Okay, she's back.

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

Okay guys, you warned me she’d be back (8 year relationship that ended end of 2017).

It was my birthday last month and I posted about the Ex birthday txt HERE.

Today, ALMOST A MONTH later I get a CUSTOMISED CARD from her in the post. Lots of love, etc etc.

WHAT THE F~~~ IS THIS?

I couldn’t even say thank you if I wanted to because I’ve literally ERASED her from my life.

Not to mention – why is this card JUST arriving now? Did she only send it this week? Did it get lost in the post? IM BEING TESTED AND I HATE IT.

Romulus wrote:

Thats not a text message brother, it’s a sonar ping.

– This is ringing true again…

I need a MGTOW slap and a beer. Hit me with the truth!

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[RemovedParticipant 4676]

You are thinking too much of it. I would take the card, place it properly in the trash receptacle, and never think of it again. I have had three women stalkers throughout my life. The one that lasted the longest I gave attention to. I found that the less you respond, the sooner it ends.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

She’s ONLY BACK, If YOU Let Her.

Don’t WASTE Your Time, Energy, and Effort trying to figure out the “Why” behind the inner workings of a Woman’s Hamster Wheel.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 54]

Throw it in the trash.
Its late, cause some dude just dumped her.

[SuggestiusParticipant 3312]

When just the Red Pill is not enough!

Happiness for all and let no one be forgotten ("Roadside picnic", Arkady and Boris Strugatsky)

[Anonymous 42]

Women don’t care who they can get to serve them or to what degree she can make you an orbiter on some cosmic mission she may need of you at any time that need may arise.

Don’t take it personal, she’s likely trying to increase her fold, even gather some that strayed, it sucks for a woman when she looses a good ni~~er!

Did I SAY NI~~ER? I meant SLAVE!

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

Ex girlfriend 101:
No contact…of any kind…EVER…

When she tries to contact you, she is s~~~ testing you.
Why let her? Don’t even bother to read it. Delete/throw it away…

[Daryll55Participant 2950]

Gotta agree with everyone above.
Why did you even post about the “EX”, if she is out of your life?? You kinda asked for it there. Now she remembers what good(ies) you had and wants a shot at them again.

Burn the card and walk away —- FOR GOOD/

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

I wouldn’t do anything based on getting the card. It can be gratifying in a sense, an ex making such a gesture. But she’s the same person she was before.

If you have her blocked on your phone and social media that may be the only way she can reach out.

If you don’t, stop stroking your ego and block her.

Then, unless she finds you and asks to meet in person, I’d simply go on as you did before the card arrived. Without her as part of your life.

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[Will RobinsonParticipant 3479]

File it and forget it.

May you walk in peace and happiness, May you and all mgtow, near and far walk in peace and happiness.

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

Cheers lads. I’m actually going to burn it.

Daryll55 wrote:

Why did you even post about the “EX”, if she is out of your life?? You kinda asked for it there.

True. I used ghosting as a coping mechanism, so this was a bit of a shock.

Apologies for my brief RELAPSE. Back to reality. Moving on.

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[TaxGuyParticipant]

XSDBS wrote:

Ex girlfriend 101:
No contact…of any kind…EVER…

When she tries to contact you, she is s~~~ testing you.
Why let her? Don’t even bother to read it. Delete/throw it away…

It’s the fire triangle. It takes heat, fuel and oxygen to start a fire. In your case, she’s the heat source, your past is the fuel, and any attention you give to this is the oxygen. You can’t change the heat source or the fuel, but you can deny her any oxygen. It’s the only way to keep the fire from starting.

Order the good wine

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Throw it in the trash.
Its late, cause some dude just dumped her.

Most likely.

[Anonymous 18]

Men are visual creatures.

Think of her posting the letter after she was f~~~ed by the new guy.

No not the one at da club, da one who is hawt.

She felt like a slut and reached out to you.

🥕 danling.

If you as visual as me imagine her reaching in her pussy and using the other guy’s cum to seal the envelope.

If you need more imagery and symbolism, let me know. The inner beta can be a bigger bitch than your ex.

I feel ya bro.

Now go wash your hands.

[narwhalParticipant]

This looks more like a s~~~ test than a ‘want you back’ move. She can claim she was just trying to nice if you complain about it. If you don’t complain, they she’ll say that you’re just bitter. Either way, she thinks she wins. Give her nothing.

And yes, I know you aren’t talking to her right now. I’m saying don’t cave, and expect her to follow up to see how well her test worked. If she gets through, you’re response is indifference. You’re not upset, you aren’t confused, you aren’t missing her, you simply don’t care.

‘burning it’ actually shows that it gets to you emotionally. Just throw it out with the rest of the junk mail. Don’t let her stay in your head rent free.

Ok. Then do it.

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

Anonymous wrote:

If you as visual as me imagine her reaching in her pussy and using the other guy’s cum to seal the envelope.

– I laughed at this, but I get what you mean. Thanks.

narwhal wrote:

Give her nothing.

I freaked out. I feel like that’s 2 steps back. Either way, it’s in the trash. What an embarrassment…

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[Old BuckParticipant 3596]

Arcturis wrote:

I need a MGTOW slap and a beer. Hit me with the truth!

You need the “ex” like a fish needs a bicycle.

Don't chase tail. Turn yours around, walk away, and live free!

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

She’s not worth the time it would take you to wipe your ass with it.

She doesn’t love you, she’s probably testing the monkey-branching.

The opposite of love is apathy.

Feel nothing for her; don’t respond to her; ignore her.

There are only two things you should give your ex:
Apathy and nothing.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[surfdude12Participant 4103]

I know where you’re at bro. Just got out of 4 year relationship and she stalked me for 5 months. Kept sending me stuff, stopping by house, etc and she left me.

She doesn’t care about YOU. She only cares about WHAT YOU DO FOR HER.

She is only contacting you because she hasn’t found another sucker yet who will do for her what you did for her.

My ex kept sending me stuff and coming over because she wanted SOME reaction, ANY reaction because at least if I give her SOME reaction she knows she still has a CHANCE of hooking me back in. Its like a fisherman who casts out and feels something on the hook. Even if the fish doesn’t bite, as long as fisherman feels fish even touching the hook, he knows there is a chance he can hook him in. And hence, will keep casting out until he gets ZERO reaction from the fish.

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

Arcturis wrote:

Okay guys, you warned me she’d be back (8 year relationship that ended end of 2017).

It was my birthday last month and I posted about the Ex birthday txt HERE.

Today, ALMOST A MONTH later I get a CUSTOMISED CARD from her in the post. Lots of love, etc etc.

WHAT THE F~~~ IS THIS?

I couldn’t even say thank you if I wanted to because I’ve literally ERASED her from my life.

Not to mention – why is this card JUST arriving now? Did she only send it this week? Did it get lost in the post? IM BEING TESTED AND I HATE IT.

Romulus wrote:

Thats not a text message brother, it’s a sonar ping.

– This is ringing true again…

I need a MGTOW slap and a beer. Hit me with the truth!

You clearly haven’t completely erased her. Block the number so she can’t text you. Contact the local post and put a stop order on mail from her if you can. Then ghost her and never acknowledge she exists again.

I wish I could do this, but I unfortunately have to remain civil due to child constraints.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

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