My recent ex gf has a new cuck that just bought her a 2016 Lexus

[debt slayerrrrParticipant 36]

cut all ties

[Heave-Ho MgtowParticipant 1797]

When the Lexus hits the wall, it will get fixed and look new. An older x stripper, nope

skip the cavernous vag and go your own way

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

C~~~s become the biggest assholes on your birthday. God for bid, you cant have one day out of the year.

P.S. strippers are overrated.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Anonymous 5]

Look at it this way when she’s come down from her peak you won’t be there to pick up the pieces you’ll be enjoying your new life happy without her.

[Chaff/FlareParticipant 3235]

Take the kid. And figure out why you would ever be ok with the mother of your child stripping for money, and fix it.

When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.

[GLOXXParticipant 64]

Chaff/Flare wrote:

Take the kid. And figure out why you would ever be ok with the mother of your child stripping for money, and fix it.

You must be an older man if you still have an out look on strippers in such a way in 2017.
Just because a women is a stripper or a man works a criminal job does not mean that he/she will be a bad parent to his or her child.
The fact that she is a dancer does not in anyway bother me. The only thing I care about is the environment he is raised in when with her, if she is good to him, and the people around him can / would be a good role model while i’m not there.
I right now only have the option to do 50/50 with my son unless I can provide reasons other wise.

I don’t care is she does porn for a living as long as my son is treated great when with her.
There is 100% nothing wrong with my out look but 100% something wrong with yours.

[narwhalParticipant]

GLOXX wrote:

You must be an older man if you still have an out look on strippers in such a way in 2017.

Are you suggesting that if you don’t have ‘modern’ opinions, it must be wrong?

GLOXX wrote:

Just because a women is a stripper or a man works a criminal job does not mean that he/she will be a bad parent to his or her child.
The fact that she is a dancer does not in anyway bother me. The only thing I care about is the environment he is raised in when with her, if she is good to him, and the people around him can / would be a good role model while i’m not there.

The problem with that line of thinking is that children do not learn simply by what they are told, but by the example the parents display to them. The fact that she is a stripper (or he is a criminal) does it a lot more challenging. Even if the boy’s mom works to compensate for the example she sets, the environment she works in is going to be filled with bad examples that she will need to keep him away from.

On some level though, I do have respect for the stripper profession since there is some honesty there. However, the job is essentially lying for money…not exactly a trait I want my kids to mimic.

Regardless, it your life your kid. I would just be careful when forming your opinion on it. You must admit that stating any disagreement to her lifestyle is going to causing a whole lot of trouble in your world, while defending the lifestyle is a lot less to deal with. For your kids sake, make sure you aren’t just taking the easy road on this.

Ok. Then do it.

[GLOXXParticipant 64]

narwhal wrote:

The problem with that line of thinking is that children do not learn simply by what they are told, but by the example the parents display to them. The fact that she is a stripper (or he is a criminal) does it a lot more challenging. Even if the boy’s mom works to compensate for the example she sets, the environment she works in is going to be filled with bad examples that she will need to keep him away from.

On some level though, I do have respect for the stripper profession since there is some honesty there. However, the job is essentially lying for money…not exactly a trait I want my kids to mimic.

Regardless, it your life your kid. I would just be careful when forming your opinion on it. You must admit that stating any disagreement to her lifestyle is going to causing a whole lot of trouble in your world, while defending the lifestyle is a lot less to deal with. For your kids sake, make sure you aren’t just taking the easy road on this.

You are right that children learn by what they see more then what they are told but my ex is not going to be stripping in front of him nor will explain to him what she does for a living.
By the time he’s old enough she may have a 9-5 or a rich husband who wants her to be his trophy wife idk…
Stripping will never be a “normal” job and when my son is old enough he will see stripping just like anyone of us already do which is a scummy practice for women to make a quick buck.

I can agree that stripping is lying but at the same time men fall for it and some men just over all like it and want it. So is it the stripper to blame or is it the men to blame?

As someone who now has dated a stripper I can tell you I see all strippers the same. Money hungry fake whores who milk you for all your worth and bring that money home to satisfy her needs and maybe her secret mans needs which I don’t want to support.
If things went south and it got bad I would 100% try my hardest to get full custody of my son because I ultimately am the parent who does most for him and I feel like I care the most about him as well. I want him forever in my life and want to see him every day just without having to be forced to pay money to his mother who I know will not spend every $ I send to him on him and just go toward whatever the f~~~ she wants.

