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IGMOW (I Go My Own Way) 4 years, 2 months ago.
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Anonymous3It’s easier to tell women that you’re just not worthy of them.
But in reality they’re not worthy of us. Just keep that to yourself and speak in our own circles about that.
For me to seriously consider a woman for marriage, she would have to be young (16-20), a virgin, probably never dated either (since if she did she’s probably not a virgin), and have respect for me as her superior/protector. She might as well have horns and hooves with those requirements.
Meek and mild at work, always – what is said in confidence to a woman at work can and will turn into an HR issue when you least expect it.
After years of being foolishly honest, I find that I am now completely disengaged in work situations. I see no reason to be honest or personal in any way, shape, or form. Distance, distance, distance.
This is from a woman who gleefully participated in a divorce party thrown by her friends where they all chugged beer and said “all men are bastards”. And then bragged about it in the break room for 90 other employees to hear.
You can look forward to them enjoying their lives immensely in the forties, when no one will date them.
For me, everyone assumes I either have a gf or many gfs that I run around “having fun” with. Even though I am quite open about my faith and belief. Apparently their understanding of Christianity is fornication is A-Okay and not some sort of sin or anything. Never will understand the American view of Christianity.
Very few Americans are Christian. A lot go to church for socialization. Few read the Bible or pray. The West is lost.
Whenever someone tries to shame me for not being married I just tell them I was engaged once but she was killed by a drunk driver before we could set a date for the wedding… then get all quiet. And then if anyone bites, I tell a short version of the story where I make it clear the drunk was a party girl or a middle aged woman speeding home after having an affair or some such that is similar to what the woman I’m talking to might do.
That’s not bad – I may steal that. Usually I just say that I work too hard and have too much going on; it wouldn’t be fair to date someone under those circumstances. You can generally watch the ball bearing roll around their empty little heads as they try to think of a response to that.
"You can either love women, or understand women. You can't do both. Because once you understand women, you realize that there is really nothing to love."
Oh I’ve tried other explanations…
“I’m a busy guy and I don’t have time for a serious relationship.”
“I haven’t found anyone I really like being around for more than a few hours at a time.”
“I just haven’t found a woman who makes my life better than it is already.”
“With the divorce rate being what it is, I just don’t want to risk getting taken to the cleaners.”No mater what honest answer I give, they always look at me like “Nobody will have you because you’re a selfish manchild and you’re scared of commitment.”
So I lie and use their “empathy” and hunger for drama to make a point about how toxic females have killed my chances for love and romance. “Yeah, you probably saw it in the paper, the woman… I think she was about your age… who killed my fiancé was just coming back from a Christmas party where she had stayed late to have sex with her boss. It came out in testimony that, since she’d lied to her husband about where she was that night, she tried to blame the accident on some guy she met at the party who was supposedly driving her home in her car but ran off from the scene of the accident. They tracked that guy down and brought him in for questioning and she even went so far as to finger him in a lineup before her story broke down and she admitted to the whole thing. Then she tried to seduce the cops who were interrogating her and THEN claimed they’d tried to rape her in the holding cell! And to top it all, she still got off on involuntary manslaughter and only served 90 days. My fiancé died in the emergency room that night and that woman had fabricated this elaborate lie before her body was even cold and still got away without any real consequences. She never even apologized.”
“Yeah, so how’s your marriage going?”
I don’t use it anymore, but as a younger man I used to have a comeback line for that which went something like this…
Her: “I know why you aren’t married…”
Me: “I’m not married because I haven’t yet found a woman who can hold my attention for more than about 10 minutes without taking her clothes off. What do you want me to do?”.
My own mother came at me with that “why aren’t you married yet?” crap, and that was the answer she got. I stared her down, didn’t crack a smile and just dead-panned it. Not only did she NEVER mention it again, the word went around pretty fast and very soon, no one else in the family did either.
As harsh as it sounded, it was the most accurate and efficient means of communicating the truthful answer. Sometimes, when people least expect to be told the truth, it is the best possible time to just open a big old can of truth and pour it all over them. You learn a lot about someone by the way they react to the most honest truth you can deliver. And, it can be enormously liberating for you to speak it.
Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you
i tell them straight up that marriage is GREAT for women and TERRIBLE for men . they know it’s true …the topic shifts very fast after that ..
The best example of that came to mind when I was working at a retail store, and that “No woman would ever marry men like you” was said to a male co-worker and myself. Within 2 hours we got a visit from the Area Manager on behalf of HR.
I didn’t say a thing when we got called into the office- my co-worker just took the offensive as I stood there with my jaw on the floor in amazement.
