Never Married MGTOWs

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

I feel like I’ve been excluded from this thread because I was married.

You’ve all hurt my feellzz and now I’ve been raped.

I will see you all in court ….. probably in Toronto.

I know I said I’ve been left out … but posted this …. in the thread I’ve been left out of ….

But that doesn’t count ok

IT HOW I FEELZZZ THAT MATTERS.

Unmarried rapers.

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

Well there’s a lot of things that led me here.I’m 20 so i never married.(thank god)
I’m lucky because i turned purple pill just before my first relationship.Why i turned purple pill?
I just observed and observed.
Why does my father do all the work, and he sleeps on the couch like a dog each night?
Why does he just sit there when my mother hits him with all sorts of objects?
Why is it that women can spit the most blatant sexism and even pass such laws and if a man just disagrees he’s the sexist pig?

Why aren’t i allowed to defend myself if a woman decides to beat the crap out of me?
Why do i have to treat them as these special beings of higher status?

I got my first red pill when i was 15, one of my friends killed himself.
He jumped off the roof of our school..
Do you know how they reacted?

They said it was an accident,
that he went regularly there to feed the pigeons and that he just tripped over.
I knew the guy very well,

He never fed pigeons in his life nor did he have a habit of going to the school roof..

When i was 18 another friend killed himself,
this time i wasn’t even allowed to ask how,
anyone who i asked got really angry for even bringing it up as if i’m insulting them with this question,
“don’t talk about this!” was the standard response, and if i followed with “why?” a “shut the f~~~ up” followed.

Since then i’ve been pretty much observing everything and each and everyday there’s something new,
for instance an ex co-worker got kicked out of his own apartment by a disgusting piece of s~~~ last week.
Come to think of the same happened to the neighbor last month…

[RoyDalParticipant]

My first big red flag set the stage: When I was in my third year of college, a high school classmate was tangled up in his second divorce.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[WallyParticipant]

Just turned 42 and never married, have to give most of the credit to my father and friends. I will admit I spent most of my 20s and 30s hoping for marriage and even nowthere is that little part of me that would hope, but I have seen and heard too much. My parents stayed married but I saw the difficulty My mom put my dad through, and my sister well she frustrated my dad to no end with her drinking, drug use, lesbianism to name a a few. I became her whipping boy and she even admits she was horrible to me as a kid. My father told me during the last weeks of his life ” don’t get married”

Saw my best friend get divorce raped but he survived and never remarried. Just started opening my eyes and saw that there was something wrong with the way marriage rules were set up, as I became familiar with MGTOW last August my eyes have been opened even more so.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[Average Mgtow JoeParticipant 6]

I’m 26 years old and I’ve never been married, nor have I ever been in any form of relationship due to watching the bulls~~~ that not only women that I’ve met did to me but mainly because of what my verbally abusive alcoholic mother put my father through when I was a child especially the times when she cheated on him with 2 different men at 2 different times while they were still married and it’s because of my mother’s horrible influence on me and my 4 siblings and making our home a broken one that’s when I made the decision to be my own man and do whatever the hell I wanted to do and if it wasn’t for her lying, cheating, and hiding the truth from my father, and the 5 of us (her children) I wouldn’t have made the choice that was right for me which was to go my own way.

[TheDigestedRedPillParticipant 165]

Average Mgtow Joe wrote:

I’m 26 years old and I’ve never been married, nor have I ever been in any form of relationship due to watching the bulls~~~ that not only women that I’ve met did to me but mainly because of what my verbally abusive alcoholic mother put my father through when I was a child especially the times when she cheated on him with 2 different men at 2 different times while they were still married and it’s because of my mother’s horrible influence on me and my 4 siblings and making our home a broken one that’s when I made the decision to be my own man and do whatever the hell I wanted to do and if it wasn’t for her lying, cheating, and hiding the truth from my father, and the 5 of us (her children) I wouldn’t have made the choice that was right for me which was to go my own way.

Bro you and I both know how women are through their raising of children and being extremely abusive. I am from a single mother home and I had to go through hell. My mother was never happy at all. She was angry almost everyday.

