting a mate because of the kids. She will accept men that she would have never given a seconds glance to if she didn’t have children. With age comes wisdom but not always and that is not a criticism to men who make these mistakes. Men’s lives throughout history have been ruined by women. According to psychologists today in most marriages the man has an 80% emotional involvement with the woman and the woman has a 20% emotional involvement with the man. Women initiate 80% of divorces and their reason is dissatisfaction or unhappiness. 80% of women who divorce never remarry and 80% of men who divorce remarry. Most men must very weak to remarry after gong through hell. The women never remarry because they don’t want to dispose of the goose that is laying the golden eggs. It’s exactly like the song by Shania Twain. I’m gonna getcha good. She says in the song “I’ve already planned it. Here’s how it’s gonna be. I gonna love you and your gonna fall in love with me”. Did you notice how she said she is not going to fall in love with him. That is the way women think not just today but through out history. Some women can and do fall in love with a man but the majority don’t. All they are looking for is the love drug the neurotransmitter that makes them feel euphoric by being with someone who they are attracted to without any emotional bond to the other person. That is why it is so easy for them to leave a marriage so fast because of no emotional bond. Remember these words God gave you a mind use it and remember no one cares about you except you and no one will be the to pick up the pieces of you if a crisis strikes.

    Once I ran to you / Now I run from you

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