No

[KeymasterKeymaster]

It took me a solid 20 years to realize that “no” was a perfectly acceptable response to any question. No explanation attached. No apology included. No “gee I can’t because…..”

Just —>> “no”.

Ho boy, are we ever conditioned to say “yes” and made to feel bad when we don’t. When “no” became my new favorite word, it was one of the BEST feelings. Can relate to @gerald 100%.

Even more amazing is the way others react as if you OWED them a “yes” in the first place! Not if it doesn’t count as +1.

If you assess a situation, have determined an automatic “yes” is expected, and you’ll be considered an “asshole” if you don’t say “yes”…. the ONLY response is “no”.

“WTF??”

“What part of “no” didn’t you understand?”

Men, I’m telling you, make “no” your new favorite word especially where women and their open hands are concerned. Rehearse it. You’ll feel like million bucks – after taxes.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

In fact, “no” should be the auto-response. Even with your boss. Because now they have to WORK and incentivize you to turn your “no” into a “yes”. That’s the position you want to be in. An automatic “yes” will never get you there.

Sometimes it’s even fun to take a few seconds to pause and think where they can see it.

“Hmmmm . . . . . . .no”.

This communicates you’re capable of yes, you considered the cost/benefit, but you need an incentive else the answer is “no”. Now sit back, smile and they will try to manipulate you.

“Cute try, but I can’t be manipulated or asked. I can only be PAID.”.

Get as creative as you want.
This is one of my favorites….

“Gee, I wish I could…. but I don’t want to.”

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[bladeParticipant]

Keymaster wrote:

Ho boy, are we ever conditioned to say “yes” and made to feel bad when we don’t.

So true . One thing i have learned from you on here is using the word NO .

I see you mention that alot on here and it sticks .

Such a simple two letter word is powerful . NO

Its a bit like when someone asks how are you going expecting a positive response . Yer i am great . If i feel like s~~~ i normally will say it .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

goodkid43 wrote:

I would have helped but not directly. I would have told them how to do it and let them attach the cables. Positive to positive, negative to negative. Having a 28 year old daughter, who I love dearly and who loves me, would impel me to give instructions but not involve myself in the actual application. That way, if something goes wrong, they are accountable and not me.

God bless, Michael

Thats mansplaining, how dare you. You sexist rapist pig.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[MonkParticipant 17047]

‘No’ is the most powerful word in the English language. Men should use it more often.

It has a devastating effect on c~~~s. Most have never heard it before.

[bstoffParticipant 4878]

“No” has become one of my favorite words lately.
It’s even better when used as a complete sentence.
“No.”. Awesome.

When I get a stupid reply or complaint from a female, I get to add my favorite retort, courtesy of Jim Rockford:
“I’m liberated.’.
Equally awesome.

Isn’t the quality of “equality” great?

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

Yes means yes and no means no. We need a take back the night where men go out and march with the chant “Just Say No!”.

If I say no, I don’t want to be pressured into it. I will mow the lawn like an adult, on my schedule.

If I say no I don’t want to be nagged. If I say no I don’t want sexual manipulation. If I say no I don’t want household retaliation.

If I say no you must respect my boundries or you are no better than a rapist.

#NoMeansNo

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[JVBParticipant]

Disagree. I would have taken the time to help and be on my way. Each to their own. Respect.

Peace is > piece.

[sidecarParticipant 35842]

JVB wrote:

I would have taken the time to help and be on my way.

What would helping them gain you?

What would helping them teach them?

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

A random guy in a truck helped me last year when my battery went out. I’m a doctor and really have a hard time finding the battery in these new fangeled automobiles.

So I asked the guy through his driver window and he had cables and was happy to help. A good samaritan is in the bible and, even though I’m not religious, I use these morals to guide my ethics. I’m not sexist and would help a man if he asked me.

I would probably have helped. I’m not afraid of women. I am afraid of an electric shock. But, pay it forward.

But if I say no, I will have no shame and expect no complaint from these post wall damsels in distress. Just like telling a guy, “Sorry dude, I’m really busy” will get you no grief.

I feel nothing telling a woman “no”, it’s actually a lot of fun.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[KaidoParticipant 2395]

They might of charged you for harassment or rape!

What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

[TrapperParticipant 2912]

The black clamp goes on the left nipple, red on the right… now I’ll get ready to rev up the engine and…

[Anonymous 3]

Keymaster wrote:

It took me a solid 20 years to realize that “no” was a perfectly acceptable response to any question. No explanation attached. No apology included. No “gee I can’t because…..”

Just —>> “no”.

Ho boy, are we ever conditioned to say “yes” and made to feel bad when we don’t. When “no” became my new favorite word, it was one of the BEST feelings. Can relate to @gerald 100%.

Even more amazing is the way others react as if you OWED them a “yes” in the first place! Not if it doesn’t count as +1.

If you assess a situation, have determined an automatic “yes” is expected, and you’ll be considered an “asshole” if you don’t say “yes”…. the ONLY response is “no”.

“WTF??”

“What part of “no” didn’t you understand?”

Men, I’m telling you, make “no” your new favorite word especially where women and their open hands are concerned. Rehearse it. You’ll feel like million bucks – after taxes.

Only men are conditioned to do everything and don’t even get gratitude for it. Girls are taught from a young age to order everyone around and demand things, and never thank anyone for anything. And if anyone says anything, they are berated for having a problem with that. This society is garbage.

[FreedomParticipant 965]

I was at work today and a new woman was complaining about her temporary accommodation being cold. The bloke next to me said “Get an electric fire and we’ll bring it around.”
I looked up and said….”There’s no way I’m doing that…if she wants a heater she gets it herself”

I was accused of being heartless….

She cheated on me ..... my fault. I showed an interest in another woman......my fault.

[sidecarParticipant 35842]

Puffin Stuff wrote:

I feel nothing telling a woman “no”, it’s actually a lot of fun.

It’s even more fun asking them: “What’s in it for me?”

[ghostParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

This society is garbage.

I think it is my own personal behavior from my past which bothers me the most. The more I focus on how I want to act going forward, the better I feel. The expectations on young men are no longer what they once were. I accept society for what it is, but I can choose how I interact and participate.

[SkeptiskParticipant 3679]

JVB wrote:

Disagree. I would have taken the time to help and be on my way. Each to their own. Respect.

Congratulations. You just potentially earned a sexual-assault charge. For free.

"Expecting to find a decent woman on a dating site is like dumpster diving and expecting to come out with a gourmet meal." Won'tGetFooledAgain

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3791]

Thanks for sharing your story Gerald. Your response was exemplary.

I’m sure they had smartphones too. All of the internet’s information available at the touch of a piece of glass, yet they can’t use it.

Society is garbage indeed.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5118]

It just shows you how dumb women are. The cables and terminals are even color coded, hahahahah!

Sovereignty above all else.

[BadgerSwagParticipant 70]

That’s funny, right there. Clearly an “RTFM” error (Read The F-ing Manual). Instructions are right there in the manual in the glove box. Assuming they can read? Wow. Funny how they can be so high on how much better they are, but turn around and milk the “helpless” card, when needed. Pick one card or the other, ladies, but have the decency to stick with it and own up to it.

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