She will be in my life forever so I still have to find common ground in areas that aren’t such big deals but if it’s something I don’t agree with I will fight it, i’m not scared and i’m already pretty strict with how I want things.

[SilverOneParticipant 440]

GLOXX wrote:

When I meet my ex she was 18 and I was 20, she was working 2 jobs and was traditional Mexican. Cooked, cleaned, wanted kids, shy, obeyed her parents, ect… I was more of a punk kid because I was raised by my mother and angry my father was dead so she was kind of my yin to my yang so I thought. I learned that she honestly was never happy, she always complained she wanted more, she always had to change her style, she always complained she wasn’t given enough, complained that i hurt her mentally when I felt like I did nothing of that matter, and never gave her enough attention even though I gave her as much as I could. In that time I worked in the oil field working 104 hours a week and got maybe 8-10 hours off each day on the weekends once a month if lucky. I was more liberal when I was with her and started becoming who she said she wanted me to be and not who I really wanted to be and that’s when things went south

Sounds like every woman I have ever been in a relationship with. Gloxx, you are 24. No one can blame you for not knowing any better. Hell, I didn’t. I’ve been 4 times out the chute. I played the game because it was the only game in town. It’s an unfair, dirty game, and women write the rules, and then ignore them. The only way to win is to refuse to play. All is fair in love and war; marriage is both. I’d guess about 90% of men are too honorable to fight dirty, but it doesn’t seem to bother women. Now, at 61, I know better; now, at 24 YOU know better. You are WAY ahead of me, and have such a better life ahead of you. I wish you luck with child support. Even if she doesn’t want it, the Family Circus… er, Court judge will insist on it. Once it starts rolling in, it won’t be enough, and she’ll keep bumping it up till you won’t be able live decently, if at all. Man, take “lessons learned”, and chalk it up to tuition at Hard Knocks University.

I don’t believe in female magic anymore. And will never again gut myself to make room for it. --Narwhal--

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

You gotta be glad your exes are in relationships and doing much better, because they’ll be less inclined to milk you and cause you harm, or crawl back, God forbid. I’m glad for my ex-wife. I’m so much better without her.

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[SilverOneParticipant 440]

GLOXX wrote:

Just because a women is a stripper or a man works a criminal job does not mean that he/she will be a bad parent to his or her child.

Gloxx…. This is the very definition of “BAD parent”. Think of what either is teaching your kid. They can say “Don’t do this” all they want, and it won’t make any difference, because actions speak louder than words.
I can almost understand stripper. It’s OK work, but it doesn’t last forever. It has absolutely no future, and she won’t be learning any marketable skills while she does it. When she is too old strip, she’ll be to old to find a sugar daddy. Then she’ll just be a leech or a prostitute. Do you want some pimp being “Daddy” to your kid?
Something else you said. He bought her a Lexus? Do you really want your kid taught to take as much advantage of anybody they can for as much as they can get away with? Think about that. That turns your kid into a predator. If it doesn’t make you cringe, your values are screwed. If you don’t give a damn about your kid, or what you are turning loose on society, let her keep the kid.

I don’t believe in female magic anymore. And will never again gut myself to make room for it. --Narwhal--

[AgitoMParticipant 99]

Couple of things I wanted to comment based on your story and the discussion:

1. With an ex, best to break contact and move on. Since there is a kid involved, not so easy to do that. Either way, I would opt as quickly as possible to move out of the house. (Start searching for a place already, so the day the contract ends, get out).

2. The girl comments she doesn’t want you to provide alimony for now. This is because she is young and with a high sexual marketplace value. She probably sees all the men being eager to spend loads of money on her, and thinks that tree will grow endlessly to the sky. It will not be the case. The moment she hits her late 20’s, it will end. My advise: Get the arrangement put in a legal document as soon as possible so that you don’t have to pay anything. Her income will go down over the next decade, yours will go up.

3. As for the question why a guy buys her an expensive car. Believe it or not, there are plenty of guys in the world that have more money then they can reasonably spend. (I know a few) It is those guys who in a way “get off” on the fact that they can get any girl just by pulling their wallet. Their kick does not come from the fact they are rich, but what power and influence they can practice with that money.

Honestly, if I had so much money that I wouldn’t be able to get it spent in my life, I’d probably get a cute young sugar-baby as well. If she gets too annoying or ugly, I’ll trade her in for a “new model”. (I have money, I’m in control after all).

