MGTOW Who Are 30 Years or Older, Answer Me This

[IggyThundersParticipant 246]

Her: Why arent you married?

Me: What?

Her: Why arent you married?

Me: What?

Her: I said, why arent you married?

Me: (With a sly smile) What?

Her: (either) Okay. I got it. (or) Nevermind.

Seriously though. Im 48 and that question has never come up from family or friends except from my now deceased Jewish grandmother. But to her generation (she died at 100 in 2012) that question was asked to anyone older than 21 who was not married.  The rest of my family know who I am so they dont bother asking. And strange women have never asked me about my marital status ever. But then again, most seem to be intimidated by me, so they rarely if ever start a conversation with me. They will look, check me out, throw signals but never talk to me. It used to aggravate me, but now its almost a blessing.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

I started a new job a few months ago, and have been asked by pretty much everyone in the office.  If its a guy I just say I’m not married…I’d like to have kids but I don’t think I’ll ever get married…and most of them agree with me lol.  If its a woman I just say “I’m still looking, haven’t found the right one yet” and they usually don’t dig any deeper.  If its someone at a family event, usually a female relative, I just blame it on my mom/aunts treating their husbands like s~~~, and not wanting to end up like my dad/uncles and it usually shuts the harpies up fast.

[GrumpyParticipant]

When I get asked,  I just fire back “Would I really want to be with someone that WANTS to be with me?” and I don’t explain what that means. I just laugh inside, as their eyes glaze over their heads tilt and the hamster falls out.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

@ sjur

Great song. I play flute, sax and guitar and love that era, especially for sax.

Today they would just join http://www.sugardaddyforme.com/?mode=startme&welcome_to_sugarDaddyForMe.com&x_source=A2_446804:run5

But, yes, they are all like that, all of them, bar none. They all want you broke and gone from their life with your bank account either in their jewelry box or closet.

I think these kinds of relationships were not as proscribed as they are now. Now an older guy who even looks at a younger woman get’s labelled a perv.

Well, who do you think “daddy” was in the song? Not some young dude I can tell you that.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[SnakeSpectator 2080]

Puffin Stuff wrote:

Now an older guy who even looks at a younger woman get’s labelled a perv.

To hell with that. Younger women are all I look at. I mean, I am a man, I will f~~~ a lot of women – but look at? I only look at the best looking young women. Why even waste time looking at an older broad; in the time I checked out an older woman, a tighter, better looking younger woman just walked by. A woman over 30 is damn near invisible to me.

[secomikeParticipant 27]

I get asked this periodically. “So, you’re a good looking guy. How come you’re not married?” Me. “Just lucky, I guess.”

[KeymasterKeymaster]

secomike wrote:

I get asked this periodically. “So, you’re a good looking guy. How come you’re not married?” Me. “Just lucky, I guess.”

Must remember that.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[experiencedParticipant]

In response to this, especially H.R. Puffinstuff’s obnoxious niece: King Solomon was adept at his wording Proverbs 26:4-5:

“Do not answer a fool according to his[[her]] folly, or you yourself will be just like him. Answer a fool according to his[[her]] folly, or he[[she]] will be wise in [[her]]his own eyes.”

So perhaps when women start in on this, if we verbally tangle with them we will be just like them.  The second parts fun because “I’d better answer her or she’ll be wise in her own eyes…….” wait a second, “Fine, let her!” It’s like one of our brothers here is always saying how no woman can be so arrogant” sorry I forgot his name.

So when women become “wise in their own eyes” it’s bad news for them.

No answer is often the best answer  [I struggle with this one, always blurting out a hopefully will be accepted response I was well trained.   Was.

 

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[experiencedParticipant]

@Tower, if the staff’s cute, then under “marital status” write, “Divorced, BOO HOO :)” – if you feel like joking with them.    OR “Divorced….That Witch!” and laugh as they keep a safe distance/peek around corners etc.

@grumpy, Man great response”“Would I really want to be with someone that WANTS to be with me?”  This takes THEIR own precise bullcrap thinking  and trojan horses it into their gray matter. Then say”I want to be with you!” and move in uncomfortably close to her.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Sam RavenParticipant 181]

coolsideofthepillow wrote:

I’m definitely one of the guys that screams MGTOW from the roof tops and I just turned 30. I could honestly care less what other people think but I hardly ever get questioned about my marital status. If I was going to fly under the radar I guess a good tactic would be to just act like a pathetic loser thats desperate to get married but cant find a girl. Then women will walk away gossiping about how they know exactly why your still single lol. It would also be a good idea to act broke so the women who are looking for a mangina with a paycheck leave you the hell alone as well. Just do the exact opposite of what women are attracted to and they will avoid you like the plague lol.

Hahahaha you know your camouflage tactics, man.

[davParticipant 422]

I just say why ruin a good thing by getting the government involved?

[Smitty the Great OneParticipant 1535]

Who are these people that you owe them an answer? Seriously, it’s your life and none of their business. I can say I’ve never been asked why I wasn’t married… probably because I’ve always been more than a little weird. I march to the beat of my own drum and if anyone doesn’t like it that is their problem.

Life is too long to play by someone elses rules....

