MGTOW.COM being used as a marriage counseling tampon???

[SandalsParticipant 4254]

AFT wrote:

I don’t see a problem here, if someone is married to a fantasy NAWALT UNICORN, who is a true addition to his life, CONTRIBUTES, is respectful, and makes his life a living fantasy, with little to no demands, with zero financial and legal consequences, then he is very fortunate and please provide DNA for cloning.

Does such exist?

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

Depends on the situation, if some dude comes on and writes about how his sex life has gone sour, or how his kids are acting like little s~~~s, then i’m out, and rather not give advice.

Why?, because I feel it has no place here, i feel that if you have a seriously situation, abuse, or your life is being threatened or your kids, then s~~~ yeah, by all means I’ll give you advice and try and help you out.

But like i said before, this ain’t no “my wife didn’t wash the dishes help me club”, you need to go to tumblr or reddit. S~~~, even Yahoo Answers..

My Goal is to reach out, help and maybe even save one life from the evil clutches of a Female and/or manipulation of getting sucked into a soul draining marriage.

I don’t know, that’s just my two cents.

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[Anonymous 29]

Deus Ex Machina wrote:

Depends on the situation, if some dude comes on and writes about how his sex life has gone sour, or how his kids are acting like little s~~~s, then i’m out, and rather not give advice.

Why?, because I feel it has no place here, i feel that if you have a seriously situation, abuse, or your life is being threatened or your kids, then s~~~ yeah, by all means I’ll give you advice and try and help you out.

But like i said before, this ain’t no “my wife didn’t wash the dishes help me club”, you need to go to tumblr or reddit. S~~~, even Yahoo Answers..

My Goal is to reach out, help and maybe even save one life from the evil clutches of a Female and/or manipulation of getting sucked into a soul draining marriage.

I don’t know, that’s just my two cents.

I could not agree more.

[Canadian SportsFanParticipant 216]

OP – Blue pillers are not the enemy. I’d wager most of the people here are or were at one point a blue piller who got burned in a relationship and that’s how they went MGTOW. Feminists and full on manginas and white knights are the enemy, you’re not going to change them or their mindset. A lot of blue pillers like myself are coming around to the realization that their LTR can go one of two ways.

1. Marriage and inevitable kids. Even with a prenup, you’re rolling the dice. Odds are stacked against you. Even the best marriages are, well, not great from the man’s perspective.

2. Breakup, and freedom, but potential loneliness as well as judgement from colleagues society.

Some of us just take longer to come around than others. We’re not assholes, just people who are overcoming the programming that’s been installed since childhood 1.0. It’s a lot ot overcome. You don’t get over it in a day.

The harsh stories we see here are a Red Pill daily does of reality. Not all women are the same, for sure, but that NAWALT you’re with, well, watch for the signs because they turn into the AWALT when the ring gets put on their finger and you’ve lost any and all leverage in the relationship. You think any generally good-natured guy who signed a marriage liscence thinks in the beginning they’ll lose 1/2 thier s~~~, and the wife will become an AWALT. Nobody thinks that. Everyone thinks they’re dating the unicorn.

Like I say, either people come around, or they don’t. That’s still no reason not to keep spreading the message. I think this site helps a lot of people who are blue-pillers stuck in a s~~~ situation. I’ve seen a number of threads on divorce, or toxic relationships where the psycho AWALT calls the cops on her partner like it’s a game for leverage in a separation. If not for this site, I’d have no f~~~ing clue what to do in that situation. Now I know what I would do at least, so from that perspective it’s helpful. You have to spread the message. If it’s all red pill talking to Red pill men, you’re just preaching to the converted. Keep preaching to the Blue pillers and maybe convert more…

If you really feel someone is a feminist/mangina in disguise, flag ’em, report ’em. Make people post usersigns in their introductions. Charge a nominal fee for the site. Whatever, there are ways of weeding them out.

[Canadian SportsFanParticipant 216]

Deus Ex Machina wrote:

Depends on the situation, if some dude comes on and writes about how his sex life has gone sour, or how his kids are acting like little s~~~s, then i’m out, and rather not give advice.

Why?, because I feel it has no place here, i feel that if you have a seriously situation, abuse, or your life is being threatened or your kids, then s~~~ yeah, by all means I’ll give you advice and try and help you out.

But like i said before, this ain’t no “my wife didn’t wash the dishes help me club”, you need to go to tumblr or reddit. S~~~, even Yahoo Answers..

My Goal is to reach out, help and maybe even save one life from the evil clutches of a Female and/or manipulation of getting sucked into a soul draining marriage.

I don’t know, that’s just my two cents.

