Okay, she's back.

[Anonymous 7]

Here are the instructions for next time she s~~~ tests via the post. Easy-Peasy.

Recipients can refuse most mail at the time of delivery by simply choosing not to accept it from the mail carrier. The USPS recognizes that many people aren’t home at the time of delivery, so recipients are granted a window of opportunity to refuse the unopened mail. Since some types of mail require signatures, receipts or acceptance in person, the recipients must cover the postage fees if they decide to send it back after accepting the initial delivery.

https://www.reference.com/business-finance/usps-rules-regarding-marking-mail-return-sender-520f57abc60a430#

[Anonymous 43]

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Here are the instructions for next time she s~~~ tests via the post. Easy-Peasy.

Recipients can refuse most mail at the time of delivery by simply choosing not to accept it from the mail carrier. The USPS recognizes that many people aren’t home at the time of delivery, so recipients are granted a window of opportunity to refuse the unopened mail. Since some types of mail require signatures, receipts or acceptance in person, the recipients must cover the postage fees if they decide to send it back after accepting the initial delivery.

https://www.reference.com/business-finance/usps-rules-regarding-marking-mail-return-sender-520f57abc60a430#

Good info, but in this case I wouldn’t send it back. If she gets it back then she KNOWS that you received it and sent it back to her. That’s still a win for her. You still cared enough to make the point of sending it back to her.

You put it in the trash earlier, leave it there. Let her wonder if it ever made it to you. If you still live there. If it just got lost in the mail. Or if you just don’t give a f~~~ enough to even look at it.

Order the good wine

[Daryll55Participant 2950]

narwhal wrote:

This looks more like a s~~~ test than a ‘want you back’ move. She can claim she was just trying to nice if you complain about it. If you don’t complain, they she’ll say that you’re just bitter. Either way, she thinks she wins. Give her nothing.

And yes, I know you aren’t talking to her right now. I’m saying don’t cave, and expect her to follow up to see how well her test worked. If she gets through, you’re response is indifference. You’re not upset, you aren’t confused, you aren’t missing her, you simply don’t care.

‘burning it’ actually shows that it gets to you emotionally. Just throw it out with the rest of the junk mail. Don’t let her stay in your head rent free.

Actually, The way I see it is burning it is giving you a visual sense of closure if you haven’t had it already. It’s final … as in NFG,…. done! (Also it can’t tempt you into what she is thinking again if it isn’t there.)

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

I agree that burning the card would give you some sort of closure…A way of burning away your fear, frustrations, and madness that she left behind in your life…Remember the madness you went through, the hoops you had to jump to please her and she somehow just tries to walk back in your life like nothing happened…

Ghost her…She made her choice…She had her chances and she threw it all away because of feels…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[HermitParticipant 1121]

She’s checking to see if she has any control left over you. If she does, you will reply to the card.

I don't hate women. I just feel better when they're not around.

[Anonymous 7]

TaxGuy wrote:

Good info, but in this case I wouldn’t send it back. If she gets it back then she KNOWS that you received it and sent it back to her.

My bad I meant to write something on it like ‘This person does not live here’ or ‘no forwarding address.

[SuggestiusParticipant 3312]

May, brother of mine, are you sure you are at the right technical school? 😀

Happiness for all and let no one be forgotten ("Roadside picnic", Arkady and Boris Strugatsky)

[Space CowboyParticipant 1466]

Just imagine her worrying about stealing a house and alimony from a hard working guy for income . To do this she’s sent the same style of card with the name switched to reach as many targets as possible. It’s surprised you because men actually feel attachment, she’s pulling strings to see who responds.

"Have you ever thought about any real freedoms? Freedom from the opinions of others...even from the opinions of yourself?"

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

Space Cowboy wrote:

Just imagine her worrying about stealing a house and alimony from a hard working guy for income

Good idea to re-frame the situation. I’ve mentioned before, but she still lives at home, has no savings, is mothered by her mum& spends all her money on new clothes, holidays, gigs and alcohol.

After she’s whored around for a bit, finding her next beta will be top of her list. Moving out into HIS place will be PRIORITY ONE because she doesn’t want to live alone and her Dad wants her out. That’s why we ended – I refused to move to her city yet again. (Let alone all the other sacrifices I made)

Update:
I just threw the card out like the rest of my trash. As I mentioned, it was just a bit of a shock, but life goes on as it did before that card arrived. A temporary setback, quickly overcome thanks to you guys.

The ghosting continues. I will not fail.

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[Fr JackParticipant 926]

Google narcissistic hoovering, that will explain what’s going on.

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