Never Married MGTOWs

[WestcoasttrendkillParticipant 234]

I was extremely naive and innocent as a kid, teen, going into my 20’s. I had girlfriends in high school but I was always the one to break it off. My first real girlfriend tried to kill herself when her mom caught us together in her room and threatened to send her away to live with her dad.

After that, I usually broke things off with the girls because I didn’t want to deal with their bulls~~~. I never really fell in love with any of the girls from my school years.

My first, only, and last long term relationship ran 11 years in total. We weren’t officially together in the end even though I was still f~~~ing her up until the day I moved away.

I might as well have been married to her because it felt like I experienced every possible scenario with her. I got to see how she was at every part of my relationship with her. She was messing around behind her boyfriends back with me and at least one, possibly two other guys at the same time at the end of it. I had a glimpse into her life from many different perspectives.

I’ve only recently realized how f~~~ed I would have been if I had married her or had kids with her. I think subconsciously I always knew I could never trust her and have anything honest with her.

For me, being so far away from her was basically like going through detox. I had some serious and deep thought provoking dreams about her in the beginning. Now, I can’t stomach the thought of ever touching her again. I realize now that I was just depressed and codependent. Being alone and having time to analyze everything led me to conclude that I never want to be taken advantage of emotionally, physically, and financially again.

She always knew what to say and do to get what she wanted from me. Not anymore.

As cliche as it sounds, sometimes you have to get burned in order to learn.

[Our Endless WarParticipant 113]

For me it was seeing people I know get married or get into relationships, and suddenly they get more depressed and have no time to hang out because of their girlfriend or wife and whatnot. I also was blatantly told I was a sexist and a racist just for being a typical straight white male.

[crushhighlanderParticipant 239]

I became involved in MGTOW when I saw how many girls only came to talk to me to get something out of me, usually help with money or work stuff. I also saw how many of them were highly egotistical and how many of them were deluded by jerkoffs while they rejected my dating proposals. One lovely day in July of 2016 I finally had enough and searched for dumb things girls do to guys. Incredibly enough this website popped up. I now feel great and no longer dread rejection nor feel an overwhelming desire as before. I can confidently say MGTOW changed my life for the better. 🙂

No more hassles, no more nonsense, no more drama. Long live MGTOW!

[crushhighlanderParticipant 239]

I barely noticed how old this thread actually is. How time flies, gentlemen.

No more hassles, no more nonsense, no more drama. Long live MGTOW!

[CasualGuy227Participant 170]

Well the main reason I am not wanting to get married is for practical reasons of finance and resources. In the west when it comes to marriage women are generally favoured in the courts so they gonna take your s~~~ that way.

also noticed that as soon as most women are in marriage they seem to just drop all their s~~~ like looking after themselves and stuff they just take s~~~ for granted mostly from what i have observed from second hand experience while looking at other marriages, the women to begin with had stuff going, had her own life she was going places then about 2 years later BAM ! she given up on s~~~ barley lifting her finger to even help with basic chores like house work and making the guy do everything for her on his back and call

also why do i have to get married ? i mean minus the social status which men dont even benefit from like at all why can you just have a happy long term relationship ?

p.s sorry for being a little ranty

[cronusParticipant 8]

Blue Skies wrote:

Are there many MGTOWs that have never been married? If you have never been married, share your personal experiences that led you to MGTOW.
For me, it was going through breakups and watching my friends also go through breakups and suffering in pain. I also learned that men commit suicide 4 times more often than women yet the media doesn’t give a s~~~ about men’s well being. I started youtubeing MGTOW and gained a lot of wisdom.

I’m a natural MGTOW. I decided not to marry when I was just 8 years old. I am very much interested about monastic life(specially buddhist monastic life) and hopefully one day I shall embrace it. One most important aspect in my life is FREEDOM which I don’t want to compromise at any cost. I have also grown up in a dysfunctional family and that may be a big reason for my decision not to marry.

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