The Birthday Text

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

Evening Brothers;

So it’s my birthday! – I did some cool s~~~ and had a great time.

I came to the site at the start of the year (after an 8 year relationship) and since then have been rapidly expanding my red pill knowledge and understanding of the female mind. It’s been liberating. – I need some assistance again.

Today I get a birthday txt from the ex. Her ENTIRE family were the first to publicly wish me a good day on facebook. – They all know she f~~~ed up. I’ve already replied to them – a simple ‘thank you. All the best etc etc’. I reply to everyone that takes the time to write me something.

I told her at the start of the year ‘I refuse to be your friend‘ and I’m out. No more conversation. Lets keep our distance. Now I’m being tested.

I know you’d tell me to ignore it. I just need some confirmation that that’s the right thing to do. I hate being rude…but I’m never going to be in another relationship, let alone with her.

It was the right decision. I love being single. Is this communication purely to see if she still has control over me?

#ICETHEMOUT right? Why’s she f~~~ing texting me anyway?

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[Anonymous 1]

Two suggestions.
“Thanks.”
[nothing more, DONE]
<OR>
Don’t respond. You pay your phone bill because the phone is there for YOUR convenience, no one else’s.

I’m a softy I guess. I would reply “Thanks” and nothing more.

[Billy&The CloneasaurusParticipant]

Yes, she is testing to see if she’s still on your mind and in your heart. It’s a s~~~ test, purely for her own ego. The ex ALWAYS makes an attempt to come back into your life. Responding only lowers your value in her eyes.

Exes are exes for a reason. I advise you not to reply at all. You’ve already told her you have no interest in being friends, so no need to feel guilt in not replying. She should feel guilty for not respecting your wishes.

The answer, is no.

[GeraldParticipant 3620]

Hey HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

As towards your choice to respond. I’d keep it very simple, Thanks is enough then go ghost. Or, just ignore it.

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[Anonymous 42]

Arcturis wrote:

Her ENTIRE family were the first to publicly wish me a good day on facebook. – They all know she f~~~ed up. I’ve already replied to them – a simple ‘thank you.

You f~~~ed up right there, FB is an ego feeder at times and a lynching post at others, you should’t even be on it or in contact with her family, getting out of any marriage or relations~~~ needs all ties to be severed for the sake of sanctity. Clean starts are refreshing and exhilarating!

Arcturis wrote:

I told her at the start of the year ‘I refuse to be your friend‘ and I’m out. No more conversation. Lets keep our distance. Now I’m being tested.

If you were out, out for good, why didn’t you cut the cord?

Arcturis wrote:

I know you’d tell me to ignore it. I just need some confirmation that that’s the right thing to do. I hate being rude…but I’m never going to be in another relationship, let alone with her.

It was the right decision. I love being single. Is this communication purely to see if she still has control over me?

Being rude is their misconception, otherwise it’ll be your reprobate thinking or otherwise indecision or indecisiveness, you wanna be a samurai sword made of steel or a child’s plastic toy?

Associating also allows room to manipulate. Haven’t you had enough of her s~~~? Or do you need more?

[Anonymous 54]

Ignore her.

Happy Birthday Arcturis!

[Anonymous 42]

Oh yea, Happy Birthday!

[UntamedParticipant]

Arcturis wrote:

Her ENTIRE family were the first to publicly wish me a good day on facebook.

They’re harassing you. You should report them.

Arcturis wrote:

Now I’m being tested.

She’s playing with you, just to bug you and see if you’ll actually respond.
If you reply she’ll say you still have feeeeelings for her and she’ll know she can still get at you.

In this case, as in many, silence is gold.

Arcturis wrote:

I told her at the start of the year ‘I refuse to be your friend‘ and I’m out. No more conversation. Lets keep our distance.

^^^THERE IS YOUR ANSWER^^^

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[Anonymous 7]

Yup I gotta go with ignore.
Consider doing yourself a big favor and c~~~ punt fakebook.

[Anonymous 6]

Happy birthday brother, it is your choice though if I were you I would get off facebook altogether as it is her/their ally!

[Anonymous 43]

#icethemout

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

Happy Birthday.

As many have said – you’re being s~~~-tested and it’s time to get off FB.

"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

[Anonymous 54]

You can set fb up so its Men only.
Blue pill mangina dudes, hhaha.

But you can use it different ways for different things.

[joetechParticipant]

Happy birthday. You don’t owe her an explanation or any of your guilt. Let her feel the guilt. Just ignore her, and if she starts to get stoopid, block her.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

At first I was going to say just text her a Thank-You, but the more I think about it you shouldn’t be in contact with ANY of them ESPECIALLY HER.

The fact of the matter is that YOU HAVE MOVED ON. So. MOVE ON, and YOU MUST MOVE ON WITHOUT ANY OF THEM.

It’s not being rude, it just sends the signal that YOU ARE FINALLY DONE, AND YOU WISH THEY WOULD BE TOO.

What’s the point of ANY of this communicating between ANY of THEM. In some ways, YOU are sending MIXED Signals by continuing to stay in touch after YOU BROKE IT OFF.

STAY AWAY AND STAY OUT
DELETE ALL CORRESPONDENCE NOW AND IN THE FUTURE

DONE IS DONE !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Have nothing to do with her or her family—expunge them from your reality.

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

Thats not a text message brother, it’s a sonar ping.

Run silent, run deep.

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[BoarParticipant]

Romulus wrote:

Thats not a text message brother, it’s a sonar ping.

Run silent, run deep.

Or go nuclear and f~~~ her sister.

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[TheSpiceParticipant 2644]

IGNORE! And get the f~~~ off FB. Her family contacting you is the perfect reason to deactivate. Why the f~~~ are you leaving so many strings attached? I’m questioning your resolve on this matter. Get it together, man. GHOST HER!

"I've been thinking about what it would be like if we got back together."
"You know it's too late for that."

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

Thank you, thank you, thank you.

I’ve opted to continue radio silence. Everything below struck a cord and you’re all right.

It was also just a simple ‘Happy Birthday 🙂 xx‘. Had it been a little more personalised I would have said thank you. As it wasn’t, in the words of @romulus :

Thats not a text message brother, it’s a sonar ping.

Awakened wrote:

The fact of the matter is that YOU HAVE MOVED ON. So. MOVE ON, and YOU MUST MOVE ON WITHOUT ANY OF THEM.

joetech wrote:

You don’t owe her an explanation or any of your guilt.

Anonymous wrote:

Yup I gotta go with ignore.

Untamed wrote:

In this case, as in many, silence is gold.

Anonymous wrote:

If you were out, out for good, why didn’t you cut the cord?

Billy&The Cloneasaurus wrote:

It’s a s~~~ test, purely for her own ego. The ex ALWAYS makes an attempt to come back into your life. Responding only lowers your value in her eyes.

– In other news, thank you for the B’day wishes. I did what I wanted all weekend, FREE of any women and had a f~~~ing blast.

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

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