Relentless Assault: How do you guys keep your cool?

[Anonymous 14]

To start with I wish to apologise to my MGTOW brothers here for straying away from the MGTOW way. I know as a MGTOW I should know better than to fall for such things but sometimes its so damn inexorable that I simply can’t help it.

I am talking about all the misandry experienced in day to day life. I wake up in the morning, start going through the newspaper headlines while having my morning tea and I’m faced with at least a dozen reports of rape(by men as if women are incapable of sexual crimes), news from all over the world of how various government and non-government organizations are upping the ante to make this world better for women and worse for men, feminist celebrities and their vitriol on how admirable women are compared to the abhorrent men, mundane female achievements highlighted even over extraordinary male ones and yet when I turn to the entertainment page its full of female celebs exposing their bodies but thats okay, its fashion, except its objectification when a man is involved.

So I’ve stopped reading newspapers totally and instead turned to the internet for whatever relevant news but there too the exact same s~~~. I rarely turn on the television but when I do, not even that is exempt from this vile wave of man hate except maybe only the sports channels but not for long if you know what I mean.
That just leaves the cinemas(movie theaters) as the last source of entertainment? But guess what..

Sometimes it feels like the women are elves, immortal, wisest and fairest of all beings and we men are dwarves, vile, greedy and selfish runts who hide away in their mountains digging for riches. I am using this analogy because like many others, I too am fond of the works of Tolkien and really looking forward to the upcoming The Hobbit: The Battle of Five Armies. But unfortunately, as good a filmmaker he is, Peter Jackson is also a grade A mangina, which is more than evident from his previous works like The Lord of the Rings where he overpowered the character Éowyn into something like à la Wonder Woman and that awful Tauriel from The Desolation of Smaug, a character he himself created to please the female audience with an overpowered female archetype. The first Hobbit, An Unexpected Journey was so epic, especially because there wasn’t as single female character in it. It was about brotherhood, honour, allegiance but it was all too good to last.

I don’t mean to sound like a Tolkien fanboy here which I’m not. I’m just asking where does a man, with his sense of self-respect intact go to get entertained if not the movie theaters which are supposed to be a place to get away from a life that offers him naught but indignity all the time. Especially since every other modes of entertainment (except gaming) is rigged with man hating feminist hypocrisy nowadays.

I go to watch Man of Steel, a movie about the greatest male superhero ever and I come back witnessing how he almost got his ass handed to him by a female kryptonian. I am not particularly fond of Christopher Nolan’s Dark Knight saga(except the second movie which was good) because I prefer the real Bob Kane/90’s Batman Animated series Batman who didn’t sound like he had laryngitis and didn’t dress up like a BDSM gimp with eye makeup(ugh). But the last Dark Knight movie(which I intentionally skipped) took manginism to its height by casting  that toothy Princess Anne from the Princess Diaries as Catwoman (a sneaky little creep of a Batman villain blow out of proportions as a feminist icon in the recent years) and the glaringly British Tom Hardy as the hispanic Bane but with a muffled, unintelligible British accent to be killed off by Princess Anne, as I heard. Swell.

But all that aside, I still enjoy Nolan’s other works like that mindblowing Inception and that is why I went to see Interstellar, which was hardly anything like Inception as I found out and I wasn’t really surprised to see the story unfold with the son growing up to be the mindless, hillbilly farmer while the daughter growing up to be the smart gal who eventually figures it all our and saves the humanity. YAYYY!

I’m so f~~~ing tired of this bulls~~~ that sometimes I feel like this:

 

I’m really curious, how do you guys deal with this relentless assault of bulls~~~? This is really starting to get on my nerves nowadays, I feel I’m losing it..

[jack reacherParticipant 751]

Triklops, I feel your struggle and wish I had the magic pill to suggest. I do know as MGTOW’s we are on the right track by challenging all assumptions. That is not much reassurance since it is a long term investment.

I can say that what you feel is by-product of a culture of male disposability, and that it often becomes internalized. The more you can question the culture and the values, the more you can dismantle any internalized notions of disposability. It is a difficult path, as it requires a rebuilding of a self-affirming set of values as a man. There is very little outside support for that endeavor, and it is a massive task.

