Soppy Wanker

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

As a child, my Father was rarely home and I was the oldest, so I had to stay home a lot to help mom with my numerous little brothers and sisters. I didn’t mind so much because my mother was smart and funny and I loved my younger brothers and sisters. I was happy and safe. Alas, this “loving/ nurturing” environment did not allow me to enjoy the company of other males.

My “spiritual awakening” discussed in another post was a two edged sword. It helped me get good paying jobs, but I was faced with the fact that I was still a “Mangina.” I was placed in situations where I had to supervise military trained men/ tough guys. Initially, my biggest grievance with other males was that they all thought it was OK and fun to emasculate a guy like me. The “Quarterbacks” who married the “head Cheerleaders” were the worst offenders. His wife took his money and his b~~~~, so he often made every attempt to make up for the loss at another weaker males expense.

Spoiler alert: My favorite Sci-fi book that explores the path to manhood is “Starship Troopers” by Robert Heinlein.

I take after my father’s side of the family. They are from the Gaelic speaking part of the West Coast of Ireland. The people from there are the survivors of hundreds of years of genocide. All of the big tough looking guys were the first to be killed off. Now most of the grown men look like me: androgynous features, big soft eyes, small hands and feet, pink skinned, high foreheads, balding red hair, appearing very cute/non-threatening.

The movie “The Guard” shows some of the places I stayed at when visiting family:

Growing up in Chicago with polluted air, processed foods, fluorinated water, and the lack of bio-active compounds made me much weaker than my cousins in Ireland.

My Uncles and Grandfather joined the British military to help out in the wars. Because they didn’t appear tough, some of my Uncles worked as commandos behind enemy lines. My Grandfather was in the British Navy. They were all decorated war veterans who saw too much bloodshed and suffered from PTSD. They all discouraged me from military service and wanted me to get a college education instead. So, I took their advice.

My spiritual life in my late twenties helped me to miraculously find a form of full contact mixed martial arts and a group of great guys who saved me in every way. Beginners had to do internal martial arts or “iron shirt” which basically means no masturbating and ejaculating while in training.

The book, “The Great Tao,” by Stephen T. Chang is the “bible” for people that have real skills with Internal Martial Art. We did every exercise described in Chang’s other book:

http://www.thegreattao.com/html/taoofsexology.html

In one month, I could take hard punches to the gut. In three months, it was fun to hit each other, throw each other around the mat, and spar against groups. Several years later, the training was edged weapons and then other hand weapons. A decade after, it was Automatic weapons training. Nevertheless, my foundation is Internal Martial Arts.

Ang Lee made a movie called “pushing Hands” that did a nice job of showing someone who uses Internal Martial Arts:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pushing_Hands_(film)

Gary Clyman is a great American from Chicago who has written, organized, produced instructional videos, and taught Internal Martial Arts. I like the demonstration starting at 4:40 minutes:

Here is an example of Gary Clyman performing the exercises that use cultivated sexual energy to increase the voltage and current traveling through the nervous system:

The following link is a website of another great American teacher, James McNeil from California, who has done a fine job of creating video courses on the internal martial arts. His videos on sexual practices are excellent:

http://www.littlenineheaven.com/

I discovered that everything I knew about sex, especially the stuff promoted by the pornography industry, made me weak. Because of porn, when some bully punched me, I would fall down and curl up into a fetal position. It didn’t matter how hard I could hit a heavy bag, because I could not take a punch. I had no fighting spirit while ejaculating.

The older empires knew about this phenomenon. Sadly, the message got so diluted throughout the years that it sounded like nonsense. For example, males who are Catholics, the former Roman Empire, are taught that masturbating will “make hair grow on their palms.”

The British Empire knew this too. A man who masturbated too much was known to be effeminate and a cry baby. Calling a man a “Soppy Wanker” is an insult to his manhood.

Training/ sparing a couple days per week with the guys was good for my career and helped me to appreciate/ enjoy the great guys I was fortunate to work with. Now, I prefer the honesty and humor of men. In dangerous environments, it is important to work with guys who “have your back” and are dependable. “Ball busting” is fun and a good way find out who you are dealing with. I now understand that Honesty/ truth and boldness/ courage are the foundation of the civilized societies that men have built.

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

Thank you for posting such an interesting topic. I have flirted with taoist practices and find the principles valuable. I occasionally fast from masterbation as a test of discipline and a way to test that I am not over masterbating. What many western men don’t understand is that a healthy life is about finding balance. With my interest in strength training, I have learned that there are destructive (yang) and restorative (yin) forces at work. Both are necessary. I must rest to recover and grow stronger but I must work to have something to recover from

But back to the sex topic. I am no expert on sexual transmutation, but I realize the power in using it to improve our lives/achieving our goals. Unlike some people though I don’t credit it with giving a person superpowers like a reedit nofap guy might preach. I think it all comes down to balance as I mentioned earlier. Fapping all the time will make you tired and keep you weak. If the energy isn’t used for sexual purposes, it must come out some way in order for the person to achieve balance. As a result the person has some extra energy to help them achieve their goals.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Thanks for this great post! The world is full of new things to learn and you have set me onto some new ones too.

The Manipulated Man wrote:

“Starship Troopers” by Robert Heinlein.

One of my favorite books by one of my top-five favorite writers!

The Manipulated Man wrote:

The movie “The Guard” shows some of the places I stayed at when visiting family:

This movie is going on my “find it and watch it” list today!

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