Glad I've found you guys!

[Benny_GParticipant 20]

Watsup dudes

Came across MGTOW just this week. I’ve only just realised what a Godamn pussy I’ve been my whole life! F~~~!

I come from a good family where my parents made s~~~ work. They’re still married. My dad to this day hasn’t washed a single load of clothes. F~~~ing legend! It’s always been his way or the highway, perhaps my mom knows this and stuck around. Luckily for him she’s the best woman I know. Nevertheless, this is where my brainwashing began and it’s f~~~ed me since. I was raised to treat women with a lot of respect, and from a traditional perspective i.e. I do all the work, easrn the cash, you feed me and raise my kids. Pretty sweet deal, IIIFFFFF it works!

What we’re all faced with, is the massive downside risk if it fails. Unfortunately, woman such as my mom don’t f~~~ing exist anymore. They’re all sluts – the young ones, every last one of them. Anyway, my ex bitch took me for like $10k in 6 months. I was dumb as f~~~ to let it happen. She had a kid, (I know – WTF was I thinking!). I’m actually so glad I learnt all the lessons I did, and that I found MGTOW, I feel untouchable right now. Like there is absolutely nothing that’s going to f~~~ up my life, except myself, but no woman. I feel like I’ve mitigated the biggest source of risk in my life – bitches. This brings me back to having been such a pussy all this time. I used to chase after girls like they were God’s. Trying to please them wherever I could. To show them I was a gentleman so they could respect me. How naive, and dumb. F~~~. Instead, I got friend-zoned and the ‘good-guy’ treatment where they keep you around for whatever sick f~~~ing reasons they have, like male company while they scout around for c~~~. Sick bitches!

I’m still strategising on how I’m going to handle woman from now on. I still need to bang. Any advice? I think I’m definitely going to visit more strip clubs too. Hell, should have been doing that all along anyway! I’m 27 right now. I’m going to try stay single for as long as I can, at least 40. Only then will I consider getting married/ reach an arrangement if I want kids, but I’m signing a prenup thicker than my dick. Right now, I feel like I don’t need to give woman any attention. I will never buy another drink. I’m not going to approach them or look at them. I’m adopting a zero-f~~~s attitude. Ironically, I can feel how this stance is magnetising pussy all around me. S~~~s getting stuffy in here. I’m just glad I’ve decided on what I want, and that I’ll pump and dump, keep one around temporarily (while I look for the next one) if I like her, but on a leash, and just be a dick in general. I couldn’t give a f~~~.

I’m the prize! Since when did men become such pussies to think that a woman is the prize? When we pave their way for them, and then run after them like idiots.

I don’t necessarily have anything against woman, just the fact that I need to protect myself, my time, creativity, space and assets, so they’ve become a low priority for me.

Rant over…
Peace

[Anonymous 42]

First line had me SOLD!

Until here:

Benny_G wrote:

I’m 27 right now. I’m going to try stay single for as long as I can, at least 40.

No amount of time should be given any consideration when it comes to the modern paradigm where we’re severely disadvantaged and they know and practice EVERY loophole in the law with the added advantage of being pathological liars. You’ll only find the dynamite gets leakier and more dangerous with age. You can’t handle leaky dynamite no matter how long you wait!

The c~~~ carousel will put you in “touch” with all the nasty scankery you already despise so much. Your plan has many flaws. You won’t be feeling so good about yourself when you find out you’re f~~~ing someones wife and hit “that level” of no f~~~s given. It’s dangerous waters you’re entering in.

Benny_G wrote:

Only then will I consider getting married/ reach an arrangement if I want kids, but I’m signing a prenup thicker than my dick.

The fatter the prenup the more it’s gonna hurt going up your ass especially when women’s lawyers are so much stronger than men’s lawyers.

The only “WIN” is to not play the game and spend all your efforts on self improvement and refinement, the kind that nobody is allowed to touch.

Swimming in the cesspool of humanity is a sure fire recipe for infection, then the real troubles begin, you forfeit your quality of life and live on medication.