But consider how quickly broads have shed their traditional roles as nurturing caregivers, and instead suck off the teat of government support. It was done in relatively short amount of time, so surely us males can deconstruct and rebuild in at least as short a time or even less.

Remember that by opting out as a MGTOW, you are giving support to a critical mass. And if you look, you can also see affirmations of the push back at our culture of male disposability and contempt for males. Us having this forum is one example.

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

It sucks sometimes Man, I feel ya. TV commercials, movies, news article and their stupid ass comments, facebook. Just a constant bombardment of Misandry, Shame Language and Man Hating. What makes it worse is that there’s Mangina Men who won’t f~~~ing stand up to it or see it for what it is.

 

I keep my cool by not giving a f~~~. Not giving in to their bulls~~~. I no longer argue with Women about useless and pointless s~~~. It’s not a sign of weakness or meekness, it just means “I’m tired of your f~~~ing s~~~, we’re not having this useless discussion”. However that doesn’t take away the fact that you still need to call them out on their s~~~, and put their asses straight if they try and act up, or take your kindness for weakness. f~~~ no, call them out on their s~~~.

 

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Jame Cameron too. From the Alien Saga, to Leonardo DiCaprio getting dumped and STILL saving her life at the end of Titanic, as tough a guy as he is, he’s a WIMP! and every one of his movies has a f~~~ing evil c~~~ in it. I don’t need to spell out Avatar for you, but I watched it again …… and they just drive the point home. The hero is a quad in a wheelchair, useless, brainless, they mock him, call him “Jarhead” and make dumb jabs every second scene.

• “Try not to be so stupid next time”
• “What were you thinking”
• “The legendary floating mountains HEARD OF THEM???? (sarcasm)”

Insensitive to his brother being killed, who needs saving from a BIG BLUE BITCH who saves his life (when they meet) but then insults him and gives him s~~~. “You’re stupid like a baby”….. He’s totally useless. Has to learn everything. Can’t walk. Cant defend himself. And then of course the male soldiers are all evil…. and Giovanni Rabissi is a total dick who would sell his mother for profit…. and then Michelle Rodriguez (dyke) is the only ONE good soldier who empathizes with the tribe and withdraws fire.

30 years ago… Indiana Jones was THE movie hero. Bigger than Superman. Harrison Ford was THE Man. And even in Temple of Doom, when he’s on admission he helps that totally annoying female out and risks everything to save her life. James bond will still save a woman who tried to kill him. But today if you have a script that makes women look f~~~ing perfect and men look stupid and evil, you just exploited female nature and will probably win an oscar.

Make a man look smarter than a woman and your movie will flop.
Exploit female nature. Oprah. Twilight. 50 shades. And you have a winner

The misandry on TV and in commercials is off the charts. It used to p~~~ me off , but Cheerios just released a “dads are cool and fun” commercial will lead me to believe there is hope ahead.It’s not even the staged dramas or scripted films… but mostly the REALITY shows that are truly scary. Of all the women who tried to get away with paternity fraud on Maury Povich, has anyone ever seen ONE of them apologize to the guy when it was discovered was NOT the father and she was a huge slut? No the slutsjust run into hallway crying. Even when men did nothing wrong and should be P~~~ED… he made her cry. She’s a victim. HE doesn’t matter. F~~~ Im sick of seeing reality shows.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 14]

<cite>@jack_reacher said:</cite>

Remember that by opting out as a MGTOW, you are giving support to a critical mass. And if you look, you can also see affirmations of the push back at our culture of male disposability and contempt for males. Us having this forum is one example.

No no, you got me wrong. I’m not saying that I’m opting out of MGTOW. Hell I’ve been an MGTOW since I was 9, ever since I witnessed the girl in my elementary school who my very first friend (since pre-kindergarten) and the one I thought I’d like to spend the rest of my life with (though I never did feel romantically about her because I’m not at all romantic), take pleasure in torturing me both physically, mentally and even sexually (empowered and encouraged by feminist teachers)  just because I was a boy. She wanted to kiss me as well as kick me in my b~~~~ for refusing to kiss her back, just because she could. I told her I’d rather go kiss a dog and would kick her back twice as hard if she ever tried kicking me. She went and complained to the feminist nun principal that I told her to kiss me else I’d kick her between her legs. The principal made me stand outside her office for the rest of the day without food or drink. I nearly lost consciousness due to dehydration by the end of the day and when my father who was a lawyer demanded to know why I was treated so inhumanely the nun principal (who is supposed to be a holy woman) lied to him, saying all kind of bulls~~~ like I was beating up girls and I needed to be taught a lesson and that I was adamant and refused food and drink when offered by them!