For 15 minutes he went into a diatribe about “sexist gender roles” promoted by our supervisor (the woman who said this to us) and that it was against state law to discriminate on the basis of marital status. He went on to even explain that how we, as men, could sue over such blatant “sexism against women”.
He then closed with how, as a male who was feminist, the whole thing had sickened him and left me shocked into silence. I was more in awe of his skills than shocked.
In less than 30 minutes we where out of office with apologies and a promise that it would never happen again. I had only mumbled a few vague answers to a few questions and was stunned at his amazing performance.
Was he really a feminist ? Not at all, but got his law degree a year later and still practices as a trial lawyer to this day !
I was never shocked at his success.
Frank V.
Just tell her there’s nothing wrong with freedom. Only a lunatic would choose slavery.
The Children of Doom... Doom's Children. They told my lord the way to the Mountain of Power. They told him to throw down his sword and return to the Earth... Ha! Time enough for the Earth in the grave.A divorce party? That is just sick.
"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)
It’s easier to tell women that you’re just not worthy of them. But in reality they’re not worthy of us. Just keep that to yourself and speak in our own circles about that.
That’s very sensible. I will not push back when a woman attempts to wield her “power” over when sex happens. I’m actually quite happy to do it. I don’t really mind when she knows “women are the gate keepers of sex”. But, when the opportunity presents itself, I will be sure to remind her that MEN are the gatekeepers of commitment. And she has no power or say in the matter — AT ALL.
Go ahead ladies. Use sex like an epee and tell men they are “not good enough” for you.
And when you come looking for a commitment or marriage, Men will be sure to return the favor.On the topic of commitment, don’t hold anything back. Make sure she knows she’s “not good enough” for you. Remember that girl you liked who behaved like you had the cooties?? When you asked her out to a movie and she said “OK BUT NO SEX!!!!” or “YOU CAN TAKE ME TO DINNER BUT IT’S NOT A DATE”. That’s the one I’m talking about. When she starts going on about marriage or commitment, give her a nice paper cut reminder and pour lemon juice on it.
“I’m a busy guy and I don’t have time for a serious relationship.”
I hate that term: “serious relationship”. Who the f~~~ would ever want a “serious relationship” anyway? Women who are a buzzkill and a drag to be around. That’s who.
When she tries that “when was your last serious relationship?”….. or “I bet you’ve never had a serious relationship”, I tell her she’s right. Because the only kind of relationship worth having is a FUN relationship – or she can get the f~~~ out. Busted. Stay away from women who even mention “serious” relationships. She wan’t a “serious” relationship because she wants to create drama, upset an otherwise fantastic day, and get her fix for control freaking.
A divorce party? That is just sick.
Tell me about it. When I was a part-time bartender, women & woo-girls came in by the hundreds every weekend – in groups. And in one venue where there was entertainment, the MC would invite “the lead woo-girl” up on stage and ask what her party was celebrating. And she would say “my divorce”…… and they would all clap and shout “WOOO!!!! WOOOO!!!!!!”
I was in absolute shock and would just shake my head. Only a woman celebrates being an utter failure in her marriage.
It was an every-weekend occurrence. Multiple times per night. Never failed. That really cemented it for me – permanently. Marry her. Go through a goddam divorce, and she goes out with her girls to party about it.
Sick.
“Now I know why you’re not married”.
“Yeah because I already know – in advance – that you’re mentally sick enough to celebrate a divorce“.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
Anonymous5Luckily I have not been bothered about not being married or in relationships at work….yet. Most people just bother me about why I am not in college striving to become a doctor or some s~~~ which is a lot easier to make excuses about like “I need to save up money first/next year”. 😛
I love the idea of making up f~~~ed up stories. I think I would say something like: “We want to get married but the government deported her before we could. Been trying to get her back ever since. I don’t understand the legal reasons why…but it could take years! I will wait for her though!”
Carpet: Now I know why your not married.
Answer: Would you die if I told you to act your age?
i just say, “yeah, i know… i’m not marriage material. and my punishment for not being married is to enjoy my total freedom to live my life EXACTLY like i want to… dating as many women as i want, with no commitments or obligations but to give respect when it’s given. yeah, it’s that life or marriage. woe is me.”
i just say, “yeah, i know… i’m not marriage material. and my punishment for not being married is to enjoy my total freedom to live my life EXACTLY like i want to… dating as many women as i want, with no commitments or obligations but to give respect when it’s given. yeah, it’s that life or marriage. woe is me.”
