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  • #694688
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    JVB
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    Doesn’t bother me. Seeing people/families enjoying themselves over the festive season, why not.

    Peace is > piece.

    #694695
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    Anonymous
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    These threads remind me of a Christmas about 15 years ago. I was on call and got called in on Christmas Day.

    I had to replace a furnace in those house. They were having a Christmas party that night. Here I am working my ass off on Christmas.

    Homeowner is yelling at me telling me I’m ruining their Christmas.
    Ex-pumpkin is calling yelling at me I’m missing Christmas.
    Boss is calling me asking me what is taking so long.

    End of the day I was happy to be at home. Alone sitting on my couch having a drink. I’ll take the peace and tranquillity over the major holiday depression so many people tend to suffer from.

    #694711
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    Hmskl'd
    hmskl’d
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    Would I be more lonely with an angry venom spitting Tasmanian Devil wife who would be moving from room to room within this house .. criticizing me, degrading my hobby, giving orders, snapping back at any and all of my attempts at being nice .. and just seeming to take pleasure at making my Holiday time a living Hell.

    …or, would I be more lonely not having to put up with any of that AWALT garbage and still having 99.99 percent of the world available to me as I begin the rest of my life .. starting today?

    In order to decide which life I’d prefer .. and which one would make me less lonely .. I believe I’ll make a delicious pizza and have a nice glass of iced tea and later today, my day off, I’ll sit back and enjoy a ‘land whale’ free space and enjoy a great music Steely Dan concert on video.
    I have lots of things to do today .. running errands .. shopping and planning for several projects coming up both over the Holidays and early next year. Planning on building an entire new workshop space. I’m doubling my work-bench for electronic projects. There really isn’t any time for lonely thoughts .. so much to do .. so little time.

    The media wants you to think thoughts that will get you to spend. The Holidays don;t need to be lonely .. lots of great people out there to meet and visit and enjoy their company .. if that’s your preference. Every path is wonderful .. if it’s yours.

    I personally believe the upcoming year is going to be amazing as far as the evolution of Bots. I believe I have an idea what life I choose. I’m getting in the mood for some pinball. Have grrrreat day.

    #694717
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    Awakened
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    I’m looking forward to the day when I can be “Lonely” all the time.

    In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

    #694735
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    Truthseeker82
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    I tune most of the phony holiday crap out completely. Plug in my earbuds and crank out some Foo Fighters.

    I have alot of Russian friends and family who mainly look forward to New Years. We get dressed up around midnight and toast a better new year. Thats about all the holiday celebrating I can take.

    #694778
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    Truthseeker82
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    Here is a brief but true tale to help those lonely brothers appreciate how much worse their livez could be:

    “There was once a post wall blimp whos ovaries were mostly rotten.

    She cried each night of her poor blight “why have I been forgotten.”

    Along came a simp who met the blimp and they went on a date. She bared her breast and you know the rest and he followed her to bed. It wasnt long cause he was not strong that they were soon to wed.

    He should have waited but he procreated and now she owns his b~~~~. To add to this matter the blimp got fatter and our hero knew he was f~~~ed. “Oh why didnt I go to that website MGTOW and walk the other way. Instead Im stuck and was a cuck and feel like a first class schmuck each and every day.”

    Be glad youre not THAT guy!

    #694836
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    Crowbar
    Crowbar
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    I’m looking forward to the day when I can be “Lonely” all the time.

    Yep, this is me. I actually had that until my mid-30’s, then I had a serious stupid attack and got married. Now it’s just constant crap to deal with (to be fair, it’s fun watching my five-year old boys look for the elf-on-the-shelf, as they’re still cute, but it’s also annoying).

    I still remember the old days – never had a Xmas tree, no decorations or anything. I just purchased gifts for my parents and brother – now we have to buy crap for everyone and have a bunch of decorations that just jack up our electric bill.

    #694925
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    Anonymous
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    There is no such thing as loneliness.

    it is time you own, in the absence of others.
    It is the longing for company that turns you-time into lonelyness.

    Stop longing for company.
    There is no Christmas.
    There is no Christmas spirit.
    It´s all fake!
    The Family is dead.
    Stay the f~~~ away!
    You know how it ends – accusations of not being good enough, being abbsent, and all that s~~~.
    If you must… do it on a sunny day in spring. not in the Darkest of Days that the Calendar has to offer.

