Never Married MGTOWs

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Are there many MGTOWs that have never been married? If you have never been married, share your personal experiences that led you to MGTOW.
For me, it was going through breakups and watching my friends also go through breakups and suffering in pain. I also learned that men commit suicide 4 times more often than women yet the media doesn’t give a s~~~ about men’s well being. I started youtubeing MGTOW and gained a lot of wisdom.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Breakerone9Participant 14]

I was planning on getting married until I stumbled upon MGTOW sandman, and Terrence Popp videos on youtube. At 40+ years old, i was indeed in a fairy tale mindset. I identified with the many many red flags, and warnings about the many entitlements women have over men in a divorce. Now i lift weights and goto college to make more money for my happiness and wellbeing. I stopped planning on even chaseing women for a date. I still am somewhat in shock, and sad, but relieved at same time. It is different now taking the red pill, and have many more red pills to choke down.

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

Never.been.married.here and.im.just 30 year.old i seen.my Cousin and a friend getting screw.by that systen and thats when.i started to search.online about family court ect ,and.i found.mgtow since then.my.life.is great i get some pussy every now and then but i take every precaution to not impregnant any women ,because that will be 18 year of child support ,mgtow life style.is that best no.marriages no kids=freedom

[CaliParticipant 753]

I was surfing the web and came across mgtow.com, and I was like, “well, the people here sure do cuss a lot, but doggone it, they have some REALLY good points” (Homeschooler here lol).

Anyways, the MGTOW idea aligned with a lot of my original opinions. I’d be talking with someone who was experiencing women troubles and be like, “you DO realize that you could save your money up and buy a week-long cruise EVERY YEAR with the money you waste dating people you end up breaking up with, right?” It just didn’t make sense to me to waste money on women, especially as a teenager. I mean, WHY? Just, WHY WOULD ANYBODY DO THIS TO THEMSELVES? I mean, I can understand if someone had a high school sweetheart whom he had known for years and years and who never really gave him any grief, but I was just dumbfounded by people who wasted their time on pointless “relationships” constantly.

So, there you have it! That is basically my MGTOW story.

Just a misogynist virgin hiding away in his mother's basement. Nothing to see here...

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Marriage was never really part of the plan. I noticed in high school how manipulative women are on a constant basis. I noticed, even dating girls for a manner of months that their attitude goes from sweet to sour and they start wanting money, gifts, and to be treated like royalty. And even then they would with hold sex until you did what they wanted. And then, I realized if that’s how they were in a few months, how would they be in a year? A decade? Then they’d really bring out the claws and I will have given them the tools to f~~~ me over. So I said no thanks to marriage.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[NotMyProblemParticipant 965]

I’m proud to have dodged that bullet. I’m a 28 year old Free Man. Kudos to the senior MGTOW here who bit that bullet and then shared their wisdom.

At an early age I was good with females. I was already kissing girls in kindergarten. After high school I was primarily focused on making money and entrepreneurship. I f~~~ed around a fair bit and had my first 2 long term relations~~~s in my early 20’s, each lasting around 1-2 years.

These relations~~~s were the blue-pill period of my life and each of these girls ended up cheating on me. I was mr perfect boyfriend.

At 25, freshly single post breakup, I had to stop for a bit and be honest with myself. By then I figured a lot of this red pill s~~~ out on my own, and I realized through experience that relations~~~s make me stagnate as a human being. I tried living with them twice and its not for me.

At this time I was still hoping for that NAWALT and the family. I figured I just needed to take some ME time first… to get my life figured out, get out of the financial hole I was in, and to figure out women once and for all.

Naturally I started diving into the PUA stuff. I think every man should have that experience and get some pussy while there young. But god damn if there is anything that can f~~~ up your life it’s a female.

I got really good with girls, and this was mostly dumb luck due to my job. I refused to keep a female longer than 6 months and I had a string of great lays. Experienced all the fantasies my perverted mind could think of.

At the end of all this, at 28 years old I realize that females are basically children that have adult powers. Big bad adult powers given to them by the government because vagina.

This is obviously not the way things are naturally meant to be. You can tell your in a communist country when there is no gender separation. Everyone has short hair and gender is just a social construct.

Women need to be dominated and led, like children. They respond well to authority and you would be surprised how many girls want to play 50 shades and wear a collar for you. They all secretly love to submit, that’s the secret to females. Marriage/children is where you submit to the female.

Yea so play around if ya have to but understand its a huge risk and a giant financial liability. At 28 I am starting to learn to control my sex drive and use it for more creative/profitable pursuits. I want to go tesla instead.

I realized this year I want to do “ME” for the rest of my life. Maybe a surrogate later if I happen to get rich along my journey. I still think 2 sons would be pretty cool, but honestly I could do that s~~~ in my 40’s after I have some more fun, see the world and build businesses and s~~~.

