MGTOW longevity and the golden rules

[Northern SoulParticipant 186]

Hello MGTOW’s

Having recently divorced I am adjusting to my new freedoms and embracing the opportunities this now brings. I am however mindful that there will be a variety of fresh pressures and risks ahead that will seek to erode my newly established sovereignty and MGTOW way of life.

I need to avoid any hidden pitfalls/red flags that could spell trouble for the future and potentially compromise my MGTOW life – any experiences anyone could share that I could learn from ?

A set of golden rules for long term reference would be really useful as I am sure we all need reminding of these from time to time (no matter how basic) to ensure we keep on track to lead a MGTOW enriched life.

I look forward to reading your replies.

[TattooDaveParticipant 6952]

Tell us a little bit about yourself first. We’d be happy to share with you, have you read what we’re really all about?. We’re all pretty much here just to enjoy our hobbies and find what were most passionate about in life. That’s all I’ve ever heard.

The

Unicorn

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I can see their heads have been twisted and fed with worthless foam from the mouth. Bob d

[BoarParticipant]

Welcome! I have only really been able to discern one rule: Go Your Own Way.

Each word needs to be analyzed.

Go: don’t wait or wish, move your ass now;

Your: figure out what makes YOU happy, then see the part about Go;

Own: reclaim your sovereignty and never surrender it, you may need to cross reference with Your;

Way: choose your path and don’t listen to others about it, please do this in conjunction with Own.

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[Anonymous 43]

The key to longevity as a MGTOW is stay the f~~~ away from women.

And if you are a woman, stay the f~~~ away from yourself.

[Northern SoulParticipant 186]

I was married for 10 years and during that time lost contact with the world. Ended up just working like a dog, losing my hobbies, identity, friends and all the other BS that goes with marriage. Basically over time I became isolated.

My divorce financially ruined me (no surprise there). I suppose it’s a bit of a blank canvass for me going forward as now engaging with the world again.

Ahh to enjoy hobbies – I haven’t started that one yet as only just divorced and still trying to recover financially. Got to get myself somewhere to live first then will be definitely exploring new experiences. Hiking up mountains and clay pigeon shooting are on the list but need to put my focus into essentials first before I can consider the distractions.

[Anonymous 43]

until you get the red pill rage, and then get over the rage…stay the f~~~ away from guns too.

[Northern SoulParticipant 186]

ha ha, you are probably right. Let’s just see how the hiking goes first.

[Anonymous 0]

Northern Soul wrote:

Hello MGTOW’s

Having recently divorced I am adjusting to my new freedoms and embracing the opportunities this now brings. I am however mindful that there will be a variety of fresh pressures and risks ahead that will seek to erode my newly established sovereignty and MGTOW way of life.

I need to avoid any hidden pitfalls/red flags that could spell trouble for the future and potentially compromise my MGTOW life – any experiences anyone could share that I could learn from ?

A set of golden rules for long term reference would be really useful as I am sure we all need reminding of these from time to time (no matter how basic) to ensure we keep on track to lead a MGTOW enriched life.

I look forward to reading your replies.

You’re asking how one stays MGTOW (Red Pill) in a gynocentric (Blue Pill) world?

1) Easiest way is to study up on the deceits of the feminine sex and simply avoid women as much as possible:

–You can find an on-line version of the classic “The Manipulated Man” here: http://www.naturalthinker.net/trl/texts/Vilar,Esther/The_manipulated_man.pdf

–Others can provide you with their favorite reading material. And there are libraries of Red-Pill videos on-line. People will provide you with their favorites if asked.

–And then, of course, visiting MGTOW.com on a regular basis will help provide some focus.

2) If you can’t avoid women or don’t want to, then I would suggest learning a little PUA-style “Game.”

That is, PUA folks (pick-up artists) talk about “Game,” which more or less equates to how Red Pill men deal with women. At first, “Game” was simply about scoring with chicks. More lately it is seen as a bigger framework, an antidote to “the negative, shameful and ridiculous archetypes that 60 years of feminization had convinced women and men of,” and it reinterprets masculinity as something positive, beneficial, and competent.

Example: You’re Red Pill MGTOW. But you run into an occasional woman who is wildly attractive and embodies all your ideals. If all you know is Blue Pill tools for dealing with relationships, then such a woman is going to be dangerous because she threatens to pull you into a typical Blue Pill relationship (and we all know how those end). But if you know Red Pill tools for dealing with relationships (such as “Game” and “Plate Theory”), there’s no danger. You play the relationship like a finely-tuned violin, extracting the best from it and “controlling” the negatives.

