Single moms, the lemon investment

[Oz-BlokeParticipant 3233]

My visual thoughts on the matter –

#ManOut

[experiencedParticipant]

Russky wrote:

My good friend is marrying this

overweight bitchy single mom complete with 10yo son, wine habit and 3 cats.

I hang out at their apartment sometimes with my daughter.
We play wii bowling and drink brewskis.
Now he wants me to be his best man at the wedding and my daughter a flower girl.
I might gonna have to accept. F~~~. But I’m not a kind of guy that tells others how to live. He asked me for my opinion before he proposed and I told him: don’t do it. I’m not going to tell him again. We’re grown men afterall. Sucks to be him though

Believe me, I know it’s easier said than done,
but if there’s ANY way of ‘kind of sort of’ not being his best man, IMO, it’ll be worth it.
NOT because the DIRECT NO is anything you fear giving, but to buffer it TO HIM.
Of course there’s always the, “Look, I’m sorry, but I can’t support you in this decision. It’d be easy if I didn’t give a damn, but I care too much to see you ruin your life.”

There, f~~~ me, more unasked for advice but the description of HER warrants it.

I guess I’m the kind of guy who tells others how to live 🙂

the kind of guy:

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[BokehParticipant 65]

Don’t date single moms. Why be her consolation prize? You weren’t good enough before the kid, in most cases.

[The Laughing ManParticipant 1020]

Keymaster wrote:

Ask her: “If you see a piece of dog s~~~ on the street, and you are NOT INTERESTED in picking it up, talking to it, or playing with it… does that mean you are “afraid” of it? Of course not. You are simply NOT INTERESTED”.

HA!!! I’m all about analogies, thanks this is being filed away for later use.

Russky wrote:

You guys have to watch this – it’s pretty

That was great, notice the thumbnail, he gives her the finger subtly while holding the mic.

I thought what I'd do was I'd pretend I was one of those deaf-mutes...or should I?

[the roadParticipant 3125]

Always with the shaming crap or the “I don’t need a man” bulls~~~. I don’t owe you anything t~~~ and you’re damn right I’m afraid. I’m afraid that you are going to try and trick me so that you can extract my wealth.

The one I hate the most: “My kids come first!” But I damn well better put her first over my son though.

My ex and I kind of split up for this reason. Anything related to her son took precedent. That’s okay, my son took precedent for me as well. Then one time when I was trying to help her with something, I needed to know a rough estimate of how much time was necessary because I would have my son with me and eventually I need to feed him and get him to sleep.

She wouldn’t give me an answer and acted like I didn’t want to help her after I made her a priority and put my life on hold for two days straight over this incident. I finally told her that I can’t do it because the hours don’t work and I need to attend to my son. Long story short, I needed to make her the priority and I was an asshole for not putting her above my son.

I dumped her right then. F~~~ you beotch. My son comes first you hypocrite.

#MANOUT

[jay278Participant 8]

Don’t believe the bulls~~~ they tell you about the babydaddy being s~~~ either. Trust me 75% of the time its just simply not true, and that babydaddy is really trying but the system and the mother is making things difficult. If you do ever get into a relationship with one of these woman, don’t be afraid to have a chat with the babydaddy if you get the chance, it just might save your life.

Remember, woman have evolved to manipulate men, it’s in there genes and is really there only defense against us. Most single mothers have no concept of integrity and will lie there arses off to build a victim facade of “woe is me because of my child’s father”.

Tap and GAP, emphasis on the gap. I pity the f~~~er that may get into a relationship with my babymamma in the future. I really do, chick is unhinged and has a deep subconscious hate of men.

Like one of those sirens from ancient Greek (is it Greek?) mythology, they attract you in with there beautiful song and appearance. Once your within range, they transform into a blood sucking demon that sucks your soul and keeps you under an illusion spell to make you think they are still beautiful.

Woman are collectivly no longer our opposite in polarity, This is a huge problem.

[CatsPawParticipant 423]

The only good thing about single moms is that if you leave them, they cant use the child to blackmail you because its not yours.

[experiencedParticipant]

CatsPaw wrote:

The only good thing about single moms is that if you leave them, they cant use the child to blackmail you because its not yours.

You have to be careful due to laws that say,
~”Oops, Junior and siblings ‘have come to think of you as a father figure'”.
– then, BAM, the laydee has you on the hook for child support.
I think this factored in to the guy ‘blowing her away’ in a recent article.

