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According to her, the reason for her divorce was verbal and physical abuse, and more importantly, a husband who was into and forced her to engage in cuckoldry.
Horse S~~~.
Nailed it, Solo Man. š
Nil Desperandum, don’t believe what this woman is telling you. Not for a single instant. She is lying. I would bet every last dollar I have on it.
"Are you loosed from a wife? Do not seek a wife." --Apostle Paul
According to her, the reason for her divorce was verbal and physical abuse, and more importantly, a husband who was into and forced her to engage in cuckoldry.
Look at what YOU WROTE “According to her”. To me this means that at some level YOU’RE NOT quite sure if she’s being 100% honest with you. Maybe, the way you worded it was unintentional or maybe there’s a part of you that questions it?
For example, if you didn’t have that little voice inside your head saying that she might be full of s~~~ then you would have just left out the whole “According to her”, and just wrote the statement “The reason for her divorce was…… ”
Personally, If this whole thing doesn’t send up huge RED FLAGS, I really just don’t know how much more you need?
I’m not even talking about the “kiss”, but the whole looking to get married to you while she didn’t even divorce the last guy while at the same time admitting to be a cum dumpster/cuckold for who knows for how many men and for how long.
THIS is what you want to INVEST YOUR ENTIRE LIFE INTO ????????????????????????????
Like NONE of this bothered you, but a “kiss” from long ago set you off???
It has always amazed me how much the Blue Pill can and does f~~~ up a Man’s ability to think rationally and logically, and in my opinion your thinking is INCREDIBLY F~~~ED UP.
YOU REALLY NEED A LOT OF RED PILLS !!!
CAN’T YOU SEE HOW F~~~ED UP ALL THIS SOUNDS????
Hey, maybe it’s just me….. But hey, do what you want because if it’s not this one then there will just be another.
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During this trip, in the conversation, she admitted that she kissed Chad before breaking up with me.
that it was ājust a kiss,ā and I have already established that she has lied to my face multiple times, so she could be lying about this as well.
Ding ding.
I’m pretty sure his glans was kissing her cervix. I’m not 100% sure, but I’m pretty sure rain is wet, and fire is hot.
All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.
… her marriage was currently on the rocks and she was separated.
She’s a burnt out whore looking for another sucker. That’s you, by the way.
She says that she is ādone,ā that losing me means sheās lost all hope for being happy, all hope of having kids with me and starting a family, and she has said that she is suicidal.
This is emotional blackmail of the most vicious kind. This alone gives you her measure.
She’s garbage. Get rid of her, because if you don’t she will destroy you.
It sounds like you have a severe case of one-itis. You have worked yourself up into believing that this woman is that special one and that youāre somehow meant to be together. Donāt fall into this trap. Your story is no different from a million others, where women contacted their old boyfriends looking to restart something. Women are hypergamous. They monkey branch. But sometimes they miss the next branch up and fall to the ground. So they have to start over. Donāt be flattered thinking that this woman loves you; she is just using you as her first ābranchā again.
Not just that but the monkey that hit the ground hard like her is not going to jump first for the high branches… she is going to go for what she PERCEIVES to be the low hanging branch first… the easy mark.
Its now 13 years later… YOU are the prize not her. Men past the age of 30/35 are on an upward trajectory; women are on the downward trajectory, if they haven’t hit the Wall already outright. Why do you want to invest relationship “dollars” into something that is depreciating?
I don’t normally advocate hookers, but you should do something like go to Thailand, and have two or three 19-year old hot Thai girls f~~~ you like it is your last week on Earth. That might be enough to kill the “one-itis” infection you seem to have.
All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.
⦠her marriage was currently on the rocks and she was separated.
Sheās a burnt out whore looking for another sucker. Thatās you, by the way.
She says that she is ādone,ā that losing me means sheās lost all hope for being happy, all hope of having kids with me and starting a family, and she has said that she is suicidal.
This is emotional blackmail of the most vicious kind. This alone gives you her measure.
Sheās garbage. Get rid of her, because if you donāt she will destroy you.+100. Keep reading this until it sinks in. And then read it some more.
Order the good wine
To add further… you don’t trust her.
Trust is fundamental to ANY relationship: business, friends, romantic relations. Trust is the foundation.
If the trust is not there and the foundation is on a swamp, your relationship will be a curiosity at best, like the Leaning Tower of Pisa, for people to gawk at and point at.
All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.
Thanks for the different opinion, you are basically saying that itās better to go with the devil I know than the devil(s) I donāt if my goal is to get married and have kids.
To this, I would strongly urge you to ask yourself, Why do I want kids?
