Single men / single women – who is happier??

[experiencedParticipant]

out of 200 marriages

100 still married       100 divorced

100 still married       80/100 filed by wife*    20/100 filed by husband

*in a room of 100 “divorced” women, eighty of them initiated the divorce.

http://www.uplifting-love.com/2013/08/80-percent-of-divorces-are-filed-by.html

If men dropped their vows as much as women,(regarding,”forever”) the divorce rate would be another 60 divorces i.e. 80% overall.

Distilled for briefing any man considering marriage………..80/100 marriage failure (vs divorce) rate. 160/200 = divorced, or in living hell.

Corrects the conversation, “Ma’am, are you divorced?”  “Why yes I yam.”  Later in conversation, discerning that she’s the one who filed for divorce against her spouse,  “Then, you weren’t ‘divorced’, but it was you, who divorced your sworn partner.”

article/female author/ stat’s are correct–I checked, HOWEVER….80% because the women are unhappy” ?!        Ya know, you’re right, I’d never want to put a woman in such a miserable position, so I don’t marry, period.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Comment section: These women don’t have any idea why men like being single. Some of these women are angry about it, is this before or after when they said 80% of men are below average. Good question is: Why do they care?
Second that Jen Comment: women always speculate about men, they always assume that men will always want them, they hate when men don’t follow that line.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[MendokusaiParticipant 256]

It’s funny when you see these pro marriage studies that suggest married men are healthier & live longer.

Who funds this crock of s~~~? Most married guys I know are out of shape because of their wives half assed

attempt at cooking,stressed beyond belief with responsibilities and unrealistic expectations from their so called

better half.

I on the other hand work out regularly,eat healthy and when I require the company of a fetard I order in.

In the words of Charlie Sheen -you don’t pay an escort to stay,you pay her to leave.

[KingOfTheSeaParticipant 1270]

I think when men CHOOSE to be single, they are the happiest. To address the questioner’s letter:

lack of love, affection and emotional support;

Most of the girls I’ve been with fake these things to get what they want. Sure, they’ll listen when you’re face-to-face, but as soon as they’re away, they’ll break it off. As Evan said, women ask for more help. CONSTANTLY. The idea that some of that might be taken away from them by a guy having legitimate problems is downright “traumatic” for some of them.

not having someone to go on vacation with;

Yeah, because men like sex (surprise!). Not having a nagging bitch with you helps a lot in the “getting laid” department. Besides, no one likes the drama of the seventy bags you bring full of all your s~~~, the whole “I’m losing weight in this crazy fad diet/workout that Kim K suggested so I can look good in my bikini for all my social media pictures we take on the trip, then binge on and after the trip” thing, the shared mini bathroom in the hotel that is full of all the things you just HAD to bring from home, etc. Not to mention: When was the last time you heard of a woman taking her husband/boyfriend on a trip? I’d say 9.8/10, it’s the men who are paying for everything. Every girl wants the very best vacation, but none of them think about what that does to their significant others’ wallet. Why deal with that when you can go yourself, travel first class, get a better room, and hook up with women you’ll never see again? That’s not how I operate, but I can see why any guy would pick it.

not having someone to share domestic tasks with;

Antares said it best: Men do all the heavy lifting here. Doing a few more automated tasks is no big deal. That, and cleanliness is just something people should do for themselves.

being excluded from social gatherings because I don’t have a partner;

Same mentality behind the vacation: Why go to a social event with a woman if you can have a good time with the boys and get some on the side?

not having someone to talk to at home on a day to day basis;

Again, because men don’t get that privilege. They’re allowed to bring up an issue briefly, but they’re expected to get over it themselves. Why WOULDN’T a man be happy that, on top of not having someone that supposedly cares about his problems get frustrated when he has them, he doesn’t have to deal with someone else’s s~~~?

having to cope with the financial burden of being single (apartment, bills etc.);

Soulman nailed this point.

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Please. Don’t make me laugh.

[experiencedParticipant]

King of the Sea quoted Soulman quoting a woman’s argument against bachelorhood, “not having a regular source of quality sex available.”   From that quote, one can see  they’ve got a really hot girl here, steamy even, just imagine ‘regular’ same old  (maybe for bowel movements),  AND ‘quality’……. well,  now I’m all aroused.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[GrumpyParticipant]

Men are happier single generally speaking.

I am pretty frigging easy to please,  food and shelter, a job i enjoy, disease/drama free sex when i want it,time alone, with family or friends, my stuff, and my assets. On my terms, not some shrill harpy’s terms.

