New relationship with GF and she gets in a car accident. Could you dump her?

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Again I see,

in contrast to women, men are caring and come here to ask for advice…

A woman will not think twice about kicking you to the curb if you have had a car accident and might need her to push a wheelchair…

If she previously deflected you from your job then her attitude towards you and your well being is not “in your best interest”. And this will ruin or heavily impede your career if you don’t end it.

You will then only be “good for her” until the parasite has sucked you dry and moves on to her “next host”…

Dodge that bullet!

It’s not “dumping her in times of need”, it’s pulling your head out of the string.

If she already wanted “to end it” before her accident, then she will just postpone that decision until after her recovery, when she will no longer have “use” for you.

To women, we are only “useful idiots”, that waste time and resources orbiting them, doing “favors”, fixing their s~~~, paying their bills, lending them money they’ll never give back… And not getting ANYTHING IN RETURN.

Woman don’t have anything to offer other than sex. And if they don’t even do that with you, then that is what I would call “nothing”.

And it is not an act of “human mercy” to pay for that “smartphone diddling” doll that sits “rent free” in your place with a warm ass, getting fed for free while constantly ignoring you by giving her all of her attention to her phone and her Facebook and Tinder orbiters.

Today’s women are “visible” parasites and their status has become undeniable. They are just expensive “Dolls” that sit there and only cost your money. You are only good to pay for the heating, the food and for the electricity to make her a nice stay (till she finds some better fool) and of course: To keep her phone charged…

And to act as an “on-demand” emotional dumpster for her insults and temper tantrums.

What real man wants to end up like that?

But the world is finally starting to see that. I am just sorry for all of the cats who have to take our place and live imprisoned in a small city apartment by these ruthless and abusive “educated” c~~~s.

Imprisoning us men has failed already. I hope the cats will also get genetic changes and start to hiss at women one day… …Seeing them for what they are: Like cats get that “code” to flea from natural predators directly after birth.

Now, in this day and age, boys – even before puberty – are starting to lose the sex-dive that is genetically engraved for millions of years…

We men are having genetic changes. Something the “graduated” feminists were not educated enough to ever think about.

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[WanderingMGTOWParticipant 288]

Thanks guys, I get it now.

Once again, I really appreciate the advice and support.

CJ

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Hitman wrote:

make a proper intro.

WanderingMGTOW wrote:

In the intro forum or here?

When I first came here I was not made aware about the necessity of making an intro post and nowhere did it say where to put it.

And so I have used what I had: The maximum 5000 characters in the profile text field.

Normally this is the “about me” field in most forums anyway.

And then I saw that the “My favorite Red Pill” field holds much more text.

It was after surfing through all of the forum sections that I saw (by myself) that an introduction would be good start. Because I didn’t lurk here for even an hour before registering…

I registered the day I found this site. No time to familiarize myself with the rituals and I still take pride into never being falsely called a tuna fish.

But to avoid “misunderstandings” with new members, I suggest making some kind of “intro form” in the profile section as a “forum entry” requirement.

But maybe the system is good as it is, because tuna lurkers don’t get the need to prefabricate a story “to pass the introduction” and then get a head start on trolling.

Make tuna jump into the cold water…

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[HitmanParticipant]

Gargamel wrote:

Make tuna jump into the cold water…

i’d rather pull it in to the boat,
and kill it.

my knife on the throat of the fish..
exquisite..

[Anonymous 14]

Anonymous wrote:

Take her to a very steep hill.

Old Sage, you crack me up all the time. You got some of the best one line responses here man.

[Yojimbo RockfordParticipant 348]

No pun intended. Walk. She’ll be glad ya did.

[Anonymous 5]

She’s already made up her mind she’s done with you accident =excuse to pull the plug follow your instincts . ditch her you’ll be in a better mood .

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Hitman wrote:

stop caring about someone who would cut off your dick and throw it down a garbage disposal unit..

He’s not even kidding about that.

Anonymous wrote:

Take her to a very steep hill.

Jack and Jill went up the hill,
Each with a buck-and-a-quarter,
Jill came down with $2-fifty,
F~~~in’ whore.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[TheStormWithinParticipant 778]

I’m not sure I’m understanding the apprehension here. This sounds like a woman who couldn’t give a s~~~ about the relationship ending. If she really cared, she wouldn’t be acting like a t~~~. Sure, it’s unfortunate she was in an accident, but the good news is she’s going to recover. It’s not like you would be abandoning her when she needed you most. Would you even want to stick around just because you were needed, anyway? Probably not.

Just remind yourself neither of you really want the relationship instead of letting the circumstances make you feel guilty. There’s no reason for it.

Aunt Esther: Fred, I'll have you know this body was blessed by Mother Nature!! Fred: Well, too bad your face was cursed by Father Time!

[WPLParticipant 2390]

My (now ex-) wife was in a car accident shortly before she ran off with her Chad. The wreck was not technically her fault, but I still feel that she could have avoided it if she wasn’t such a damn aggressive driver — not that I EVER said that to her. (She also could have avoided it by not driving into the “big” city to shop and entertain herself nearly every day, despite having no job).

Her car was demolished, but it protected her impressively well. She sustained minor abrasions and burns from the airbag, plus some bruising and soreness. Right after the wreck, her attitude toward me changed. Anything I did for her wasn’t enough… “you don’t care enough about me” sort of comments. In retrospect, I understand that her attitude was just a way for the hamster to justify cheating.