I thought I was the only guy who heard the line “You are not marriage material”. It was said to me by my ex-wife who manipulated a drug prescription in the hopes of getting a crack at $250,000 in life insurance. I said, “You know, I think you’re right, thank God.”
Anonymous11I used to hate this intrusion. No one bothers me with it anymore. I outlasted them and their broken divorced asses now make 25% pay.
Marriage is not for everyone. Marriage for what it has now devolved into is for no one.
We are survivors in a world where all principles and morals we hold are but forgoten. Of course we aren’t getting married. It’s pure slavery. As someone mentioned before in an other thread these people seek validation that why they keep saying things like this to us. They want us to be as miserable as them so they can find a sadistic confort in it. In my case people haven’t started bothering about marriage yet because I’m 21 but they do ask about girlfriends and stuff despite knowing what I think about that subject. My road is one to be walked alone and I am in peace now because I realize how free I am. When I was a blue pill dude I tried to adapt to society’s twisted standarts and was blind. I won’t let people bother me with their drama ever again.
Pity and contempt are siblings. You only feel pity for those you consider weak.
Gui, I found peace in realizing that the being alone is the best path I can have in this world. There is just to much going against me to get into a relationship.
In addition, I find emotional immaturity to be a turn off. So, that negates 90% of western women. And the other 10% percent of women are already in long term relationships that they wish to keep. And when it comes to that 10% of women, I wish them nothing but the best for them and their families. But, when it comes to the other 90% of women, I feel they should either grow up, or continue to leave me alone.
You can tell them quite politely that:
Those of us that have been married know the truth about the effect marriage has on freedom and happiness.
BVC
Swallow this RED PILL ===> Men will lay down their lives for their brothers, their women and their children. This makes Men useful as slaves. Women will lay down their lives for ONLY their children. To expect more from women is just a FANTASY created by society and reinforced by the unconditional love that we experienced from our Mothers. The key to freedom is the understanding that the woman you meet is not going to fantastically love you like your Mother did. If you buy into the fantasy, then she is your new master. If you do not buy into the fantasy, then she is nothing, and you retain your freedom.
My answer for the last 10 years or so to this assumption of knowledge has been.
So you understand that I like keeping my property when she leaves?
Shuts them up every time, and totally HR safe 🙂There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it
Who ever said you could be you.Who gave you permission to have your own thoughts,that your could spent your money on what you want
Que Bob Dylan’s Maggie’s farm
I ain’t gonna work on Maggie’s farm no more.
No, I ain’t gonna work on Maggie’s farm no more
Well, I wake up in the morning
Fold my hands and pray for rain.
I got a head full of ideas
That are drivin’ me insane
It’s a shame
the way she makes me
scrub the floor
I ain’t gonna work on, nah
I ain’t gonna work on Maggie’s farm no more.
I ain’t gonna work for Maggie’s brother no more
nah, I ain’t gonna work for Maggie’s brother no more
Well, he hands you a nickel
And he hands you a dime
And he asks you with a grin
If you’re havin’ a good time
Then he fines you every time you slam the door
I ain’t gonna work for, nah
I ain’t gonna work for Maggie’s brother no moreI ain’t gonna work for Maggie’s pa no more
No, I ain’t gonna work for Maggie’s pa no more
Well, he puts his cigar
Out in your face just for kicks
His bedroom window
It is made out of bricks
The National Guard stands around his door
I ain’t gonna work, nah
I ain’t gonna work for Maggie’s pa no more
I ain’t gonna work for Maggie’s ma no more
No, I ain’t gonna work for Maggie’s ma no more
Well, she talks to all the servants
About man and God and law
And everybody says
Shes the brains behind pa
Shes sixty-eight, but she says shes twenty-four
I ain’t gonna work for, nah
I ain’t gonna work for Maggie’s ma no moreI ain’t gonna work on Maggie’s farm no more
No, I ain’t gonna work on Maggie’s farm no more
Well I try my best
To be just like I am
But everybody wants you
To be just like them
They sing while they slave and just get bored
I ain’t gonna work on, nah
I ain’t gonna work on Maggie’s farm no more“Why aren’t you married?”
My stock reply to that question is “I just haven’t found a woman yet who will propose to me and can support me in the lifestyle that I deserve”
(that normally throws them off my trail…and women being women…spread it around)“Now I know why you aren’t married!”
You know I always wanted to be married…but I just can’t seem to find a woman who will support me…Quickest way to shut down a woman is to make her pay for something….because with women…its all about getting money and manipulating men. Women don’t view themselves as being the provider….
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