Man..I was just 9. Nine. I loved her, not sexually not romantically but unconditionally. So f~~~ me for being such a wuss and not kicking her in her c~~~ when I had the chance :'(

Nah, you got me all wrong. I could never opt out of being an MGTOW even if I could. I was just saying that maybe by being bothered with all these BS I’m being a disgrace to MGTOWs everywhere 🙁

[MjolnirParticipant 23]

It sure is hard not reacting to the storm of bs in media and everyday life. Most of the times I try to ignore it and not getting upset. There’s no point in getting upset by things you cannot change by yourself. I find that having a few friends who are on your wavelength makes the situation a lot better, even if they are not mgtow. They still see the structure in society and question why it has to be this way.

Watching older movies nowadays it strikes me very hard how different the society was just 30 years ago. Getting a bit tired of the super empowered female character that steps on the b~~~~ of every man in a movie. Game of thrones  is a nice exception to this where there are some really interesting male characters.

Reading your last post, that sounds horrible to do to a 9 year old boy.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

I stopped watching television years ago and now only use my tv for video games and the occasional movie and even then I have to be on the lookout for female bias in the small amount of media I consume. Occasionally, though, I’ll observe a commercial on a television in a bar or restaurant (I try to avoid places with televisions but it’s tough these days) and will almost invariably see some male actor playing the part of the man-child idiot.

When this happens I just use it as a reminder to myself of how much happier I a, living in a world where I am not programmed by a television or a female… and point out my issue with the misrepresentation of men to whatever friend I may happen to be with so that we can dissect it over drinks later.

Mostly, though, like I said, I’ve pretty much cut mainstream media out of my diet. I don’t even visit many websites… mostly I read and talk to people and I highly recommend both. With books you can simply put them down if their message is offensive and with people you can call them out for their bulls~~~ or regurgitated misandry.

[RoyDalParticipant]

I keep my cool by withdrawal, by avoiding negative stimuli. I do not do things I dislike, not when I have control over things at least. Moreover, I focus on things I do like.

I cut the cable years ago (like docfenderson). This was in large part because of the “men are idiots but husbands are worse” b.s. I get no pleasure out of watching that crap. Thus, I avoid it and seek things that are pleasurable.

(And let’s not forget the “skinny little female who can beat up any male” nonsense. Do you ever notice that after the fight her makeup isn’t smeared and her hair isn’t mussed?)

I save my time and money for books, DVDs and activities (such as exercise) that leave me feeling good afterward. Playing fetch with my dog is far more important to me than some sitcom about henpecked men.

In fact, there are shows and movies I do like. I can’t think of any that are relentlessly anti-male.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[RoyDalParticipant]

I was just saying that maybe by being bothered with all these BS I’m being a disgrace to MGTOWs everywhere

Nah! It just means you are a normal guy with normal feelings. In the movie In Harm’s Way John Wayne said something like, “all battles are fought by frightened men who wish they were somewhere else.”

BTW, In Harm’s Way is in my permanent DVD collection. Two thumbs up!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[TYEParticipant 291]

Like Roy said WITHDRAW,WITHDRAW,WITHDRAW ! I got rid of my TV for awhile then put it back to watch the few things that aren’t complete brainwashing B.S. ! I don’t bother exposing myself to things that p~~~ me off, the second I see something I don’t like I get the hell out of the room, or go into defense mode which is basically when I doze off into a “MGTOW  state of mind” which causes me to randomly burst out laughing, and people around me have no idea why. When someone is saying something that’s unbelievably stupid, and ignorant just say in your head “this c~~~ is such a freaking idiot” be sure to smile while you’re thinking it, even when shes cursing up a storm. Women hate to be laughed at, and not taken seriously so when she starts yapping away start playing with your finger nails, or pull out a rubber ball and begin tossing it. As for things in our society that p~~~ you off I can only recommend that you distance yourself from them whenever possible, but when it comes to women act like they don’t exist even when around them.