[WanderingMGTOWParticipant 288]

WPL,

Thanks for sharing your story and sorry to hear about that. My ex-wife cheated too.

I think I left it out for brevity but thats exactly what the GF said to me. Despite me ducking out of work early every day and spending all my free time either with her or working on something for her care.

Women and their lofty expectations…

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

Had an ex who had a kidney transplant. I was in love (or so I thought) with her. Stayed with her for 4 days at the hospital, missed work.

2 months later she goes out with her personal trainer.

Don’t let the accident sway your thinking. You wanted out before the accident happened, get out. No need to show compassion to the girl, since most if not all of them are incapable of showing compassion to a man when he needs it.

[ConstantineParticipant 4420]

You don’t want to stay with somebody out of guilt. That’s no way to live. Try pointing that out to her. If the shoe was on the other foot, would she be comfortable staying with you just because she felt bad?

And just remember that it won’t matter what you do. Any time she recounts the story to friends, she will change the facts to villainize you.

To see what is in front of one's nose requires a constant struggle. -Orwell

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

WanderingMGTOW wrote:

We’d uncovered some possibly significant incompatibilities. I found out (after accident) that she’d been considering ending it. (I had been too, I felt held back from my side business, career, fitness and travel.)

WanderingMGTOW wrote:

When I saw her I kissed her, I can tell she was avoiding it, and it was like kissing a stranger.

WanderingMGTOW wrote:

I dumped her at the 4 month point, harshly because I didn’t like how she treated me and we re-united after a month.

WanderingMGTOW wrote:

It’s still feels s~~~ty to end it but I want to.

No need to even Text her, why waste time. Just move on.

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[Anonymous 12]

WanderingMGTOW wrote:

I need some advice from guys who get it. (MGTOW, How women really are, etc.)

I have a long detailed version of this that I can post but I’m trying hard for a short version.

My GF of ~7 months, got in a car accident a couple weeks ago. She’s in a wheel chair and will be for a few months but will make a full recovery. I was very involved in her care at the hospital, and we’d planned for onwards.

The month pre-accident had been kind of rocky. We’d uncovered some possibly significant incompatibilities. I found out (after accident) that she’d been considering ending it. (I had been too, I felt held back from my side business, career, fitness and travel.)

Ignore these heartless bastards! Especially Hitman… The dude seems to be in a “no BS mood”.

Personally i would offer the idea of making sure she is okay and recovers 100% on a physical level and when it comes to her motor, walk jump run skills.
That is what i would consider part of “being a decent human being”

But beyond that, you have already given the answer:
– there were thoughts of breaking up
– distance has driven a wedge between the both of you, and will keep doing so as time marches on…
– release her, let her find her own path (or the next dick… however you wanna phrase it)
– walk yours in a positive manner.

[WanderingMGTOWParticipant 288]

Good thoughts. I’m willing to help her out, in relationship or not but with different boundaries. Basically to the level that I would give to any friend. (I have to sleep at night) However that help is not wanted. She’s been ignoring me for days.

If she wanted to hear from me she’d text something – anything and she isn’t. Which is really quite selfish because this means her friend has to shoulder a lot more work.

I know that it’s over and am proceeding (mentally) as if it is.

It’s been really bothering me “being inbetween” and ignored. I’m not planning to date again for some time so I tell myself that verbalizing an ending is a pointless invisible marker anyway and am focusing on planning the next phases of self improvement, projects and trips.

At this stage I’m torn between giving it another week, trying to initiate a conversation and if it is denied or ignored, sending a polite breakup text with an invitation for in person closure when she is healthy enough.

Or just not saying anything which is *really* not my style.

No matter what, I will be vilified. I did save several texts but we all know that I’ll never have the chance to defend myself or people will tell me that I shouldn’t have listened to her and should have been there anyway.

I’m so TiredOfWmnSh1t.

[Anonymous 42]

Anonymous wrote:

Old Sage, you crack me up all the time. You got some of the best one line responses here man.

I just had another laugh 2nd time around!

Take her on a tram ride, roll her off a cliff, wheelchair and all! A steep hill she could survive, a cliff she will not…

[J.R. “Bob” DobbsParticipant 521]

WanderingMGTOW wrote:

Adding: At 40, I see women as a waste of time with little return on investment.
I’m in no hurry to date again, planning to go MGTOW if/when I become single (Thats another post tho.)

A spiritual mentor from my past once told me, “Nobody runs on pure fuel.” IOW, it is impossible to have zero self-interest in ANYTHING that you (or anyone else) does.

That especially includes women. It also includes YOU. And there’s nothing wrong with that. The religious nut jobs would have you believe otherwise.

See, the Sisters of Perpetual Victimhood will even use LEGITIMATE tragedies to drain every drop of blood out of you if you let them.

Relationships are a TWO-WAY street. ALWAYS. WITHOUT EXCEPTION. I don’t care how her circumstances have changed. She was treating you s~~~ty before the accident. Now she’s going to leverage her circumstances to manipulate you even MORE?

Get out. NOW. Do not pass Go, do not collect $200.

–C.N.M.

Quote from a former boss: "Don't get married...the fucking you get ain't worth the fucking you get."

[TicParticipant 4329]

a woman ghosting YOU when she is hurt in an accident???! She’d be running to you arms open if you were her “GO TO GUY”

Have you considered the notion that she has been with someone else this whole time? Just a thought…I would say she does not care for you. Harsh words, but, it’s reality, bro. Move on.

God bless peace and freedom.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Cut the cord, let her go.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

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