Your luck you’ll get infected on your very first dive.

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, Benny

You are among friends here.
The first part of getting over pussy worship is something called Red Pill Rage. We all go through it. Next comes acceptance and forgiving your blue pill self. Then comes peace.

Some guys go monk, pump and dump, or ghost. As you read and post you will learn more and become more comfortable with GYOW.
Read posters like NFG, Old Sage, I Live Again, Hitman AND MGTower (always makes me laugh) and many others.

Grab a seat around the fire and enjoy.

[FeralParticipant 98]

It takes many months and lots of thinking to absorb MGTOW:
keep listening to videos.
Marrying after 40 is still dangerous:
prenuptials, and even trusts, might not be safe enough because international law is complex, judges often favour women, and because a woman can invent a baseless criminal attack and then negotiate your trust/prenutials while you risk prison.

As you said it best: no bad feelings against women, just protect your resources and your self development.

[Anonymous 0]

Benny_G wrote:

I’m still strategising on how I’m going to handle woman from now on. I still need to bang. Any advice? I think I’m definitely going to visit more strip clubs too. Hell, should have been doing that all along anyway! I’m 27 right now. I’m going to try stay single for as long as I can, at least 40. Only then will I consider getting married/ reach an arrangement if I want kids, but I’m signing a prenup thicker than my dick.

Welcome! Great intro!

As for your questions about how to handle women and dating:

A guy named Rollo Tomassi wrote a good book called “The Rational Male.” It is kind of PUA (pick-up artist) territory rather than MGTOW, but it combines Red Pill knowledge with ideas on how to manage dating and having women in your life.

The book is here: https://www.amazon.com/Rational-Male-Rollo-Tomassi/dp/1492777862/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1482330214&sr=1-1&keywords=the+rational+male

There was also a recent thread here at MGTOW.com talking about Tomassi’s theories, if you want an advance idea of what you’ll find in Tomassi’s book: /forums/topic/the-awarness-rollo-t-blog/#post-374117

Tomassi also has a blog. But the blog can be tough to dig through. I preferred the book I mentioned above, because it grouped the essays by subject and tied things together better. But here’s the blog site: https://therationalmale.com

Anyway, for general tips on Red Pill dating, you may want to check out PUA stuff. It isn’t just about scoring. Modern PUAs have built the PUA system into a whole philosophy about a Red Pill lifestyle that includes women.

(MGTOW technically includes PUA, since you only have to be opposed to Blue Pill lifestyle to be MGTOW. But the PUA folks have a lot of resources of their own separate from MGTOW.)

Tomassi has mentioned the following Red Pill/PUA sources of info as his own favorites:

–Tomassi is still a moderator on SoSuave Forum
–RooshV: http://www.rooshv.com
–Roissy posts at Heartiste: Heartiste.wordpress.com
–Tomassi says the best at Game is Nick Krauser at krauserpua.com
–A good blogger is Dalrock at dalrock.wordpress.com (he does Christianized Game)

Again, welcome aboard!

[HitmanParticipant]

Welcome.
Stick around and learn more about women.
Your in the right place!

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

Welcome sir.
I can understand the desire to have children, so if you decide to stick to your plan and marry in your 40s do this: Go in a remote place, dig a deep hole and from now until you get married start throwing gold bars and coins in there. Because no matter what prenup you sign, whatever will be in that hole is what you will be left with afyer your divorce.

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Welcome OP. You’re one the right track.

Benny_G wrote:

but I’m signing a prenup thicker than my dick.

Cut this s~~~ out of your thinking. Pre nups WILL get thrown out in court. Once you have kids together, the court will divide everything up as if they are both yours and your spouse’s, not a HIS or HER thing.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[bladeParticipant]

Welcome benny .

Marriage , kids in the future .