Most men in all of human history were not fathers. In our modern, 21st century western lifestyle, most people have the opportunity to sire children, but this is a historical anomaly brought on by false prosperity and a decadent culture. Do not fall into the trap of thinking that you must father children in order to be a real man.
So why do you want to have kids?
1. To experience the joy of having children who love you? That is a possibility, but what are the odds that you will only see them on weekends and that they may become completely estranged from you because of the restraining order and parental alienation tactics your future ex-wife will bestow upon you?2. To pass on your legacy? Please. No one cares. How many people know a damn thing about their great-grandfather? How many people do things in order to venerate the memory of their grandfather or even father? We are not royalty and very few people will remember you when you are gone. You can view it as the āharsh truthā if you like, but personally I find it freeing not to chain myself to non-existent laws of ālegacy.ā3. To pass on your genes? This is an even worse idea. There is nothing special about your genes. The human race will carry on just fine without your genes, and without mine.4. To do your duty to societyās replacement birthrate? Your contributions are a drop in the bucket. They wonāt be missed. In fact, you are likely to add to the problem if your kids end up becoming problems in society due to them being raised by a single mother in the end. Statistics show that these kids are a net drain on society.
There is meaning and significance to having children, but it is only within the context of tremendous selflessness and wisdom. So far, based on your story, I doubt you have these traits. If you end up having children with this woman, it is incredibly selfish of you to give your future children a mother like that, who has a 99.99% chance of wrecking your marriage and raising your children as a single mom. Single moms are among the most selfish human beings on the planet. Donāt create another one.
You are not thinking straight when it comes to having children. You are thinking of this whole idea in an entirely self-centered way. You are afraid of what YOUR life will be like if you are lonely. You are afraid of how YOU will feel if you miss your chance. You are focused on YOUR feelings about being cucked. You are afraid of what YOU will feel like if you get cheated on.
Do you think you are anywhere near the right frame of mind to consider bringing children into your mess of self-centeredness?
There is nothing more harmful to a child than a selfish parent.
If you want children, your number one priority is to stop being selfish, and stop giving any attention to selfish women. The woman you have described is entirely, 100% selfish. Having children with her would be entirely, 100% selfish of you. DONāT DO IT.
Iām giving it to you straight here because the consequences are dire. Please understand that I am trying to give you the best wisdom that I know. You cannot undo having children. There is no reset button. It is far better to be childless than to bring another dysfunctional child into the world because you and the mother were too selfish to look to the childās best interests above all else.According to her, the reason for her divorce was verbal and physical abuse, and more importantly, a husband who was into and forced her to engage in cuckoldry.
Horse S~~~.

⦠her marriage was currently on the rocks and she was separated.
Sheās a burnt out whore looking for another sucker. Thatās you, by the way.
She says that she is ādone,ā that losing me means sheās lost all hope for being happy, all hope of having kids with me and starting a family, and she has said that she is suicidal.
This is emotional blackmail of the most vicious kind. This alone gives you her measure.
Sheās garbage. Get rid of her, because if you donāt she will destroy you.

Anonymous5I have a hard time believing this is a real story. Its too formulaic, too predictable, too blue-pill wish porny, at least to me.
Yes, it sounds like one of the trolls that have constantly trolled this site from the beginning.
They fancy themselves as masters of delusional penmanship but they’re just catfish getting an attention fix.
It’s definitely a female, a decrepit hag at that, who has no other way of getting attention. Her threads and posts have been have been a series of episodes of Days of Our Lives from the start. She’d be leaking p~~~ into her old tampons at all this attention she’s getting from so many men.She’s definitely been following the boards too with this comment
I do appreciate your comments thus far. But you and your alien can f~~~ off now. Thanks.
I’ve got a good idea who it is but this entrenched troll seems to have a loyal fan base on here.
Only a woman (OP) would consider having children (as proxy income) with another woman who was staying with her boyfriend over the holiday period, and dropping acid, and getting constantly drunk with, while her children were WHERE???? at her age????
She sounds like typical single mother material to me.
Or, if she hasn’t got any children after a 10 year marriage,,,,WTF?Of course, the OP will have perfectly rational explanations for all these points that she forgot to mention before, or didn’t think were relevant. (and I’m going to be shamed for even daring to mention any of the insane inconsistencies, lol)
Even Carnage gave great advice…Ultimately it is YOUR choice…You cant blame anyone but yourself for the things you went into…That is the hard truth of being a MAN…Read what others have been through and decide…As long as you are here, we will take a swing at you with the hard truth borne out of our experience…Either you learn or you dont, it is your choice…
The way I see it, you know deep down that you are f~~~ed. Your mind is already f~~~ed. Tell me if every time you think her voice is also in your head? Solo Man nailed it with just that comment. It was brilliant. Focus on yourself and look at it like a business…Whats the benefit to you?
