Out of the Blue, After 8 years of NO CONTACT

[ClutchParticipant 48]

We never had relations, she was a prude, and that weighed heavy in my decision. Stern? Certainly. Strict? Sure. An evil asshole? That’s a bit rude to say not knowing what the ultimatum was. Or without knowing the whole situation and the conditions surrounding it.

[Two Time WinnerParticipant 1090]

You are wearing this thing out. YOU have received advice, now the decision is yours. Do something besides talk about it.

I ain't got a wife to spend my money, I have to do that all by myself.

[Anonymous 38]

Really we cannot know if it’s a monkey branch, or she’s being genuine. She might have matured since your break up, and become a better person. It happens sometimes.

Regardless, focus on what you want to do (respond or ghost), not WHY she’s messaging you.

It’s clear you have feelings for her still and I’d wager you’d get back with her if she wanted. The reason I say this is because your questioning the WHY so much says to me you’re hoping she wants you back. Been there mate.

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Anonymous wrote:

you’re hoping she wants you back. Been there mate.

#metoo I remember one that I would have walked through FIRE for, and YEARS later I would have walked through FIRE all over again to have had a relationship with her …….Never Underestimate the Power of the Blue Pill !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[ClutchParticipant 48]

Why do most of you edit after you post? Hard to like something original, when it’s only gonna change.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22534]

Clutch wrote:

Why do most of you edit after you post? Hard to like something original, when it’s only gonna change.

Its a great feature. I use it all the time to correct spelling errors, make a sentence flow better, or add onto an existing thought without having to do a separate post. You can only do it a short time after posting, after maybe 10 minutes or so then you cant edit it.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[ClutchParticipant 48]

That’s not what I’m getting at. I know how to edit. I’m saying, I don’t like seeing someone add to a previous comment while I’m typing a response, or after I reply.

[PrincekieParticipant 1042]

Hi mate,
You have received good advice from pretty much everyone. Just to highlight a few things here:

1. This ex and mates are keeping you in “the loop”.
2. If you react to her communication and chat, you’re doing exactly what SHE wants.

This ex isn’t ” trying to write the wrongs of the past”. That would mean she has some sort of emotional backbone. She’s laying the foundation for how she’s going to play you. I’ve been there personally, and I’ve stupidly fallen for it.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Clutch wrote:

That’s not what I’m getting at. I know how to edit. I’m saying, I don’t like seeing someone add to a previous comment while I’m typing a response, or after I reply.

Women communicate for different reasons than men.

You might want to watch this: https://youtu.be/SddZvNQOuFw

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22534]

Clutch wrote:

That’s not what I’m getting at. I know how to edit. I’m saying, I don’t like seeing someone add to a previous comment while I’m typing a response, or after I reply.

Well i think you will just have to roll with it as its just not that big of a deal. Not everyone sits around waiting for replies and immediately responds. You cant make everyone use the site the way you do. The reason why theres a small amount of edit time is for the POSTER to edit HIS post.

Besides if someone does edit a post you already replied to, theres nothing stopping you from doing a reply to the edited post. If youre just sitting on a thread jumping on all replies quickly you will have no trouble posting to the edited post. Further theres no mandate you have to reply to any edited post.

I like it because i read my post again afterwards, and if i see problems or an area i need to clarify or make more smooth, I have a small window of time to fix things. Or if i think of more stuff to include i can add them.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Handsome VicParticipant 1613]

Women monkey branch.
From time to time, they need to check the strength of potential branches.

I'm going my own way. Maybe I'll see you there.

[Anonymous 38]

Clutch wrote:

I’m saying, I don’t like seeing someone add to a previous comment while I’m typing a response, or after I reply.

Wow. Pretty ungrateful pal. Not only are men giving a complete stranger their time, with purely kind intentions, some are adding even more to their message. All because they want to help you.

[ClutchParticipant 48]

Nah, it isn’t ungrateful. I’m calling out the passive-aggressive swipes at my integrity and credibility, postscript. I’ve given thanks to those who have been helpful and given solid advice. I’ve thumbed up good replies.

[bstoffParticipant 4865]

no, Clutch.
you’re an ungrateful asshole.
You don’t have to accept it, and I doubt you will, but most of us have noticed.

You’re integrity and credibility is based on what you’ve revealed and what you haven’t revealed.

You should be more respectful towards those who are trying to help someone who isn’t really interested in being helped unless it strokes his ego.

you are not worth our time.

[ClutchParticipant 48]

Thanks, for your opinion.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Handsome Vic wrote:

Women monkey branch.From time to time, they need to check the strength of potential branches.

They do indeed.

My ex moved out of state with some guy she said she loved, flew back up for one day a few months later to pick up some left behind items and one kid, and had sex with me.

All weepy and s~~~, how she still loved me and s~~~. LOL. I had sex with her even though I had other pussy since she left. I left her with the (false) impression she could monkey branch back since I would like all my kids to live in the same state as me.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

Ranger One wrote:

My ex moved out of state with some guy she said she loved, flew back up for one day a few months later to pick up some left behind items and one kid, and had sex with me.

All weepy and s~~~, how she still loved me and s~~~. LOL. I had sex with her even though I had other pussy since she left. I left her with the (false) impression she could monkey branch back since I would like all my kids to live in the same state as me.

If she ever decides to move back, she will expect you to pay/help for the move.
She will also expect to move back in with you.
She will expect this because she had sex with you, she will consider that a “you owe me”.
It happened to me, it could happen to you…

[Two Time WinnerParticipant 1090]

Clutch wrote:

Nah, it isn’t ungrateful. I’m calling out the passive-aggressive swipes at my integrity and credibility, postscript. I’ve given thanks to those who have been helpful and given solid advice. I’ve thumbed up good replies.

What a whinny little bitch you are.

TTW

I ain't got a wife to spend my money, I have to do that all by myself.

[ClutchParticipant 48]

Nah, I just have 0 patience for disrespect. There’s no need for it, so I don’t tolerate it. Unless you have a reason to back it up.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

XSDBS wrote:

Ranger One wrote:

My ex moved out of state with some guy she said she loved, flew back up for one day a few months later to pick up some left behind items and one kid, and had sex with me.
All weepy and s~~~, how she still loved me and s~~~. LOL. I had sex with her even though I had other pussy since she left. I left her with the (false) impression she could monkey branch back since I would like all my kids to live in the same state as me.

If she ever decides to move back, she will expect you to pay/help for the move.She will also expect to move back in with you.She will expect this because she had sex with you, she will consider that a “you owe me”.It happened to me, it could happen to you…

LOL.

My answer would be: sorry, I have no money left over after all the child support I paid you. As far as I’m concerned, she owes me for me having sex with her.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

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