Let's Share Some Red flags

[Gone SurfingParticipant 216]

When they state that they come from a different planet and they are serious. RED FLAAAAAAAAAAAAG.

[DescentParticipant 7]

BD wrote:

She says or mentions “I need space” She has too many guy friends and no girlfriends. She came out of a long term abusive relationship with some A-h#le. Her ex boyfriends are always hanging around.

If anybody needs any validation on these, they can just read my introduction

I just wish I had been more aware of these earlier.

To add to those:

• Wants to help abusive ex-boyfriend somehow while at the same time claims that she can’t stand seeing his face without hating him
• Wants to be friends with said ex-boyfriend
• You keep hearing about her trying to contact said ex-boyfriend
• Says that see feels “anti-social”, needs time and wants to be alone yet keeps hanging out with her friends and acts like nothing is going on
• lives like a princess
• has too many self-esteem issues or a distorted self image (asks you if you think she is ugly, other things  you will notice)
• etc

Aroused By Her Anguish wrote:

If she accuses some man of raping (or trying to rape) her and she wants you to immediately take revenge on him, it’s a red flag. There was no rape or rape attempt. She’s just testing you to see what your reaction would be. 

damn, this one just brought me back, too. it wasn’t really rape or anybody I knew, or an attempt, but she started talking about some guy randomly asking her in the street at night if she wanted sex or something similar. was looking for my reaction.

[rebelandboltmanParticipant 640]

If she gives you her number and says you do, “Oh, I don’t talk.  I text only.” –Red Flag

You meet her at a grocery store, she gives you her number, you go out on one date and have a conversation.   A week later you get a four page letter from her professing her love for you — Red Flag

You help her set up an internet connection but she only uses dial up as opposed to a cable modem.   She asks you, “Do you leave your computer on?”  You reply, “In your case I would not because you will rack up charges on your bill.”   Later, she gets her bill and it’s $1000, blames YOU for HER mistake, and expects you to pay half if not the whole thing – BIG RED FLAG

She invites you over to her apartment while her aunt is visiting, all parties involved eat chocolate covered almonds while watching a movie.   The next night she calls you and blames you for leaving an almond on the floor and possibly killing her two cats — Red Flag

She’s sitting at the bar smiling at you with a twinkle in her eye as you are working as a busser/barback collecting dishes from the bartenders.   You’re intrigued.  The next night she’s sitting at the bar again but she has two guys hanging all over her — BIG RED FLAG

 

 

[manzone32Participant 2]

Tramp stamp – it means she has had more D’s in her slot C then you will ever want to know

Works as a model – on and off her job is always going to be about her looks, she will always be on diet to stay thin to keep getting jobs

Ballerina – constantly dieting to stay fit and skinny, always practicing as if they dont someone younger will take their place

Works in women shelters – the reason i say this is i had a cousin who worked at one of those women domestic violence shelters and after a few months she had to leave as she starting to look down on men which was not surprising hearing some of the horror stories she told me

 

[Anonymous 11]

I learned a new one recently. When your first name is the exact same as a woman’s ex, you might want to make it a red flag.

Then you add in the fact he’s former Special Forces, and my recreational passion and diet makes my body lean and tight like theirs which she made a comment about when we first met.

You never know what goes on in those hamsters, but the truth ALWAYS comes out. I call it resembling an ex a little too much and triggering one who is not over her ex.

My SF friend’s SF friends he invites over always ask how I do it when they learn I’m a civilian at the parties he hosts.

[MIKETOWParticipant 757]

If she comes on too strongly when you first meet her. Instantly flirting with you and flattering you.

If she gives you her number without your asking.

If she says she doesn’t have any friends. Typically because “she is very choosy”.

Biggest red flag of all: SHE’S A FEMINIST.

[techadmParticipant 59]

#1 Red Flag – When a female takes an interest in you and you are located in North America, Western Europe, Australia, Japan or anywhere else where they can claim a share of your assets, your future earnings and your pension after a brief period of cohabitation…

[MrTardyPresentParticipant 0]

Personality Disorder, Has a bad relationship with her dad, too many male friends, single mother, abnormally dyed hair, obese, princess syndrome etc. +

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

1) Complains about the sexual desires of men.

2) Needs you to say “I love you” many times.

3) Pack a day smoker.

4) Tattoo of ex-boyfriend on her t~~~ or ass.

5) Needs a lot of attention from guys (negative or positive attention).

6) Thinks you’re insulting her when you’re just making a casual joke.

7) Wants you to change your lifestyle as soon as the relationship gets serious.

8) Her relationship with Jesus Christ and her two out-of-wedlock kids is more important than dating you.

9) Wants you to get a better job and make more money.
(Then, when you do, she’ll complain that you spend too much time working and not enough time with her.)

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[EscapedMentalPatientParticipant 1489]

HUGE RED FLAG:

She has t~~~ and a vagina.

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