[….Participant 305]

I know how you guys feel about the endless stream of s~~~ being shot at us every day but this Cascade commercial with the man(?) being told to “stall” their dinner guests, coupled with a rate increase the same day has spelled the end of my “propaganda box” . https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Rq0ZZuaMg8. Really? Can you believe that s~~~? F~~~ing monkey. No more paying for  infomercials with all the old hags  trying to avoid The Wall with bulls~~~ like Cindy Crawfords “Meaningless Stupidity”  and tons of  other s~~~ channels that are filled with garbage that are not fit to watch. Doprah and The View  (Vaginal Idiocy Expressed Weirdly) come to mind. Killing my TV will help keep my blood pressure down plus I’m getting the satisfaction of starving the system of my $1000 a year. My advice is ditch the TV (or at least the cable )& go spend the money on something relaxing for YOURSELF and be thankful you can see the bulls~~~ for what it is. A public execution of my TV is slated for January 1, with no possibility of a reprieve.

[RoyDalParticipant]

… end of my “propaganda box”

Hear, hear!!

TV programming works against all the character traits I want to have. It fails my personal cost/benefit analysis.

First the benefit:
It is scientifically designed to make us inactive, mentally passive, uncritical, and gullible to sales pitches. No kidding, a search of academic psychology literature will turn up research going back to the 1950s, and books exposing this some written by the very researchers themselves. This is what the advertisers need, and the advertisers pay for everything on TV.

On the contrary, I want to be physically active, mentally alert, critical in my thinking, and wise in my purchases and all life decisions.

Now the cost:
I can buy a lot of fun and games for that $1000 per year. By the way, I have relations who spend closer to $3000 — ugh!
Then there are the hidden costs. Inactivity causes degenerative diseases. Mental passivity causes depression. Lack of critical thinking and gullibility are just plain stupid. Ugh again!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[In Which We ServeParticipant 111]

Reading books or watching films made before 1965 or so is generally a good way to keep cool.

That said, there are some quite good pro-male films made more recently, like Office Space, Swingers, and a few others.

[jack reacherParticipant 751]

 

Triklops,

to clarify, my comment was “opting out AS a MGTOW” not “opting out OF MGTOW”.

[Anonymous 14]

Aye my bad. Read it in a hurry so misread it entirely but it was too late to edit/change my comment. Guess that embarrassing history of my childhood woes was unnecessary and I really feel awkward now -_-

o well..

Also, Thanks guys for all your input on the subject. Good to know I’m not alone on this. And yes you’re right, there is nothing we can do about it so just as well laugh it up and let it pass. Guess its a lot like having a chicken drumstick, you just eat the meat and leave the bone, for the dogs.

[AlexanderParticipant 5]

Hi m8s!

if we live in a gynocentric society, then what do we expect. For me as a single father it is often almost painful to see the presumption of motherhood everywhere (commercials, language, prejudice, courts etc.), although we know that we single dads live with less help and perform even better than our female counterparts. Yet, everytime there is a debate on social policy you always hear:”we must help single mothers and their children”…WTF…”their” children..what about the dads? if those women cannot feed (lets not speak about educating) their children then why are they awarded custody in the fist place?

But then I tell myself that this is the regime we live under and unfortunately the majority of men is still consenting…and that last part makes me much more angry than any feminist/gynocentric bs on the telly

 

cheers

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

Yes, it’s true that if you go to a movie, you are likely to see some bulls~~~ on the screen that depicts men as idiots and women as some sort of super achievers. Similar situation with tv, newspapers etc. How do I deal with that s~~~? I remind myself that all that s~~~ is just manufactured shadows and sounds… it isn’t real. When I was a kid, it was referred to as ‘make believe’…as in making you believe it was happening for the entertainment value in it. But deep down, everyone knows it’s not real.