I am a 6 year veteran of the family court and there arr many of us here which in time you will pick up on . For people that haven’t gone threw it beleave it is a place where the law is followed which if you ever end up there you will quickly find out the reality of a corrupt and evil system . I hope you stay on the mgtow road brother and never have to encounter the arse f~~~ing of your life with that system because if you go that path woman and kids it will be inevitable.

Welcome again bro

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Benny_GParticipant 20]

Hey guys

Thanks so much for the great advice! We all need mentors in life. As a youngster it’s not often we have these important conversations, so thank you.

Anonymous wrote:

how to handle women and dating:

Thanks for the advice TwoStep, definitely going to check it out. I think PUA philosophies will go a long way to helping me achieve my goals (holes).

Fermat wrote:

Cut this s~~~ out of your thinking

I think the rest of you have already convinced me to get that s~~~ thinking out of my head. I don’t know wtf I was thinking to be honest. MGTOW for life!

Peace homies

[BlakeGuyParticipant 287]

Anyway, my ex bitch took me for like $10k in 6 months. I was dumb as f~~~ to let it happen.

10k, to learn the lesson, that is awesome, just celebrate it, cheap schooling.

Right now, I feel like I don’t need to give woman any attention. I will never buy another drink. I’m not going to approach them or look at them. I’m adopting a zero-f~~~s attitude. Ironically, I can feel how this stance is magnetising pussy all around me

Let them feel the alpha and drool.

Let the good times roll

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

Anonymous wrote:

The only “WIN” is to not play the game and spend all your efforts on self improvement and refinement, the kind that nobody is allowed to touch.

welcome. This is the best advice here that you should print off in huge letters, post on a wall, and read every day.

[The Chest GuyParticipant 76]

welcome dude. i’m new here too. no need to call yourself dumb. everyone was like that at one point, to whatever extent. we have a similar story from how you put it. except my mom wore more of the pants than my dad did. and my dad was no pussy, he was just pussy whipped. i see him now as in a trap. he keeps secret bank accounts just in case. he knows what he got himself into. you and i don’t need to make his mistake. i’m sure you’ll find MGTOW to be more than just an idea.

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6Ql_wJr9M82NZZaBo8Ztlw

[Jeremiah JohnsonParticipant 2219]

Welcome home Benny…We are glad to have you here among us, and look forward to reading your posts in the future…You sound like a man that was recently slapped with a reality s~~~ stick…Either way, I would say you are right on track, and it sounds as if you have not made any costly mistakes as of yet, and I believe if stay along your current pathway, you will get through the many traps that surround you and are attempting to entrap you…Have you started working on any goals or dreams???

Men are at a time when panning for gold in a urinal has a higher probability of success than finding a faithful and loving woman, it is time to go your own way.....

[Y_Participant 4591]

Benny_G wrote:

I don’t necessarily have anything against woman, just the fact that I need to protect myself, my time, creativity, space and assets, so they’ve become a low priority for me.

@ Benny_G – Welcome. Your last sentence says it all – instinctively you have stated a basic MGTOW truth. YOU matter – they don’t. It is never about females but how you protect yourself from them. The problem in a nutshell is your perception of the world. Here you will learn the truth that has been deliberately hidden from you.

Your upbringing has sheltered you and shaped your thinking to commit suicide as an individual. Relationships do not work for men. Marriage does not work for men. The society you live in demands you live as a slave to their needs. The only question you need to ask yourself is – will you do so? Your choice.

What you need to unlearn is not about your parents or your relationship to them. I hope you are not trying to live your life for them in some way – that never works. You – and eventually they – will be sorry much too late.

You need to get past this thinking in your head that you can find happiness with a female. All females of today really want is to use men any way they can – all because man allow them to. The rest is window-dressing. A sham propagated by MSM, politicians and self styled religious nuts.

Realise that only a free YOU – living life on your own terms (sovereignty)- can be happy.

Before you start dating (your choice) my advice is try the MGHOW life to get a grip on how far you go with any female. Eventually you will find they are not worth the effort. But the problem is you have nothing to compare your current lifestyle to.

All the best and I hope you make the obvious and only choice.

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