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Hello Gents,
Let’s help our brothers by sharing and discussing some red flags….
She says or mentions “I need space”
She has too many guy friends and no girlfriends.
She came out of a long term abusive relationship with some A-h#le.
Her ex boyfriends are always hanging around.
She physically strikes you in any manner that is not playful.
Her family have disowned her.
Her mother is a whale.
I know women always consider themselves to be innocent bystander in their stories, but we need to look deeper into what they are telling us.
Any thoughts?
Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.
Here are some:
When she decides to get new hair, make and clothes and start going out without you — its a red flag
When she sleeps at night with her hands clutching her phone — its a red flag
When you notices that there are several thousand text messages between her phone and another phone number on your phone acct — its a red flag
When she starts treating you like s~~~ — its a red flag
When she spends hours upon hours holding her phone versus holding your junk — its a red flag
When you stop have sex with her — its a red flag
when there is unexplained mileage on the family car—its a red flag
When she starts a sentence with all my male friends say” “” — its a red flag
When she has a UTI and you haven’t had sex in years — its a red flag
When she becomes pregnant and you haven’t had sex in years — its really big red flag — BTW never happened to me..LOL
When her money was once deposited into a joint account and now goes into her own account– it’s a red flag
When she unfriends you on Facebook– its a red flag
When she unfriends her own kids on Facebook — its a red flag
When she has medicine for a STD — its a red flag
When she disappears for several days at a time — its a red flag
When she becomes a raving lunatic because you recognize these red flags and start living a new life–its a red flag — you are moving in the right direction.
Come on guys– add your thoughts to the list!!! This is going to be fun thread !!! Enjoy!!!!
Good list, only thing I can add, Didn’t happen to me, but I observed it over and over:
When she wants to be with your friend at a party, then starts drama/feeling sick and makes your friend escort her back and miss ALL the party with friends. Time and time again -> Red flag. Manipulative bitch.
…And its your friends fault after that, that HER evening was ruined. of f~~~ing course. -> Red flag.
..that p~~~ed me of so much. I physically felt HORNS growing out of my skull like HellBoy.
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adding what you have seen happen to other is cool too..
Great list Bright Guy, exactly, the whole point of the thread is to compile a list of red flags to help our brothers here, even if it never happened to you specifically. We could even get into the severity of the red flags. Interestingly enough, I think Tom Leykis coined the term “Red Flag”
Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.
“I don’t have female friends only male ones, females are bitches and cause too much drama”
Red Flag: She’s is a serious bitch, drama queen and attention seeking whore. The men she is hanging around with, just want to try and f~~~ her (Beta, white knights etc.) or are f~~~ing her!“My last living in boyfriend/partner called me a gold digger while we were settling property”
Red Flag: She’s loves money and given the chance will take yours“I’m not like that….
Red Flag; Oh yes she isShe gives an amazing blow job like a Pro
Red Flag: She was or still is, a major slutShe starts reeling of her past sexual history and “relationships” like a grocery list; without you even asking!
Red Flag; serious slut with mental health issuesShe doesn’t have any real interests or hobbies
Red Flag: She’s a boring s~~~ head without a life!She has quite a few gay male friends
Red Flag: Good slut indicatorWhen she starts a sentence with, “To be honest…..
Red Flag; every word prior to that was/is basically a lie…generally, she liesI agree with Reality_Factor. </span>
When she complains every word out of your mouth is a lie— its a red flag
When every word out of her mouth is a lie– its a red flag
When she accuses you of cheating when she is — its a red flag
When she sucks the life out of your spirit and replaces it with her negativity — its a red flag
When she walks out of the room ,you have a huge sense of relief — its a red flag
When she complains on how much her life sucks– its a red flag
When she says “f~~~ you” and you reply “not with a ten foot pole” –its a red flag
When you have you have hallway sex — ( you both say f~~~ you to each other as you pass each other in the hallway)– its a red flag
She has xx chromosomes- red flag!
“I’m not like that…. Red Flag; Oh yes she is
She starts reeling of her past sexual history and “relationships” like a grocery list; without you even asking! Red Flag; serious slut with mental health issues
She doesn’t have any real interests or hobbies Red Flag: She’s a boring s~~~ head without a life!
When she starts a sentence with, “To be honest….. Red Flag; every word prior to that was/is basically a lie…generally, she lies
Lol my last ex right here described perfectly. Basically if a woman tries to hammer home a certain point over and over…ITS A LIE. This one would constantly tell me how honest she was, until the day I called her out on multiple lies…and her reply was “I’m honest to a fault…ask my dad!” Seriously, I just called you out on multiple lies and I’m supposed to double check with your dad…bitch you just got called out right to your face, it doesn’t matter if daddy is going to cover for you, because quite frankly I care about your dad even less than you! I don’t care if you tell me your honest 1000 times, if you can’t just show me your honest I’m not interested. She’s also the reason I’ll never knowingly get serious with a girl with a high partner count again. The sex was great, but, after a couple months she just couldn’t hold back all the baggage from all her past relationships…and of course she was the victim in every single one of them.