    YOU-time.
    No more, no less.

    #695006
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    Hermit
    Hermit
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    I’m looking forward to the day when I can be “Lonely” all the time.

    I’ll bet you are and let me tell you, my friend, it is a beautiful thing, that’s for damn sure.

    It was nice when I had a family and my son was very young and we were enjoying Christmas. I now have those fond memories and the fond memories of when I was a child to look back upon. I now enjoy the peace, happiness and the wonderful solitude of being alone on Christmas.

    The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

    #695025
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    Anonymous
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    Anyone who feels lonley , can come on here and have other humans to interact with.
    So your not really alone are you?
    How do you…want..to feel.

    #695041
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    Zarathustra
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    10 years ago all I wanted was a guitar for Christmas. My bitch of an ex-wife wouldn’t let me buy one, not even a cheap one for $125.00. So, like a thief in the night, I slipped out on X-mas eve and bought the guitar and had to hide it in my trunk until new year because I didn’t want a row with my wife over x-mas.

    That my friend is being lonely. Try focusing on the bulls~~~ you don’t have to deal with this season, instead of the bulls~~~ fantasy you don’t have, that no one has, that they are trying to force on you.

    #695125
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    Anonymous
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    How do you…want..to feel.

    THIS!
    Thank you Old Sage.

    How do you want to feel?

    You don´t focus on X-mas.
    I know it is a kind of “do not think of a Pink Elephant” kind of Order.
    The Pink Elephant is being shoved in your face is it not.
    And especially in the West where Xmas is in the news, on the Radio, in the Malls, at work…

    STOP.

    Radio? propaganda.
    News? Irrelevant.
    Gifts to loved ones far away and people out of reach? Save it for later.

    How do you feel throughout the year? Great?
    Then Keep doing what you are doing in Non-Xmas times.

    Enjoy the Snow. At night.

    Get out into the light – as soon as the sun comes up. Any exxcuse is good enough. YOU are a goodenough Excuse. Only better than any Excuse.

    And when you are exhausted, lay on your Back and tell the Blues to lick your Wiener.

    If MY DOG can understand that, so can you.

    #695140
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    Hermit
    Hermit
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    10 years ago all I wanted was a guitar for Christmas. My bitch of an ex-wife wouldn’t let me buy one, not even a cheap one for $125.00. So, like a thief in the night, I slipped out on X-mas eve and bought the guitar and had to hide it in my trunk until new year because I didn’t want a row with my wife over x-mas.

    That my friend is being lonely. Try focusing on the bulls~~~ you don’t have to deal with this season, instead of the bulls~~~ fantasy you don’t have, that no one has, that they are trying to force on you.

    Oh man…..”……wife wouldn’t let me…….”….. WIFE WOULDN’T LET ME! Yes, that s~~~ is lonely. Living with a woman who tries to control you, is not only lonely, but is also unhealthy for your mind and body. You know how I fixed that s~~~? I stopped letting her control me. I took my life back. She kicked me outta’ the house and now she’s the lonely one.

    I live alone, but I am never lonely. I enjoy my own company, even on Christmas……..especially on Christmas because I no longer have to put up with her family members invading my own. OH MAN, IT’S SO GREAT TO BE ALONE DURING THE HOLIDAYS!

    The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

    #695152
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    Prophet Micah
    Prophet Micah
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    OH MAN, IT’S SO GREAT TO BE ALONE DURING THE HOLIDAYS!

    I look forward to the Christmas cause it’s guaranteed alone time. Everybody with their kids are all busy around a f~~~in’ tree sitting on Santas lap. I know 100% that nobody is gonna be dropping in on me. Part of my heart aches for the kids though knowing their parents are lying to them that a fictional character is bringing them gifts.

    No Wife - No Strife

    #695161
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    CombatRoll
    CombatRoll
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    @rexmundi

    Why don’t you go find somewhere to volunteer? Work at a soup kitchen or get involved in something. Christmas doesn’t need to be s~~~ty and lonely!

    Get involved in some groups of like minded peeps. I’m in a couple groups that have parties. We drink, buy stupid $20 gifts and do a Chinese exchange.

