Leaving a tip at a restaurant

[phoenixgod1995Participant 3352]

I mean I leave a tip sometimes at Restaurants like D’Arcy’s and Beirgarten.

Marriage and Divorce for a man is like getting a cactus shoved up your ass. It’s painful with all the spines that go in and it is painful getting all the spines out, meanwhile Wifey gets most of the money, your home, your kids, and practically everything you own.

[Anonymous 5]

Some of you dudes worry too much about the blue/red pill s~~~.

Tipping at a restaurant is now blue pill? LMFAO!

It have nothing to do with women, God. Men work at restaurant too, for f~~~ sake.

Nobody gives a f~~~ if you tip or not.

And I have no problem tipping a woman. As long as she treats me good.

Get over y’all selves!

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

From 11 to 13 I had a paper route. We depended on tips to make most of our money. We were careful to give as good a service as we could to maximize tipping…the point of tipping.

From 14 to 16 I worked as a bus boy getting a percentage of the waitresses tips. They were all pooled at the end of the night and 10% or something went to the bus boys.

When I was 16 to 18 I got a job as a parking lot attendant at a fancy country club and made big tips. It was also a golf course and the people were very generous and the work environment friendly. It was the best job I ever had. We depended solely on tips and I made a lot of money because I ran when I could have walked and worked hard to please the customer.

There was one member who never tipped. One day we was a hot summer day and we all tried to hold our urine. Then, later that night, we all p~~~ed in his gas tank taking turns. I’m not proud of that (yes I am). But there are down sides to not tipping.

From 18 to 22 I worked part time as a door man and parking lot attendant at a fancy restaurant in NYC to supplement my college loans.

People that don’t tip are cheap skates. It’s ok to be a cheap skate, but watch your food for special ingredients.

Tips are part of the bill. Just because the owner doesn’t pay enough doesn’t mean the reality that they depend on tips is still true.

In other countries it isn’t like this but in the U.S. it is.

I always tip in cash because then they don’t need to pay taxes.

Starve the beast.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[Anonymous 42]

The more greed and selfishness I’m exposed to the more it dehydrates my generosity, now I stand in a parched desert of endless sand.

No, I do not tip.

I don’t eat a restaurants, I’m a better cook and I purchase better food. Restaurants are for beastly greedy hogs that thrive on other’s poverty and suffering, like lawyers and their ilk. They should starve for the suffering they cause and injustice they maintain.

I was once upon a time generous in the tens of thousands of dollars, in my time of need and difficulty these same people I was shunned, ridiculed, and abandoned. it was like someone threw a light switch, the chameleons changed their colors from verbal gratitude to ridicule in the blink of an eye as my circumstance had gone from acceptionally good to impoverished over night, they changed in lockstep with my downfall. Not even an ounce of sympathy, leave alone dollar one.

Now I’m a heartless hardened bastard that has shunned the repulsive thought that a man can have caring family or more than one or two good friends.

My charity has been swindled away by these same people I thought were my family and friends.

A man is truly alone in this world and better learn that fact for his own survival, security, happiness, and prosperity.

These same treacherous family members and friends have been thrown into Tower hell to burn for the rest of their lives, they maxed my ability to forgive and forget as their branding has scorched my heart to ashes in the wind…

I’ve never been tipped in my life, perhaps I should return the favor?

[JB BooksParticipant 3182]

Jesus H. Christ – is this Reservoir Dogs?? This isn’t a red pill/blue pill issue. The restaurant doesn’t pay enough without patrons providing tips if the service is good. That’s the structure. If you can’t afford to leave a decent tip for good service, you can’t afford to eat there.

We just don't realize life's most significant events while they're happening. Back then, I thought, "Well, there'll be other days". I didn't realize that that was the only day. - "Moonlight" Graham

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

TIPS is an acronym.

To
Insure
Prompt
Service

If the wait staff doesn’t get this they don’t get this. See what I did there??

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Anonymous 5]

Anonymous wrote:

The more greed and selfishness I’m exposed to the more it dehydrates my generosity, now I stand in a parched desert of endless sand.

No, I do not tip.