My red flags to add.
1. High partner count. It f~~~s with their head. They obviously have no trouble getting dick, you are very replaceable in their mind. Obvious girl power feminists here…if guys can f~~~ around so can I!
2. If they admit to one night stands. See above. This is the tell tale sign of a retarded feminist slut. Maybe if it was one drunken night in college followed by great regret…but proceed with great caution because it probably was more than once.
3. Victim mentality. Nothing is ever their fault, everything bad in their life is due to uncontrollable circumstances.
4. Loving to complain, but not willing to do anything to improve what they complain about even when you offer to help.
5. She ever makes any claim about being raped. Unless she got straight up beaten and violated in back of a dumpster somewhere by some random guy kind of raped, she has mental issues. And even if it was straight up violent, forceful rape, she probably has mental issues.
I am only going to list red flags from personal experience:
– When she suddenly starts dressing up for her job like she’s going out
– When her phone starts beeping with messages like never before
– When she starts thinking it’s OK to go out to a club by herself
– When you see restaraunt charges on your joint account
– When she tells you a secret about her sister cheating on her husband with admiration in her eyes and then fake-shames her trying to talk her way out of this
– When she dyes her hair in color she knows you don’t like
– When she pierces her tongueproud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome
Anonymous42If a girl is flirting with you or otherwise displaying interest in you, but they have a boyfriend – red flag. If they are willing to cheat on their boyfriend with you, they are willing to cheat on you with anyone else.
This is especially so (probably beyond red flag territory) if you find out she has a boyfriend through indirect means (like through social media, or from the boyfriend himself). It only serves to magnify the problems above, but also has the potential to cause all sorts of other problems. Such a girl has no regard for you or her boyfriend when she is acting in such a dishonest manner.
I suppose it makes sense that it is such an effective means for them to get guys to leave them alone. It is probably the most obvious and palpable of red flags. It shows such blatant disregard for all male parties involved. Often girls using this flag say that the reason guys will leave them alone is because they respect that she is claimed by another man. Maybe if she were dealing with a mangina this would be true, but there is more to it. She disrespects me by wasting my time and shows such disrespect to her boyfriend by flirting with me in the first place. She gives no respect, and as such is not worthy of respect.
If they use this technique even though they don’t have a boyfriend – still red flag. Outwardly, it seems as though they do have a boyfriend. Why else would they say they do? But if they are lying about this, what else would they lie about? Anything is on the table when it comes to girls using this line. They undertake any action that they feel suits their interests.
In my experience, the giveaway signs that she is sleeping with someone else are as follows :
1)Always making excuses not to have sex
2)She says “I love you, I am just not in love with you”.
3)Joining a gym, losing weight, buying lots of new clothes.
4)Mobile phone is locked and never out of her sight.
5)Makes comments about needing space.
6)Constantly receiving messages on her phone.
7)Wanting to be out all the time with friends, probably friends you have never heard mentioned before…..
8)Constantly on Facebook posting selfies.
9)loses total interest in doing any everyday, mundane chores such as cooking and cleaning etc.
Think that pretty much covers it. Whenever you see a post on a messageboard about a guy who is worried about his wife/girlfriends suspicious behavior it will generally follow this pattern. I can usually tell they are cheating on him within the first post.
For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
When she accuses you of cheating when she is — its a red flag
Me being a slightly older gentleman, it has taken a number of years and certain experiences to get this concept through my thick head. You really have to listen to the other person and hear what they are saying…..more specifically females, they tend to reveal information indirectly 😉 As a matter of fact, the really naive ones end up hanging themselves – so to speak.
If another person (male/female) suggests or accuses you of an action that you haven’t done, would never think of doing and/or there is no reason for the accusation and they bring it up on a regular basis. It is a very good indication that have, or are involved in that similar act. When the accusation is made and you’re thinking “where the f~~~ did that come from and why? “. It is probably an 80% plus chance, that is it projection from them…..
A women I was just starting to see a while back, said to me “it wouldn’t matter is there were 5 (women) before me“. We are talking a short time frame here too…not years between each partner of fling etc……BAM!!! she was referring to herself. And to really put the nail in her coffin she follows up with “ you know ! you’ve just got to put yourself “out there” to find someone”
Slut factor went up to 8/10
Another favorite: “there was no commitment (with Mr Male), it was just “FUN”……hmmm and after that piece of enlightening information you gave me, you expect me to take you seriously ?