Sometimes you need the hard truth smacked in your face before its too late, because the ass raping from the divorce court would give you plenty of red pill suppositories..Just saying…Still it is YOUR choice…good luck…
I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...
I have a hard time believing this is a real story. Its too formulaic, too predictable, too blue-pill wish porny, at least to me.
Yes, it sounds like one of the trolls that have constantly trolled this site from the beginning.They fancy themselves as masters of delusional penmanship but theyāre just catfish getting an attention fix.Itās definitely a female, a decrepit hag at that who has no other way of getting attention. Her threads and posts have been have been a series of episodes of Days of Our Lives from the start.
Sheās definitely been following the boards too with this commentI do appreciate your comments thus far. But you and your alien can f~~~ off now. Thanks.
Iāve got a good idea who it is but this entrenched troll seems to have a loyal fan base on here.
Only a woman (OP) would consider having children (as proxy income) with another woman who was staying with her boyfriend over the holiday period, and dropping acid, and getting constantly drunk with, while her children were WHERE???? at her age????She sounds like typical single mother material to me.Or, if she hasnāt got any children after a 10 year marriage,,,,WTF?
Of course, the OP will have perfectly rational explanations for all these points that she forgot to mention before, or didnāt think were relevant. (and Iām going to be shamed for even daring to mention any of the insane inconsistencies, lol)Never been called a decrepit hag before. Like I said before, the post is 100% true (what’s with this paranoia on fake posts??). I’ve only written 3 posts here, two intros and this one.
To those that have taken the time to give me advice, know that I truly appreciate it.
If this woman is separated and you have sex with her, isn’t she cheating on her current husband with you?
You said you wanted kids and a family…..this bitch ain’t the one dude. There are plenty of single women out there if you want to go down that road(I strongly recommend against this)
Dont walk away from this serial cheater…..run! I speak from experience.Never been called a decrepit hag before. Like I said before, the post is 100% true (whatās with this paranoia on fake posts??). Iāve only written 3 posts here, two intros and this one.
Hey i too was called tuna on here once . Mgtow can be a ruff place at times and is not for everyone . So if i was you turn this into a positive . TURN ON YOUR NO F~~~S GIVEN SWITCH . Turn anticlock wise (look at things from different perspective’s) . Learn . NEVER ignore your own demons where in life one has done wrong example . MOVE ON . Woman always say that and so does the media .
Welcome to mgtow
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Stop pause (waves white flag)The goal of the “long” term troll is for us to not trust any new commer . And deter new commers from writing here .
Ok lets say this guy is a tuna . He has written a story weather true or not has S~~~ LOADS OF POSITIVES .TAKE AND TURN INTO POSITIVES FOR OTHERS .
Yes i too have been guilty .
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Ok carry on sorry for interrupting
Lol
THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .
Never been called a decrepit hag before. Like I said before, the post is 100% true (whatās with this paranoia on fake posts??). Iāve only written 3 posts here, two intros and this one.
Hey i too was called tuna on here once . Mgtow can be a ruff place at times and is not for everyone . So if i was you turn this into a positive . TURN ON YOUR NO F~~~S GIVEN SWITCH . Turn anticlock wise (look at things from different perspectiveās) . Learn . NEVER ignore your own demons where in life one has done wrong example . MOVE ON . Woman always say that and so does the media .
Welcome to mgtowā¦ā¦ā¦ā¦ā¦ā¦ā¦ā¦ā¦ā¦ā¦ā¦ā¦Stop pause (waves white flag)
The goal of the ālongā term troll is for us to not trust any new commer . And deter new commers from writing here .
Ok lets say this guy is a tuna . He has written a story weather true or not has S~~~ LOADS OF POSITIVES .TAKE AND TURN INTO POSITIVES FOR OTHERS .
Yes i too have been guilty .
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Ok carry on sorry for interrupting
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LolCook the man some eggs!
