Just pulled out of engagement

[WiseguyParticipant 131]

Hi guys. Was engaged for a year and just blew it off. I’d lasted until 44 to succumb to marriage but as soon as I’d become engaged I stated having panic attacks about all the boredom and possible ruin that awaited me . Blew it all off two weeks ago and the minute I ended it I instantly felt myself again . Screw that death sentence!

Just introducing myself !

[Anonymous 54]

Welcome and congratulations!!!!All 15000 of us can be your best Man for your oh f~~~ it ceremony!!

[WiseguyParticipant 131]

Thanks man I fee totally at peace for the first time in a year. I’m so excited about the rest of my life again!

All it cost me was the ring but a small price to pay for freedom.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

You apparently did the math, Wiseguy. Married @ 44. Spend a few years “enjoying” being a married couple. Woman gets severe case of baby rabies, and gets knocked up. You’re teaching some spoiled brat how to drive a car when you should be retired.
And that’s the BEST scenario.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

YES YES YES YES YES

its takes a lot of courage to call off an engagement

congragulations….

welcome sir!
i’m glad you found the path to freedom

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[WiseguyParticipant 131]

She was 31 , very cute and all that , wanted kids but I really wasn’t keen .

So happy to be back to my happy go lucky self

[WiseguyParticipant 131]

Hell yeah it was a brutal move. So much pressure to follow through.

Hardest decision I’ve ever made but definitely the right one.

[Anonymous 42]

Hey Keymaster! MGTOW OF THE DAY? WEEK? MONTH! Welcome wised-up-guy!

BEST INTRO EVER!

CONGRATULATIONS for your sane decision!

FNK nice when a new member shows up with a his own starboard extended and missing 1 cannon ball, 1 shackle, and a length of chain!

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

Wiseguy wrote:

Hi guys. Was engaged for a year and just blew it off. I’d lasted until 44 to succumb to marriage but as soon as I’d become engaged I stated having panic attacks about all the boredom and possible ruin that awaited me . Blew it all off two weeks ago and the minute I ended it I instantly felt myself again . Screw that death sentence!

Just introducing myself !

Good job brother welcome to the forums!

[WiseguyParticipant 131]

You know what made me see the Light? An old site called nowife.com with many stories of woe from married guys all saying “don’t do it!”.

That led me to this community .

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Can you feel that?

Can you feel how much weight and pressure is off your shoulders now?

You life is about to exponentially improve.

Well done.

[WiseguyParticipant 131]

Sure can mate. I was a mess of anxiety and depression. It INSTANTLY disappeared the moment I ended our relationship.

Now I get to do what I want to do .

Sure it’s very quiet in the house right now but I’m going to do what a friend of mine does and rent the spare room on air-bnb to European backpacker women. Good times await!

[hellraiderParticipant 2837]

you really dodged a major bullet there, congratulations.

[Anonymous 1]

you’ve shed the shackles of misery and despair……not to mention financial destruction.

congrats mate.

[Anonymous 42]

Wiseguy wrote:

I’m going to do what a friend of mine does and rent the spare room on air-bnb to European backpacker women. Good times await!

Hey Wiseguy, have you lost your mind? Vapid trollops in your “home”? Place of Domicile?

Build a separate cement block structure with indestructible hardware and pluming with each room having painted concrete floors with center drains and a fire hose that reaches everywhere for a thorough wash-down like they do in a zoo, otherwise I wouldn’t let non-inoculated diseased carrying human animals and their parasites in my home without moving out and spending all my profits on repairs and clean-up services…

Travelers+ home= destruction.

Not to mention the games, drama, and you being craftily held hostage under the thread of legal action. Inviting European dregs into your home sounds like a regrettable choice.

hellraider wrote:

you really dodged a major bullet there, congratulations.

Out of the frying pan and renting his house to the fire.

[bobphiloParticipant 1772]

Wiseguy wrote:

Thanks man I fee totally at peace for the first time in a year. I’m so excited about the rest of my life again!

All it cost me was the ring but a small price to pay for freedom.

Glad you dodged that bullet and welcome. You may have a legal right to the ring. In some states it reverts to the man if the engagement is off.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Welcome and CONGRATULATIONS! Good move. Dude it’s tough especially when they’re much younger and hot. I got trapped – at 54 – same age girl 32 yrs old . 2 yrs later I’m a mess. But there’s light at the end of the tunnel – and it’s a yellow MGTOW sign.

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

Congratulations! You are a very wise man to listen to the advice of those who have been through the trap of marriage and told you the truth about you would have been getting into. Perhaps a tiny per cent of marriages work out for happy companionship and growth for both the husband and wife, but those odds are not very good when you look at the reality around you.

[UntamedParticipant]

Welcome!
This makes my day! Bravo, Wiseguy!
You told her to take a hike, ha haaaa! I can imagine the look on her face when she realized the pack-mule she was about to load and ride just up and ran off into daybreak and the sweet breeze of Freedom. One less victim of manipulation, mental and emotional abuse, divorce and the blood-sucking courts!

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[experiencedParticipant]

Wiseguy wrote:

Thanks man I fee totally at peace for the first time in a year. I’m so excited about the rest of my life again!

Wiseguy wrote:

She…wanted kids but I really wasn’t keen.
So happy to be back to my happy go lucky self.

Congratulations on the wise decision.
That’s why it’s called engagement-you were not married to her.

BE CAREFUL for the next few weeks/months. She will play it as though it were 80 years ago long before no fault divorce.

It’s like the stock market, when trying to be honest with yourself and asking, if I didn’t own this stock now, would I buy it: if the answer is ‘no’ then it’s time to consider selling. I think you made the right decision.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

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