Someone wrote: Single moms had a party, you weren’t invited, but now you’re supposed to clean up the mess.
They will bend over every way from here to Tuesday. They know the system. The system is unjust and beyond brutal. For the most part it’s behind a soundproof door except for this site.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Russky wrote:

Now he wants me to be his best man at the wedding

The best man gets to give a speech. That’s what I call an opportunity.

Plan your post speech exit in advance.

[RyshParticipant 134]

Women with children are like postmarked stamps: if anything at all, just a collector’s item.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Single mommies are the most irresponsible c~~~s on earth. No money, no character, no brains and no judgment.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[ExpendableYouthParticipant 381]

The only thing you need to know about single moms is:

You should not know anything about single moms because they should not even be in your mind because you should know better by now.

That and it is ALWAYS fun when you hear this: “You’re NOT my real dad, I don’t have to listen to you”. Hahahahaha…..oh boy

[experiencedParticipant]

I think I’ll go with Sun Tzu on this one:

http://www.goodreads.com/quotes/17976-if-you-know-the-enemy-and-know-yourself-you-need

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[FreedomParticipant 965]

The blokes f~~~ed.

Force him to read this site for a night.

She cheated on me ..... my fault. I showed an interest in another woman......my fault.

[survivorParticipant 610]

For a widow I might feel some pity. I do know some guys who were never married and wifed up a widow with kids. It’s kind of a different situation because there’s no question the father isn’t coming back and he’s totally out of the picture. What does anyone think about this situation?

"Shot through the heart, and you're to blame, You give love a bad name, I play my part and you play your game, You give love a bad name."--Bon Jovi

[SwimcatParticipant 3589]

The other day I ran across one of my daughters childhood friends. ( My oldest daughter is 33 years old) She had heard I was recently widowed and in spite of the age difference, came on to me big time. I pretended not to get it and went on my way. I called my daughter about it and she said this piece of work has three biracial children. God only knows who and where the fathers are. Fat chance I’m gonna take that on. My daughter threatened to kick her ass if she comes around me again.

[SwimcatParticipant 3589]

For a widow I might feel some pity. I do know some guys who were never married and wifed up a widow with kids. It’s kind of a different situation because there’s no question the father isn’t coming back and he’s totally out of the picture. What does anyone think about this situation?

Survivor, That’s a rare situation. I might consider that unless the former husband was murdered over drugs or crime, which is often the case.

[SwimcatParticipant 3589]

If I’m not mistaken in some states if you bring a single mother into the home you own, she can have YOU evicted because the law does not put childen out of the home they’ve lived at. In spite of the fact the home was yours prior to the relationship. That will NEVER EVER happen to me.

[Chaff/FlareParticipant 3235]

Russky wrote:

My good friend is marrying this overweight bitchy single mom complete with 10yo son, wine habit and 3 cats. I hang out at their apartment sometimes with my daughter. We play wii bowling and drink brewskis.
Now he wants me to be his best man at the wedding and my daughter a flower girl. I might gonna have to accept. F~~~. But I’m not a kind of guy that tells others how to live. He asked me for my opinion before he proposed and I told him: don’t do it. I’m not going to tell him again. We’re grown men afterall. Sucks to be him though

Key has a good story you need to hear. He ended up getting punched in the face..I cant find it.

KeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeyMaaaaaaaaster!

When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.

[narwhalParticipant]

Swimcat wrote:

For a widow I might feel some pity. I do know some guys who were never married and wifed up a widow with kids. It’s kind of a different situation because there’s no question the father isn’t coming back and he’s totally out of the picture. What does anyone think about this situation?

I consider that a slightly worse situation. In my case, I was never married, had no kids, and married a woman with 1 child from a man she never married or really had a relationship with. He was around a bit, but not very active. Things were fine at first, however, once we were married, the time alone just the two of completely dried up…she stopped trying. There was a wall between me and her kid and she somehow felt the need to protect him from me all of a sudden.

It’s still not desirable, but I would rather the father be active in the kids life, for two reasons. One, it provides more natural alone time. Two, there is another man there to provide a voice of reason when it comes to the kids. It’s more difficult for a woman to manipulate with the kids when there are 2 men involved. And that other man has absolutely no reason to deal with her BS.

Ok. Then do it.

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