Single moms, the lemon investment

[Gunstar1Participant 3]

I’ve dated only 1 single mom and that was enough. Most narcissistic, co-dependent liar I’ve ever met. I tried to file a restraining order against “it” and it lied in court, even committing perjury. Of course she tried to bring its kid into the argument which I quickly diffused.
I then went to the local police station and filed a police report after it kept stalking me. After the report was filed, I sent it to every employer of hers she worked at during the time, thus getting her fired. Never saw it again after that.
Good riddance.
Then on top of that right after, a “friend’s” wife tried to introduce me to her single mom friend. Exactly the same type of personality which after I banged her then never called back, ended that “friendship”. Though Im not going to lie, she was very hot.
Stay away guys. You’re too smart for them and you don’t have the time to deal with these unaccountable, useless douche bags.

"To Be Yourself In A World Constantly Trying to Make You Something Different Shall Be Your Greatest Accomplishment"~Ralph Waldo Emerson

[Anonymous 3]

Been there done that, hard to compete with a ghost. Its a different form of the usual game, you are expected to live up to the memory of a saint..

[OneTrueMisfitSpectator 2690]

The AUDACITY of single mothers even thinking that a man with no children would be interested in committing in a relationship to them! WTF is wrong with these women?! Get a clue hoe! You done f~~~ed up! Once you made that mistake, you ostracized yourself from the market. You are not even eligible for consideration!

Don't care

[WolfParticipant 890]

Masculine_Man wrote:

A Letter To The Scared Guy Dating The Single Mom

Classic male shaming. If you don’t want the plethora of s~~~ that comes with dating a single mom, then in their eyes you’re a scared little man child.

Masculine_Man wrote:

I’m A Single Mom, But I’m Not To Blame. Stop Judging Me For It.

More male shaming with some victimization mixed in. Men are bad for judging, despite the fact that it’s a basic human function. It’s how we form opinions and decisions.

[OneTrueMisfitSpectator 2690]

From a single mom

“Family and friends are important in my life. I’m also laid-back, kind, caring and respectful. I want someone who opens the door for me, is the first to call, and isn’t afraid to show their feelings.”

LOL someone who opens the door for you? Get real lady, you’re a single mom! You should be as lucky to have a man look at you. Will showing my disgust for single mothers to you be appreciated since I will be sharing my feelings?

Don't care

[BeerParticipant 11832]

OneTrueMisfit wrote:

From a single mom

“Family and friends are important in my life. I’m also laid-back, kind, caring and respectful. I want someone who opens the door for me, is the first to call, and isn’t afraid to show their feelings.”

LOL someone who opens the door for you? Get real lady, you’re a single mom! You should be as lucky to have a man look at you. Will showing my disgust for single mothers to you be appreciated since I will be sharing my feelings?

Haha…I agree man. If they truly wanted to settle down with a good guy they should have thought about that before wrecking themselves on an extended c~~~ carousel ride and s~~~ting out kids.

I’m 33 and just last week had a 23 year old trying to get a mutual friend to hook us up. Guess what…I’ve also taken care of my body, have a good job, and have my s~~~ together with no baggage. When I meet someone my age with kid(s), already has taken miles of c~~~, all kinds of baggage from the carousel ride, and piles of debt to show for all the hard work she’s put into life, I just look at them like “Sorry honey…if I was looking for a woman it would be that 23 year old with no kids that hasn’t f~~~ed herself over beyond salvation yet.” If those post wall single moms even want attention from a decent guy “dating” for them should be them making the first move and inviting a guy over for a home cooked meal(while the kids are at a baby sitters) and multiple bjs…like before, during, and after dinner. Of course…they still want to be treated like they were when they were younger, less f~~~ed up, and with less baggage…but I think more guys are wising up to the fact that they do not deserve it.

[CardinalParticipant 82]

oh just look at this….I cringe

http://www.singlemom.com/dating-advice-and-tips/

[survivorParticipant 610]

“Cringeworthy”. You’re right about that. And stomach turning as well.

"Shot through the heart, and you're to blame, You give love a bad name, I play my part and you play your game, You give love a bad name."--Bon Jovi

[The Dark JediParticipant 63]

Date no offal,you must…remain on your own way going.

There's small choice in rotten apples-The taming of the Shrew

[OneTrueMisfitSpectator 2690]

🙂 “You’re a single wha?”

Don't care

[OldschoolParticipant 2481]

F~~~, looking around that site, no words can describe the “advice” these women are giving to each other. Speechless.

Get a vasectomy.

[OneTrueMisfitSpectator 2690]

Damage goods. Baggage. Who wants that?

Don't care

[Daryll55Participant 2953]

Since I have seen a few of you have gone to dating sites recently; I went to one myself. I went to Match.com and created a fake profile. They won’t let me in without paying(LIKE THAT’S GONNA HAPPEN!), so I had to settle for doing a quick search through the profiles.

Here’s the one that was even remotely interesting out of @ 200.
She is 54 about a 6 in looks, and has a full time job,(she is reallly busy) and 3 kids.
Here is what she is looking for:
“I really would like to meet someone new who is attractive to me, fun, has a relaxed sense of humor, is confident, educated, successful,not arrogant, happy with his life, and who understands that I have three young children who are a priority.”