I don’t eat a restaurants, I’m a better cook and I purchase better food. Restaurants are for beastly greedy hogs that thrive on other’s poverty and suffering, like lawyers and their ilk. They should starve for the suffering they cause and injustice they maintain.

I was once upon a time generous in the tens of thousands of dollars, in my time of need and difficulty these same people I was shunned, ridiculed, and abandoned. it was like someone threw a light switch, the chameleons changed their colors from verbal gratitude to ridicule in the blink of an eye as my circumstance had gone from acceptionally good to impoverished over night, they changed in lockstep with my downfall. Not even an ounce of sympathy, leave alone dollar one.

Now I’m a heartless hardened bastard that has shunned the repulsive thought that a man can have caring family or more than one or two good friends.

My charity has been swindled away by these same people I thought were my family and friends.

A man is truly alone in this world and better learn that fact for his own survival, security, happiness, and prosperity.

These same treacherous family members and friends have been thrown into Tower hell to burn for the rest of their lives, they maxed my ability to forgive and forget as their branding has scorched my heart to ashes in the wind…

I’ve never been tipped in my life, perhaps I should return the favor?

I’mma screenshot this. Gold!!

[OneTrueMisfitSpectator 2690]

I mentioned bluepill because it is like walking around blind and have tried to explain how the “they don’t make enough” argument is bulls~~~ and yet post after post that is what people have said.

Such as the pizza delivery driver she makes more money than me because of tips. We get paid the same hourly wage.

Besides that the argument is s~~~ because no one is forcing them to work there.

And yes sometimes men receive tips. Sometimes manginas are worse than women also. Usually it is single moms who need this tip money for their little one so they can survive or their college debt.. boohoo wah wah

Don't care

[Anonymous 5]

OneTrueMisfit wrote:

I mentioned bluepill because it is like walking around blind and have tried to explain how the “they don’t make enough” argument is bulls~~~ and yet post after post that is what people have said.

Such as the pizza delivery driver she makes more money than me because of tips. We get paid the same hourly wage.

Besides that the argument is s~~~ because no one is forcing them to work there.

And yes sometimes men receive tips. Sometimes manginas are worse than women also. Usually it is single moms who need this tip money for their little one so they can survive or their college debt.. boohoo wah wah

Ain’t you a “Christian”?

I thought Christ said to give, as he gave his life on the cross for our sins, or am I wrong?

Or, maybe, you just take the things you agree with out of the Bible, and discard the rest, huh?

Pharisee!

[ViciouscunningtreacherousParticipant 823]

I think the OP has a point in that tipping as it is now with weemins being the main recipients, have used it for yet another area of manipulation of men. They know that if they dress like a slut, wear a push up bra and act flirty, that they can get some pussy begger to kick down large coin. I’ve known quite a few like this. There is one place near me that has all their wait staff female and half have fake t~~~. Just for the f~~~ of it, I asked two of them if the boobs helped. They said definitely. I used to tip for the same blue pill reasons. This one would so obviously pay more sexual attention to me the larger the tip. She even told the other girls that I was hers when I came in to eat. When I realised that I was just being a PB, I stopped. Now she doesn’t have the time of day for me. And her service always sucked. Again, the red pill is difficult to assimilate but completely necessary. The other night, I tipped a bus boy because he went and got a napkin for me when the “waitbitch” was nowhere to be found. My whole thought process is changing on so many things. I now see the subtle conditioning everywhere.

For in much wisdom is much grief, and he who increases knowledge increases sorrow.

[KolaxisParticipant 668]

If you’re going to eat somewhere or have delivery from a certain place with any regularity at all, you tip. You don’t screw with the people who handle your food and drinks. “I saved some money by not tipping and bucking the system!” Good for you. My pizza doesn’t have semen and/or saliva in it.

Jackie: How do you write women so well?
Melvin Udall: I think of a man and I take away reason and accountability.