    Even if you are alone it doesn’t suck. I’m 5 months off the plantation and I like sitting in my bitch free place, have my tree on and Christmas music – and enjoy some drinks. Peaceful and void of my ex, bitching about me drinking and playing Christmas music. F~~~ yeah!

    #695220
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    Remove me!
    Remove me!
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    The only Christmas movie a man should watch is Die Hard.

    Like a bird on the wire, like a drunk midnight choir, I have tried in my way to be free.

    #695226
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    Anonymous
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    @rexmundi

    Why don’t you go find somewhere to volunteer? Work at a soup kitchen

    Most people who struggle with the holidays, and volenteer to serve food say thats its very helpful to their mood.
    Being able to feed people worse off than them makes them feel better.
    Makes everyone feel better!

    #695345
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    Gargamel
    Gargamel
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    29101

    Lonely at Christmas…

    This is how you family life can be like.

    And it gets worse on Christmas when they are all at home and get on each others’ nerves. Then it all escalates to terrifying levels.

    Read this thread /forums/topic/scum-society-for-cutting-up-men/

    And my post. This is how I grew up.

    I wished I could have been lonely…

    I later made my dream came true: Unc~~~ed, as they are the root of all evil.
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    I like that (OP) video. Women are SCUM…

    It is proof for how women actually tick deep inside their stupid little hateful minds.

    I grew up with countless women around me stating “all men should be killed/jailed/impounded/beaten to death”

    Not only the c~~~s of my family but well situated parasites among my mother’s beauty shop customer base. They didn’t know that the toddler would grasp what they were saying. They never took me seriously and kept talking “among women” while I was there in the corner, playing with LEGO.

    And my sister (8 years-older than me) was trained by grandmother to hit and kick me as good as she can so (quote) “The boy will not become like his father”…

    And that thing was after me like a predator, day and night. She would even explode and hit me for hearing me breathe. And I as a toddler was forced to jump that mental fence of “never hitting a woman”… I began using parts of furniture, brooms and unscrewed handles of appliances to defend myself.

    I just found a picture of one of my favorite defense tools. Our 1960’s unit was pink…

    Things you never forget…

    You can unscrew the handle and go after the beating and kicking c~~~… It is lightweight enough for a 4-year-old to carry, swing and throw.

    And then grandmother c~~~ would intervene out of fear for her little co-c~~~. No s~~~ given about me.

    And I was supposed to later marry one of these s~~~ty creatures!!!

    Teachers, child care workers, mother’s customers and school classmates were ALL more or less evil and hateful c~~~s not to be trusted.

    My awareness of female nature is not routed on “childhood experience” and cannot be “reduced” to that as women always argue…

    I always tried to forget such things and I was always proven right by the next bunch of women I had to deal with.

    That is why I later tried to live with a few girlfriends and… You guessed it: They put me through the same s~~~ all over.

    While I write this, I realize:

    Wild animals, constantly aware of predators develop a very high heat rate variability.

    To have “instant energy” to make an escape or fight back…

    I grew up the same way and doctors often wondered why my hear rate shoots through the roof when I see “danger” (putting on that measuring device that feels like an amputation and triggers that instinct) and it returns to normal in an instant.

    Now I know.

    Growing up under a constant threat.

    My entire metabolism is trained like that.

    I eat “full up”… Get threatened, retaliate (with words, not work) and I am hungry again. As if I had not eaten a thing… My body becomes an atomic reactor when under threat.

    Like a tuned up sports car taking 4 liters per 100 km at 80 kph and 40 liters at 250 kph. And 100 liters peak when accelerating…

    C~~~s made me a biological MGHOW.

    Not the workhorse that pulls their carriage full of s~~~ for years.

    I always cut them loose. The ropes would get torn up when they made me accelerate away from them. Like pulling a small trailer with a 1000 HP sports car and losing the freight while stepping on the gas.

    C~~~s are evil and to be avoided.

    Growing up in a nest full of them I can testify to that.

    This video saves me a lot of words and I hope it will convince the last delusional blue pill fool that we have a point.

    Nearly all women are our enemies.

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    Anonymous
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    forgeaboutit

    #695392
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    Beer
    Beer
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    If MY DOG can understand that, so can you.

    You are never lonely when you have a dog…they’re better company than most people.

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