Out of the Blue, After 8 years of NO CONTACT

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

So, you have heard suggestions of fellow participants advising you that not contacting her is probably in YOUR OWN BEST INTEREST, but I can’t imagine that you would ask about contacting an old girlfriend and expect a “different” answer from a MGTOW forum???

Anyways, what I’m getting at is that at the end of the day it’s still YOUR LIFE. YOU must do whatever it’s that YOU want to do.

Good Luck !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[ClutchParticipant 48]

I received the responses that I was looking for. Things to reaffirm a continuance of no contact. I wasn’t disappointed. However, with that being said, I like to hear all possible options both good and bad, when there isn’t a time constraint on an opportunity like this. Strong avenues of approach only get reinforced when there are worse options that usually are the first to be taken off of the table.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

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[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Clutch wrote:

Is there any low-risk way to spin this back at her, and let karma do its thing? Trust me, I just redpilled myself for a good while, by creeping on her Facebook page, and was reminded that she started dating her current “chad”, the day after my birthday. So she isn’t a complete bitch, just one day away from it. The more I look, the more I’m reminded, of why I left and didn’t look back. [There are many, many reasons why I ended things with an ultimatum…]

Don’t play her game.

If you get down into the mud to wrestle with them, they’ll drag you down to their level, and beat you with experience. Screw mind games. Live YOUR life; ignore hers.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[ClutchParticipant 48]

Good advice. I forget just how low some sink. Why connect under poor circumstances when there has been ample time to contact under better conditions? Opportunistic strategy to insert herself back into my life. Nope, no thanks, “Who are you again? Oh, that’s right…”. She’s a nobody, I have to remind myself of that, and not let societal illusions cloud that. I’ll get more respect by holding the line, and sticking to monk mode in the shadows.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Easy, after 8 years of being “married right?”, she is bored, tired of her husband, the quiet life, she needs drama, craziness, it doesnt matter you have bo SMV value, you are a knowng land, she could seduce you and even make you try to kill her actual partner soo she can have her ego burst.

Also she is hitting the wall already, maybe she wanna know if ” she still got it” women are 90% ego, 9 % evil, 1% fat.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[ClutchParticipant 48]

Well, she’s been in the relationship that long, she’s been married less than 2. Her age, not even into her low 20s. She still has a long way to go before the “wall”. She’s right in that grey area of “Honey, when are we going to think about kids..?”. Also in the “Discovery” age, still figuring things out.

That’s wild, and will all the crazy crime shows I’ve seen over the years wouldn’t put something like that past several of the girls I’ve been with.

Only 1% fat? I’ve seen thicker milk. And the evil percentage seems on the lower side. But, then again I view morality on a bell curve, with good and evil distributed like IQ.

[WallyParticipant]

Clutch wrote:

Well, she’s been in the relationship that long, she’s been married less than 2. Her age, not even into her low 20s. She still has a long way to go before the “wall”. She’s right in that grey area of “Honey, when are we going to think about kids..?”. Also in the “Discovery” age, still figuring things out.
That’s wild, and will all the crazy crime shows I’ve seen over the years wouldn’t put something like that past several of the girls I’ve been with.
Only 1% fat? I’ve seen thicker milk. And the evil percentage seems on the lower side. But, then again I view morality on a bell curve, with good and evil distributed like IQ.

She’s at that point “would things be different if I went with Clutch?” Because she is bored with hubby. Avoid this situation like the plague either you will met up and get her pregnant or he will find out and shoot you. Neither senerio ends well for you. Also, recommend you delete your social media, it’s part of the reason your dealing with this.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[AutoliteParticipant]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

F~~~ING HELL DO NOT F~~~ING CALL HER. JEEBUS MAN DO NOT F~~~ING CALL OR CONTACT HER. WE HAVE TOLD YOU WHY, AND TO BE CLEAR IT DOESNT F~~~ING MATTER WHAT HER REASON IS BECAUSE ITS NOT A GOOD ONE, THAT YOU KNOW FOR SURE.
ARE YOU A F~~~ING PLANT HERE? F~~~ING LISTEN.

And GTF off of FaceBook! (Sometimes I really feel like we’re wasting our time here. We really shouldn’t need to have to tell other guys this s~~~)

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Clutch wrote:

Oh, and thanks for covertly editing your response. No need for such hostilities.

I wouldn’t take it personally; ball-busting is a hobby here. Its all good.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

It’s pretty simple If YOU CHOOSE a potential life filled with ongoing drama, false promises, and lies then go ahead and contact your old flame.

On the other hand, If you CHOOSE a life free from all that and prefer a Simpler Life where Contentment and Peace of Mind is the GOAL then delete your social media CRAP and stop WASTING YOUR TIME, ENERGY, AND FOCUS.

It’s pretty obvious that it didn’t take much for this lil Cupcake to get in your head and really f~~~ with you, and that was only ONE CONTACT after 8 years. What do ya think will happen if you to go back and forth on social media for a lil while then meet up and she gives ya some great sex???