I figure if at the end of it, I’m not getting out of this alive, So I’m going to have a f~~~ing fun ride to the end. Most of my friends are the same.

 

 

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[KingOfTheSeaParticipant 1270]

experienced wrote:

King of the Sea quoted Soulman quoting a woman’s argument against bachelorhood, “not having a regular source of quality sex available.” From that quote, one can see they’ve got a really hot girl here, steamy even, just imagine ‘regular’ same old (maybe for bowel movements), AND ‘quality’……. well, now I’m all aroused.

The funniest part to me is that for men, being single IS the only way for a regular source of quality sex…by, ironically, hooking up at vacations and social events.

[American dreamParticipant 51]

Good day to all visitors of this site. Today I joined your group. I am from Russia and I haven’t studied english for 1.5 years but I had had upper-intermediate level. I am sorry for my mistakes but I hope you will understand me. To my mind single man is happier than single girl. Firstly, man know his own way. Secondly, society don’t ask man frequently for children. Thirdly, since childhood man have dreamed about his future and his own role in this world. We have money,we have job,we have built this technologies and civililasation.  We are proud of it. Women learn how to manipulate man,how to get children from him,they dream in childhood about family. They don’t know about their future,they haven’t built technologies.

Out of the rules and system-follow your own way!

[Vector VikingParticipant 413]

I can’t speak for the other side of the fence, just from my own experience. Generally speaking, if I was in a relationship I was miserable and left wondering why I never experienced this “life of domesticated bliss” that I’d been sold- and paid for.

First I thought it must be something I’m doing wrong. I got a haircut, new wardrobe that included more ties, better paying job in a field I wasn’t especially interested in that included more cubicles, nicer car, more expensive apartment and lots of shiny things that needed dusting once a month or so. Got into the PUA life for a time, thinking I’d end up like Neil Strauss at the end of his book, happy guy with an awesome girlfriend.

The relationships resulting reflected my choices. My new girlfriends were prettier, shinier, and definitely more expensive- but I wasn’t happier. It was the same level of “there HAS to be something better than this” with the same kind of personality always up in my s~~~, snooping through my things, wanting me to change to suit their needs, flipping the f~~~ out if I didn’t comply. The only real thing that changed was that I had a higher income and a much higher outgo of finances.

Next, I thought it must be the “type” of woman I was into. So I started dating women I wouldn’t have given much of a chance before. Basically punched every rank & file on my “diversity card” and learned that I was for the most part sitting across the table from the same woman over and over and over again, with different hair styles, tattoos, and skin color. (Let me be perfectly honest with you guys, I did have a great deal of fun with this.) Any deeper than the superficial stuff and you’re basically dealing with the same personality with minor varying characteristics. Being a science-minded guy, I needed to be as thorough as I could and throw as many variables at my experiment as I could. The results were the same every time. Relationship=controlled misery.

My conclusion was that there IS “something better than this”. It’s living outside of the parameters of the experiment altogether. I’m entirely responsible for my own misery or happiness. Emotional needs being met? If they aren’t, that’s up to me to do something about it to see that they are. Not my lady friend’s/friends’/boss’s/parents fault nor problem. So I’m completely out of the relationship market, and the happiness I get from being single and responsible for my own mental and emotional state is so much greater and more real than waiting or hoping for change to come from something other than my own brain.

[Anonymous 9]

I’d say men are more happier. Personally speaking, every since I’ve been single the first months or so required some adjusting on my end, but after that I started to realize how precious freedom really is.

When I say freedom, I mean being free from the emotional attachments that comes along with a relationship. Now, I’m able to enjoy life much more fully because I don’t have to cater to a woman’s needs as if I’m her toy to be used and abused.

 

 

[kbbroilerParticipant 886]

Ok here is my take. Men are happier as the get older because as long as you resist marriage and relationships a man’s value goes up. He stock rises as for a woman her stock goes wayyyyyyyyyy down. That’s the key to hold out and don’t fall prey to woman’s game. For me personally, 100% happy and I’m not rich either. An old saying but it fits here men age like wine and women age like milk. Now if someone already said that in this post sorry. I only read the first few responses.

[Anonymous 9]

kbbroiler wrote:

Ok here is my take. Men are happier as the get older because as long as you resist marriage and relationships a man’s value goes up. He stock rises as for a woman her stock goes wayyyyyyyyyy down. That’s the key to hold out and don’t fall prey to woman’s game. For me personally, 100% happy and I’m not rich either. An old saying but it fits here men age like wine and women age like milk. Now if someone already said that in this post sorry. I only read the first few responses.