HAAH there was just a frontpage reddit on this dishes thing today in Advice Animals. I suspect some of you were posting in the comms!

https://www.reddit.com/r/AdviceAnimals/comments/3jahf6/i_know_she_had_school_work_to_do_but_she_watched/

[Anonymous 42]

Canadian SportsFan wrote:

OP – Blue pillers are not the enemy. I’d wager most of the people here are or were at one point a blue piller who got burned in a relationship and that’s how they went MGTOW. Feminists and full on manginas and white knights are the enemy, you’re not going to change them or their mindset. A lot of blue pillers like myself are coming around to the realization that their LTR can go one of two ways.

@C-SportsFan, we’re not seeing blue pillers the same way you and I. It’s not until someone exposes you to the truth with a red pillthat you can become a blue piller. It all depends on what you swallow; red pill or blue pill up until then it’s like you don’t really exist in reality, you’re in toxic slumber, asleep in the MATRIX… As soon as one swallows the blue pill and not the red, they become a willing copppertop for the MATRIX, generating energy for the enemy, “THE MATRIX”

[Canadian SportsFanParticipant 216]

Anonymous wrote:

Canadian SportsFan wrote:

OP – Blue pillers are not the enemy. I’d wager most of the people here are or were at one point a blue piller who got burned in a relationship and that’s how they went MGTOW. Feminists and full on manginas and white knights are the enemy, you’re not going to change them or their mindset. A lot of blue pillers like myself are coming around to the realization that their LTR can go one of two ways.

@C-SportsFan, we’re not seeing <span class=”d4pbbc-font-color” style=”color: blue”>blue pillers</span> the same way you and I. It’s not until someone exposes you to the truth with a <span class=”d4pbbc-font-color” style=”color: red”>red pill</span>that you can become a <span class=”d4pbbc-font-color” style=”color: blue”>blue piller</span>. It all depends on what you swallow; <span class=”d4pbbc-font-color” style=”color: red”>red pill</span> or <span class=”d4pbbc-font-color” style=”color: blue”>blue pill</span> up until then it’s like you don’t really exist in reality, you’re in <span class=”d4pbbc-font-color” style=”color: lime”>toxic slumber</span>, asleep in the MATRIX… As soon as one swallows the <span class=”d4pbbc-font-color” style=”color: blue”>blue pill</span> and not the <span class=”d4pbbc-font-color” style=”color: red”>red</span>, they become a willing <span class=”d4pbbc-font-color” style=”color: orange”>copppertop</span> for the MATRIX, generating energy for the enemy, the MATRIX

Oh I get what you’re saying believe me.

I was someone who always thought marriage was stupid, that I would never get in that situation, that married guys all acted like pussies, now here I am actually contemplating doing it myself, knowing full well what the consequences and likely outcome will be (kids, divorce, child support, unhappy life). So why do it? We’ve all probably been there. At least anyone in a LTR with a woman has, because eventually they all start hitting the same pressure points with men.

Why MGTOW resonates with me – although I’m not there yet – is because everything I see, read, watch here is undeniably true. I’ve yet to come across anything here where I thought “well that’s complete bulls~~~”. There is an underlying, undeniable resonating truth to the information being spread from the site. That doesn’t mean everyone is ready willing or able to accept it in one dose. That’s why this site p~~~es off so many people, because it’s backed by the undeniable fact of being true.. I’ve learned a lot since my first post here, it’s eye opening and revealing. Hard as it is to admit, you know in your gut when something is true. Once you know, you start looking at your own situation in a different light.

Neo didn’t adapt well to leaving the matrix right away. He had to follow the white rabbit down the rabbit hole. He had to read and understand the reality first. (They have to read the Manipulated Man, the have to watch the MGTOW videos, and listen to the Tom Leykis radio where the anonymous fembots are calling in and confirming their true gameplan – that all takes time). Once there, like Neo some choose to exit the matrix, and become someone else, while others choose to go back in and get hooked up again, full well knowing what they’re doing because they can’t handle the reality (Cypher).

Don’t cut off the blue-pillers entirely, we still have something to contribute, if nothing else other than being a cautionary tale for others.. How else are you supposed to give them the red pill if you won’t let them experience the site.

[Anonymous 42]

I understand where you’re coming from, My awakening came from being somewhat introverted and having the uncanny ability to stop others from manipulating my thought with obvious bulls~~~, even as kid I was more a man than many adults, I saw them a pussies and pushovers for allowing women to push them around! It’s as if I was awake and they were asleep, my 6th sense only grew stronger with age. I’ve see results before they even happened, like my mind had all the pieces and the only trick to assembling the puzzle was not allowing others to distort the pieces. I’m really good at reading people by their facial expression and hidden clues in the words they say and use, it’s called “spotting the bulls~~~”, “fake emotions” seeing “the game” before they play it on me for their benefit. One thing I can say with certainty: ALL. THE. UNICORNS. ARE. GONE! Whats left over is another mans leftovers, be it the c~~~ carousel, the marry’go’round, or other variations of mind trickery that exist in GYNOCENTORIAS METROPOLIS FROM HELL!
Never underestimate the powers of a Woombat!