WHERE do ya think your big head will be then??

Like I said before, we can only offer suggestions, but IT’YOUR LIFE AND YOU MUST LIVE IT !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Clutch wrote:

Is there any low-risk way to spin this back at her, and let karma do its thing? Trust me, I just redpilled myself for a good while, by creeping on her Facebook page, and was reminded that she started dating her current “chad”, the day after my birthday. So she isn’t a complete bitch, just one day away from it. The more I look, the more I’m reminded, of why I left and didn’t look back. [There are many, many reasons why I ended things with an ultimatum…]

Spinning it back at her on purpose will let karma do it’s thing on you. Why would you purposefully screw with her?

Clutch wrote:

You may be right. Ultimately, I think she wants closure, and to right the wrongs of the past. Funny, how the past can sneak up. Keeps people up at night. I know that she wants to make peace, otherwise, her ignorance of how I truly feel will eat away at her. Cursing someone, literally(like crazy occult stuff on video) can cause some bad karma, and when you know that the victim(Me) knows about it, well kinda of difficult to apologize. By denying her that resolve, I can keep her guessing.

So now you are going to punish her by keeping her guessing? You may want to reread what karma’s all about buddy.

Look, most likely she’s doing a little monkey-branching. She just wants to go through the ol’ Rolodex and see what she passed up. Since you are the only number in that Rolodex it’s a short list for her. And your grandparent dying just provided her with a reason.

Bottom line, she’s married. Leave her alone. And if she gets more persistent then tell her that. You’re married, I don’t mess with married women. And that should have nothing to do with her, that’s all to do with you. Because, you know, karma.

You seem curious about the situation. So reach out if you really want to. Just make sure your intentions are pure because they don’t sound like it from what you are saying. And I say that as a friend. But remember, curiousity killed the cat. Old sayings are old sayings because they are true.

Order the good wine

[SpleeferParticipant 959]

Sounds like they wanted to have a threesome with you three years ago and you passed on it. That may seem like im joking, but I’m not joking. That’s exactly what these women are doing now. They had lesbian experience in HS with their gf’s and now they want to add a high school flame in the mix. I’ve had this offer twice when I go back to my hometown. I passed because I didn’t want killed. My buddy had same thing happen to him when he went back to his hometown. He banged them both and they all laughed. All these women ARE married.

Galatians 5:1 (KJV) Stand fast therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage.

[SH3LLZParticipant 5569]

Ive been there and done that.Sexy Italian Ex GF married my replacement hastily after our break up. Then she wants to talk after years of no contact. She was bored and “out of love”. Just for kicks, I f~~~ed the hell out of her and I video her every time. At my place at hotels… Where ever.

These hoes aint loyal. Shes just one of many bullets dodged.

#ICETHEMOUT
#MANOUT
#HIDEYOURWEATLH
#VAGINAISWORTHLESS!!

#ICETHEMOUT!!! #MANOUT!!! #HIDEYOURWEALTH #VAGINAISWORTHLESS

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

SH3LLZ wrote:

These hoes aint loyal.

Lovin this S~~~!!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Never let an old flame burn you twice.

[MonkParticipant 16995]

Clutch wrote:

What angle is she pulling?

She is seeing if a reverse monkey branch is possible. Her current wallet is probably exhausted, or maybe she just wants some tingles. Perhaps she’s hit the wall and wants to see if she’s still got options.

Whatever. Keep to No Contact. No good can possibly come of replying to her.

[ClutchParticipant 48]

Glad some of you aren’t my Jury. Good intentions, damned. Bad intentions, be damned. Do it or don’t do it, damned. Well, I’ll be damned.

Seems also like some of you are great at reading people, and assume things quite quickly. And the old saying, “Don’t assume, it makes an ass out of u & me.”. I simply ask for advice, and already people are jumping to conclusions and guessing my actions before the other shoe drops.

Social media, it’s strictly business, nothing personal. I keep a small circle.

Yes, right now the plan is to stay the course and not reply.

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

Clutch wrote:

HS sweethearts, I end up giving an ultimatum and eventually breaking up with her

This gives you an extra space on her totem pole as you where one of the first to f~~~ her (and also you were an an evil Asshole by giving her an Ultimatum). When it comes to the other guy who is stating block her i disagree only because that shows you took an action rather then outright ignoring her. It does not matter what messages she texts don’t respond to her, don’t call her, don’t accept her calls, don’t do on a coffee date etc.

My problem with blocking is that she will likely wonder why you blocked her and try other means of Communication to get to you as she will question why you blocked her.

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Clutch wrote:

I simply ask for advice, and already people are jumping to conclusions and guessing my actions before the other shoe drops.

Men that have been down your path are just trying to save all the CRAP that they have lived through.

They are well intentioned, and only meant to HELP YOU.

I think you would agree that EACH MAN is just doing his best to HELP YOU.

NONE of us have anything to gain or lose in YOUR LIFE.

Clutch wrote:

the plan is to stay the course

It has WORKED for 8 years…

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

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