[Anonymous 0]

Hi EnlightenedMGTOW,

good question. Let my ask you first some question before I answer.

EnlightenedMGTOW wrote:

conceal that I’m MGTOW

Why this? May I get you wroong but are you afraid getting in Trouble or  that someone finds you out ? How many People in your area or City do know something about MGTOW?

Okay, MGTOW means not running around shouting hey look at me I am a MGTOW, this would be everything but never MGTOW. But concealing ?

The MGTOW Credo will not really work when you don’t live it 150%, which means that your decisions are MGTOW like. It is your life, your choice and living something or just saying something and using it when it fits are different things. It will become a lie, maybe. But, once again, may I get you wrong.

The Questionnnnnnnn!!!

Okay, I am 25 years older than you, never married, no Kids.
I can vague recall the situation, that a woman once asked me whether I am married, but I cannot remember what I answered. I guess I said No, and that was it for me. This shows for start, how important it is for me if somebody asks me this.

But I have the killer Arguments by my side.

I was grown up in a five women household, one mother and four feminazi sisters. My father was working in another town so I saw him just on Weekends. My sisters played all the Psycho tricks on me, the Femis proclaimed, I call it psychological rape, so normally I must have been mutated to Charlie Manson 2.0. Thank god, I did not became to a Monster like this. My father hit me often without a reason, that’s what I thought. Later I did find out that my sisters told him lies, what I made wrong, what I allegedly did broke when he was away and so on.
My kindergarten teachers, women, hit me. My Basic Primary School teachers, 90% women, hit me, coming home my father hit me because of my sisters lies, their Psychoterror also hits me. I am not a god damned punching bag, and you ask me why I am not married? And if I need love, I grap a five pack Snickers or Mars, that works.

I guess I send this message unconsciously out, that is maybe the reason why nobody asks me this.

So watch this….

and remind this.

Do yourself a favour, go MGTOW.

 

[Anonymous 42]

Which wedding band is best? that one’s easy; no wedding band, or wedding “ban”, either one fits me well!

[Anonymous 11]

As a soon to be rolling over to 48 never married specimen, I have generally found this to be one of the most insulting questions ever posed to me. My real friends have never done this to me.

I’m a chronic smart ass so I just simply tell them all of my married friends have told me to never bother to get married. This is the God honest truth too, and I figure they know the deal. A wise man learns from the mistakes of others.

[AlbertParticipant 646]

EnlightenedMGTOW wrote:

How do you respond to women who inquire about your marital status

I always tell them that I’m not married because I’m an independent black woman and I don’t need no man.

At that point I walk away leaving them in stunned silence and looking like they’re gonna s~~~.

E=MC² Bitch

[JadedParticipant 27]

I’m 29, and I found as I got older I cared less and less about “flying under the radar.”  As long as the decisions I made were for myself and not because I thought it was what people wanted me to do or what I “should” do, I didn’t care how people perceived me.  And the funny thing is, you notice people’s (mis)perceptions of you said more about them than it did you.

When people ask, whether friends and family or strangers, you can say whatever you want, and 99% of the time they will be kind and understanding to your face.  And who gives a s~~~ what they say behind your back.  People will find s~~~ to talk about you no matter what.

[Anonymous 5]

ILiveAgain wrote:

Because of some of my work, I wear a uniform, I often get ‘probed by Borg sensors’ When asked I politely inform them that I was married but now happy. I do love another woman, she’s my daughter. That’s where all my money will be going. That does most of the time. There have been a few that questioned further until I start asking them …. What’s your net worth? Do you believe in pre nups? Do you think a couple should keep their own money? However, I do like to play and show them now and then how it could be. On one date I flew a girl from London to France ….. only an hour … and had dinner. I dated her for 3 weeks until the trap sprung ….. ‘When are we going to have a lovely dinner in France again? My best friend wants to come’ I mostly ignore/avoid them as much as possible. They are a huge drain on a mans life force.

 

I have a hunch about you. I know people like you.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

I recently had to fend off a 31 year old honey. I’m 55.

Retired doctor is my trade but I love to play music so am starting a band.

We’re doing Rhythm and Blues and have a great black female singer.

Before this she wouldn’t give me that time of day. After I took charge at rehearsals and had the money to buy some equipment she’s been an altogether different person.

She even said it. She said she liked the way I took charge. I’m sure she smells money. I’m sure she’ll never see a dime. That’s my job.

Get laid more and save more money. They are non mutually dependent. You don’t have to spend money in a relationship with a woman that honestly cares about you. And if she’s that materialistic and you want to stoop her anyway, just appear to have money.

There is that trust fund your going to come into when your uncle the Zipper tychoon leaves you a big chunk…in the distant future. At least you’ll find out if she can be patient.

I told her we could have a professional relationship and that her being my singer was the most important thing to me. I was as gentle as a velvet glove.

The more I go my own way the more these unprofitable relationships just fall by the wayside.

Peace out.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[FitzBonesParticipant 304]

I’m 25 and with a son, so I get asked it a lil bit when I’m at the park or wherever with him. Its really quite amusing seeing the looks on their face to my response.

“Are you married?” or “Why arent you married?”

“Why would I be?”

They have NO idea of any way to answer why I would want to get married, turn the question back on them and watch them fumble

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