It’s about setting limits and keeping women at arm’s length even as you enjoy their company. Imbibe a little “Game” of your own, and you won’t get sucked into the women’s “game.” You’ll focus on what you bring to the table instead of getting seduced by what they bring to the table.

See the following thread for more on this subject: /forums/topic/the-awarness-rollo-t-blog/#post-374161

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Anonymous wrote:

until you get the red pill rage, and then get over the rage…stay the f~~~ away from guns too.

That there is something to think about. I’m going through the red pill rage stage, and I agree with may 7 2020. I had no idea that it will feel the way it does, but it’s a badass phase that seems to have a little bit of a life of its own, so yeah keep tempting items far away for a while once you get there.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Northern SoulParticipant 186]

Two step – I really appreciate this advice. It would have taken me ages to find this.

As for the rage stage. I have had my moments – it comes and goes but in the main it’s over. I can’t change the injustices of the past so just block it out mentally and only think of future events. That really helps.

[Anonymous 0]

Northern Soul wrote:

Two step – I really appreciate this advice. It would have taken me ages to find this.

No problem. If you want to pursue the PUA/Game idea further, here’s an old post that provides specific reading material and websites: /forums/topic/glad-ive-found-you-guys/#post-374942

[AwakenedParticipant 35216]

I suppose the only “rules” “ideally” are:

1. Don’t get married

2. Don’t Cohabitate

3. Don’t Reproduce

Even these are not set in stone as many men are awakened while married, and many men also have children.

Therefore, pretty much everything is about what YOU WANT to do with YOUR life.

You are a Man Going HIS OWN WAY !!!!

MY only suggestion is to READ, READ, and then READ some more, and enjoy some good youtube videos along the way as well !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 0]

A couple of my favorite general Red Pill videos on nature of MGTOW and the deceits of women:

1) MGTOW general explanation video (Terrence Popp):

2) Here’s a really stunning video by Paul Elam (A Voice for Men) on women’s emotionality, called “Changing Her Emotional Diapers”:

I’ll even provide a quick summary of this second video:
–Women are emotional, especially in relationships. So how do men deal with all this emotion and illogic? Elam canvasses all the advice to let women talk and create an emotional connection, and he says it’s crap.
–The usual advice is that “Women’s feelings are sacred,” and men are supposed to shut down and make women the center of the universe. But in the end it comes down to this: Women are control freaks, and men are supposed to infantilize women and soak up emotional abuse. Elam says that it’s emotional blackmail for women to shut men down.
–Elam’s way to handle this problem: 20% of women are logical by nature, like men: Seek them out, and avoid the 80% of women who are emotional toddlers.

Here’s the video:

3) Great video explaining how women use the state to punish men:

[Anonymous 42]

Northern Soul wrote:

I need to avoid any hidden pitfalls/red flags that could spell trouble for the future and potentially compromise my MGTOW life – any experiences anyone could share that I could learn from ?

It’s real easy when you consolidate all your red flags into one symbol >>><<< then avoid the red symbol and life goes on without ever having to dodge a red flag ever again!

And the MGHOW lived happily ever after.

The End…

[HitmanParticipant]

welcome KJ,
keep it simple,
just try to get here everyday and remember..
remember why you came here to begin with.

[Anonymous 0]

TattooDave wrote:

Tell us a little bit about yourself first. We’d be happy to share with you, have you read what we’re really all about?. We’re all pretty much here just to enjoy our hobbies and find what were most passionate about in life. That’s all I’ve ever heard.

The

Unicorn

Needed

Assistance

I’m with Dave on this!
Somethings not right.

[AttonParticipant]

any experiences anyone could share that I could learn from ?

Value your freedom and understand what it actually means to you.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[bladeParticipant]

Just read the forums . I follow my own rules .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Mister StealthParticipant 362]

Welcome brother.

I to am in the process of starting the journey of divorce and separation (only a few days till I will have my own place and freedom)

My rules to help during this time are simple:
1) Consistency
– Consistently keep basic routines (eat relatively healthy, exercise, read, rest)
2) Steel sharpens steel! – continue to touch base with your MGTOW brothers don’t completely isolate yourself

Steel sharpens steel

[RorschachParticipant 2083]

Northern Soul wrote:

A set of golden rules for long term reference would be really useful as I am sure we all need reminding of these from time to time (no matter how basic) to ensure we keep on track to lead a MGTOW enriched life.