Hello MGTOWers,
My current girlfriend and I dated in college. We met Freshman year, and dated through Senior year. Four months after our college graduation in 2004, she told me that if I didnāt want to commit to her fully, she wanted to give other people a chance. I said that that would be ok, and she broke up with me and proceeded to date someone else (ironically named āChadā) from October 2004 to March 2005. In March 2005, she reached out to me again, but I was dating someone new at the time so I told her I wasnāt available. That was the last time I heard from her for many yearsā¦
Fast forward to 2015, 11 years after we broke up. I get an email from her saying she just wanted to reach out and see how I was doing. I write back and say Iām ok. She then asks if we can talk on the phone. I acquiesce and say yes. She calls me and we catch up. In these 11 years, I learn that her relationship with Chad ended in March 2005, and that she then got married, and stayed married for 10 years, but that her marriage was currently on the rocks and she was separated. During the conversation, she asks if she can come see me, and again I say yes. The next day, she drove 10 hours to come see me where I live. We went to dinner after she arrived, and that night we f~~~ed for old timeās sake. A few days later, she left and went back home.
I thought that would be the end of it, but slowly but surely she became a more and more important part of my life. It began with more emails, then we started talking on the phone more often, we texted each other more often, I stopped dating other women, I stopped hanging out and talking with friends, until she basically became 95% of my entire social interactions, and established a long-distance relationship. Frequently, she would drive the 10 hours to come see me, and she supported me through difficult times in health and in losses of family members, most notably my dad.
Two days ago, on New Yearās Eve, we decided to drop acid together. During this trip, in the conversation, she admitted that she kissed Chad before breaking up with me. Although it was 14 years ago, I took this extremely personally and got very mad. For starters, she had repeatedly stated that āshe has never cheated on anyoneā and I was āthe love of her life, the person that she dreamed about during her marriage, and that I was the one.ā Instead, not only had she cheated within a relationship before, but she had cheated on me, the so-called ālove of her life,ā and in fact, I was the only one that she had ever cheated on! So in my head, I went from being the ex-boyfriend who she loved the most, to the only person that she has ever cucked within a relationship.
Part of me wants to say that Iām overreacting, that it was ājust a kissā and it took place over 14 years ago. But the more I think about it, the more this argument falls flat on its face; I have to trust her words that it was ājust a kiss,ā and I have already established that she has lied to my face multiple times, so she could be lying about this as well. I am also incensed that she didnāt tell me for 14 years. She didnāt tell me when she broke up with me in 2004, she didnāt tell me when she reached back out in 2015, and only on New Yearās Day of 2019 did I finally find out. In the meantime, since we reconnected, weāve been on trips to the beach, trips to mexico, sheās met my mother, and weāve even tried to have kids. I would have done none of these things with her had I known she had cucked me.
I told her now that I needed some space and that we are broken up. She has been at my house crying basically since New Yearās Eve, apologizing repeatedly, and drowning her sorrows in cigarettes (she usually doesnāt smoke) and alcohol. She says that she is ādone,ā that losing me means sheās lost all hope for being happy, all hope of having kids with me and starting a family, and she has said that she is suicidal.
Although she has been for the most part apologetic, she has on occasion thrown into my face that I have cheated on her as well, but I have pointed out that while I told her that I cheated on her immediately after each event, she waited for 14 years to tell me, and in the meantime lied to me repeatedly about her faithful nature.
I feel like an utter fool, taken advantage of and cucked hard. Basically, all the long term relationships that I have been in have cucked me at some point, and this was the only one that I thought had at least been faithful to me. This girl was the unicorn, the only girl who I had been with for a long amount of time who didnāt cuck me, but that illusion has been unraveled as well.
I now am at a crossroads, once again: one path is to forgive her, and stay with her, because we do greatly enjoy each otherās company, I do believe she loves me and cares about me, and because she is 95% of my social interactions. The other path is to dump her once and for all, because I value my own self-respect and my worth as a person, and I donāt want to be the cuck who accepts her back because Iām afraid to be alone and without friends. In my heart, I am leaning towards dumping her, because as much as I love her, I also love myself, and I would hate myself if I accepted forever being her cuck moving forwards.
I am afraid because I am 37, and I do want to have kids and a family, but I feel my runway is so much shorter now. I am relatively attractive, but my self-esteem is in the dumps, and finding out I was cucked has not contributed favorably to my own self-worth. I have been extremely depressed and even suicidal at times. I cringe at the thought of re-entering the dating pool, a dating pool where I am old, as well as obsolete, as I donāt want to use any apps to meet girls. I am afraid of the void that dropping her out of my life will entail, the complete absence of someone to talk to, and the lack of that support that she brings to the table within this relationship.
I expect this site to pretty much unanimously tell me to kick her to the curb. I welcome any thoughts and considerations as well as advice on how to move on and how to cope with being completely, utterly, and crushingly alone.