Can YOU TRANSLATE that ??

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[Ronin11Participant 208]

I want someone to share my life with. I don’t NEED you, but I WANT you. I am fine just by myself.

So you want me or are you fine without me? Sounds like you are trying to hedge your bets either way. If a man gave a woman this kind of wishy washy diatribe she’d kick him to the curb.

I am a good person.

A good person would have chosen better so as NOT to be a single mom.

All that being said, I feel like maybe you are intimidated by me.

Not scared at all, the cost benefit analysis isn’t worth it.

Maybe you worry that you can’t contribute; that you don’t have anything to offer me. Well, yes, I sure can take care of myself and my child, but hey – I never said you couldn’t help me out.

So that’s all you need is help? I thought you could take care of yourself.

You to hug and kiss me when I walk through the door and ask me how my day was and in turn, I would like to be able to do the same for you.

I don’t need you do hug me and kiss me, and ask me how my day was when I get home.

A father for my child.

So all parenting decisions go through you. Since you know what’s best for your child.

Disciplining my child is something that I do need help with.

Yep you need help with the hard things. Which indicates you don’t have the will to do right thing only the easy things.

If I had you to reinforce what I was saying, I feel that we’d all benefit.

I play bad cop so you can be the angel that saves your kid from the mean ogre.

I want a man that will treat me right and show my child how a wife is supposed to be treated.

Translation: Show my child what a pussifed worm is.

I want someone that knows me better than I know myself. Someone that knows something is up just by looking at me. Someone to share all of my secrets with.

You don’t want a man you want a mind reader

A girl needs a good romp in the hay every once in a while. But you’ll have to forgive me because I’m back to the Rookie stage at this point. I’d like you to help me out of that stage.

Why are you at the rookie stage? Does that mean you don’t like sex? You can do without? Sounds like it to me.

I know that it is a lot to take on.

Again what is the benefit to me? You’ve lined out negative after negative where are the positives?

My child does come first, but I swear to you that I will try my damnedest to be what you deserve and what you need me to be

When the choice is me or your child I will come second. What is the benefit to me?

I have chosen you at this point in my life, but I can only wait so long. Every day that you wait, is another day closer to someone else coming along.

You have chosen me, but someone else can come along at any time. I’d rather be with someone who wants ONLY me.

I’m confused is this letter supposed to make me want her? Because any guy in his right mind will look at all the negative points she made and say “punt”

There are no good women only degrees of bad.

[CrowbarParticipant 192]

I was involved with a single mom a lot of years ago – decent looking, had a curvy build which I like (had a real nice set of t~~~), and loved sex (she was loud). Tried to break up with her after a couple of months, went back to get more sex, broke up with her a few weeks later, then ended up having one more hookup with her (which is a whole other story). This woman had some serious issues which the sex papered over until I finally slapped myself upside the head and realized that I didn’t need to be responsible for three kids (their dad was involved, FWIW).

Never, never, never get involved with a single woman (nor any woman for that matter). If I thought my married life sucked now, it would be exponentially worse with her. Sex can’t cover up those issues.

[Krab_AssParticipant 267]

Yeah….all I hear in the first article is “I….” and “I….” and ….. oh yeah…. “I….”.

Reminds me of the time my friends tried to sneakily set me up with a single mom, at my best friends wedding. Thankfully, I was to stupid to catch on and she was out the door like a shot! Good luck hon!

To be fair to women – I wonder how many single dads are out there trolling to find a mommy for their kid. Just saying…

Oh – and I love your tag line, it reminds me of something I saw on a T-shirt in Tahoe:

“If it has tires or t~~~ you probably can’t afford it!”

"I care not what others think of what I do, but I care very much about what I think of what I do! That is character!"
~ Theodore Roosevelt

[TronParticipant 285]

When a woman tells me, “I’m a single mom.” I immediately ask her, “Where’s dad?” Why? because most of the time he will be there and involved and sending her tax free money (child support) every month. This gentlemen, is NOT a single mom. A single parent is someone who is completely on their own and the other spouse is out of the picture. So why do these women call themselves single moms? Because all women are addicted to attention. Attention is their heroin. When you are a single mom you are automatically catapulted to sainthood and everyone wants to give you attention.
These women intentionally fail to acknowledge the father’s contribution. They know that when people hear the words, “single mom” they think “No dad.” This is how women perpetuate the “bad dad” stereotype. I don’t date anymore but when I did and she called herself a single mom I would drop her like a bad habit. This crap is insulting to men. Why not brag about successfully coparenting with your ex hubby? Well, then women do not get all that attention that a single mom would get.

Also from a financial standpoint, these women will usually insist on the man paying even if the guy is sending his ex-wife tax free money. STOP Dating guys.

[IAmJacksBBCParticipant 47]

I’ve got a date with a single mother around my age this week. She’s attractive well enough and I’m betting my cards that she might be sexually hungry, but I don’t want to be caught up in that drama if it goes further.

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