New to this and would like help on an embarrassing topic.

[AgentMulderSpectator 36]

Hey gentleman I’m new to this and I feel confident enough to talk to other men about my issues so here I go I’m a 18 year old teen and I get embarrassed whenever I’m shirtless because of my big nipples. Whenever I’m in the boys locker room or whenever I shower at the locker room I get embarrassed some of the guys do notice and make light jokes nothing too serious, I rarely take my shirt off at the beach I envy dudes who can just be shirtless with no self issue it’s also keeping me from sex with girls any advice or anything? Would appreciate it dudes!

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

This might be one of the weirdest introductions I have ever read.

Take your shirt off and don’t give a s~~~ what others think of the body you are inside. If it’s really that big of a deal to you look into plastic surgery.

Welcome Mulder.

[The-Mad-TaoistParticipant 123]

The only reason you listen to other people is because it bothers you. get over it work out.

girls complain about their body be a Man.

A single man is a sovereign man

[AgentMulderSpectator 36]

Yeah like I said it’s embarrassing and I just thought I could’ve relied on other gentlemen without judgement.

[AgentMulderSpectator 36]

And I’m also not a fat dude I’m average

[Y_Participant 4591]

Welcome. Firstly I hope that not your photo – if it is I would advise you to please remove it. We do not show ourselves for very good reasons.

Secondly this is a MGTOW site – tell us about yourself and why you are choosing this important lifestyle. I think that your question is significantly less meaningful to us. We may cede it is of some concern if you pass the tests.

Yes – there are tests.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

AgentMulder wrote:

Hey gentleman I’m new to this and I feel confident enough to talk to other men about my issues so here I go I’m a 18 year old teen and I get embarrassed whenever I’m shirtless because of my big nipples. Whenever I’m in the boys locker room or whenever I shower at the locker room I get embarrassed some of the guys do notice and make light jokes nothing too serious, I rarely take my shirt off at the beach I envy dudes who can just be shirtless with no self issue it’s also keeping me from sex with girls any advice or anything? Would appreciate it dudes!

If other people take the p~~~ then so what. I have always been very skinny so have taken more than my fairshare of p~~~ taking bit so what.

I am 40 and apart form my beer gut and second chin my arms and legs are still like the matchstick man’s and I don’t care.

Do you really need to go shirtless anyway? Just wear t shirt or polo shirt-less suncream to put on.

Fcuck what other people think.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

AgentMulder wrote:

I just thought I could’ve relied on other gentlemen without judgement.

Don’t take judgment from men as a wholly bad thing. It’s mostly advice. Everyone judges, even those that claim they don’t.

[The-Mad-TaoistParticipant 123]

AgentMulder wrote:

Yeah like I said it’s embarrassing and I just thought I could’ve relied on other gentlemen without judgment.

I am judging you not because i think you less but know you can be more.If i don’t tell you i can’t help. only you can come to terms with your body so do so.Work out find something good to focus on

Now I’m p~~~ed off you you have me talking like a chick.

A single man is a sovereign man

[MuglintarParticipant 1333]

Bro’s the young one is asking about something that bothers him. He has already figured out, one can ask right about any question here, so let’s not be too rough on him.
He should have made this 2 topics, yes, but he can’t learn, if he isn’t allowed mistakes.
@Agent Mulder, in introduction you tell a little about yourself and what brought you here. Then open a new topic under “body and health” or “psycology” and the guys will handle your problem to the best of our knowledge.

"Him, who delights in solitude, is either a wild beast or a GOD!" - Aristotle (Aristot. Pol. 1.1253a) 1 Hom. Il. 9.63; the passage goes on: ἐστὶν ἐκεῖνος ι ὃς πολέμου ἔραται.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Trying to be nice here…………

Dude, you join MGTOW and your nipples are your biggest issue? I don’t know what to tell you. Either put up with some crap or keep a shirt on. If you’re 18 you’re about done with school if not already done. So once you don’t take a PE class anymore, keep your shirt on. Not everyone looks good with their shirt off at the beach, some people just do it anyway.

Why is it keeping you from sex with girls? If your shirt stays on until you are in foreplay mode I doubt it would matter that much.

Where the hell is Ol’ Sage? I’m guessing he’s got a thought or two on this….

Order the good wine

[narwhalParticipant]

I have a condition where the right side of my ribcage is slightly caved in…so it looks like I have a dent in my chest. It used to really bother me a lot. It was more in my head then anything else.

Two things helped solved my issue.
1st – I worked out a lot, particularly push ups. It will give you confidence. Having nice pecs, or a flat stomach is going to distract from whatever you don’t want people noticing.