To the Never Married MGTOWs out there:

You have a huge competitive advantage. Don’t squander it. The strong survive and the weak will die off. It’s a cold cruel world out there and it’s only getting worse. Put a suit on and go CONQUER THE WORLD.

The bachelor Man with $$$$$ is like God on Earth. I’m not there yet but working on it. The world is my video game. Wealth/Assets are the points you can collect. Thats the only way to keep score. Money not Bitches. Just rent the bitches.

Not my property... Not my problem

[TheroniusParticipant 975]

I’m 57 now, and never married. I live a lonely, empty existence in my house up in the mountains that I bought with cash. I try to take my mind off it by going fishing, or taking the 240Z for a blast through the mountains, or doing whatever in the f~~~ else I feel like doing since I retired at 42.

"I am is reportedly the shortest sentence in the English language. Could it be that I do is the longest sentence?" - George Carlin

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

I’m 24 years old have never married or even dated. I have to thank my parents partly. For starters, my mom is can be rather crazy and watching her and my dad’s relationship always made me feel suspicious of marriage. They also prohibited me from dating until I was 16, so I had plenty of time to observe my peer’s relationships as an outsider. When I was 12, something happened to me that I consider to be my first red pill: I went to a family friend’s wedding. The edtrvagence of the ritual confused me and I found the whole thing kind of stupid. On top of that, the brides father rubbed my rebellious spirit the wrong way. He was talking about the time his daughter was a preteen and swore she would never marry. I watched the old farts laugh at her story. The attitude they had annoyed me. It was like marriage was some inevitable outcome of existence. As I got into middle school I heard more of that garbage and noticed many of my friends started dating. Around the same time, I grew a love for music which I recognize as the start of my understanding that I can live a fulfilling life focused on learning and pursuing my hobbies. My uncle has never married and around that time I noticed he seemed to be doing something similar. On top of it all, I’m very introverted and have generally kept to myself. I was shy in those days too, so I had that going for me.

However, there was one time where I almost slipped from my red pill ways. I developed a crush for a pretty girl that treated me very kindly at some point. She was an awalt if there ever was one. I had had crushes before but this one effected me deeper. I poured these powerful feelings into my music and wrote hundreds of songs. I was a creative god and that actually caused the creation of the band I am still in today. After a few months, my band performed for a gym full of high schoolers. She was in the front row and one of the songs was one that she inspired. The adfeneline from our first performance and my infatuation reached a boiling point. I talked to my vocalist who was a friend of hers. I asked him to tell her that song was about her. He said he was uncomfortable with that and I was quick to agree that he was right and I said I shouldn’t have asked that. After that, the infatuation cooled off. The songs served as a record of my emotional state which I was now, a year later, able to analyze and realize how much these emotions clouded my judgement. My creativity took a plunge, but I also reached a new stage in my life: self development and more hobbies. I discovered strength training and it led me onto my current state. I won’t go into to detail in this post but I can not over emphasize the effect barbell training has impacted my life.

To sum it all up: I’m a rather unusual person as my rant has show, and marriage was never going to happen. MGTOW fits me perfectly.

[Anonymous 24]

I am in my mid forties, never been married. I got close twice. I have never wanted kids, this was mostly the reason my two very serious relationships fell apart. I have also always been somewhat of a rebel. Questioning things came as a matter of nature to me even at the age of 10. Basiclly, from a very young age I had a sense that the whole system was contrived for the benefit of something other than the individual. I to have had three very young friends commit suicide while I was young. Two from not being able to break away from heavy drug use and the third, the coolest person I ever knew, from not being able to quit drinking. He was 26 and his wife was 40 and she knew he had a drinking problem going into the marriage. This was a sweet guy who did not get a lot of women. Anyhow, he was given an ultimatum “quit drinking or I am leaving you” type of thing just a year into the marriage. Well he tried and tried, yet could not get clean. After threats from her he finally blew his head off with a rifle one Halloween night, his favorite holiday. This kid had the best heart of all my buddies growing up, a funny guy to. Not a mean drunk as well. Great guy to be around, I miss him a lot.

I guess I always had a sense that marriage was bulls~~~, I actually even have a more crazy story about marriage gone wrong than that one. Now many years down the road from the days of my buddies offing themselves I see it very clearly. Society pressures men much more than women. Suicide rates are exceptionally higher among men than women. Currently society is engineered in a manner to get the best economic results. That is it is designed to give women more power and influence through shaming. All dads in T.V. shows are portrayed as dumb or at the very least, inept. Marriage has a much larger downside for men than women. Do not do it unless you find that unicorn. Oh, and make sure her bank account is larger than yours and she is a cool chick. Otherwise in the vain of Iron Maiden- “Run for the hills, Run for your lives”.