Society live's as if we have reached the pinnacle of human potential. Technological Advancement and Innovation, intellectualism, critical thinking is substituted for useless innovations, nasty narcissistic games, tyrannical laws that destroy the very foundation of family, and the world as we know it.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Adding to my original post, I want to add that as a teenager, I survived a near suicide attempt. Although it had nothing to do with girls, it was a very painful experience nonetheless and it completely changed my life. I learned that I should never give someone else the responsibility for my happiness, only I should be responsible for my own happiness. This helped me become MGTOW because I know that every single person is unique, so what makes one person happy, may not work for another person. In all long term relationships or marriages, the man is handing over his happiness into the hands of his GF. No matter how much you trust someone, don’t let them control your happiness!!!

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Anonymous 2]

Marriage… marriage… the word rings a bell. Isn’t that a courtship ritual from the 90’s?

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

ILiveAgain wrote:

I feel like I’ve been excluded from this thread because I was married.

You’ve all hurt my feellzz and now I’ve been raped.

I will see you all in court ….. probably in Toronto.

I know I said I’ve been left out … but posted this …. in the thread I’ve been left out of ….

But that doesn’t count ok

IT HOW I FEELZZZ THAT MATTERS.

Unmarried rapers.

Sorry. Sometimes our patriarch instincts kick in and we have to find some diversity to destroy. I better get myself back on campus and take some more classes on how to not rape.

[RockmaninoffParticipant 1641]

Keymaster wrote:

To me, that’s creepy as s~~~ – that a woman can want to marry one man, then if the first didn’t work out, she married the NEXT one, or the NEXT one..

It is quite f~~~ing strange.

I vaguely remember some comedian talking about marriage (yeah, I know that’s specific) saying something along the lines of how a marriage is an explicit recognition of one’s having found a person one wants to see every day of his life, to talk to every day, to live with, to be with for the rest of one’s life. He went on to ask the audience how many people they knew like that, someone they want to see every day? Finding someone you want to be with every single moment of your life should, theoretically, happen only once to one person every thousand years, it’s that improbable.

". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée

[Dr PhibesParticipant 155]

“A smart man learns from his mistakes. A smarter man learns from the mistakes of others”

I’m 50, never married. From experiencing my own dating mishaps, to watching my friends and family members go through hell, and, finally, from watching my own mother flip out on my father from time to time, I concluded that the attraction was not worth the price of admission.

I think I made the right move.

"The wisest follow their own direction." -- Euripides

[Anonymous 6]

Youtube mgtow Sandman got me here also, even though his voice can be annoying at times. It forced me to do more research. Never married, but many children when I was young. But the heartbreaks made me a mgtow for many years, the last 2 I chased in 10 years I think have taught me a hard lesson.

[martygParticipant 103]

I was one of the lucky ones. I have never been married. I discovered the true nature of women from the ages of 15 to 20 by simple observation. And decided in that time I was never going to get married. I thought it was strange how various women – relatives/girlfriends always had opinions about what I should to do, always trying to manipulate, I never took a red pill, I had a slow drip of red pill juice over a period of time that resulted in full inoculation. I was never burned by divorce so I never went through red pill rage. My awareness just kept me in a constant state of caution. I had my fun with the squishy parts, and when the manipulation, s~~~ testing, etc. got to be too annoying, I simply vanished. They were always incredibly surprised. I was always incredibly indifferent. At the age of 36, I had enough and declared myself Celibate. Been deleterious happy ever since.

[Y_Participant 4591]

I am 56. Never been married or taken s~~~ from women.
In my day it was known as the confirmed bachelor status.
I went against society, norms and have been labelled all kinds of things.

Know what? I will do it all over again – and again – and again.

My independence and freedom cannot be taken away from me by society.

I am able to go where I want, do exactly what I want and live for those things that are important for me. Women are non-entities, they exist but do not influence me. I have made it so.

I have done so many things and helped so many people; things married men and those who answer to women would not dare to dream, let alone try.

For those who slave for women, as Mr T puts it, “I pity the fool”

Why take this path?

Because I’m a man. This is who I am. I will have it no other way. That is enough for me.

[Y_Participant 4591]

@iliveagain

Do not take this personally, but trying to explain the feeling after a lifetime of being MGTOW to a married man is like trying to describe colours to a blind man.

A married man is like an elephant with a rope tied to his leg. Not knowing he could change the world if he chose to.

You are the master of your destiny. There is no one else to blame.

[VarunParticipant 2981]

I’m 20 and fortunately never married …. and not allowed to unless I become a doctor or an engineer. 😛 Not even allowed to date but didn’t stop me. 😛 Got bitchslapped many times by my mother. Well.. I guess curiosity killed the cat. On a very light tone, I think people find me quite weird, especially women. At first, I thought this made me a loser, but now I couldn’t be thankful enough.