[TrailbossParticipant 1844]

How ’bout you just play the “tip” game your way and those of us who believe otherwise will play it our way….I do tip, occasionally. If I am getting delivery food from a place I use regularly, I will tip to ensure the guy remembers me and he works harder to get my chow to me hot and fast. It works. If I am eating out, my “tip” is my financial commentary on the waiter/waitc~~~ress performance. Treat me like s~~~: You get s~~~. Treat me well, I’ll throw ya a couple bucks. I have NO problem walking away, leaving only a few cents (literally) on the table to protest crappy service. And I absolutely f~~~ing LOVE IT when the waitc~~~ress complains! “Excuse me Sir…was there a problem with the service”? And I may, or may not, turn around when I address her and say “Yes…it was awful”! in front of everyone else. Because if *I* do that…you bet your ass it was bad service. Had many an insult hurled at my back as I vacate a place with bad service…Don’t care!

An educated, armed populace cannot be enslaved.

[OneTrueMisfitSpectator 2690]

Anonymous wrote:

Ain’t you a “Christian”?

I thought Christ said to give, as he gave his life on the cross for our sins, or am I wrong?

Or, maybe, you just take the things you agree with out of the Bible, and discard the rest, huh?

Pharisee!

Lol youre funny. I said sometimes I do tip but generously when I feel like it not because I feel obligated to like most people.

As far as the Christian thing to do it would be more about giving to the needy and these people aren’t needy. They are making bank and that is why they do it. I’ve tried pointing that out numerous times.

I’d like to tip with my fist. That’s what I’d like to do.

And guys who are saying tip for good service and don’t for bad, when you don’t tip IT LOOKS BAD ON YOU. They don’t say.. oh I did a s~~~ty job, they say YOU’RE A F~~~ING ASSHOLE. they are greedy pricks who make bank, making more than people doing the same or harder work SUCH AS THE COOKS and they EXPECT that tip because society has manipulated people into giving it.

Don't care

[HermitParticipant]

SpiderHerder wrote:

I only tip waiters/waitresses because it’s customary.

That’s how it works. In some countries you don’t tip, in others you do.

You seem to be making a big deal out of nothing. Just sayin’.

Exactly, it’s customary.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[OneTrueMisfitSpectator 2690]

Viciouscunningtreacherous wrote:

weemins being the main recipients, have used it for yet another area of manipulation of men.

YES! You get it. Excellent post.

Don't care

[HermitParticipant]

sidecar wrote:

Tipping is how you train waitstaff. Always tip based on their performance.

I have a friend who leaves 15 cents for bad service. He says it sends a better message than not leaving a tip at all which may be misunderstood as being a cheap bastard.

I go to a local steak place that has a small lounge and the bar tender there also waits tables. I’ve rarely seen a harder worker in the industry. I tip him well and he always takes very good care of me. He even slides me a free shot once in a while. You pay well, you get good service. You’re a cheap bastard, expect poor service.

Besides, when the bill is $40.00, $60.00, or more, what’s an extra five or ten bucks? Like has been said on here, if you can’t afford to tip, you shouldn’t go out to eat.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[OneTrueMisfitSpectator 2690]

Hermit wrote:

if you can’t afford to tip, you shouldn’t go out to eat

Total f~~~ing bulls~~~.

If you can’t afford the BILL, the agreement you are obligated to pay, you should not go out to eat. Tips are EXTRA. AND the cooks in the back sure as f~~~ arent getting a tip.

Don't care

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

Never seen someone get this p~~~ed off about paying an extra 10%-20% of a bill. Your caps lock also seems to be malfunctioning.

[Anonymous 5]

Samsquanch wrote:

Never seen someone get this p~~~ed off about paying an extra 10%-20% of a bill. Your caps lock also seems to be malfunctioning.

He’s a cheap Christian bastard.

[WPLParticipant 2390]

There’s a chain of restaurants near me with signs posted that read: “We pay our employees well — tipping is not customary or expected.” I don’t know what salary they pay their people, but the waitstaff are, as a general rule, as fast and as friendly as any I’ve met at any other sit-down style restaurant.

That said, I don’t go out to eat very often; I try to limit myself to once per week to save money. When I do go out, I almost always frequent the same local diner. I do tip the people there rather generously. As has been said, it’s a reward for performance. And when I do go there, I often like to sit for a while after my meal. Even when it’s been busy, not once have I ever been bothered about that.

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