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

Oh yeah, I forgot to mention my two best friends’ parents divorced because of the Mrs and I was raised in a church full of hen pecked husbands with a proclivity for sharing self depreciation jokes. That was pretty good at keep my system full of red pills.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Theronius wrote:

I’m 57 now, and never married. I live a lonely, empty existence in my house up in the mountains that I bought with cash. I try to take my mind off it by going fishing, or taking the 240Z for a blast through the mountains, or doing whatever in the f~~~ else I feel like doing since I retired at 42.

HOW did you retire at 42? congrats brotha!!

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[MENGINEERParticipant 583]

Never getting married club right here!

Been in a handful of LTRs from 19-30s. They all start out great then end up acting like spoiled children pouting for a rock and their own rock star concert.

Like Patrice O Neal said: “women age like cars not like houses”.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Blue Skies wrote:

Are there many MGTOWs that have never been married?

Oh yeah. You can be sure of that.

Never married here. Although I could have married at least 5 times – if I proposed. Probably more If I aggressively wanted to pursue it. But the reason I did not, is because I determined they were not marriageable. FAR more women wanted to marry me than the other way around – which I found rather ……………… creepy.

How is it possible that I enjoyed plenty of options and opportunity, but found not ONE of them to be marriageable in all of my travels….. but THEY often married the next man directly after me!! It was as if she didn’t care who he was, as long as “she was getting married”. To me, that’s creepy as s~~~ – that a woman can want to marry one man, then if the first didn’t work out, she married the NEXT one, or the NEXT one..

I realized that women were not very discerning. Certainly not as discerning as me. Because I don’t believe in divorce. And whenever I said that as justification for being careful about who I wife up, it actually BOTHERED them and generated a negative reaction. I think that is an extremely admirable attitude: There will be no wedding if she believes in divorce. . I will not be anyone’s “starter husband”. That term p~~~es me off to no end.

So while I was carefully selecting my bride …..
The women were more like this video (below).

Quite simply, THIS is the reason I decided to GMOW…,
and when they married the very next one, I genuflected and thanked GOD it wasn’t me.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Keymaster wrote:

I realized that women were not very discerning. Certainly not as discerning as me.

And that is why the slut paradigm exists. If a woman can’t show good judgement skills, and has 12 children with 12 different guys, then we can guess she’s not too bright. And that’s why the slut thing exists for women and not men. Not only does it exist, but you’re right if you believe it.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

A word of caution. My grandparents just celebrated their 75th wedding anniversary. My parents have been married for 54 years. My uncle about 40 years.

I thought people got married and stayed married. Worked things out. Valued that relationship and stuck out the hard times.

It takes two people to agree to get married but only one to force a divorce.

I used to think that deep down almost everyone was a good person. Cared about other people and tried to “do the right thing”. Suffice it to say I don’t believe that anymore.

I just hope some of what I post helps the never married guys realize that they are making a good decision.

Order the good wine

[KeymasterKeymaster]

TaxGuy wrote:

I just hope some of what I post helps the never married guys realize that they are making a good decision.

For me, it was purely – and almost completely – following my manstincts.
We know in our guts if it’s not right. Some guys will do it anyway “to make her happy”, but that wasn’t reason enough.

If it wasn’t right…… I just went my own way.

In 1991 I dated and lived with a complete bitch. I had her in check and that was part of the reason she was attracted to me. She didn’t get away with anything. When she was a bitch I called her out. But eventually, I got tired of her s~~~. Something just said :”get the hell out of there” and don’t give a damn how she feels about it. This was a repeat pattern.

If she is not LOVELY to be around…. get her out — or get yourself out — TODAY.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Key:

Amen! I knew in my gut it wasn’t right but tried to make her happy. What I didn’t realize is that she lacked the capacity to be happy.

But I take a very Buhdist approach. The past is the past. The only two days you have no control over are yesterday and tomorrow.

Today is a damn good day!

Order the good wine

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Theronius wrote:

I’m 57 now, and never married. I live a lonely, empty existence in my house up in the mountains that I bought with cash. I try to take my mind off it by going fishing, or taking the 240Z for a blast through the mountains, or doing whatever in the f~~~ else I feel like doing since I retired at 42.

Sounds miserable…wish I had a life like that! #winning

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Theronius wrote:

I’m 57 now, and never married. I live a lonely, empty existence in my house up in the mountains that I bought with cash. I try to take my mind off it by going fishing, or taking the 240Z for a blast through the mountains, or doing whatever in the f~~~ else I feel like doing since I retired at 42.

Im not saying this to blow smoke up your ass…… but when I grow up, I want to be you.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 18]

Never married. I see it first class ticket to hell. Only worth the trip until you get there.

Then it’s memories of long forgotten BJs by the missus and weekly chores to build credit for a missionary lay.

Don’t forget to take the garbage out.

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