The driving force that led me to find MGTOW is not feminism alone, but society in general. Too many expectations, too low rewards. Figured I might just as well go on my own way and reap huge bits for myself. I wanna make money, travel around the world… taste food that I’ve never tasted before. I wanna eat outside for at least a week straight (so need to have the money for that). Most importanty, I don’t wanted to be branded a loser for not ‘wanting’ the normal life – that is – the mangina life.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

32 years old and ever since I was 14 I never had the intention of getting married. Never got married. I enjoy my freedom way too much for that.

Also, it’s a deathtrap for men. Don’t do it!

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[505vikingoParticipant 521]

Fellas,

I know this is a post created a while back. I came upon it this morning and would like to comment. I’m forty six, retired when I had just turned thirty seven, and have never been married. Not marrying was the best decision I ever made. If I had married I know I would be living in my parent’s garage today. My one word of advice to any man is never, ever, marry no matter what!

In the past I have heard the following reasons from my ex’s why we should marry, “It will help us during tax time (bulls~~~)”, “I need the security of marriage (i.e. future child support, alimony, palimony, spousal support),” “what will our daughter think?,” etc. No thank you! In my past almost half a century on this earth I have had a blast!

Raising my only child who is fourteen now and who tells me “Dad, when you are old, I will take care of you,” partying in Latin America like a rock star, surfing to my hearts content, treating every day like an adventure, and always being on the hunt for my next sexy perfumed treat has been an epic experience!

My kid’s mom is rotten to the core and not marrying her was the most brilliant decision ever made! Another brilliant decision was my whole hearted investment in my vasectomy! My vasectomy has paid greater dividends than my AAS, BS, and MA combined. I love it, and it is my best kept secret!

Work hard, get educated, live within your means, invest wisely, and enjoy all life has to offer. Whether dabbling with a fugly who you will regret next morning or banging out a dime piece they are all irrelevant and the same. In conclusion, my mentor once said, “if you can fly it, float it, or f~~~ it, rent it!” Truer words have never been uttered. Good day, and happy hunting!

P.S. I love being the guy at social functions who gets to listen to the poor married guys with their wives talk about boring bulls~~~ and who in the immediate social circle is experiencing marital problems along with up and coming divorces. Eventually, they will ask me what I have been up to and I respond with phrases such as “I just bought a new Rolex, the new girl I am seeing is graduating this year with her Associates Degree!, I just bought some Canadian Maple Leaves (Gold), I just got back from a singles cruise and had a blast, etc. I love the pure looks of hate and envy I get. Life is good, enjoy fellas!

[BrujahParticipant 579]

Never been married and never intend to. I’ve seen far too many of my own siblings and uncles and other men in my life get walked all over by their wives. That noise is just not worth it.

[BigGreg3000Participant 54]

Ha, ha! I love this thread! They call it an “institution” because you have to be insane to commit to it!

Here’s a song I wrote back in 1981 on the subject of marriage which I hope you will enjoy, even I was still working with a Casio drum beat on a s~~~ keyboard back then, and my vocals are amateur hour all the way. Here’s the lyrics:

Bobby read an item in the local paper, Oriental girls ready to go,
Just slip on a tux, and slap down some bucks,
No more Saturday nights alone—
So Bobby saved his money for his Hong Kong honey,
And he bought that suit so fine,
But she had 50 kinds of clap under that baseball cap,
So the punishment didn’t fit the crime!

He was Institutionalized! Might as well shave your head and go to bed,
Institutionalized! Hide underneath the covers and pretend you’re dead,
Institutionalized! Electro-shock treatments, but the voltage decreases with time,
Institutionalized! And all you can say when they put you away —
Is “The punishment didn’t fit the crime!”

Suzie was a girl from the poor side of town, wanted to raise her status quo,
Just slip on a dress, let the preacher do the rest,
No more Saturday nights at home
So she latched on to a looker, a real pressure cooker,
But she didn’t find out in time–
And he didn’t even weep when they buried her deep,
So the punishment didn’t fit the crime! [CHORUS]

Institutionalized! Wrapped all, all nice, safe, and secure,
Institutionalized! A condition no sane person should have to endure,
Institutionalized! Might as well face the facts ya wanna come out alive,
So you won’t have to howl, or throw in the towel,
Because the punishment didn’t fit the crime!

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