Thanks in advance.Im going to say this. A lot of women are not loyal. There may be a few exceptions but that like winning the lottery, except you will have a better chance of winning the lottery. Believe me when I say this. 8/10 times a gf is going to drain you greatly. If you want kids, better to raise a orphan at this point, Not only will you not contribute to the problem of overpopulating the earth, but you are at least giving a kid a home to be raised properly. Plus for sex, at that age if you are at least healthy, have a job, at least look presentable. you can bang 20 year olds and pump and dump them. As for her blaming you for your shortcomings. Well thats her projecting her issues on to you. Take that as a warning that she isn’t good for you.
37 isn’t the age where its close to the end. That may be for women when it comes to kids, but for men, its far from that since at the point.
For friends, you won’t have that much of a issue making friends. Just learn to do without them, and enjoy your own company. Let me ask you this. If the situation was reversed and you were the women and she was the man that had to put up with this, do you really think she would try to put that behind you. Doubt it.
Actions have consequences and consequences have prices. Cause and effect at work.
8/10 i’m being very kind in the odds, I think its even less, but there is always that small chance. But its not worth it. Not in this lifetime it isn’t. From what you said about her story it sounds like a fairy tail story or a pop song.
Now I’m not trying to insult you. Been in your shoes before back then. But I learned very early on their nature.
Actions have consequences and consequences have prices. Cause and effect at work.
It sounds like you have a severe case of one-itis. You have worked yourself up into believing that this woman is that special one and that youāre somehow meant to be together. Donāt fall into this trap. Your story is no different from a million others, where women contacted their old boyfriends looking to restart something. Women are hypergamous. They monkey branch. But sometimes they miss the next branch up and fall to the ground. So they have to start over. Donāt be flattered thinking that this woman loves you; she is just using you as her first ābranchā again.
Not just that but the monkey that hit the ground hard like her is not going to jump first for the high branches⦠she is going to go for what she PERCEIVES to be the low hanging branch first⦠the easy mark.
Its now 13 years later⦠YOU are the prize not her. Men past the age of 30/35 are on an upward trajectory; women are on the downward trajectory, if they havenāt hit the Wall already outright. Why do you want to invest relationship ādollarsā into something that is depreciating?
I donāt normally advocate hookers, but you should do something like go to Thailand, and have two or three 19-year old hot Thai girls f~~~ you like it is your last week on Earth. That might be enough to kill the āone-itisā infection you seem to have.Not going to lie. Im so going to enjoy banging asians. Mainly due to the fact that its a different face really, and tight if they haven’t screwed much yet.
Actions have consequences and consequences have prices. Cause and effect at work.
Man, I understand the desire, we all do. But consider this: your best option is a woman who cheated on you, then used you to cheat on her husband, and you think there is a future marriage with this woman? The laws ar getting worse, if a man gets divorced this year he is pretty much screwed with the new divorce laws. Have a relationship if you must, don’t marry or impregnate her. You would be better off walking away. It won’t end well for you.
"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."
To all those that took the time to respond, you have my most sincere thanks.
To Secret Agent:You KNOW the Answer, and thatās EXACTLY why you chose to ask thin in this forum.
I expect this site to pretty much unanimously tell me to kick her to the curb. I welcome any thoughts and considerations as well as advice on how to move on and how to cope with being completely, utterly, and crushingly alone.
The Blue Pill is VERY STRONG with you.NOW, YOU ARE AT THE POINT WHEN EITHER YOU WILL WALK AWAY FROM OR INTO THE BIGGEST MISTAKE OF YOUR LIFE.Even if you escape this one, with your present mindset itās only a matter of time before the NEXT one comes along, and then what are you going to do????????????????The Choice is up to YOU, and so if it isnāt THIS one, then maybe The NEXT one, or the NEXT one after that. Keep it up and one shall TRAP YOU sooner or laterā¦As they say, keep PLAYING with Fire and eventually YOU SHALL GET BURNED.Good Luck With ALL THAT
I have a hard time believing this is a real story. Its too formulaic, too predictable, too blue-pill wish porny, at least to me.
It is all 100% true. If you have doubts about any specific section, I can provide further detail. Not sure what the point would be for me to take the time to write a fake story on this site. I have no agenda, Iām just looking for advice because I feel like s~~~ from two days ago.
There are people that like,to f~~~ with others and se if they can get them to believe the most outrageous story they think they can get by them.
Well fine for this reply assume I think he story is real. You are no overreacting, she is trying to use you as a safety net because she knows her time is very short to secure resources for wall/post wall. You have the honor of being chosen as her retirement plan, her husbank, her personal atm. That is also tbe only guy she ever cheated on. She thinks you are desperate too. F~~~ the idea of children. Especially with her.
Get her totally out of your life immediately. Never ever respond to her in any form ever again.
Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.
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