I definitely agree.

I’m not sure how you feel about men without kids, and if you have any don’t take it the wrong way, but also in not having kids our value goes up as well.

But there’s no doubt about us aging like wine.

[SyncSoloParticipant 18]

Younger women need the validation of having a hot boyfriend they think they deserve, even if they’re 3/10 themselves they want a 6/10 and up.

Facebook and instagram make them think they’re sexy and gorgeous, getting comments like “wow beautiful” on any “selfies” they post. When in reality they look like a walking nightmare, without the face paint most look rough as a badgers asshole! The good news is that most of them will end up alone and be eaten by their cats. While the decent guys they ignored via online darting or elsewhere will be happier and richer as a result.

[Balls34Participant 7]

SyncSolo wrote:

Younger women need the validation of having a hot boyfriend they think they deserve, even if they’re 3/10 themselves they want a 6/10 and up. Facebook and instagram make them think they’re sexy and gorgeous, getting comments like “wow beautiful” on any “selfies” they post. When in reality they look like a walking nightmare, without the face paint most look rough as a badgers asshole! The good news is that most of them will end up alone and be eaten by their cats. While the decent guys they ignored via online darting or elsewhere will be happier and richer as a result.

 

they treat the hot guys just as s~~~ty, bro. At the end of the day, a lot of women really want a beta. A doormat

[Balls34Participant 7]

SyncSolo wrote:

Younger women need the validation of having a hot boyfriend they think they deserve, even if they’re 3/10 themselves they want a 6/10 and up. Facebook and instagram make them think they’re sexy and gorgeous, getting comments like “wow beautiful” on any “selfies” they post. When in reality they look like a walking nightmare, without the face paint most look rough as a badgers asshole! The good news is that most of them will end up alone and be eaten by their cats. While the decent guys they ignored via online darting or elsewhere will be happier and richer as a result.

  they treat the hot guys just as s~~~ty, bro. At the end of the day, a lot of women really want a beta. A doormat

[Anonymous 42]

SyncSolo wrote:

The good news is that most of them will end up alone and be eaten by their cats.

LOL, so blague, so non nonchalant, that was mufucckin smooth as puppy s~~~!

[Sam RavenParticipant 181]

… wrote:

Dav: good point about the toilet paper. if there were fewer women using toilet paper, make up paints, tampons, hair chemicals….wouldn’t the earth be freed of 70 per cent of the toxic waste and pollutants going into the ecology? i think we’d have cleaner air, less pollution, and fewer trees would be sacrificed. that’s how you really save a tree, a forest, and a planet.

Lightbulb thermonuke just went off in my head brutha.

[Vector VikingParticipant 413]

I saw another link to another Evan Marc Katz blog earlier, it was just as s~~~ty, and I skimmed over a couple more of his blogs.

Seriously, that little man makes Dr. Phil look like Chuck Norris.

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

Anonymous wrote:

My septic system is healthy, Women throw everything down the toilet including blood plugs, coffee grinds, napkins, paper towels, grease, trash, and bleach! They’re no different with men, they’ll use your mind as a toilet bowl, then wonder why there’s a backup, they can NEVER understand why they’re all covered in s~~~!

This needs to be the MGTOW.com quote of the month.

Tower, you are a f~~~ing philosopher.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[Anonymous 42]

@Medic, I never yell, hit, scream, or otherwise loose control. I’m calm, even in an emergency. One day I just had enough of everyone’s s~~~! I cut off friends that were users, losers, and the likes. I s~~~ canned the majority of people in my life, quit smoking, drinking, and wasting time. But women, yea women, they p~~~ed me off the most, shallow two faced and full of s~~~! When they say “I do” what they really mean is “You’ll do, till better comes along”.

I never fell for their s~~~, I gave every woman a clean new slate, like clockwork, some faster than others, they stained the slate with their dishonorable BS, and of course “cheating”. So I figured two could play that game, I was right, when you throw your own moral restrictions to the wind like I did, you’ll find your dick stuck in someone’s wife, that’s when I melted down and finally had enough, I flushed the whole Idea of female companionship right down the drain. THE. BEST. DECISION. I. EVER. MADE! And true to their colors, I kept observing the C~~~ Carousel and it’s machinery. Feminism has destroyed women MORE than men. I would not want to be a woman in today’s feminist mandated confusion. I urge any man to look at the facts: Slavery and misery to governmental matrimony and gynocentrism, or cut loose, shove everything up societies ass, toss women in the garbage can, and walk the f~~~ away! It’s a no brainier!

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