My wife has passed…

[BigDParticipant 3024]

Sandals wrote:

BigD wrote:

Unless she came to Jesus real quick and in a hurry we all know where she is now.

BigD, despite your beliefs, that is not an appropriate comment at this time.

It is very appropriate. Do not get it twisted. Every life is an example. This woman’s life is an example of what not to do. Call it as you see it, never lie, and stand by the truth. Do not belittle and blaspheme for the sake of feelings. It does no justice and provides no guidance by bending the truth. This woman was on the bus to Hell, unless she got off the bus at the last rest stop, well, guess where she is now.

Don't stick your dick into anyone you aren't willing to put up with for eighteen years and nine months.

[wyrParticipant 591]

Thank you for sharing this. A lot of good advice had already been posted. The only thing I would add is to practice patience. You won’t always feel how you do now. The intensity will decrease over time.

Self-improvement is my religion. Sovereignty is my god.

[JakeParticipant 909]

not to be negative but see a lawyer take possession of everything bary her look after the kids don’t concern yourself any more you and her split it was going to be a divorce accept it with a bit of grace you should get everything go foward

[WallyParticipant]

I’m sorry your going through this Gerald, hope to see you on Zoom as well, you can get through it, comfort your child and family, but see the end of the time to grieve and move on with your life. Men truly feel more than women.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[Anonymous 11]

Gerald, your tale is one of the worst cases I’ve ever read. Death and infidelity came together at the same time on you. It is and will be very tough on you.

I’m on the side of doing the right thing for your child. You’ll have to swallow some pride and face some uncomfortable issues, but it will be the best possible outcome.

Hang in there, man, and reach out to the Brotherhood on a regular basis.

[MonkParticipant 16995]

@ Gerald.

It’s brutal but Grue and Travis3000 are right.

As the divorce was not finalised, mobilise your lawyer and make sure that you get control of all the assets.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Your ability to grieve for her despite her perfidy is a testament to the strength and sensibility men inherently harbor.

None of us are perfect. And there must have been some parts of your relationship which were positive. Dwell on that if you must think of her and look forward to a better day. My sincerest wishes for peace in your life brother.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

OD?

Sovereignty above all else.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Well I’m glad others have given good advice because I don’t fcuk about and my advice tells it like it is.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[SwimcatParticipant 3589]

I went through the death of my wife in July two years ago, but under much different circumstances. In spite of the fact you were separated you’ll still go through the stages of mourning. My best advise is to keep as busy as possible, But STAY AWAY FROM WOMEN. They’ll spot you like a lion spots a wounded antelope. They’ll be after you in a major way, all ages all races. What they want is your resources. Keep your dick in pants and your money in the bank.

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

Condolences, stay strong until all calms down, then work on that guilt feelings as you can not be responsible for other people decisions.

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[KolaxisParticipant 668]

The death of someone you loved so deeply is never easy even when recently she’s been so terrible to you. So many have already chimed in and I can only echo their words. I’m happy that you don’t have to go through the entire divorce process now because that’s a different kind of hell. However, I am sympathetic for your feelings of loss.

Be there for your daughter. Talk to your lawyer to keep from losing the farm. The pain will subside with time and it is likely to emerge when you least expect it. We’re here for you, brother. Remember, life goes on whether we want it to or not. Always do your best to make the most of it.

Jackie: How do you write women so well?
Melvin Udall: I think of a man and I take away reason and accountability.

[HitmanParticipant]

none of this was my fault.
repeat this as often as you can.
make it your mantra.
..we tend to blame ourselves,
and take on guilt .
it’s NOT YOUR FAULT.
get that and you’ll be okay brother.
condolences.

[Anonymous 5]

You don’t have my condolences!

[Anonymous 11]

Anonymous wrote:

You don’t have my condolences!

Then exactly what does he have?

[Anonymous 5]

Anonymous wrote:

Balaam(NFG)93 wrote:

You don’t have my condolences!

Then exactly what does he have?

Nothing!

[Anonymous 11]

That’s cool. You’re going your own way.

[mystoryParticipant 370]

Anonymous wrote:

Nothing!

Why say anything, then?
Ffs

I don't need a legacy.. I don't need a monument.

[mystoryParticipant 370]

I suppose that if he’s receiving the condolences, it’s not essential to tell him if it, but rather an act of kindness and good will to give it mention. Whereas mentioning not having condolences is rather low class.

I don't need a legacy.. I don't need a monument.

[Anonymous 5]

I can not express my condolences to a man who feels guilty because his disloyal, treacherous, and cheating wife have passed away.

I can express my condolences to his kid, because she/he lost a “mother”. It can be very difficult for a kid to go through all this s~~~ vortex.

She wanted her life that way, she wanted to f~~~ Chad, the person who probably didn’t give a f~~~ about her well being, but f~~~ed over the man who did.

That’s the reason women have so much control over men in today’s society. Women couldn’t careless about the well being of a man. But, a man will stick his hand through fire to help a woman he loves.

Well, not me.

Again, you don’t have my condolences!

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