Need a reality check, i guess im about ot make a huge mistake

[Dark KenshiParticipant 2132]

There should be a “You have been warned” forum, just so questions like this would get answered faster and easier, and also, to serve as a fair warning to every man that comes here, asking for this exact same advice.

“Family-oriented” is just another term for “financial leech”, which is just what socialists are.
The era of REAL Family-oriented women are long gone, no matter if you are in Italy, Russia, Portugal, Finland or in Serbia.
Women everywhere are the same. In some places, they just hide this truth a little better.

You already have a daughter, so you will not get away from this unscathed, but, at least you will not get the full force of the s~~~ it could have been in the future.

BAIL OUT. IT IS NEVER TOO LATE TO BAIL OUT.

"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.

[TronParticipant 285]

1) Do not give in to this crap. Protect you wealth and assets.
2) Do not have another child
3) Protect what you do have now so that she can never get her hands on it. Hide it or put in someone else’s name that you absolutely trust.
4) If she is being vindictive or threatening then tape record the conversation.
5) Leave her if you can do so safely.

6) Swallow the red pill!!!!

[TronParticipant 285]

I’m sorry but in America the minute she is pregnant with your child she is locked into your income for 20 years. I am not sure about Europe but I think it is similar. Prenup or no prenup she will get your money through child support. If she is p~~~ed at you she can force you into court to spend thousands fighting for your child. You should have never given her a child. There are other options for men. if you want some, write back and I will give you some options.
In the mean time, keep your finances separate. Do not marry her. You can live in a separate house too. You can sleep together every night and take vacations together and go on dates, etc. However, by living separately you maintain your independence. She can not touch your net worth or business. All she will get is child support which is enough. She obviously wants you to support her. She wants to have access to your wealth. Do not give it to her.
Also, keep a recording device handy and record her being vindictive if she starts that crap. Also, document, document, document. Cover your ass.

Lastly, go see an attorney (a male). Explain what you want and what you do not want to happen and he will tell you the best thing to do. He can explain all the legal ramifications to you. Good Luck

Tron

[SandalsParticipant 4253]

Timsen wrote:

She have very few dreams

Oh… she has dreams!!! Just not with you as the lover. You’re the financier, and chad is the lover. Do you think she is going to come out and admit that to you?

Timsen wrote:

i wanted to sure that me an my gf agree that before we get married we sign a prenup since i dont want to get my company destroyed in case of divorce.

That started a huge fight again, she feels that since she is home and taking care of the child and house than she deserve half of what company made while we were together in case of divorce.

I stand corrected. She just told you the two of your are getting divorced. So… why would you marry her?

Does the child LOOK like you? Has the child EVER looked like you? Young girls look like their FATHERS, not their mothers.

Nature does this to make sure everyone knows who the father is, because there’s no question as to who the mother is.

[Vajra VarahaParticipant 1283]

</quote>I stand corrected. She just told you the two of your are getting divorced. So… why would you marry her?
Does the child LOOK like you? Has the child EVER looked like you? Young girls look like their FATHERS, not their mothers.
Nature does this to make sure everyone knows who the father is, because there’s no question as to who the mother is.
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Excellent post Sandals!!!!

You should show who Obummer’s real daddy is for bonus points!

And extra credit for who Barbara B’s is related to……..

[Vajra VarahaParticipant 1283]

I know I’m late to the party here.

But I really hope this guy didn’t get married or merge finances.

She clearly told you what she wants out of life: a house and a family. NOT A CAREER.

Great! Mother and Housewife aren’t paid positions.

If she thinks she’s entitled to your money, draw up a family corporation with you as CEO and her as employee.

Make it a fertility corporation so you retain custody of any children.

Define her duties and salary.

Define the penalties for her not performing her duties.

Define any vacation and bonus structures.

Define the specific times she is allowed to voice her complaints and requests. LIMIT ALL NAGGING!

Present it to her to sign.

She wants a hard number value to her worth, grant her idiotic request.

If she wants money over love then give cupcake what she wants.

Marriage was a spiritual institution that modern government made into a contract.

Give the bitch her contract. But you author and control the contract.

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