2nd – I got used to it over time. It sounds ridiculous to me now, but I would even tell women I dated about it before they got a chance to see me shirtless. I figured that was better then a surprise. Not one of them ever cared. And I went shirtless at the beach or wherever as often as possible to learn that it didn’t matter.

The two suggestions are somewhat opposite I know. Think of 1 as the short term solution, 2 as the long term.

Also…use your flaws to understand that a lot of people have it worse off than you. When I was diagnosed with my rib issue, the Dr. explained that I actually had a very mild case. He explained that in many cases, the ribs were not bent, but actually missing, and the person couldn’t keep their organs in. He often brought out the picture book. Yea….not that big of an issue for me when you look at it that way.

Ok. Then do it.

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

AM,

Introduction are really about establishing you Bonifides as a man.

In the reply box below, kindly provide more details about what you are doing with YOUR life.

What is YOUR living situation like?

What kind of fun things do YOU do?

How are YOU surviving at school?

Any plans for YOUR future?

Where are you on the MGTOW road?

There are very bad people, C~~~s, who want bad things to happen to MGTOW.

Alas, your “Introduction” has started off like something our Great Enemy would post.

However, I suspect that there are too many young men who are suffering like yourself. I have pink skin and red hair, so I know what it’s like. Here is an attempt to help:

The problems you are having can be addressed in other parts of the Forums like Health and Fitness.

That being said, your generation is being subjected to the vilest substances and Gynocentric indoctrination in history.

Your body has been and continues to be subjected to very bad hormones in the foods. Even the plastic containers cause all sorts of bad thing to happen to the body.

In another decade, you are going to have bigger issues with your body to deal with.

Here is a link of what to look forward to, if you remain asleep to what is being done to your body:

inexpesive-cancer-cures-and-other-miracle-cures-verses-the-golden-goose

You mind is constantly bombarded with the Gynocentric perspective.

And what the status quo passes off as “Masculinity” is really just savagery.

You can start to learn about real masculinity from MGTOWs.

Yes, men learn to be men from other men. But, Blue Pill Slaves will only train you how to survive as a slave on the Plantation.

So, read everything on this web site and listen to everything in the Archives.

AgentMulder wrote:

…….any advice or anything? Would appreciate it dudes!

Keep your shirt on. Don’t give your enemy the ammunition to shoot at you.

Learn to have a “Thick Skin.” Stop letting your enemy into your head.

Learn about “Iron Shirt.”

Here are some older Posts that I made about what I had to deal with and how Internal Martial Arts helped me:

Soppy Wanker!!!

The Power of Celibacy

I look forward to reading your Bonifides below and about your attempts to make your life better.

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[HitmanParticipant]

Agent. .
Please make an intro..
We will be more than happy to help you out as much as possible!

[KevinStylesParticipant 2580]

The solution to your problem has to come from within yourself. Everyone has things they’re self conscious about. You’re young and in that worried about what people think mode. You need to cross over to not giving a f~~~ mode because you are who you are. When you get to the point where you are accepting of your own body then it won’t bother you what other people think and then they’ll stop talking s~~~ because they’re not getting any reaction to entertain themselves with.

Guys give each other s~~~ over lots of things. Girls aren’t going to care if your nipples are slightly big. Have you seen the various amounts of sizes and colors womens nipples come in? They’re not going to care, but they are going to care about your lack of confidence. However you’re on a MGTOW site so the ultimate question is why do you even give a s~~~ what girls might think?

[Anonymous 54]

This is a club for Men with small nipples only!
Kidding.
Hey,takeing off your shirt gets even better when your old.And theres a bunch of young chics around!!

Its good to learn to be able to laugh at yourself.

[Anonymous 54]

On girls I like a small areola with bick thick penclcel eraser nipples.
People come in all shapes sizes and colors.
Just be yourself.

[RennieParticipant]

Atleast you don’t have it as bad as Francisco Scaramanga.

[MonkeyMindParticipant 5340]

Wait till you hit 40, you’ll look back and realise how stupid you were to worry about trivial things like this when you were young and in your prime.

Everyone gets self concious about something at your age. Trust me, if it wasn’t your nipples, it would be something else you’d be worrying about.

Work out and stop giving a s~~~.

[Anonymous 54]

MonkeyMind wrote:

Wait till you hit 40, you’ll look back and realise how stupid you were to worry about trivial things like this when you were young and in your prime.

Everyone gets self concious about something at your age. Trust me, if it wasn’t your nipples, it would be something else you’d be worrying about.

Work out and stop giving a s~~~.

Plus youll be busy cutting the hair in your ears and nose! Hahh

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