Wouldn’t it be nice if life came with a manual. Theres no “right” way to go your own way. I think the best way to go is to avoid women and not participate in the game as much as possible or alltogether. But if you are thinking of messing with women always be alert to shame and blame used against you and stay away from those who are on psychiactric drugs. Beyond that here is a list of truths I compiled a while back. As a divorced man you know all of this and more very intimately but if nothing else can serve as a reminder of simple truths.

Rorschach wrote:

> Never give women money unless you don’t care about said money. If you do, consider it gone. You will never see that money again and if you stick around long enough you’ll end up losing more.

> Yes marriage is a f~~~ed situation I think that’s more than well understood here. Do not overlook “just living together” either that is equally dangerous. Beware of the signs ALWAYS. Even better just don’t do it.

> Beware of excessive flattery or sudden favors toward you. If she says she will do ANYTHING for you that means she will expect EVERYTHING from you. Notice those two words. Anything can literally be anything. However everything encompasses all of you. Your health, thoughts, opinions, soul, savings account…everything for anything. Hell anything could be a f~~~ing bag of peanut m&m’s! You may have just sacrificed your entire future for candy!

> Be Patient. Don’t feel pressured to do anything because of someone else’s happiness. I grew up with many assorted “low dose” red pill moments. Little things you always always knew weren’t right but you didn’t have the puzzle put together quite yet. It took me 20 years of playing the game and overdosing on red pills before I realized I did not want to want to play the game. Again, Patience.

> Violence is not the answer. If a woman makes you want to kill her… dude totally understand haha…. but hate is not what good men are about. If your around one that makes you violent then get away from her yesterday. It’s just not worth it. That’s not healthy and nothing but bad things will happen and mostly to you.

> Always employ simple problem solving and don’t give that a second thought. I once went on a date where a woman actually pulled out a long numbered checklist of all the “activities” we would go do . I took her back to her car. Who the f~~~ does she think she is? Problem solved.

> Don’t worry about all the guilt and sob stories. A lot of people in life are pussies even some men. Let them go with that. I have gone far out of my way to help women and have them say they love me only to be attacked when I didn’t want to get married or have children. Suddenly the “oh he is such a great guy, I appreciate you so much, amazing person” becomes “coward, weak, afraid, not a real man” Haha don’t you just love the not a real man line. It’s like the soccer ball of phrases for us MGTOW we are always kicking it around. A mannequin with a dildo duct taped to it is not a real man. We are the real deal motherf~~~ers!

> Women come with agendas and I’m not talking about the usual drive you crazy and empty your bank account. I’m talking events. There are weddings, birthdays, holidays, family gatherings, couples dates, date nights, special nights out, movies, dinners, funerals, and if you are lucky you can even witness your own castration without sedation. Not to mention all the expensive vacations because she’s stressed and wants to get away from it all. Sign up for that s~~~ if you want but I’d rather have a steak a beer and jerk off all over myself.

> Just about every strong and independent woman I’ve ever met has been neither. They almost fooled me a couple of times but it always shows through. Look at actions not words. If she is so independent then why does daddy pay her insurance or phone bill. If she’s strong why is she flipping out and crying about basic everyday problems.

> Fiscal Responsibility is nearly gone with women. Of all the women I’ve known I can think of only a handful that had this trait. I firmly believe at least 90% of women do not even have a backup plan or monthly budget. Even more so if she has a man. If you’re a hard worker and a saver and you plan and budget the last thing you need is a woman with no fiscal sense because once she burns through hers she will come after yours.

> Don’t be fooled by the sex. I don’t care how great it is. Eventually they will stop putting out or you will be so disgusted by the way they are that you don’t really want to bang anymore. Yes the crazy ones are the best f~~~s but they are the most dangerous to deal with as well. Friendly public service announcement: Your hand will never accuse you of abuse, rape, or try to take you to court!

> Loneliness can be difficult but peace and silence are beautiful. Nothing sucks more than having to listen to some broad run her mouth and still feel lonely.

The accumulated filth of all their sex and murder will foam up about their waists and all the whores and politicians will look up and shout "save us!"....... and i'll look down and whisper "No."

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