[MotivParticipant 441]

My take on it for what it is worth, Im not very good at expressing my self in to text but here goes anyway. (so i hope it makes some sense)
Being on my second marriage I can see it from that point of view.. Some might say im not mgtow (thats not my problem) but right from a young age I was wise to the female manipulation taking place and played most women off at their own game even if they didnt know what they was doing.
No I didnt always win due to many factors but the system ended up wearing me down and catching me off guard with the odd unicorn..Bang! I was in a messed up place, I knew deep down I was played but it messed me up and thinking back the time it took me to recover would of been so much quicker and easier if this site had been around for me to read watch and talk to other men but back then it just wasnt spoke about,
so the advise is DO NOT ‘ever’ get married do not let the women get into your soul, stay a freeman with your own mind heart and soul, mgtow is right you can not win, That tiny bit of advise is the first bit I have given on this site, not because I dont think I have advice that could most likely help guys out stuck in a marriage but more to my first point.(English not great)

Myself I dont see men coming here to monthly off load their marriage s~~~ just to get confidence off us, if its happened then ive missed it, if it did happen I know they would be advised accordingly as it sounds like something a c~~~ might come in and try.

So lets not worry about married men that are finding mgtow, these are the men that have been right through the mill,lets give them the support they might need and use the advise so many of them have. I know I have many times and believe the ones I have talked to are very wise and supportive.
I had already chosen to go my own way and searched the tube to find inspirational/helpful advise on this and then I found MGTOW, It was such a massive relief that I found I wasnt alone, so to me it wasnt so much as a wake up call or the reason I made the choses I did but more of a wow! this is f~~~ing awesome men do talk and im not alone on this as women and blue pilers would do their best make out around me… I have very few men that are man enough to be honest with themselves around me let alone be honest to others so mgtow.com is where I dont fear to speak freely.
its pretty easy to judge whos for real and whos just ragging, Im no tampon for bulls~~~ but if I could see my advise might help what looked to be a genuine married man then I would offer it..
If its taken a man 1/2/3/4/5 marriages before finding the truth it really dosnt matter we are all brothers.
I dont see this tampon stuff going on but I could be wrong and just not seen it.
Peace and respect to all men they all need some help at some point.

Cool story babe now go make me a sandwich

[Anonymous 42]

Motiv wrote:

do not let the women get into your soul

My whole gripe against the institution of marriage is how it legally binds a man UNDER U.N.D.E.R! a woman! It’s like I see a proverbial ton of chains drop on the man immediately upon signing the lethal contract! My view of the woman is she gained a slave to be driven at her mercy, or her tyranny! Marriage does more to destroy the union of a man and a woman than it EVER DOES TO PRESERVE IT! From a man’s point of view, he needs the woman to follow him by faith and faith alone, not chained to his neck by the LETHAL BINDING AGREEMENTS that f~~~ men so viciously! Marriage enslaves a man to the will and whims of the gynocentric state “Gynocentralia”, I’ll NEVER WEAR THAT CHAIN! I feel truly sorry for those that do! You’re chained to the woman, she’s chained to “GYNOCENTRALIA”, AND IT”S ALL SINKING INTO THE ABYSS OF DESTRUCTION BY THE ENDLESS VIOLATING OF THE LAWS OF NATURE, CONSCRIPTED BY THE STATE!
If you’re married??? I hear Blub blub blub in your future as you descend into the abyss with all that chain wrapped around you…
I’m free as a bird, no modern woman wants that! They’ll clip a mans wings and tie a rope around your neck, then with assistance from Gynocentralia’s “I don’t feel safe SQUAD” then go as far as having you CAGED!!! Birds don’t naturally belong in a cage with rope around their necks! That’s my REALISTIC view of marriage…….

[Anonymous 1]

While it can seem like that’s happening a lot, and can seem to be a drain to respond to sometimes, it does mean that the MGTOW message is out there, being spread around. It also means that someone is searching for an answer to a question and a denied truth that keeps coming back in the back of their head, every day or so. Like someone knocking on your door every day, to help awaken you out of a drugged stupor.

I personally see that as a good thing. It’s planting a seed of knowledge, knowledge that a positive alternative is out there and that there are people just like him who are on the other side, who made it through whole. Sort of like a recovering alcoholic, or someone who is in a cult and having doubts. Personally, I think we should help all men in regard to MGTOW as best we can, lifting the veil and showing the true face of what marriage actually is.

Some may grasp it sooner, some may grasp it later, and some may grasp it never. But should we not try to help these men anyway? Because each one who has his eyes opened increases the speed at which this wheel rotates, bringing us closer to righting the wrongs done to men and bringing true equality.

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