I remind myself that I am able to watch this movie because a real man named Tom Edison invented the projector. I know that the projector is powered by electricity provided for us by other real men like Tesla, Westinghouse and Ben Franklin. I remind myself that the building where I’m watching this movie was likely erected by a bunch of guys from the local iron workers union who likely all answer to “Bubba”. The reason it’s safe to congregate with lots of other people in a place like a theater without having to worry about some plague taking me out is because a series of real men named Leewenhook, Louis Pasteur, and Alex Flemming created the microscope, discovered bacteria and the antibiotics to understand and stop their infections, including small pox. Polio virus, incidentally, was eradicated by a another man named Jonas Salk.

I see any movie with space travel in it and I remind myself that the Saturn 5 rocket that made all that possible is largely credited to a German man named Von Braun. A bunch of engineers at NASA filled it with a million pounds of rocket fuel, stood it up and struck a match…another man named Armstrong took it for a ride to the moon, where he put his bootprints and an American flag on the surface of it. If you go to NASA, you can walk up to the rocket, and you can touch one of the rocks those men brought back. If you live around Houston, you can drive there in the car (that Henry created). But if you don’t live near Houston, you might have to take an airplane… that two more REAL MEN named Orville and Wilbur created…

I don’t have to do research to come up with these reminders. I wrote this right off the top of my head. Of course, if I hadn’t already known all this, I could have looked it all up on the internet using this Mac book that Steve created for us… This post took me about ten minutes. I honestly can’t think of a damn thing that women have created for the world. Maybe we could use the internet that other men created to look it up…

I think we could probably give ten mac books to ten of these make believe super achieving women and ask them to come up with a similar list of things women have contributed, and it wouldn’t happen…not in ten minutes…not in ten years. Try to keep that in mind when you see some of this misandric make believe bulls~~~ projected to you by machines and mechanisms completely dependent on centuries of accomplishments of REAL MEN. That crap is a cartoon starring women and promising a reality that is dependent on real women to create …who have yet to make even the most minimal start toward doing so…

How not to lose your cool? Find a hooker and get some easy sex, then have a steak, a cigar and a shot of your fav whiskey while sitting in your chair and watching the cartoons…

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[MendokusaiParticipant 256]

I too just stick to the net mostly and download old movies where men were still men and womin were ladies. Todays movie & TV studios are run by corporations & lawyers – not studio big wigs anymore meaning they HAVE to make a profit and pander to the general pop while being PC. That is why a movie today must contain a certain amount of minorities & what I call a “tough bitch” which in real life is laughable because most of these anorexic c~~~s couldn’t fight their way out of a wet paper sack IRL. Look at that scrawny thing from Twilight with the pale face and tell me that is supposed to turn me on. Or what about The Hunger Games (a good name for a chick flick,ha,ha) again perpetuating the myth of female superiority which young retards are buying into. Youth today disgusts me as both genders are pseudo tough,most young males will let their chick walk all over them till they’ve had enough but then get right back into another relations~~~. Forget about making fun of females in movies,TV or commercials either,no they have to be seen as perfect multi-taskers in this modern world-God I miss I Love Lucy! I read a recent article where it was suggested that the average male Testosterone level has been dropping since the 1950’s and from what I see I believe it. Even a Beta male back then could pass for an Alpha today and the adds on TV for hormone replacement therapy for men seem on the rise. It is interesting that this seems to be affecting Western culture mostly and places like Eastern Europe and the Middle East seem immune.I laugh whenever I hear a chick bitch about the men in other countries say like South Africa saying they are so rude and arrogant. I reply-like a real man that speaks his mind? I’m almost ready to become an Ex-Pat!

[…Spectator 1165]

How do I keep my cool? I walk away from bulls~~~. Happy New Year fellas! Don’t let those c~~~s get you down. We have s~~~ to do.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

1. Cut extraneous s~~~ out of my life. In my case most of my family and obviously women who won’t get horizontal.

2. Do not watch network TV or the news. Only my recorded shows (Simpsons, Bobs Burgers, South Park, ATHF, etc) and the NHL.

3. If  I go out to drink, it’s the old neighborhood with the Tavern that generations of my family has drank at. Most bars are douche central.

4. Keep it short and professional with females at work if you must speak to them at all.

5. Exercise and hockey.

6. Sitting down with giant Star Wars Lego sets.

7. Guinness

8. Screwdrivers

9. Video games

10. Reading

Fuck this planet.

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