I’ve seen plenty of women monkey branch to a rich guy after dumping their husband. What they often don’t realise, is that to a rich man they are just an accessory. And if the accessory gets too old, obsolete, or the rich man’s friends comment that the accessory is not so nice anymore, it will get replaced.

Once this woman hits her late 20s, and the stripper income starts going down, good chance she will come branching back to you. So be careful.

[GLOXXParticipant 64]

SilverOne wrote:

GLOXX wrote:

Just because a women is a stripper or a man works a criminal job does not mean that he/she will be a bad parent to his or her child.

Gloxx…. This is the very definition of “BAD parent”. Think of what either is teaching your kid. They can say “Don’t do this” all they want, and it won’t make any difference, because actions speak louder than words.
I can almost understand stripper. It’s OK work, but it doesn’t last forever. It has absolutely no future, and she won’t be learning any marketable skills while she does it. When she is too old strip, she’ll be to old to find a sugar daddy. Then she’ll just be a leech or a prostitute. Do you want some pimp being “Daddy” to your kid?
Something else you said. He bought her a Lexus? Do you really want your kid taught to take as much advantage of anybody they can for as much as they can get away with? Think about that. That turns your kid into a predator. If it doesn’t make you cringe, your values are screwed. If you don’t give a damn about your kid, or what you are turning loose on society, let her keep the kid.

AgitoM wrote:

Couple of things I wanted to comment based on your story and the discussion:

1. With an ex, best to break contact and move on. Since there is a kid involved, not so easy to do that. Either way, I would opt as quickly as possible to move out of the house. (Start searching for a place already, so the day the contract ends, get out).

2. The girl comments she doesn’t want you to provide alimony for now. This is because she is young and with a high sexual marketplace value. She probably sees all the men being eager to spend loads of money on her, and thinks that tree will grow endlessly to the sky. It will not be the case. The moment she hits her late 20’s, it will end. My advise: Get the arrangement put in a legal document as soon as possible so that you don’t have to pay anything. Her income will go down over the next decade, yours will go up.

3. As for the question why a guy buys her an expensive car. Believe it or not, there are plenty of guys in the world that have more money then they can reasonably spend. (I know a few) It is those guys who in a way “get off” on the fact that they can get any girl just by pulling their wallet. Their kick does not come from the fact they are rich, but what power and influence they can practice with that money.

Honestly, if I had so much money that I wouldn’t be able to get it spent in my life, I’d probably get a cute young sugar-baby as well. If she gets too annoying or ugly, I’ll trade her in for a “new model”. (I have money, I’m in control after all).

I’ve seen plenty of women monkey branch to a rich guy after dumping their husband. What they often don’t realise, is that to a rich man they are just an accessory. And if the accessory gets too old, obsolete, or the rich man’s friends comment that the accessory is not so nice anymore, it will get replaced.

Once this woman hits her late 20s, and the stripper income starts going down, good chance she will come branching back to you. So be careful.

When it comes to parenting i’m a great father but in her case I think she’s a s~~~ mother and so have her parents told her so.
She’s to focused on herself to put her son first. True me if I see the right time to get full custody or if she really f~~~s up I will move in but right now i’m moving and getting my son in school. Once that is cleared we will get a divorce and I will make sure I don’t get f~~~ over and if for some reason she tries then I got enough on her hopefully by then to win a case.

I will make sure i’m safe from her coming back yrs down the road to f~~~ me over then.
Again I live in a 50/50 state so I shouldn’t be forced to pay as long as I get my son 50% of the time. I will be trying for more but I should be safe I think.

When it’s all said and done I will update everyone, this still will be FEW MONTHS AT MOST.

[AuctoratusParticipant 52]

Interesting story.
This is not uncommon. I have seen similar stories here and there in the world. While personally, I make an effort to go the other way in terms of spending money on women by being a mean bastard just to see their reaction, I can understand how someone with ‘big money’ want to show off by giving expensive gifts. It’s usually an older guy who is so happy banging someone much younger. Well good for him (the randy old Fool). Young women only have so much time before they hit the wall, and won’t get much for their looks, so a stripper needs to cash in quickly…
Thank God I went MGTOW. At this stage in life I don’t think I would splurge on any woman regardless of my financial wealth.

[InRedPillWeTrustSpectator 978]

Ahh, gotta love strippers, yeh I dated one, and f~~~ed like 2 of them..they for the most part are sex workers dealing with hundreds of c~~~s on a weekly basis, I learned a lot about that life and its not a place youwant to be for the long term. It’s kinda fun though cause some of them are fun and hot but yeh all about the money

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