Living with in-laws

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    I’m astonished that a woman would divorce me because of that.

    Nothing a woman does is about or for you. Men are a disposable item. Not like I need to say what you already know.

    Actually I didn’t know this. Raised by a single mother, I never had anyone to tell me what women were like. Yes, I stayed away from the sluts and whores, but otherwise thought other women were innocent.

    I already got burned once, but got away clean and with no kids. But this time I have a child. And I’m 45 years old. I wish I knew this earlier.

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    Gentlemen, I want to thank you for replying to this topic. It’s helped me make sense of this episode. MGTOW does provide a lot of value to men in this regard.

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    I let my mother n law move in with us, and it was the f~~~ing worst mistake of my life. I am not going into all the details, but suffice it to say that instead of being grateful she came with quite other motives in her blackened heart. WTF I didn’t understand that a woman who was hated by every man who let her into his life, would be so f~~~ing evil is beyond me. Blue pills sure can be a MF’er.

    Funny thing is a co-worker of mine also let his ill Mother n law move into his house, and his divorce was 6 months before mine was.

    I suspect that your wife already had her eye on divorce, as our wives probably did, and she was trying to get her loyal soldiers into the house. That is when the fun would have begun.

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    I know she didn’t want a divorce, at least until she absolutely and utterly knew that I would NEVER change for her. You see, she learned her behaviour from her mother. Many years ago, the mother was working as a maid in their little third world town, and then without any warning, she just up and left the children and husband in the early hours of the morning to head to the city to study at university and pursue an academic career. She stayed away for five years. The father had no other option – not a good looking man and with little options, he just had to wear it and give her a pass. And so fast forward to today, we have a truly deadbeat henpecked old man, who does exactly what his wife says without complaint and is applauded and adored by all for being “such a gentleman” (Yes, a beta cuck).

    My wife wanted me to be like that. She miscalculated. I had numerous run-ins with her family and they knew I couldn’t be tied down, and was “not a gentleman”.

    Truth be told, I adored my wife and would run in front of a bus for my daughter, but I’d rather die on my feet than live on my knees.

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    Hispanic girls are like Russian girls – when they’re young they’re truly attractive – but then when they hit 40 – they’re ugly, fat and totally annoying. Think the Russian Olympic women’s curling team – then babushkas . . .

    The wall is an indiscriminate killer.

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    … some women deserve to be abandoned, thus they are afraid of being abandoned , but instead work with all their might to accomplish just that …. abandonment, So I ask you my friend Nero to consider that ….Respectfully that is !!! because the alternative may be that she winds up in a cemetery with her skull split open and a head stone that marks the day she stupidly thought it appropriate to belittle and physicaly attack a man who by all accounts is physically much stronger then her, add little adrenaline to that mix and walla, the stupid bitch is dead. I say use the flight option then at least you avoid a prison cell !!!!!

    The exit is preferable to being belittled. The worst part is that the children have to grow up with the family traitor i.e., the mother. She set her sights to destroy the leader of the family, the provider, and the pillar of strength to her children. She has exposed the family members to outsiders.

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    You got a good head on your shoulders Thanasi you did the right thing yeah it sucks that you had to leave your daughter but your health both physically and mentally is just as important. Your daughter will appreciate that you were the man in this situation when she grows up and is able to understand the dynamics at play. Keep up the good work brother.

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    @rhino. I just finished watching ‘Divorce Corp’ and feel shocked. I believe I escaped a lot of trouble. The fact that a woman can call the police or start legal action simply by saying “I’m scared” – she can break up a family – with a simple phone call.

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    Update: the estranged wife is living with our daughter and her two parents in a one-bedroom condo.

    Question – can Child Protective Services be involved where my child sleeps in the same bed as my wife, and my wife’s parents live in the adjoining living room?

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