Anyone here ever pay deliberate, spontaneous, sustained attention to a sexually UNappealing, UGLY woman? No? Why not?
BECAUSE MEN GET SEX FROM WOMEN. Men get their companionship and camaraderie from OTHER MEN. We don’t seek out women on purpose unless we plan to have sex with them!
I don’t know the situation in your marriage, but if it isn’t uncommonly solid, chances are, you’ve just met the next guy who will be f~~~ing your wife. As I see it, you have one of two choices: 1. Warn him off. Tell him you see his “attention” for what it is, and you will break him in half, because you’re a man, and no one has any right to what is yours but YOU. Make sure there is no one else within earshot when you say it, but say it like you are Ray Liotta in Goodfellas, like there are tornadoes of crazy going on behind your eyes. 2. Basically, tell your wife the same thing. And if she doesn’t feel that she is getting the attention she deserves at home, tell her she can hit the f~~~ing door right now, too. And don’t be the least bit surprised if she experiences a momentary thrill at being completed over and f~~~s you until your ears ring.
However, competing over her is NOT your end game, since you could have a dozen more just like her, so consider this. Your end game is protecting your finacial and property interests. If she doesn’t have enough intrinsic value for you to protect her from continued pilfering by this orbiter, then I would consider giving her the keys to the street right now. I don’t care how perfect, beautiful, wonderful, special, or irreplaceable you think she is. When she is 6 months ago in your rearview mirror, you won’t even be able to remember her birthday. Remember, what’s in people’s heads comes out of their mouths, whether they like it or not–“a candor affected is a dagger concealed.” If she didn’t emphatically, explicitly, immediately tell this man, “Go away, pencildick, I love my husband,” then that means on some level, she is considering him. Frankly, that’s what troubles me the most about this situation. If she really wanted to do it, you would have never found out about it until it was too late; women can be appallingly duplicitous when they want to be. Men can too, but women are World Heavyweight Champion black belts at it.
Another word of advice. Ditch Facebook. Handle your house, your woman, and your friends the way men do: face to face and one at a time, and allow no one close to you to use that absurd medium as their primary means of communication. That’s something that I can’t stomach about the Facebook generation. It allows people to monstrously misrepresent their intentions, to paint a picture of themselves that bears no resemblance whatsoever to who they actually are, and to say and do things through the cybersphere that they would never in a million years say or do if the other person were standing in front of them, because they’d fear getting their ass righteously kicked, right off this f~~~ing planet. Facebook is a myriad of uncheckable intentions, unreadable behaviour, and hypergamy gone wild. As for the creators and owners of Facebook itself, all you are to them is a turnip. Something to be farmed, for metadata, market research, ad clicks, all to line somebody else’s pockets–not to advance the human condition by making us all one big smiling, connected universe. No free lunch in this life, my friend. If you want to connect with a man, walk right out the front door and find one, walk up to him face to face, and start talking. You can start by telling him to keep his mitts off of your wife.
If you take it to the next level, you’re going to find that continued predicating of your happiness upon what your woman might or might not do is always a losing game. By and large, that is what many of the men on this forum have accepted as an objective fact. Understanding that the deck is stacked in her favor, by biology in her youth and by the courts in her old age, they have simply taken HER out of the equation. They have walked away from the table. You could make the argument that not ALL sharks are man eaters, but for me, an analyst, it is enough that a statistically very high percentage of sharks ARE man eaters for me to be really uncomfortable about being in a goddamned tank with one. Never forget, there is nothing that says you have to play this stupid game. You can collect your marbles and f~~~ing walk. Your evidence is that a metric s~~~load of guys on this forum already have.
"Higgins: Magnum, feed the lads, would you? There are steaks in the freezer. [Magnum makes an excited face] Very well, you can have one too."
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