F~~~ me, if he just had fun with you…then that’s what I want too…..pump and dump baby 🙂
Red Flags or alarm bells ringing in your head, is intuition tell you something is serious wrong…and if keeps eating away at you…it is time to hit the road and run. Your sub-conscience is SPOT ON!!!
Apologies for the long post
She physically strikes you in any manner that is not playful.
This is a good one. I knew this girl who would put her finger tips (nails) in a glass of ice water – like, in a restaurant = and FLICK it at me across the table, thinking she was being cute and “playful”. She was insane. Cute as hell (23) but certifiably insane. She would take a sip out of a drink and blow it through the straw at me. I didn’t stand for it, but she behaved like I was being unreasonable. She would punch me on the shoulder if I said something funny. Like , “OMG!! YOU ARE HILARIOUS!!!!!” PUNCH ….. even while I was driving!
She would do sit like this JUST to annoy. If I told her to stop, she would. But she would do it AGAIN!
So one day (we worked at a night club together) she did the drink-flicking thing again.
I grabbed a bartenders container of cranberry juice and poured the entire thing over her head in front of everyone. A gallon at least.THAT’s when she stopped. What a c~~~.
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Other red flags I can think of…
• Black, or green nail polish = Pussy stinks.
• Big clunky black shoes and boyish footwear (like army surplus boots) = Totally unfeminine. Don’t even bother.
• S~~~ they say, Like “I don’t need a man” = Agree and amplify
• Facebook friend requests or desire to communicate electronically instead of personally = Attention whore. Ignore.
• Single Mom = HUGE red flag. I dated 7 for more than a date. Never again.
• If she doesn’t let you drive.
• When she changes the music or programming in your home (or car) without asking.,.. or if she says “I wanna listen to this” and just does it.
• Saying “You should…. “. There is absolutely no reason for a woman to tell you what you SHOULD do. Not only is it extremely arrogant and she thinks she knows better than you, but she thinks she knows better about what’s best for YOU.
• Beginning alot of sentences with “honestly” or “to tell you the truth”. She is announcing she is about to lie to you. Yes it’s just an expression, but I have never been wrong about this.
• “OMG your place is SO CLEAN!!!!”. Sounds like a compliment to you, but she just exposed herself. She lives like a pig. BOOM! You know she is not marriageable. The only kind of female who you can consider is one who doesn’t comment at all, because she EXPECTS it to be clean.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.Every single woman will say this: “If you loved me, you would <insert ultimatum>.”
I respond with “If you loved me, you wouldn’t be giving me ultimatums. We’re done. Bye.”
Any woman whose online dating profile says….The translation to this when put into freetranslation.com is:
“I’m an emotional train wreck who never grew up.”
Unfortunately there are fools out there who try and pursue the tens of thousands of women online who have this exact comment in there profile. A smart man will instead go to the bar and pull her for a fling. Why waste the time dating (AKA spending $100+ on a stranger) this wild party animal when she gives it out for free at the bar…
Also some of my personal favorites from dating/conversations with women:
“I really just need to meet a sugar daddy” – Helen, the 21 year old restaurant server with an associates degree.
“Men need to be perfect to be dateable” – Gail, my 54 year old neighbor who lives on disability in a condo her dad owns. (Her boyfriend is currently in Orange County Jail).
“I deserve to have men buy me drinks, I’m a hot chick.” Samantha, a 21 year old friend with benefits I pulled at the bar. She was slightly below average looking with 32DD’s, 5’6, 95 pounds. I almost laughed at her when she made that comment.
“Where are all the good men at. I want to have kids. I’m already 31.” My friends cousin who was the only girl I’ve dated in the last 4 years that I wanted to keep around. She gave me the “its not you, its me” and then started banging some abusive dude she met at an airport bar from Madison, Wisconsin.
Some of Christine’s best include, “He is such a nice guy when he’s sober, I don’t get it.” “I’ve never been abused like that before. I was sure he was going to hit me.” “He was so abusive he put me on Xanex.” She’s a complete lunatic. I’m glad I got to watch from the sidelines
When she says “ooo you’re cute, whats your name?” – that is the biggest red flag of them all, because that means the cycle that ultimate leads to divorce, loss of 50-75% of your assets and becoming a camping ground for your kids 6-8 days a month has now begun.
So one day (we worked at a night club together) she did the drink-flicking thing again. I grabbed a bartenders container of cranberry juice and poured the entire thing over her head in front of everyone. A gallon at least.
Holy crap. I laughed so hard my lungs hurt. That was absolutely priceless.
With all these Red Flags one has to just wonder why men on mass, don’t just GTOW.
The only conclusion I can come up with is that Pussy is the most lethal and most addictive drug known to man.
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